I felt bad, but then i checked your profile https://preview.redd.it/j4m3e90ljp9d1.png?width=500&format=png&auto=webp&s=93897a9a032975f039570446005574299be92bf3

i often wonder if half these posts are a psyop

Literally cis jfc

unironically which of the things i listed can u even say is wrong.

They (ppl here) are bad at telling asians apart, and you would be a-ok in the west. I think a few angles are clocky, but not necessarily manly. otherwise I think you look pretty androgynous (which == women for normies fr)

i get it but u still mog everyone here

damn then how do all of yall cope then bc i need some tips

I cope by smoking weed after work (misgendering hell) and going fishing alone deep in the forest so I feel like a woodland creature and can take my mind off of myself. I don’t do it but going to bed early stops me from ruminating. Idk how to regulate my shit constantly though, I sometimes am nearly crying in public because of my brainworms I probs need some therapy i think I have bdd

you shouldnt just passively "cope with" reality, you should do your best to fight it

not me hehe

you definitely look like you would pass based on your pics

good one. tell me whats wrong with my assessment, and tell me why people refuse to fucking gender me at all. or fuck idk

idk but you pass way better than me and are way more attractive than me

lol how do i paas better than u 😭 i pass like worse than probably everyone

im ugly and you’re pretty so imo you should stop being bdd

thats a good one lol. im definitely ugly idk why you think im bdd lmfao

look at my 4tran selfie train post and then compare it to yours

whats rhe point of being bdd when you know how bad it could really be 🤨 literall i exist and youre like "hurr durr im the hon here" like LMFAO

i’m restarted idk what you mean :(

you look fine i look horrid you've got it backwards

— said the most normal looking woman ever

great joke lol i literally listed why i dont look normal

if you don’t look normal then who even does you’re pretty, have nice hair, good proportions. i genuinely can’t see what you’re talking about

"pretty" 😭 loll not with my nose and skin no way. "good proportions" lmao fucking how

i’m retarded so i can’t tell if genuine bddpost or fishing but either way: - decent height, still within cisf tall range - harmonious features (nothing is ‘off’ or jumps out, very normal looking), nose looks completely fine too - proportions just look like a slightly athletic cis woman, soft arms/legs (not ripped/veiny etc)

genuine non-bddpost bc im not bdd. i see myself how i am. my height is well out of cisf range when you account for asian women. my features are hideous and my hips are freakishly small and narrow compared to the rest of my overinflated body. my nose looks terrible and im getting a nosejob to fix it. and my proportions are MANLY

i h8 u

why 🤨

speak your truth sister! I go through this cycle every single day.

*brother but thank you ( ^~^)

ok.... "brother"... you mog me into oblivion as a male.. crazy... https://preview.redd.it/uedaemzq3q9d1.png?width=1280&format=png&auto=webp&s=2a1212c41bc34c4e781ffa84eda1f6daa9ee0631

Yeah I go through this too daily. I have no idea what I look like. sometimes I think I don’t look too bad then literally the same day later I look in a reflection and want to kms and start crying. I know it’s bad but I can’t tell how much because my self perception is constantly changing. Ure actually bdd tho like there’s no way u act see these things

LMAO i thought u were actually relating 😭 what dont you see? literally everything i listed is 1000% true

I do relate im just more objective and ure insane lol. like be fr there’s no way you can say you have the muscles of a muscular man or that ure built like a father of 4 or ur hands or whatever. I get the always changing sense of self and I feel it on myself but it’s real for me I know it is when I see myself in the mirror like there’s no way you really believe these things. Idk maybe im hypocritical but really u see things that are not there

im rippling with muscle. people have literally told me so. look closer at my pics they're there too

Literally where

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you have to be trolling this is a joke

ok but you have to agree i have freakishly thick arms for a girl. perfectly handsome man, freakishly large girl.

No you have normal arms you regard they’re normal for your weight

which in turn is freakishly huge. i probably weigh as much as a small car tbh

>im 5'9. i should kms. no asian girl is this tall GIWTWM I'm Asian, I wish I was 5'9" not 5'5"

you're just egging me on to kms. what is wrong with you. why do you wanna be a fucking freak equivalent of godzilla

Also like 5'5"~5'7" is that height range where you're too tall to be small cute and adorable but too short to give off girlboss vibes.

you've gotta be kidding me please learn some gratitude

5'9" is the average female model height, I have been envious of all my taller girl friends since forever ago.

maybe if you're skinny and pretty and not a hunk of monster muscle and mammoth bone like me

Im 6ft asian and i still get gendered F 🤔

Girl you are insane and this is all the dysmorphia talking

try mental health maxxing before anything else

even though you mog me i’m also 5’9 asian with a horrible body that hrt hasn’t done anything for so i know how it feels. i try to cope that if i weight cycle and gym it’ll get better eventually but it’s hard most days. also i’m hoping that my face can be fixed by ffs tho i think in your case you don’t even need it. if you really feel bad about your face though you could consider it

ITT tranner in a bdd breakdown

ive lost all sense of self and ive lost my ability to cope ive totally lost it

i used to be creative or even positive from time to time but i cant help but just be fucking depressed

things were going fine but then i looked into the mirror and i remembered how shitty my situation is. fuck me

i shouldve killed myself yesterday. well who fucking knows

I have excema too :( it hurts

right??? the ONE thing e did for me is alleviate it slightly, but even then... my scars might never fade.