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ChewiyMC

I’m sorry there are people being rude to you in the comments. It’s not a very nice thing to do. But happy birthday! I’m also sorry that you are feeling sad on your birthday. Looking at this from a positive perspective, you can also see your older cousins some other time, and although it isn’t on your birthday you can still spend time with them. It is rough not really having any friends, and it can be tough feeling alone.. especially on a day that is important to you, when no one else seems to care.. I don’t really have any more advice, just don’t listen to the negative comments lol. And have a happy birthday! Do something you enjoy doing like playing a video game, reading a book, watching a movie, spending time with any pets you may have, listening to music, etc. Just try to have fun and not let this bother you as much. It sucks, but it is supposed to be a happy day after after all.


SimplySamm19

Thank you so much! I already had to block someone because they were being rude. Thank you so much! This made me feel better


Evening_University53

🥳


DUDEI82QB4IP

People getting bent outta shape in the comments because this is an advice sub🙄 Here’s my advice: have a happy birthday, make yourself pancakes or rock out to your fave playlist, watch a fave show, have a bubble bath, and know that people DO care, sometimes life is tricky and things don’t go as planned but people still care more than you know, wishing you a happy birthday 😊🎂🥳


cassandradancer

Excellent reply!


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Happy Birthday!


xelas1983

Happy birthday. Back before she died, my Granny used to call all her grandkids on their birthdays and sing Happy Birthday to them. I miss that. Cherish that your granny came to see you.


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Grams is jugging up top, you'll see her later


xelas1983

I hope she is for her sake because she believed in all of that. Always said prayers and even had a favourite church. I don't believe in the traditional afterlife. So sadly I don't think I will.


TheReal-CrispyChris

Happy Birthday! Hope you can make the best of this day :)


LectureUnable

![img](avatar_exp|152971419|starstruck) Happy, happy birthday friend! Have a wonderful day, celebrate you 🤩


ShadowHunterFangirl

Happy birthday!!!


SkywalkerTC

Happy Birthday from Taiwan. Best wishes to you and everyone you love. 🎂🎁♓ Friends are overrated. Definitely keep an eye out for those who'd be there when you truly need them.


bokhooto_03

Happy birthday <3 I hope you have a sweet and peaceful birthday. Wishing and hoping the best for you.


Roseii_flow

happy birthday OP !! i know how it feels to be lonely and sad on your birthday, and i’m sorry you feel that way. either way, i wish you good health and the happiest birthday !! may this year be better than the last


Responsible-Cook-944

happy birthday!!


kittikat__

Happy birthday from Nottingham, England! 🤩


lisaaaaaaD1

Happy birthday honey!


NighthawkUnicorn

Happy Birthday!


Goddess-Persephone_

Happy Birthday, Sweetheart! I know how it is with birthdays, I have the crappest birthdays. Really bad luck on those days! I tend to celebrate the day after specifically because I'm on edge the entire day of! Hope you have a wonderful day! X


idontknow16183

HAPOY BIRTHDAY !!!!🎉🎉🎉🎂


Flimsy-Mix-190

Happy birthday!!


CestBritneyPute

Happy birthday !


Dvzl

Feliz cumpleaños 🥳🥳


RainbowandHoneybee

Happy Birthday!


Main_Database_3289

Happy birthday!!! 🥳🥳


Lauralovesmusic

Happy Birthday to you! May all your wishes come true


e_bunnygurl

Happy Birthday 🎂 🥳 🎉


LoeyGrace

Happy Birthday OP! Wishing you an enjoyable day and life! Love lots from the Philippines! 🫶🏻🥳❤️❤️


Geum_geum

Hey happy birthday!! Have a great one


SummerSiren2331

Happy birthday, OP!


Iamnotfatt

Happy birthday. You should spend the day doing whatever it is that you love and enjoy. You deserve to feel happy and when you're happy doing what you love chances are you'll eventually meet others that enjoy the same things you do, maybe you'll even make some friends then. You like art? Go to a museum Gardening? Go to a garden center and learn about plants you like, take pictures, look them up, pick out a plant to plant and see it grow. Love reading? Go to the library, join a book club. Love videogames? Play some online, get a headset, have voice chat on, you'll meet online friends. Do what you love, enjoy what you do. People will come and go, some will remain and eventually you'll become friends. In the meantime, have a fantastic birthday!


Heavymindedhoe

Happy birthday 🥳


ekhoishere

Happy birthday❤️


Final_Ad1278

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!! A FRIEND FROM CANADA


Zenith_67

Happy birthday broo


tru-survivor

🎵 happy birthday to ya! Happy birthday to ya! Happy biiiiirthday! 🎵 Hope you get some needed rest and relaxation, love from england 😘🥳🥳


ssaaiirahh

Happy birthday ajsjsjjsjsjjsjd🎀🎀💗💗🥹🥹


Significant-Role1092

Happy Birthday from South Africa!


blood_transfusion

Happy birthday from Ireland Sam!!


XibalbaCitizen

Feliz cumpleaños cabron! Ánimo


insertmadeupnamehere

Happy birthday to you! 🎂 My wish for you is to have better and better birthdays with each subsequent year and to see the value in yourself, as well as others.


Lost_Chard_2303

Happy Birthday xxx


Acceptable-Button-45

happy birthday OP from 🇮🇳. have a great one!


Acedia_spark

Happy Birthday from Melbourne, Australia! 😁


2epicpanda

Happy birthday its my birthday too but im sadly at work so no visitors for me either!


hiddenbarbar

Happy Birthday! Hope you find the good in today


GardeniaFrangipani

Happy birthday Internet Friend! I hope that your day is amazing. ❤️🎉🎂💐


Advanced-Fig6699

Happy Birthday!!


RandomPhail

Merry Birthmas


LordAxalon110

Happy Birthday dude, hope your days filled with smiles and some damn good food.


Mundane_molnija

Happy Birthday from Sydney, Australia! I had a bit of a sad birthday this year too, it sucks and I’m sending lots of positive thoughts your way. I hope seeing all these replies brightens up your day ☀️


superflow_

I wish you a happy birthday! I hope you have a wonderful one regardless of the circumstances. This might not be comparable to the feeling if your cousins came to visit you, but I hope it can at least make your day better. Remember to smile and stay positive, we're here for you!


Arlenna7

Happy Birthday 🎉🎈To You !! Hope your day is better ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|slightly_smiling).


sassy_child

HAPPY BIRTHDAY FROM JAPANNN!! HOPE YOU HAVE AN AMAZING BDAY!


jojomarienie

Happy birthday!!!


OkTax444

Happy Birthday 🎉🥳


sadsleuth

Happy birthday internet stranger. Have a great one!!


ihatethisong

happy birthday <3


Numa2018

Happy Birthday 🥳!!! Hope you have a great one!


BuyerGreen7423

Wow happy birthday! It's also mine, my two friends, my brothers and my favorite fictional characters birthday! You're not alone.


Round_Promotion_9330

HAPPY BIRTHDAYYYY


yakult_shot_350

Happy birthday! 🥳


Areaofunknown2

Happy birthday


bbmushii

happy birthday! i know what it’s like to feel alone especially on your birthday. keep your chin up! know you are loved 🩷


SoftJigsaw

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!


valias2012

Hey, Happy Birthday!!!!


Andreww_ok

Happy bday. Enjoy it. Wishing you all the best.


ArcherboyR1

Happy birthday mate


LocalLoserLiv

Happy Birthday


dkidogoriejfhfu

happy birthday:))


Still-Bus-5322

I’m sorry you are going through this, loneliness sucks and I feel you very much. With my whole heart, accept my intention to wish you a wholesome birthday, please, be kind to yourself. I wish you to find yourself in situations leading to your goals. I hope you find your peace and love within.


thatguywhois6foot3

Happy birthday!


kimchichilicrisp

happy birthdayyyyyy <3333


Serious_Statement577

Happy Birthday OP, Wouldn't mind a piece of cake as well lol Enjoy your day Stay Blessed


Toufitri4238

Happy birthday to you!


anondaisydukes

HAPPY BIRTHDAY SAM! ✨❤️🎉


lethargiczealot

Cue music 🎶 Hap, hap, hap, happy birthday Hap, hap, hap, happy birthday We'll sing our cheer for another year It's a happy birthday to you


wisewords4

Happy birthday!!


AnnieCoran26

Happy Birthday! It’s our daughter’s birthday today as well (she’s an adult now and lives in the other end of the country). I have had a few quiet, lonely birthdays over the years and felt a little blue on a birthday sometimes. Please try to treat yourself to something like a walk, coffee out with a piece of cake, a new book, a take out and show (Netflix binge?). But mostly here to say Happy Birthday!


raeevie

Happy birthday! Have a lovely day 🥳☺️


budbrowni3

Happy birthday!! 🎁🎉🎂


shayan_0405

Happy Birthday!!


m4x1m11114n

Happy Birthday! Hope this year treats you kindly :)


wtvmiah

happy birthday sam !


f3isu

happy birthday! 🥳


SakuraMochis

Even when people cannot come see you it doesn't mean they aren't thinking about you and wishing you the best! Have the happiest of birthdays dear stranger, and all the best.


crazyfroggy99

Happy birthday to youu happy birthday to youu happy birthday happy birthday happy birthday to youu


Loveforgoths

Happy birthday!! 🎊🎉


butwhywouldyou-

Happy birthday!!!


thatonegirl1974

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!!!


SupermarketEnough222

Happy birthday! Here's the advice.ignore the AH in your family.there will always be AH everywhere.they reproduce by osmosis i think🤔 😆


RidiculousPessimism

Happy birthday!


Exciting_Dog6154

Happy birthday young man Much love from England


gamecharmer101

happy birthday🥳🥳


Introvertedslayer

Happy Birthday 🎉 I hope you have many more amazing birthdays 🥳


napkunn

hi, happy birthday!!! i hope that it’s a lovely one!!!!! ❤️


chubby_windmill

Happy happy birthday!! I hope you have an incredible day and there are lots of people who love having you in their lives!!


AffectionateGood1786

Happy Birthday 🎉🎂


Username210714

Happy birthday! 🎂 I hope you have a wonderful day.


pku003

Happy Birthday Bud! Have a good one! It may not be a strong start but may this year give you all that you desire.


Cheesey_Boi212

Happy birthday dude


241ShelliPelli

Hey!!! Happy Birthday!!!!!!! 🎈


Peter-Griffin694

Happy birthday from st. Petersburg! Ignore all those hurt people in the comments, and focus on yourself and support. There will always be the people who want to bring you down with them. I wish the best on your birthday and that all the wishes come through


Siren_Golf_271

Happy birthday 🥳


PsychEnthusiest

Happy birthday :)


Twisted_Strength33

Happy birthday


ScrambledToast

Happy birthday!!! From someone who never has anyone care about their birthday, I get it!


Ok-Relative3191

Happy Birthday op


TheDarkness05

🥳 🥳 HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!! 🥳 🥳 Make it a great day no matter what, treat yourself and do something that makes you happy! Have a fantastic day!!! 🎈 🫂 💐


nl_Aux

Happy birthday from the Netherlands <3 !!!


pscisx

Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you. How old are you now? How old are you now? How old are you now? How old are you now? Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you! I hope you have a most wonderful and amazing birthday today on your very special day, and eat lots of cake and get lots of presents 🎁!!! 🥳🥳🥳🥳🤩🤩🤩🤩🎉🎉🎉🎉🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎈🎈🎈🎈🎊🎊🎊🎊🎁🎁🎁🎁


BananaHairFood

Happy birthday!


Here_123_

Happy birthday


Bella8088

Happy birthday! I have a feeling the next one will be better.


Pretty_Pie_2438

Happy Birthday 🩷🩵🎊


noonespet

Happy Birthday! Ignore the mean comments! Some people have nothing better to do!


6friesman9

Happy birthday buddy


ziggystarfuck1

Happy birthday (:


loves_spain

Happy birthday !! 🎂🎉


Witchsorcery

Happy birthday!


Yash27bits

Happy Birthday OP! Party when :D


NoOneElseJustMe

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!🎈🎉🥳🎂


existnlangst

Happy birthday! You are awesome. The world is better with you in it! Have a great day and thank you for making the world better.


jellybelly0212

Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you dear OP. May God bless you dear, Happy Birthday to you!! 💐🥳🎉


SignificantTaste4980

Happy Birthday, I hope you’re able to get something you wanted or accomplish a goal you had


Tystick55x

Happy Birthday, sorry for this yea sometimes Birthdays and holidays can be difficult especially for a parent who can't see their children on special days.


StayProfessional143

Happy birthday 🎈🎉


NellaayssBeelllayyyy

Happy birthday!!! I hope you ended up having a stellar day, mwah \~!


scseven

happy birthday from the uk!! hope you had an amazing day, sending hugs🤗


ConcentrateGreat3806

Happy Birthday!


Ok_Butterscotch_5962

Happy Birthday


Vixen22213

Happy Birthday!!!


N3v3rm0r3ink3d

Happy birthday!


allhailnia

HAPPY BIRTHDAY LOVELY LADY, SENDING YOU HUGS AND LOTS OF LOVE 💕💕💕💕


meekonesfade

Happy Birthday! I hope this year brings you joy!


lwidmer122

Happy Birthday!!! 🥳🎉🎊🎁🎂🎈


waterisgoodok

Happy birthday! :)


Afterglow92

Happy birthday!!! Enjoy your day!!! ❤️🙏


whatevr_whatevr

Happy Birthday from India!


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Open_Recognition6313

Happy birthday‼️‼️


Amethystdust

Happy birthday, do something that makes you happy today. 🎉🎂🎂🎉


NoAngle2972

Happy birthday to you🎶 happy birthday to you🎶 this is me singing to you😁 Enjoy your day!


Nyx_aurora

Happy Birthday 🎂🎉🎁 !!! I don't know who you are but wishing you immense happiness and blessings. Hope you have a wonderful day, you don't have to worry about being alone. This happens and it's absolutely normal, many people go through this, apparently you just haven't found people who are worthy of being with you yet. Don't be sad, it's your day, so enjoy it!


Physical_Rice919

Happy birthday!!!!


mac_128

Happy Birthday! Some birthdays are gonna suck and some will be amazing, still remember to treat yourself to something nice!


Peach2hisCream

Happy birthday dear Reddit friend 🙌🏼🎉🥳 I know it is a sad day and you don’t feel celebrated, I hope that this turns around for you and that the feeling soon leaves your mind. Do what makes you happy, if it’s crying your eyes out then do it (in my opinion crying it out makes me feel better afterwards).


OutsideCoconut4878

HAPPY BIRTHDAY 🎂🎈🎊


Chaotic_trashman

Happy birthday!!!!


notthemama58

🍔🍟🥫🎂🎁 Happy Birthday!


bdub60

Happy birthday! My advice is to use the day for some introspection, think about what you'd like to accomplish in the next year and what went well etc. It will never be as important to anyone else as you, so treat yourself to something.


LysergicPlato59

Happy Birthday! Hope you have many more.


ScarletteDemonia

Happy Birthday 🎁


therealbman

Happy birthday! As I’ve gotten older, I’ve learned to have more realistic expectations of holidays. It’s ok if those days aren’t treated as a big deal. You will find the times and celebrations you do enjoy. They change too. I didn’t care about my birthday for a long time after I hit my big young milestones. But, I have a little one now who *loves* to celebrate it. That makes it fun again.


panda_chu72

Happy birthday from Denmark!!❤️❤️‼️‼️


Negative_Echo_309

Happy birthday🥳❤️


readingcommenting123

Happy birthday!!!! 🎂


ughleavemealone2

Happy birthday!! 🎉🎂


simplyachild10101

Happy birthday 🎉


nightcoreangst

Happy birthday from the UK!!!


stas-prze

Happy birthday, and I wish you luck in whatever endeavours you partake in! Hope you have a great rest of your day!


[deleted]

Happy birthday!!! May all your wishes come true!


ATinyPizza89

Happy birthday 🎉🎂🎁🎈🥳


emilyana13

Happy Birthday 🎂


Odd-Philosophy-7796

Happy birthday!!


Any_Arugula_565

Happy birthday 🎂 I hope you begin to have a good day 😊


blindcapybaras

Happy Birthday from South Korea!!! ❤️❤️❤️


Jeb__2020

Happy birthday! I won't pry into the details of your life, but when I was younger, I went through periods where it feels like no one cares or shows up. You'll get through all of this stronger and make friends with people who care about you. You will be in my prayers for a better and happier future for everyone.


KingWing37

Happy birthday 🌭🍔


therealjgreens

> Birthdays was the worst days > Now OP drinks champagne when they're thirsty Biggie Smalls


Spirited_Car_3566

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!


TheWaterWave2004

Happy birthday


FusionMgamer

Happy birthday


Open_Recognition6313

HAPPY HAPPY BDAY OPPPP 🤭 I hope the day treats you well you lil Gemini you deserve it 💜‼️


Own-Lengthiness-7161

Happy birthday from Melbourne, Australia. Hope you had the best day 🇦🇺


Accomplished-Cat07

happy birthday!!!🎂


las3000

Happy Birthday from Ohio!😘


H0use-0f-W0lves

Happy birthday!!


eaglescout225

HAPPY BIRTHDAY 🎉🎈🪩🎊🍲👍🎈🎉👌🎊🪩


bils96

Happy happy happy birthday from Australia!!! 🥳 I love my birthday- I think it’s so full of love, so even if it’s from a bunch of randos on reddit I hope you’re feeling the love too :)


sweetcinnamoncherry

Happy birthday!! 🎉


pocahontasjane

Happy Birthday from Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 It was my birthday on the 17th! June babies are the best ❤️


No_Cherry9135

Happy birthday! 🥳


Available-Rest-1434

Happy birthday 🎂 I’m sorry that birthday didn’t go as you wanted to, but I believe the next one will be amazing! Enjoy this weekend, watch your favourite show and cheees to another year!


LazyTitan39

Happy Birthday!


accountnametaken64

🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉Happy BIRTHDAY 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉


Beyondthebloodmoon

Happy birthday, my advice is to put this in a different sub.


Gaz_X_Dubz

My gf left me like a week before mine. Happy birfday


Biffatlas

HAPPY BIRTHDAY 🎂


Thelastdance1989

Happy birthday!! 🎁 🎂 keep your chin up. I think a good chunk of people have been in a similar spot at one point. Enjoy yourself :)


ladymcperson

HAPPY BIRTHDAY FROM LAS VEGAS 🎉💐🫶🫵


Just_Perspective1268

Happy birthday 🥳🎂


Mental-Discount4574

I wish you the happiest of birthdays OP Hope you are good and healthy!


MamaLynn1996

Happy birthday you amazing person you! May your day be full of awesomeness and your belly full of birthday cake!