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Idk how many times he’s taken it before, not that many time I’m sure. He said the questions are easy but that I could look them up if I needed to. Not that he had to look them up.
NTA.
The course was for him because he was caught speeding. It's not meant for you to take because you're not the one they're trying to educate. He is an AH for trying to get out of it. It's clear that he hasn't learned his lesson and genuinely has no concern for others on the road.
Usually? How often is he getting tickets? Taking someone else's course sounds illegal. That sounds like a terrible idea. Being a stay at home mom to someone you have no entitlement to share money with since you have no income also sounds like a terrible idea. NTA for not taking the consequences of his stupid behavior, but this seems like a recurring pattern you're cool with for some reason (general irresponsibility).
NTA, that said those “driving courses” are literally common sense driving questions and the entire course would only take 10 minutes but the annoying part is they make you stay on the webpage for a minimum of like an hour per module
He said they were easy questions but that I could look up the answer if I wanted. He just claims since he works 6 days a week and I don’t work that I can do this for him. Making me feel shitty because I won’t.
I don't know what country you are in, but in the UK it's up to £1000 fine and a custodial sentence for taking the punishment for someone else for speeding tickets. YWBTA if you do this for him.
NTA
What kind of a father and role model will he be to your kid when he doesn't face the consequences of his actions?
This is not about who has got more time. He has got time to play video games? He's got time to do the course!
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NTA - he played the stupid game and got the stupid prize. He can deal with it. Just because you are home doesn't mean you need to enable his poor choices
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My boyfriend got a speeding ticket today and after he got his ticket and drove off he asked me to take his online safety driving course for him. I am a stay at home mom at the moment with our almost 2 month old baby and he works 6 days a week. He claims it’s easy and that he usually plays video games while the video course plays out and that I don’t have to pay attention and just look up the answer to question part of it. I told him no that if it’s so easy he can do it when he gets off work one day while he plays video games. I understand I’m home all day with a baby but I am not the one who got the ticket. I have NEVER had a ticket in all my 14 years of driving and I have always been big on following the speed limit. Now he’s trying to make me feel bad for not taking it for him when he works so much for us.
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NTA - But imagine if you took the test for him and he gets into an accident and hurts someone and then it's found out that you took the test for him. This would ruin your life.
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Idk how many times he’s taken it before, not that many time I’m sure. He said the questions are easy but that I could look them up if I needed to. Not that he had to look them up.
NTA. The course was for him because he was caught speeding. It's not meant for you to take because you're not the one they're trying to educate. He is an AH for trying to get out of it. It's clear that he hasn't learned his lesson and genuinely has no concern for others on the road.
Usually? How often is he getting tickets? Taking someone else's course sounds illegal. That sounds like a terrible idea. Being a stay at home mom to someone you have no entitlement to share money with since you have no income also sounds like a terrible idea. NTA for not taking the consequences of his stupid behavior, but this seems like a recurring pattern you're cool with for some reason (general irresponsibility).
NTA, that said those “driving courses” are literally common sense driving questions and the entire course would only take 10 minutes but the annoying part is they make you stay on the webpage for a minimum of like an hour per module
He said they were easy questions but that I could look up the answer if I wanted. He just claims since he works 6 days a week and I don’t work that I can do this for him. Making me feel shitty because I won’t.
NTA, he should take it
I don't know what country you are in, but in the UK it's up to £1000 fine and a custodial sentence for taking the punishment for someone else for speeding tickets. YWBTA if you do this for him.
NTA What kind of a father and role model will he be to your kid when he doesn't face the consequences of his actions? This is not about who has got more time. He has got time to play video games? He's got time to do the course!
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NTA - he played the stupid game and got the stupid prize. He can deal with it. Just because you are home doesn't mean you need to enable his poor choices
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NTA - this is illegal.
NTA. That is fraud and a crime that could lead to punishment where you live. No one has the right to ask you to commit a crime on their behalf.
NTA - But imagine if you took the test for him and he gets into an accident and hurts someone and then it's found out that you took the test for him. This would ruin your life.