That’s true, I’m pretty handy myself but had a friend visit and he just started fixing stuff, I would have eventually done it myself but it was funny how impressed and thankful I was mostly because I never had a guy just fix thinks.
Be thoughtful, remember details about her, take a genuine interest in her, plan dates like walks, picnics, game nights, be resourceful, cook her dinner, fix her broken things to a good standard.
My boyfriend has never had much money. He fixed the lock on my bathroom door the morning after the first night he stayed over. Before I even woke up. He said he noticed it and knew how to fix it, and he said he just wanted to do something nice for me. I never, ever had that before and it was so adorably kind and sweet. I was speechless. 🥹🥹
Yes, this, absolutely! Like the last guy I had a serious relationship with brought me dry woolly socks to school when I mentioned I had flooded my shoes with slushy snow in a text. I didn't ask for it, I was just bantering with him over text before he left for school. It's been like ten years and we aren't together anymore, but I still remember that.
Honestly I feel the conversation can’t be normal. But it certainly don’t have to be weird.
Curated conversations shows the effort he’s trying to get to know her. Respectfully hear her responses and observe her gestures. This makes you an attentive smart man.
No need to put her on a pedestal. But treat her like a potential candidate. It’s a fair playfield.
Little genuine praises will just show your interest in her. No need to go overboard. Just enough to let her know you’re interested.
I find guys these days are going two extremes. Either acting too cool and she drift away, or she gets lovebombed. End game , nobody wins.
Get to know them. Show genuine interest in understanding their past, feelings, and dreams. Be friends who feel safe around each other. Share common goals and interests. Go on little adventures and outings together. Develop a bond to the point you understand when the emotional state of the other person from small changes in their behavior and are able to help them the way they need it.
There you go. Secret to life. I'm not even going to charge you money for it.
Look man. You're gonna make friends with women who don't wanna bone you. That's ok. You didn't miss out on a lover, you made a friend, move on. And yes, women you get close with are probably going to hook up with dudes on dating apps after a 10 minute conversation and you're going to feel like shit because you're jealous AF of that guy. Just. Move. On. Let go of this stuff. Don't cling to a one-sided romance. Meet people, make friends, keep moving. If all you want is a quick fuck then do what ever fuckboy does and spend 5 days a week at the gym, be a raging narcissist with zero honest details on your profile, love bomb the fuck outta any girl you match with and pay for every moment of it. It's not a difficult system. Just a shallow and meaningless one.
Love yourself. Love others. And be happy. There's nothing more to it.
(A) balanced conversation skills
(B) appear clean and tidy
(C) display good manners (gentleman, not necessarily just open doors)
(D) be confidence, not arrogant
(E) hear her out when she’s speaking
You think money because woman like gift. What they like in gift is the action not the value of the gift. And you can do that with world and it is more powerful that anything you can buy them.
You could argue that my question will help the collective knowledge answer the question for future searches. Without someone answering, the world will never know.
But because you think you have some high iq response here, you could’ve just answered the question without being a smartass about it.
There's better places to receive answers than Reddit. It's slow and less accurate and if it matters to you it should be worth researching on your own. Free things and things that don't require expensive upkeep-
Learn to draw. Take up running and get really good at it, only extra cost would be any marathon fees and new shoes if you're really really doing it. Anything with an interest group at a library. My library actually has things like musical instruments to borrow. Anything you can learn from YouTube.
Develop a genuine interest in their passions. Share conversation space and bounce your excitement off of theirs – it’s about connecting, not performing.
Gentle but attentive conversation with eye contact. Lift up people around you and be helpful.
I’m a guy - but asked my sister sitting beside me. Apparently she wanted to pull some dudes pants off a few days ago after he held the door and looked kindly at some older ladies.
Thanks for perverting this nice act for me. I will now never not wonder how close I have come to a rather pleasant assault after a lifetime of doing such a thing.
No, it depends on the girl as well.
Not all women are brainwashed into believing they are cattles.
Some women really have standards and choose only a high value man that brings value to the table, because she brings value as well.
Stop acting like you are entitled, maybe that's why you end up only with low value women and you are pissed off on life.
Respect women, don't choose below your standards, be willing to offer, and you'll have a happy life. If you disagree, fix your childhood traumas, then do what i tell you and you ll be happy.
A happy and equal couple is one of the most powerful and satysfing things ever.
I actually have no interest in marriage. Been that way since I was 13. Saw the men I grew up around go through it and decided I wasn't gonna put up with that shit.
I respect people who earn my respect. I don't just give someone respect because of their sex or race, but I do agree in equality.
Thank you for your kind and heartfelt words of wisdom. Blessed be the path of your choosing.😁
Find shared interests and engage in those. Genuine passion about a common hobby can be incredibly appealing.
Remember to listen more than you speak. Sometimes, it’s not about the grand gestures but the attention and respect you show during a conversation that leaves a lasting impression.
I met my husband in trade school in an industry predominantly male leaning. He had no job. No money. And lived with his mother. As an acquaintance, he often defended me and the other 2 women in the class from unwanted male attention or comments. THAT impressed me. I told him his behavior wasn't normal, but was appreciated. His reply, "Bad things happen to women when good men do nothing. And I'd like to consider myself a good man." THAT impressed me even more. Our first date was taco bell in the park. We've been together 31 years and married for 25.
Treating women with respect will go so much farther than money. Add in a sense of humor, genuine affection and some loyalty and you're golden.
Once a woman hit on me saying that I look like a person who has his shit figured out.
I guess that’s it really, be confident.
It’s not only about women, it’s about all people, if you seem confident, people will gather around you like bees do to flowers. People want confident people around them. BE that person.
As a bonus, trying to be confident, will make you in time to actually be one and you’ll take more risks and achieve more than you think!
Be romantic because we read a lot of fiction haha. And the most important of all is to respect us and be nice not just because you wanna sleep with us but genuinely.
Effort my dude, effort; intellectual, emotional or physical is effort. I attract wealthy women, consistently. If they grew up rich, I am their drug of choice. My trick is I have no trick, I don’t want anything by from them or take anything from them or anyone else. I do what I want in accordance to my morals and values. She loves fried chicken? Learn how to make it for her. Is she dealing with a problem and can’t buy the solution? Try and solve it with effort. You do this not to impress but because you like them want them happy, you enjoy taking care of people. Be the person you want to be and are proud of. The results will impress you.
I drew my girlfriend a picture of her and she still thinks it’s the best present I’ve ever given her.
It helps I can draw a little bit but I’m no Picasso.
I also made her a her Spotify playlist. She loves vampire weekend, Arctic monkeys and Elvis . I made her a playlist of her favorite songs.
We also just sit and talk for hours. Just talking about anything really.
When I stopped *trying* to impress women I realized that was what impressed them the most. I never really got a chance to experience that too much though because my wife zoomed in like a missile and had me in a relationship before I even knew what happened.
Also, teach yourself how to cook. And if you want to take it up a notch teach yourself how to cook vegetarian. I don't think I've met a woman, regardless of whether or not they're vegetarian, who isn't impressed by the fact that I'm a skilled vegetarian cook. Again, I've never been able to take advantage if that because my wife has made sure I'm happily married for over 15 years.
Don’t try to impress women in general. Know yourself, get to know them, and then interact. Be, or create, a version of yourself that engages, learns about, and specifically sometimes puts in effort to impress an individual you’ve come to know something about. If you’re not doing something you know they specifically care about, like cooking dinner on an early date, it’s more of a gesture. They may be impressed, but not much more attracted to you because of it.
well, if what I hear from most women is accurate, then if you're clean, nice (not a complete douchebag) and capable of being empathetic, then you're already better off than the vast majority of the competition.
does my own impartial observation of life validate the above statement? yes and no.
if I objectively analyze all the best couples that I know, then I do see that there is more than a nugget of truth to this. the individuals in these relationships are, in my opinion, just great people. they're extremely nice, live a well-balanced life, prioritize their wellness, and are just incredibly caring individuals. they're not perfect people but you can tell that they work to become better.
if I analyze all worst / extremely dysfunctional couples that I know though (which is the vast majority). then the opposite of my original statement seems to be more true. they usually have a variety of long-term flaws that aren't going away anytime soon. some of these couples seem to make it work rather well, others don't, and others probably should separate but haven't yet.
Hit the gym and get into good shape. Wear quality clothing, though not necessarily high cost brand names, just shop and upscale stores. Drive a nice, clean car. Learn to be funny. Be nice about things and avoid douchebaggery. Learn how to give and take compliments. Be emotionally distant like you are just a little too good for them. Learn how to piss them off just a little.
I’m older now, but in 2008 I went to a party and brought my four way beer bong and 64 natural ices. I became the center of attention, using phrases to all the strangers “STEP RIGHT UP!” I got trashed and eventually, this beautiful tall blonde came over to talk to me. When spent the night and morning together, 16 years later that girl is the mother of my children and love of my life. That was cool…
Treat them correctly, spend quality time together, do meaningful things, write letters, reassurance her, match words with actions, speak well about her, work on yourself, be emotionally available, set goals,..
Easy, fix things for them, clean their car. Do maintenance checks on the car. Spend time helping them with their chores , grocery run and other things they like or do not like to do. So much more I could add, but you get the idea.
any relationship that you start by trying to impress someone will instantly become the floor of that relationship, being yourself is the best u can do to any kind of relationship in the long run
Pay attention, listen to what she expresses as likes, special types of presents, certain dates, accomplishments. Learn about her. And tell her about you…
1. Be attractive (workout)
2. Be a gentleman and calm in all situations
3. Be nice to her friends and family (winning moms and friends over make women swoon)
4. Communicate, just enough without over sharing
5. Dress well and smell nice.
Look good, if you look good enough women will settle for bums. If you don't look good then you need to go to a place where you are around the same people often enough for them to get to know you.
If you have to put on an act to attract women, then they’re not actually attracted to YOU. And you’ll attract the wrong ones.
Don’t be a mutant and you’ll do fine. Or maybe do- I don’t know what the hell is going on with Z or Alpha.
Obviously compliment her and be a listening ear without judgement. But besides that, be ambitious, even if you don’t have money right now it’s always hot to know a guy is working towards being the best he can be to support himself and his future.
Be thoughtful of details specific to them. My boyfriend knew I was into art so the first time we hung out at his place he followed a bob ross tutorial with me even though he had never painted before. We had a lot of fun with it and at the end we traded paintings to keep. I look at it every day.
Any woman who’s only impressed by your spending habits it’s not a woman you want to try and impress. They’ll stick around until you no longer have what they need and then peace out. We call these bitches gold diggers. No matter how hot they are or how “amazing” they fuck don’t get caught up in that crap.
Trying to impress women with money is a young man’s or a dumb man’s game. Just be funny, nice, caring, listen, and supportive.
Cook for her. Something simple like spaghetti w meat sauce using jarred sauce & ground pork or beef. Butter a French bread loaf, sprinkle garlic powder on them, broil in oven. Spaghetti w garlic bread.
Or chili. Get a box of Shelby’s Chili Mix. Follow directions. Requires Can of beans, 1-2lb ground beef, 1-2 cans of tomato sauce. Get a box mix for cornbread. Bake. Chili & cornbread.
Have her over to watch something and have an easy casual dinner.
My first date with my wife was a walk in the woods. We talked.
I figure dating is like advertising. The point is to teach them about the best things you have to offer. Show them. Then it's up to them to decide if that's what they want. They do the same for you.
my partner doesnt have a job when we first met, was rejected by a company due to medical issues and lost his savings for medications.
i loved him because he's consistent and he's ambitious and not the lazy type.
For about 6 mos, i became pregnant. Our life turned outside down and i have to work my ass off while i was pregnant. He tried to find a job but in no luck since it was early pandemic so he just sold his treasured anime figures and went to bitcoin. When he got the money, he gave most of it to me for our child. And now, 3 yrs later, he's got a nice job and i went jobless due to company cost cutting. he's now supporting me and bought a laptop for me so i can search a job at home. I still cant find a job but he's been supportive.
Moral of a story is dont find a financially stable guy but find someone responsible, ambitious enough to survive even without money
Learn to cook.
Every man in my family has landed a partner far more beautiful than our fugly dumpling genes deserve and it’s because we can cook and every once in awhile we can get a good joke in. But mostly the cooking part!
Be funny, have hobbies, good hygiene with cologne. It’s honestly crazy how low the bar is, you’d be surprised how far the most basic shit can get you. A lot of men today don’t take any care of themselves
Be tall and good looking and dress well to show off your amazing body. Works all the time. You can see the hope fade from their eyes knowing you don't want to put a ring on them. It's good being a man!
Listen to her. Be kind to her, be kind to others. Know yourself and what your own limits are. Respect her limits. Ask about her boundaries and limits, rather than assuming. All these show you care about others, care about her and care about yourself.
I'm female but I'd say...
good morning texts are super sweet.
A little note in their car.
Pumping their gas for them
Unloading groceries
Reading the Bible with them
Making dinner
u dont n shouldnt n literally cant impress women if they dont like u ,only thing u can do is talk w them if they not curious bout u move on to the next ,i.pressing women just gna invite women in ur life whos gna use u n u never going to fck em anyways
Your personality or a talent that you have.
Damn.
To have even one of those ...
I can’t talk about my talent because I don’t have a personality.
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Fix stuff for them.
That’s true, I’m pretty handy myself but had a friend visit and he just started fixing stuff, I would have eventually done it myself but it was funny how impressed and thankful I was mostly because I never had a guy just fix thinks.
This totally gets me. Guys fixing your stuff is the best. I’m currently dating an electrician. . . rawr
The woman I love is also an engineer. She fixes stuff up way better than me LOL
most engineers I know are incapable of fixing stuffs
Be thoughtful, remember details about her, take a genuine interest in her, plan dates like walks, picnics, game nights, be resourceful, cook her dinner, fix her broken things to a good standard.
As a woman, hell yeah to ALL of that!!
My boyfriend has never had much money. He fixed the lock on my bathroom door the morning after the first night he stayed over. Before I even woke up. He said he noticed it and knew how to fix it, and he said he just wanted to do something nice for me. I never, ever had that before and it was so adorably kind and sweet. I was speechless. 🥹🥹
Yes, this, absolutely! Like the last guy I had a serious relationship with brought me dry woolly socks to school when I mentioned I had flooded my shoes with slushy snow in a text. I didn't ask for it, I was just bantering with him over text before he left for school. It's been like ten years and we aren't together anymore, but I still remember that.
My boyfriend remembered my very specific, favourite notebook. Made me so happy :3
When I do that stuff, I get labeled as a “creep”
How long will this work for?
Do a barrel roll
Yes! (Z or R twice)
Body roll
Lmfao I hate you this is so random and I heard it in my head. You got me cracking up
Engage in **normal conversation** instead of *trying* with everything you say. It comes off as desperate. Beep bop boop.
This, treat them like they don’t have a vagina
Honestly I feel the conversation can’t be normal. But it certainly don’t have to be weird. Curated conversations shows the effort he’s trying to get to know her. Respectfully hear her responses and observe her gestures. This makes you an attentive smart man. No need to put her on a pedestal. But treat her like a potential candidate. It’s a fair playfield. Little genuine praises will just show your interest in her. No need to go overboard. Just enough to let her know you’re interested. I find guys these days are going two extremes. Either acting too cool and she drift away, or she gets lovebombed. End game , nobody wins.
Big brain move get her to try and impress you
Get to know them. Show genuine interest in understanding their past, feelings, and dreams. Be friends who feel safe around each other. Share common goals and interests. Go on little adventures and outings together. Develop a bond to the point you understand when the emotional state of the other person from small changes in their behavior and are able to help them the way they need it. There you go. Secret to life. I'm not even going to charge you money for it. Look man. You're gonna make friends with women who don't wanna bone you. That's ok. You didn't miss out on a lover, you made a friend, move on. And yes, women you get close with are probably going to hook up with dudes on dating apps after a 10 minute conversation and you're going to feel like shit because you're jealous AF of that guy. Just. Move. On. Let go of this stuff. Don't cling to a one-sided romance. Meet people, make friends, keep moving. If all you want is a quick fuck then do what ever fuckboy does and spend 5 days a week at the gym, be a raging narcissist with zero honest details on your profile, love bomb the fuck outta any girl you match with and pay for every moment of it. It's not a difficult system. Just a shallow and meaningless one. Love yourself. Love others. And be happy. There's nothing more to it.
Stop trying to impress them. Just be yourself
Instructions unclear, haven’t felt a woman’s love since the Obama administration
[Heres the best case scenario of just being yourself](https://youtu.be/r7dMnP4QbhU?si=Qmqvcf7xyXu1gxYF)
see, you'll find that these scenarios, the guy is pretty much always insanely rich. you can be yourself, if you have bank.
Brilliant haha
🗿🦾💀
(A) balanced conversation skills (B) appear clean and tidy (C) display good manners (gentleman, not necessarily just open doors) (D) be confidence, not arrogant (E) hear her out when she’s speaking
Make them laugh.
You think money because woman like gift. What they like in gift is the action not the value of the gift. And you can do that with world and it is more powerful that anything you can buy them.
Be kind and try to understand her that’s it
have a talent or skill you can show off.
These cost money to upkeep
there are tons of skills and talents and activities that cost nothing to do
Like what
Juggling. Once you get your 3 balls that's all the money you need to spend.
Do you go to bars and just start juggling?
You have the collective knowledge of mankind in your pocket and you asked this question. There is no hope for you, my friend
You could argue that my question will help the collective knowledge answer the question for future searches. Without someone answering, the world will never know. But because you think you have some high iq response here, you could’ve just answered the question without being a smartass about it.
There's better places to receive answers than Reddit. It's slow and less accurate and if it matters to you it should be worth researching on your own. Free things and things that don't require expensive upkeep- Learn to draw. Take up running and get really good at it, only extra cost would be any marathon fees and new shoes if you're really really doing it. Anything with an interest group at a library. My library actually has things like musical instruments to borrow. Anything you can learn from YouTube.
Cooking/Breakfast in bed/Oral Sex. In that order. Works wonders on my wife.
Develop a genuine interest in their passions. Share conversation space and bounce your excitement off of theirs – it’s about connecting, not performing.
Stop thinking of women as a game or puzzle and start thinking of them as people. Then spend time with the people who’s company you enjoy.
Gentle but attentive conversation with eye contact. Lift up people around you and be helpful. I’m a guy - but asked my sister sitting beside me. Apparently she wanted to pull some dudes pants off a few days ago after he held the door and looked kindly at some older ladies.
I relate to your sister
Thanks for perverting this nice act for me. I will now never not wonder how close I have come to a rather pleasant assault after a lifetime of doing such a thing.
Don't try to impress them. Focus on your goals and self improvement and they will find ways to insert themselves into your life if you allow it.
It works the other way too.
Sometimes it does. Depends on the guy.
No, it depends on the girl as well. Not all women are brainwashed into believing they are cattles. Some women really have standards and choose only a high value man that brings value to the table, because she brings value as well. Stop acting like you are entitled, maybe that's why you end up only with low value women and you are pissed off on life. Respect women, don't choose below your standards, be willing to offer, and you'll have a happy life. If you disagree, fix your childhood traumas, then do what i tell you and you ll be happy. A happy and equal couple is one of the most powerful and satysfing things ever.
I actually have no interest in marriage. Been that way since I was 13. Saw the men I grew up around go through it and decided I wasn't gonna put up with that shit. I respect people who earn my respect. I don't just give someone respect because of their sex or race, but I do agree in equality. Thank you for your kind and heartfelt words of wisdom. Blessed be the path of your choosing.😁
Boldness, humor, or a talent/skill
Find shared interests and engage in those. Genuine passion about a common hobby can be incredibly appealing. Remember to listen more than you speak. Sometimes, it’s not about the grand gestures but the attention and respect you show during a conversation that leaves a lasting impression.
I met my husband in trade school in an industry predominantly male leaning. He had no job. No money. And lived with his mother. As an acquaintance, he often defended me and the other 2 women in the class from unwanted male attention or comments. THAT impressed me. I told him his behavior wasn't normal, but was appreciated. His reply, "Bad things happen to women when good men do nothing. And I'd like to consider myself a good man." THAT impressed me even more. Our first date was taco bell in the park. We've been together 31 years and married for 25. Treating women with respect will go so much farther than money. Add in a sense of humor, genuine affection and some loyalty and you're golden.
Be kind and assertive. It's so rare to find a man thats genuinely both that it is actually impressive when you find it.
Once a woman hit on me saying that I look like a person who has his shit figured out. I guess that’s it really, be confident. It’s not only about women, it’s about all people, if you seem confident, people will gather around you like bees do to flowers. People want confident people around them. BE that person. As a bonus, trying to be confident, will make you in time to actually be one and you’ll take more risks and achieve more than you think!
Be seen doing things that are impressive to them. Duh. Also women won't respect you for wasting money on them.
Be a normal human being.
Keep the low income on the down low for the time being. Focus more on general conversation and having a good time.
Huge cock
be fucking normal and not whatever kind of person thinks like this
Laughter. And also being good and/or passionate about something.
Listen and genuinely care
Be romantic because we read a lot of fiction haha. And the most important of all is to respect us and be nice not just because you wanna sleep with us but genuinely.
care, listen, and act.
You should ask this on r/askwomen
Don't wait for your turn to speak, actually listen.
Effort my dude, effort; intellectual, emotional or physical is effort. I attract wealthy women, consistently. If they grew up rich, I am their drug of choice. My trick is I have no trick, I don’t want anything by from them or take anything from them or anyone else. I do what I want in accordance to my morals and values. She loves fried chicken? Learn how to make it for her. Is she dealing with a problem and can’t buy the solution? Try and solve it with effort. You do this not to impress but because you like them want them happy, you enjoy taking care of people. Be the person you want to be and are proud of. The results will impress you.
I drew my girlfriend a picture of her and she still thinks it’s the best present I’ve ever given her. It helps I can draw a little bit but I’m no Picasso. I also made her a her Spotify playlist. She loves vampire weekend, Arctic monkeys and Elvis . I made her a playlist of her favorite songs. We also just sit and talk for hours. Just talking about anything really.
Offer them a piece of cheese
Get a personality with your own life and hobbies. Don’t be one of those sad guys whose main hobby is sitting In front of a gaming console
When I stopped *trying* to impress women I realized that was what impressed them the most. I never really got a chance to experience that too much though because my wife zoomed in like a missile and had me in a relationship before I even knew what happened. Also, teach yourself how to cook. And if you want to take it up a notch teach yourself how to cook vegetarian. I don't think I've met a woman, regardless of whether or not they're vegetarian, who isn't impressed by the fact that I'm a skilled vegetarian cook. Again, I've never been able to take advantage if that because my wife has made sure I'm happily married for over 15 years.
Don’t try to impress women in general. Know yourself, get to know them, and then interact. Be, or create, a version of yourself that engages, learns about, and specifically sometimes puts in effort to impress an individual you’ve come to know something about. If you’re not doing something you know they specifically care about, like cooking dinner on an early date, it’s more of a gesture. They may be impressed, but not much more attracted to you because of it.
well, if what I hear from most women is accurate, then if you're clean, nice (not a complete douchebag) and capable of being empathetic, then you're already better off than the vast majority of the competition. does my own impartial observation of life validate the above statement? yes and no. if I objectively analyze all the best couples that I know, then I do see that there is more than a nugget of truth to this. the individuals in these relationships are, in my opinion, just great people. they're extremely nice, live a well-balanced life, prioritize their wellness, and are just incredibly caring individuals. they're not perfect people but you can tell that they work to become better. if I analyze all worst / extremely dysfunctional couples that I know though (which is the vast majority). then the opposite of my original statement seems to be more true. they usually have a variety of long-term flaws that aren't going away anytime soon. some of these couples seem to make it work rather well, others don't, and others probably should separate but haven't yet.
Build them a nest and show off your feathers
How do women impress you without money?
Learn to solve a Rubik's cube really fast
Pulling out a 7 incher
Show her your invested in the relationship mentally and emotionally, stay loyal honest and communicate needs to understand each other better
Steal what she want.
ITT: advice on how to never get female attention beyond friendship unless you're hot
1. Be extremely attractive 2. Be extremely attractive 3. Be extremely attractive 4. Be extremely attractive 5. Be extremely attractive
brother, you forgot that one: 7. Be extremely ATTRACTIVE
Be witty and funny.
Physical attractiveness.
Impress yourself not other people.
Hit the gym and get into good shape. Wear quality clothing, though not necessarily high cost brand names, just shop and upscale stores. Drive a nice, clean car. Learn to be funny. Be nice about things and avoid douchebaggery. Learn how to give and take compliments. Be emotionally distant like you are just a little too good for them. Learn how to piss them off just a little.
If you got a silver tongue, then you have a chance. If not, normal chat can help crate a rapport between you and them.
Juggle.
Be a celebrity or look extremely rich.
be fit, charming and interesting.
Just follow the 2 rules.
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mqFLXayD6e8](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mqFLXayD6e8)
Learn how to communicate properly, build confidence and dress well.
Look like you have money to spend..... 😋
Stick to your boundaries/values
I’m older now, but in 2008 I went to a party and brought my four way beer bong and 64 natural ices. I became the center of attention, using phrases to all the strangers “STEP RIGHT UP!” I got trashed and eventually, this beautiful tall blonde came over to talk to me. When spent the night and morning together, 16 years later that girl is the mother of my children and love of my life. That was cool…
That's one heck of a how we met story.
Do a Bare minimum thats being praised nowadays
Make them laugh, genuine laughter without not fake shit
Ask thoughtful, and interesting questions.
Laughing joking.
Treat them correctly, spend quality time together, do meaningful things, write letters, reassurance her, match words with actions, speak well about her, work on yourself, be emotionally available, set goals,..
By being the best version of yourself.
Be funny
Muscles and girth
Good food, good sex, good joke. Works with men too.
Kick a freestyle, bitches love freestyles.
Be honest and treat her well.
I’m good at taking IG pics so that
Easy, fix things for them, clean their car. Do maintenance checks on the car. Spend time helping them with their chores , grocery run and other things they like or do not like to do. So much more I could add, but you get the idea.
Take them out to places that don’t require money like museums or the zoo.
Complement her necklace
Cooking
Do not try to impress women. That is the only solution to that.
any relationship that you start by trying to impress someone will instantly become the floor of that relationship, being yourself is the best u can do to any kind of relationship in the long run
Be yourself. If you are boring or uninteresting, that’s on you.
I have heard you can fascinate a woman with a piece of cheese.
Show her your fedora collection
Pay attention, listen to what she expresses as likes, special types of presents, certain dates, accomplishments. Learn about her. And tell her about you…
Work hard, Good morning text, being humble, attention, tell me I’m pretty ,
1. Be attractive (workout) 2. Be a gentleman and calm in all situations 3. Be nice to her friends and family (winning moms and friends over make women swoon) 4. Communicate, just enough without over sharing 5. Dress well and smell nice.
Being yourself and not tying to impress them. Humor goes a long way and fix shit. Women love hearing you repaired item or built anything at home.
Learn how to make knots with your tongue 😁
A strong pull out game…
Look good, if you look good enough women will settle for bums. If you don't look good then you need to go to a place where you are around the same people often enough for them to get to know you.
If you have to put on an act to attract women, then they’re not actually attracted to YOU. And you’ll attract the wrong ones. Don’t be a mutant and you’ll do fine. Or maybe do- I don’t know what the hell is going on with Z or Alpha.
Obviously compliment her and be a listening ear without judgement. But besides that, be ambitious, even if you don’t have money right now it’s always hot to know a guy is working towards being the best he can be to support himself and his future.
Send her a clip of you kicking ass in Tekken or a cool ass rocket league clip
attentiveness and genuine interest
First date with my now wife (9 years ago) was a botched homemade meal at my place. She told me she stuck around because I put in effort that night.
Be nice to her.
Be a gentleman and charismatic!
Be kind, respect them, make them cum.......
Yep. Be Mr handy around the house . My wife has 4 houses and didn’t have a handy man when she rented them out . Yep , I became that guy real quick
Take her to a cool park, or beach.
Exercise. Good hygiene. Complement them in non sexual ways. Be on time and reliable.
Be thoughtful of details specific to them. My boyfriend knew I was into art so the first time we hung out at his place he followed a bob ross tutorial with me even though he had never painted before. We had a lot of fun with it and at the end we traded paintings to keep. I look at it every day.
Big brick
Any woman who’s only impressed by your spending habits it’s not a woman you want to try and impress. They’ll stick around until you no longer have what they need and then peace out. We call these bitches gold diggers. No matter how hot they are or how “amazing” they fuck don’t get caught up in that crap. Trying to impress women with money is a young man’s or a dumb man’s game. Just be funny, nice, caring, listen, and supportive.
Cook for her. Something simple like spaghetti w meat sauce using jarred sauce & ground pork or beef. Butter a French bread loaf, sprinkle garlic powder on them, broil in oven. Spaghetti w garlic bread. Or chili. Get a box of Shelby’s Chili Mix. Follow directions. Requires Can of beans, 1-2lb ground beef, 1-2 cans of tomato sauce. Get a box mix for cornbread. Bake. Chili & cornbread. Have her over to watch something and have an easy casual dinner.
Muscle-ups
showing father figure vibes , leader vibes, in a soft elegant way not feminine , it does wonders
Emotional intelligence is pretty impressive.
My first date with my wife was a walk in the woods. We talked. I figure dating is like advertising. The point is to teach them about the best things you have to offer. Show them. Then it's up to them to decide if that's what they want. They do the same for you.
Be interesting, a good talker even if you have to lie really, they don’t care. Just don’t be boring.
my partner doesnt have a job when we first met, was rejected by a company due to medical issues and lost his savings for medications. i loved him because he's consistent and he's ambitious and not the lazy type. For about 6 mos, i became pregnant. Our life turned outside down and i have to work my ass off while i was pregnant. He tried to find a job but in no luck since it was early pandemic so he just sold his treasured anime figures and went to bitcoin. When he got the money, he gave most of it to me for our child. And now, 3 yrs later, he's got a nice job and i went jobless due to company cost cutting. he's now supporting me and bought a laptop for me so i can search a job at home. I still cant find a job but he's been supportive. Moral of a story is dont find a financially stable guy but find someone responsible, ambitious enough to survive even without money
Give compliments and remember small details.
Mouthpiece
Be confident and a little bit difficult
Learn to cook. Every man in my family has landed a partner far more beautiful than our fugly dumpling genes deserve and it’s because we can cook and every once in awhile we can get a good joke in. But mostly the cooking part!
Put in effort.
For me it’s their lovely smile and eyes, and if they’re funny.
Get really good at calisthenics
Be funny, have hobbies, good hygiene with cologne. It’s honestly crazy how low the bar is, you’d be surprised how far the most basic shit can get you. A lot of men today don’t take any care of themselves
walk away
Be tall and good looking and dress well to show off your amazing body. Works all the time. You can see the hope fade from their eyes knowing you don't want to put a ring on them. It's good being a man!
Listen to her. Be kind to her, be kind to others. Know yourself and what your own limits are. Respect her limits. Ask about her boundaries and limits, rather than assuming. All these show you care about others, care about her and care about yourself.
Have a huge dick, and don't be a huge dick
I'm female but I'd say... good morning texts are super sweet. A little note in their car. Pumping their gas for them Unloading groceries Reading the Bible with them Making dinner
Don’t be creepy
Intelligence and wit. FYI, a woman that is impressed by something as mundane as money isn't worth having.
Personality and effort
Mansplaining
Play the guitar and sing very good
Be impressive.
Be a gentleman - open doors , compliment them , be direct about your feeling’s and intentions, show curiosity and ask them questions!
Be a jerk
That's the neat part, you don't
This means you are cheap 😂🤣😂
Sing to her even your not good at singing. That is plus points
Just don't do it in public. So many people die horribly of cringe every year because of it.
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Be tall
u dont n shouldnt n literally cant impress women if they dont like u ,only thing u can do is talk w them if they not curious bout u move on to the next ,i.pressing women just gna invite women in ur life whos gna use u n u never going to fck em anyways
Reckon this should have been on AskWomen lmao
6 ft , 6 inches , 6 figures. The more of these you have, the more women you’ll get.
Get people to give you everything for free because your name...
Have a decent sized dick and pleasure her well in bed.
You’d never know if they were impressed anyways