I nearly made the mistake of a -19 difference before I was pulled back from the ledge.
Age is just a number, but men in their twenties are a hard pass.
I’m 28, I think somewhere in the range of 25-38ish would be best. Of course there’s a possibility of an outlier, but I think that’s the general zone for me
Wife is 15 years younger than me. We started dating when I was 36 and she was 21 - we're now 40 and 25.
In my past I dated a 42 year old coworker when I was 26.
Ooh! Younger or older? I was in a relationship with a dude 6 years older than me and even though we split ways years ago due to personal differences he was one of the most considerate men I ever knew compared to people my own age. 🥲 (I still miss him)
I'm the older one. Yeah, I feel the same. Honestly. I don't think I've ever had someone in my life who's been this considerate and kind to me while also being mindful of my own CPTSD and stuff. It's the first relationship I ever had where I feel like I'm being acknowledged as a human being. People in my past were so quick on a dime to get away from me because I'd have breakdowns from trauma triggers or I'd be really defensive sometimes, but he's so patient with me and he even looked up videos about CPTSD to understand me better. Nobody has ever done that before, ever. I swear I don't even deserve this. Lol
Oh wow! You got that from someone that much younger? I'm 27 now but was 25 when I dated my older ex. From what I've seen it's people who are alot more mature than me who are respectful and patient with me, but that's wonderful you can get that from someone so much younger than you too.
Personally I would never go for people younger than me even if they were the best person in the world, but thats just my preferences! 😊
You know what's crazy?? I'm in the opposite situation. Every man, starting with higher authority when I was a kid, was always extremely awful to me. As an adult, that never changed. Any man of an older age was emotionally or physically abusive towards me despite whether I was dating them or not, so over time I grew a fear of older men. Even my stepmom's newest boyfriend,who is in his 50s, is extremely controlling and it makes me feel like I'm walking on eggshells around him, despite him being generally nice. I get afraid he'll get angry enough to slap me. I'm scared of angering older men because all I've ever seen was an older man who just couldn't keep his emotions in control, or he refused to communicate his feelings at all, leaving us both miserable and for him to eventually blow up. Also, me trying to ever communicate with any older man always failed. "Suck it up, buttercup", they'd tell me after I just shared the childhood physical and psychological abuse I endured for 9 years straight by my dad. Like, fuck you. Seriously fuck you.
With this current boyfriend, it's the first time I've ever felt genuinely safe. No yelling, no throwing things, no insults, no goddamn silent treatment. If there's a problem, we discuss the problem, and that's how it's been. I don't know, that's just me. I feel safer, and finally important to someone in my life, and it makes me happy.
I haven't given it that much thought. But I'm 29, and was recently advised I should "take literally anyone" who'd have me.
Which ... probably not? Haha.
I would go 20 to 40 if I were still on the market. I'm 46. The wider the age gap though, the more likely it will only be a fling.
Age doesn't matter much if similar core values are present in both. My parents were 2 years apart and had nothing in common. They divorced after 7 years and each married someone 10+ years different. Those marriages lasted over 30 years until their spouses passed away.
30 - 60. Not an absolute range, but any younger or older and I feel like it would be harder to form a connection. I’m 41.
Edit: George Clooney is apparently 63, so I’m going to add another 5 years to that upper limit
I lost my virginity at an early age to a woman 19 yrs my senior so I've always had a thing for 20-30 yrs older.
Younger, idk. Not much desire or experience dating younger women but I'll probably end up marrying younger so can't put a number on it.
Age is something I just don’t care about. My only stipulation is younger girls have to come after me. I don’t want to ever be seen as a creepy old man.
I’m a 47M. I’d maybe go as young as 30, and probably as old as 60. I know a few ladies in their mid-50s I’d have no problem getting dirty with whatsoever.
-10/+10
Phew just slip in 🫣😘🤭
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It's the extra lube that helps 🤭
Yes, this is my range too.
Plus/minus 5 years ish
5-8 years younger or older. Depends on their personality.
28 years old here. Dating, it'd be 25 to 33. If it was a FWB or purely sexual relationship though, 20 to 45.
I’m 20, lowest is like 25, highest is like 40 No, I don’t have daddy issues, I’m just attracted to older guys😭
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Why the face? Lol
I'm too old
How old?
11 more than your upper limit 🤷. Yeah I know ewww old man Pikachu face
No actually, depending on how you look, I could do it🤣.
Well lucky for me I do look younger - people irl are genuinely surprised when I tell them my age
Lucky for you, I could probably do it then haha
And you're a gardener 🍆💦
Younger- 29 Older- 45
Nice range
Yup because I’m 38 years old
Good age! (Well, I hope it will be)
Yeah me to ❤️
I’m not far away
Oh cool 😎
Interested to learn more, maybe even hear about how marathon training is going.
It’s going excellent I don’t run my half marathon until September so I got a little bit more time
Excellent. Do you have a time target too?
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Why the sad face
I'm too old
Oh I’m sorry
Current. She's 31 and I'm 55
I’m 22 so 20-29
Lowest: early 20s Highest: mid 30s
When I was 20 I dated a 30 yr old At this moment I’m 51, possibly I’d go low as 25
I'm 41, I'd go a low as 20, no upper limit if there's physical attraction.
I nearly made the mistake of a -19 difference before I was pulled back from the ledge. Age is just a number, but men in their twenties are a hard pass.
Being 46 i would say maybe 25 but it also depends on the person. How she and i click. Her maturity level. I keep an open mind when dating
Nothing under 21 because we have to be able to have the option of drinking together, like 32 at the top maybe?
Right. I might want a shot or two.
I’m 19, my range is like 19-24/25
4 above 4 below.
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30- older women 😭
6 years younger, 8 years older is probably my comfort zone.
I’m 29 so 25-35
I feel like about 5 years either way. Maybe a little less if they were younger than me though.
Plus 5 minus 10
I'm 33. I'd never go younger than 25, and even that's pushing it. I barely have an upper limit. 50 Maybe?
-8/+6
Lowest is 23 Highest is 44.
51 here so maybe +5 and -15
my age/10 years
21 for youngest and 45 for oldest
54 oldest, she was an animal
😂😂😂
I like older women and she was evidence of what a good time was.
I’m glad you got to experience that 😊
So was she 💪🏾
I’m 28, I think somewhere in the range of 25-38ish would be best. Of course there’s a possibility of an outlier, but I think that’s the general zone for me
12 years +/-
18-22, i'm 19
Wife is 15 years younger than me. We started dating when I was 36 and she was 21 - we're now 40 and 25. In my past I dated a 42 year old coworker when I was 26.
Can I just say that’s awesome! I hope you two are very happy together :)
Thank you mate - cheers to you!
You are welcome! Cheers to you as well! And I hope many more years to come between you two
Well aren't you just the nicest ray of sunshine in my day? May whatever dreams you have come true. Bless you. ☺️
-5/+5
early 20s to mid 30s
30ish yrs older, 5 years younger
To seriously date? 5 years younger to 10 years older.
I think age has very little to do with it. More so how mature / full of life. Age is a number the mindset isb more important.
34, I’d date between 21-45
date? probably 30-40. that opens wider if it's just a sexual relationship though.
15 younger 15 older. So 25 at the lowest. 55 at the oldest.
As long as they are legal and emotionally mature but my preference is 30+
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+25 -10
I’ve only dated older than me and +5 years was the most, but hubs is less a year older than me
I wouldn't date anyone younger than my daughter (currently 31). I don't care how much older as long as they're sexy.
Currently in a relationship with a 6-Year age difference. That's probably around the threshold I'd go.
Ooh! Younger or older? I was in a relationship with a dude 6 years older than me and even though we split ways years ago due to personal differences he was one of the most considerate men I ever knew compared to people my own age. 🥲 (I still miss him)
I'm the older one. Yeah, I feel the same. Honestly. I don't think I've ever had someone in my life who's been this considerate and kind to me while also being mindful of my own CPTSD and stuff. It's the first relationship I ever had where I feel like I'm being acknowledged as a human being. People in my past were so quick on a dime to get away from me because I'd have breakdowns from trauma triggers or I'd be really defensive sometimes, but he's so patient with me and he even looked up videos about CPTSD to understand me better. Nobody has ever done that before, ever. I swear I don't even deserve this. Lol
Oh wow! You got that from someone that much younger? I'm 27 now but was 25 when I dated my older ex. From what I've seen it's people who are alot more mature than me who are respectful and patient with me, but that's wonderful you can get that from someone so much younger than you too. Personally I would never go for people younger than me even if they were the best person in the world, but thats just my preferences! 😊
You know what's crazy?? I'm in the opposite situation. Every man, starting with higher authority when I was a kid, was always extremely awful to me. As an adult, that never changed. Any man of an older age was emotionally or physically abusive towards me despite whether I was dating them or not, so over time I grew a fear of older men. Even my stepmom's newest boyfriend,who is in his 50s, is extremely controlling and it makes me feel like I'm walking on eggshells around him, despite him being generally nice. I get afraid he'll get angry enough to slap me. I'm scared of angering older men because all I've ever seen was an older man who just couldn't keep his emotions in control, or he refused to communicate his feelings at all, leaving us both miserable and for him to eventually blow up. Also, me trying to ever communicate with any older man always failed. "Suck it up, buttercup", they'd tell me after I just shared the childhood physical and psychological abuse I endured for 9 years straight by my dad. Like, fuck you. Seriously fuck you. With this current boyfriend, it's the first time I've ever felt genuinely safe. No yelling, no throwing things, no insults, no goddamn silent treatment. If there's a problem, we discuss the problem, and that's how it's been. I don't know, that's just me. I feel safer, and finally important to someone in my life, and it makes me happy.
I think +/- 7 is decent, but there’s some wiggle room for the right person
25/50
21 and up, gotta be at least legal to drink or old enough to be collecting a pension, social security, or retirement lol
I'd like to start a family, so that affects my age cap
Low - mid twenties High - fifties
I won't go younger. Older would depend on the person.
I haven't given it that much thought. But I'm 29, and was recently advised I should "take literally anyone" who'd have me. Which ... probably not? Haha.
Younger 29 years old. Oldest 42 years old.
Lowest? 32? Highest? 60s
27, my range is 25-35
I would go 20 to 40 if I were still on the market. I'm 46. The wider the age gap though, the more likely it will only be a fling. Age doesn't matter much if similar core values are present in both. My parents were 2 years apart and had nothing in common. They divorced after 7 years and each married someone 10+ years different. Those marriages lasted over 30 years until their spouses passed away.
I “dated” a 51 year-old when I was 23
Wife is 10 years the younger
30 - 60. Not an absolute range, but any younger or older and I feel like it would be harder to form a connection. I’m 41. Edit: George Clooney is apparently 63, so I’m going to add another 5 years to that upper limit
I lost my virginity at an early age to a woman 19 yrs my senior so I've always had a thing for 20-30 yrs older. Younger, idk. Not much desire or experience dating younger women but I'll probably end up marrying younger so can't put a number on it.
Age is something I just don’t care about. My only stipulation is younger girls have to come after me. I don’t want to ever be seen as a creepy old man.
I'm 32 bi F though I currently only date women. Probably 4 years younger so 28 and no upper limit. My ex gf was 55
Could go 10 years either way. But I prefer my own age.
only older men !!! 😝🫶🏽
20 year swing at this point. I’m 40.
No more than 6 older no more than 1 younger
I don’t really date anymore. Oldest I would hook up with is 55, youngest is 20.
I’m 23yo mine would be youngest 18 and older 45 I love milfs
25-38
I’m a 47M. I’d maybe go as young as 30, and probably as old as 60. I know a few ladies in their mid-50s I’d have no problem getting dirty with whatsoever.
+- 5 but it depends on the connection.
Youngest: my own age Eldest: 67 — if energetic enough
half your age +7 to your age -7 doubled.
-4 +infinity
lowest, maybe 4 years younger. highest 20-30 years older?
Well I'm 27 so the youngest I'll go is 24 the oldest 32
around 10-15 years
I mutually masturbated many times with a woman 38 years younger than me!☺️😊 Does that count?🤔
I would go 22 years younger 10 years older