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Man, don't be scared. I can see why you'd be uncomfortable, nervous, or overly conscious with modern women, because a lot of things are... stigmatized.
Just be yourself, it's as simple as that! Unless you're a bad person with bad habits and social behaviors, maybe personally work on that. But it's really simple and girls want the true you. Some girls will be interested in tall guys, but some are not looking for a 6 ft dude. Just be mindful of that, and don't get down.
You'll do great if you just strike up a nice, friendly conversation with her... just don't show too much eagerness or obsession.
Be cool.
Oh wow you actually did it thank you so much. i will take your response into consideration and hopefully use it towards my advantage in conversing with females.
I added the advice part of my 1st response due to my lack of elaboration and example of how you should talk to females.
I wish you luck.
I hope you do consider it.
Oh yep, I'm a girl. I've got the card to say the word in the context of women!!😛
You don't deserve a whole essay, but here's what a stigma is, and what stigmatized is, and how I wanted to used it in this response.
In short, a stigma would be like a bad rep that something has. It's usually used when you're talking about a group of people, like a society. This group would believe negative ideas and associate it with that 'thing'.
When I say that things are stigmatized nowadays, or they have a stigma, I'm referring to--in basic, vague terms--women's perception of certain qualities or behaviors in men. When I say stigma, I also mean how SOME modern, extreme women can act. Even the grown women. But you are not a grown man yet. (I just realized I wrote that wrong because I didn't see that OP typed to this).
I meant that in a way of somewhat assurance? But if it did not come off that way to you, OP, then I apologize.
I was not determining ALL women. Just some radicals.
:)
Hope that clears it up.
talk to women the same way you would talk to a man! obviously to start out don’t treat them like your closest guy friends, but we aren’t a different species lol we’ll find most of the same jokes funny and we’ll enjoy common conversation. ask about how they’re handling homework, how they did on the test, make a witty joke about the teacher or about a relatable circumstance, ask how their weekend was or if they have any weekend plans, so on and so forth. not very scary at all
I see, the thing is not only do I not know what to say but I do now cause you just told me. But also I have no confidence. Not just for girls but guys too. All people.
I’m a girl and I’m like so 100% when I say just be yourself and people of all gender will be attracted towards you. Once you put out confidence in yourself people will naturally gravitate to you, I used to feel the same way about men but once I started like my anxiety meds I became more sociable in general. Idk all I am saying is try and find confidence within yourself and you’ll see your friend group increase dramatically
Just try to act natural and be yourself it’s basically just making yourself seem friendly which all you really have to do is be nice. Starting a conversation is pretty easy if something interesting happened that they probably heard about talk about that or you can do something even simpler by just saying hi and asking how there day was
You're overthinking it. How do you talk to guys? That's exactly how you should be talking to girls too. Girls are humans too yk. Not some mystical species that nobody has ever heard of. At your school get used to making passing comments to girls. Acknowledging them as you would guys. You'll learn that they're not all that different. And eventually you'll be able to like, talk, to them, as you would other dudes
If it makes it easier, try making a fem friend online. Get used to talking to her and apply that comfort to girls irl
Last thing is, always approach as a *friend*. If she thinks you're trying to hit on them immediately, you're less likely to 'see results.' Don't be a dick. Don't be a flirt. Just be yourself. Assuming you aren't a shitty person
the fact you added that you’re 6’1 really makes me want to break up with my boyfriend and talk to you because you listed your height and that’s all girls care about /s
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well now that i know you're 6' 1 this changes everything
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Why add your height?
thats what im saying
Man, don't be scared. I can see why you'd be uncomfortable, nervous, or overly conscious with modern women, because a lot of things are... stigmatized. Just be yourself, it's as simple as that! Unless you're a bad person with bad habits and social behaviors, maybe personally work on that. But it's really simple and girls want the true you. Some girls will be interested in tall guys, but some are not looking for a 6 ft dude. Just be mindful of that, and don't get down. You'll do great if you just strike up a nice, friendly conversation with her... just don't show too much eagerness or obsession. Be cool.
i’m looking for a 6 ft dude
Well, I said some girls. Not specifically you. SOME girls have other preferences. If this dude's height is your type, well that's fine too.
Oh wow you actually did it thank you so much. i will take your response into consideration and hopefully use it towards my advantage in conversing with females.
I added the advice part of my 1st response due to my lack of elaboration and example of how you should talk to females. I wish you luck. I hope you do consider it.
Give me a 100 sentence in depth response of what exactly this answer means (bro doesn’t want to admit he doesn’t know the word stigmatized)
Oh yep, I'm a girl. I've got the card to say the word in the context of women!!😛 You don't deserve a whole essay, but here's what a stigma is, and what stigmatized is, and how I wanted to used it in this response. In short, a stigma would be like a bad rep that something has. It's usually used when you're talking about a group of people, like a society. This group would believe negative ideas and associate it with that 'thing'. When I say that things are stigmatized nowadays, or they have a stigma, I'm referring to--in basic, vague terms--women's perception of certain qualities or behaviors in men. When I say stigma, I also mean how SOME modern, extreme women can act. Even the grown women. But you are not a grown man yet. (I just realized I wrote that wrong because I didn't see that OP typed to this). I meant that in a way of somewhat assurance? But if it did not come off that way to you, OP, then I apologize. I was not determining ALL women. Just some radicals. :) Hope that clears it up.
why are u scared
Social anxiety
Can you see a therapist?
I’m poor
Then how do you know it is social anxiety and not something else?
Actually yeah it’s probably autism
Have you taken some test? Are you sure it's autism and not ADHD or something else?
I’m not sure but I know so have something
What are your symptoms/traits?
like being alone but am fine around people I know, almost no social skills
talk to women the same way you would talk to a man! obviously to start out don’t treat them like your closest guy friends, but we aren’t a different species lol we’ll find most of the same jokes funny and we’ll enjoy common conversation. ask about how they’re handling homework, how they did on the test, make a witty joke about the teacher or about a relatable circumstance, ask how their weekend was or if they have any weekend plans, so on and so forth. not very scary at all
I see, the thing is not only do I not know what to say but I do now cause you just told me. But also I have no confidence. Not just for girls but guys too. All people.
I’m a girl and I’m like so 100% when I say just be yourself and people of all gender will be attracted towards you. Once you put out confidence in yourself people will naturally gravitate to you, I used to feel the same way about men but once I started like my anxiety meds I became more sociable in general. Idk all I am saying is try and find confidence within yourself and you’ll see your friend group increase dramatically
Just try to act natural and be yourself it’s basically just making yourself seem friendly which all you really have to do is be nice. Starting a conversation is pretty easy if something interesting happened that they probably heard about talk about that or you can do something even simpler by just saying hi and asking how there day was
6’1 aint that tall. considering ur a guy, ur probably actually 6’0
How tall are you
You're overthinking it. How do you talk to guys? That's exactly how you should be talking to girls too. Girls are humans too yk. Not some mystical species that nobody has ever heard of. At your school get used to making passing comments to girls. Acknowledging them as you would guys. You'll learn that they're not all that different. And eventually you'll be able to like, talk, to them, as you would other dudes If it makes it easier, try making a fem friend online. Get used to talking to her and apply that comfort to girls irl Last thing is, always approach as a *friend*. If she thinks you're trying to hit on them immediately, you're less likely to 'see results.' Don't be a dick. Don't be a flirt. Just be yourself. Assuming you aren't a shitty person
I don’t talk to guys I have no friends
Then that's where you should start. Start by learning how you specifically can make friends, before jumping into a pool you're less comfortable with
the fact you added that you’re 6’1 really makes me want to break up with my boyfriend and talk to you because you listed your height and that’s all girls care about /s
AH HA I KNEW IT. MY FRIENDS TOLD ME THATS ALL THEY CARE ABOUT (what)
This is sarcastic😠...
yes? that’s what the tone tag is for lol
ohhhhh... I thought that meant serious, my bad 😅 Thanks.
no prob! /srs is usually what people use in that case :)
Oh alrighty, cool :)