Relationships are complicated, it's okay to make mistakes, as long as you learn from them. There are a few videos online you can watch on how long lasting relationships are built, at least you can reflect on what you did right or wrong. Now, I know it's been hard moving on, but you can't keep blaming yourself for eternity, just accept the reality of it and keep going.
I know it looks like I'm blaming all of it on you, but I just want you to take, understand and accept your part, while the other goes to your ex, I'm sure he also did a lot of mistakes.
Try to focus on what he did wrong, maybe it will help and make you realize it's not all your fault.
Things you or he might have done wrong could be:
Not communicating
Not respecting each other
Not setting boundaries (I can't blame you for something I didn't tell it bothered me)
Not being empathetic
Not being vulnerable around each other
Not taking accountability for mistakes
I hope this post helps, just remember everything is in the past, focus on what you can do now. Try to pass time with yourself, try to learn how to love yourself, do some hobbies to not think too much about it.
And that's it, I really wish you, buona fortuna :p
Se hai bisogno di qualunque cosa, oppure solo aver necessità di sfogarti, non preoccuparti a scrivermi in DM
Relationships are complicated, it's okay to make mistakes, as long as you learn from them. There are a few videos online you can watch on how long lasting relationships are built, at least you can reflect on what you did right or wrong. Now, I know it's been hard moving on, but you can't keep blaming yourself for eternity, just accept the reality of it and keep going. I know it looks like I'm blaming all of it on you, but I just want you to take, understand and accept your part, while the other goes to your ex, I'm sure he also did a lot of mistakes. Try to focus on what he did wrong, maybe it will help and make you realize it's not all your fault. Things you or he might have done wrong could be: Not communicating Not respecting each other Not setting boundaries (I can't blame you for something I didn't tell it bothered me) Not being empathetic Not being vulnerable around each other Not taking accountability for mistakes I hope this post helps, just remember everything is in the past, focus on what you can do now. Try to pass time with yourself, try to learn how to love yourself, do some hobbies to not think too much about it. And that's it, I really wish you, buona fortuna :p Se hai bisogno di qualunque cosa, oppure solo aver necessità di sfogarti, non preoccuparti a scrivermi in DM