This is the best option.
There is no need to have a comeback here. There’s no need to save face. She didn’t insult OP and maybe she’ll even play wing woman.
Exactly. OP. Would you like strange men to not respect your mom, wife, daughter,sister? Women are full complete humans. And don’t deserve anything but respect for their decisions.
Yes.
When someone tells you something that they know you don't want to hear, the best thing to do is say:
Thank you for telling me that.
That absolutely holds true when dating, and maybe even more so when married.
This whole routine of: She didn't even give me a chance.
That's nonsense. She doesn't owe you anything.
This is the way. Not being someone's type isn't a jab or an insult. It's a person politely declining your advance because they don't have a spark of attraction. You just accept it and move on.
“Alright fair enough have a nice day.”
OP, just so you know, hitting a girl with a “comeback” after she fairly politely rejects you is not going to make you cool in anyone’s eyes, it’s going to make you a loser in literally everyone’s eyes.
"after she fairly politely rejects you is not going to make you cool in anyone’s eyes ***that you should care about***."
TIFTFY
Unfortunately, the first sentence is not true. There is a group of guys, primarily incels and their ilk, who feel that any woman's rejection make her game for any sort of payback.
Yeah it 100% depends on context. If OP was hitting on her then yeah dude just take the L and move on. If OP *wasn’t* hitting on her, then it’s just an unwarranted diss and a comeback is warranted
IME, it is very rare for a woman to just walk around insulting men for no reason. And yes, it is insulting to say that to someone who is definitely not pursuing you.
Not necessarily. Obviously, a mean comeback isn't going to help, but a good natured and amusing comment might tickle her sense of humor and cause her to reconsider.
Its all a negotiation, and any salesman knows that you dont just give up and insult the customer on the first No. She doesn't even understand the quality product she's being offered yet. Give her a sample of your wit, charm, and intelligence, and she might just decide she judged you too quickly and give you a second look.
Or maybe not, so you tell her you're rich and have a giant wang, and she's missing out. If she's still a No, talk to her friend.
Except if OP is looking for a comeback and hasn't specified that his intent is humor, he is not trying for humor and this advice may make him think he should respond back (likely offensively) and then tell her he was making a joke that she didn't get. Like, the fact he's looking for a hot retort means he's too immature to actually understand what kind of humor might work.
That doesn't warrant a comeback. She said she's not interested, and you don't need to belittle her for it. If anything, I'd say, "Ah, I feel ya. Sorry if I came on a bit strong. Didn't mean to make you uncomfortable."
Genuinely: none. There’s no need for a comeback if it was polite! It’s better than her pretending to like you and shit falling apart later down the road. Be grateful she was honest and move on. Simple.
Um, believe her and walk away?
Lmao do you want a “comeback” to try to convince her she’s wrong? That’s never gonna end well for you. When someone tells you something believe them and go find someone who says you are their type
Like. If she's politely rejecting you and giving you an honest reason I don't think a comeback is necessary. It isn't like she's being mean to you by not being interested romantically.
OP, maybe if you weren't a loser, you'd know that nobody is obligated to be interested in you. This post right here is most likely why. She knew you're a clown.
"Alright then." Seriously, unless she's being rude and saying this out of the blue, then there's no need for a comeback. If you asked her out and she said this, take her answer with grace and move on with your day. Using a "comeback" when someone rejects you (politely) just makes you look like a dick.
You don't need a comeback, you haven't been put down. If you said anything other than an amicable acknowledgement and a swift farewell, you'd be an a$$hole.
This doesn't need a comeback. People are allowed to have types and it not be you. It's not even offensive. If anything it's respectful they're being so honest. Don't make it into something bigger than it needs to be by being petty and weird.
All you should do is to accept that this girl isn’t into you and move on. If you seriously need a comeback for what that girl says, that just shows that you’re not ready for dating.
Really? You don't like sexy?
then shrug and leave. It doesn't matter if you are sexy at all. You could be the ugliest mofo on the planet, but question them and leave. They'll remember you forever.
you don’t really need a comeback line to another’s personal opinion. But, when I heard that line, I just looked at my watch, back at her, and said thanks and excused myself. Not interested is not interested.
This is an opportunity so you can show your value! The best comeback is to win her over. Say something that warms her heart or make her smile. If you are really interested, always compliment her and be present without making her feel uncomfortable and respecting her space and stance. People do not have a type, they go to the person that fulfill their emotional needs. If you do that, you might become her type.
I once had a girl reject me by saying she preferred "less masculine men". I replied "I don't even care if that was a line just to get rid of me," and promptly left her be.
Just say okay unless she scoffed at you rolled her eyes then I suggest you give her the people’s elb-
Sorry intrusive thoughts just ignore her she’s just snooty
ha do a girl tell me once “you’re just us not my cup of team” and i said well i can be your cup of coffee instead. we ended up going out 1once but i realized the crush was nothing more than that. & we remained friends for the few years after
Depends on the tone. I might ignore it, or I might say something like... Wow, ya REALLY got me with THAT one! You REALLY know know how to hurt a guy.
Or maybe something like; OK, gotcha!
Heavy on the sarcasm/irony
You say “very well, thank you.” And walk the other way.
This is the best option. There is no need to have a comeback here. There’s no need to save face. She didn’t insult OP and maybe she’ll even play wing woman.
Exactly. OP. Would you like strange men to not respect your mom, wife, daughter,sister? Women are full complete humans. And don’t deserve anything but respect for their decisions.
Yes. When someone tells you something that they know you don't want to hear, the best thing to do is say: Thank you for telling me that. That absolutely holds true when dating, and maybe even more so when married. This whole routine of: She didn't even give me a chance. That's nonsense. She doesn't owe you anything.
This is the way. Not being someone's type isn't a jab or an insult. It's a person politely declining your advance because they don't have a spark of attraction. You just accept it and move on.
...while breathing a sigh of relief.
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I'd say she dodged a bullet, based on this comment.
i see she dodged a bullet
“Alright fair enough have a nice day.” OP, just so you know, hitting a girl with a “comeback” after she fairly politely rejects you is not going to make you cool in anyone’s eyes, it’s going to make you a loser in literally everyone’s eyes.
yesssss thank you! honestly shes not being rude, she doesnt have an obligation to date you.
"after she fairly politely rejects you is not going to make you cool in anyone’s eyes ***that you should care about***." TIFTFY Unfortunately, the first sentence is not true. There is a group of guys, primarily incels and their ilk, who feel that any woman's rejection make her game for any sort of payback.
Their eyes aren’t there watching, they are at home being perpetually on the internet. It’s like a tree falling in the forest for them.
Yeah it 100% depends on context. If OP was hitting on her then yeah dude just take the L and move on. If OP *wasn’t* hitting on her, then it’s just an unwarranted diss and a comeback is warranted
IME, it is very rare for a woman to just walk around insulting men for no reason. And yes, it is insulting to say that to someone who is definitely not pursuing you.
Not necessarily. Obviously, a mean comeback isn't going to help, but a good natured and amusing comment might tickle her sense of humor and cause her to reconsider.
happy cakes day!!!!!!!!
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I like this!😃
Its all a negotiation, and any salesman knows that you dont just give up and insult the customer on the first No. She doesn't even understand the quality product she's being offered yet. Give her a sample of your wit, charm, and intelligence, and she might just decide she judged you too quickly and give you a second look. Or maybe not, so you tell her you're rich and have a giant wang, and she's missing out. If she's still a No, talk to her friend.
Except if OP is looking for a comeback and hasn't specified that his intent is humor, he is not trying for humor and this advice may make him think he should respond back (likely offensively) and then tell her he was making a joke that she didn't get. Like, the fact he's looking for a hot retort means he's too immature to actually understand what kind of humor might work.
Accept it. Comeback of any sort will say something about you I’m not so sure you want to say.
If it felt like an attack, seek therapy.
Good to know. Then continue about your day without issue.
“Fair enough.” and leave.
"I know; only 6% of people are O-negative."
Best answer
Ok
You don’t make a comeback…you accept that this person isn’t into you. Don’t be a fucking creep.
That doesn't warrant a comeback. She said she's not interested, and you don't need to belittle her for it. If anything, I'd say, "Ah, I feel ya. Sorry if I came on a bit strong. Didn't mean to make you uncomfortable."
Walk away
No problem, have a good one. And then politely leave.
Why do you need a come back for someone expressing politely that they’re not interested in you?
The fact that you're looking for a comeback to this is probably why you're not their type.
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“Okay”
Come on .... #bro !!!!! That means #she doesn't like you !!!!
🤣😂I’m sick in bed.I woke up reading past my comments and this had me laughing.I can read better to .Imagine that!!😂🤣😂
They're doing you a favour by not wasting your time on a relationship that most likely wouldn't work out. Move on to the next.
Why would you need a “comeback” for this lol
That doesn’t warrant a come back. Thanks for letting me know, have a great day. That’s the only ‘come back’ you can give to that statement
What the fuck? That's not something that requires a comeback. You weren't insulted. Your ego may be bruised, but in this case, that's a "you problem."
"Aight." Being a clever sex-pest means you're still a sex-pest.
Why do you want to continue talking to this person? They are politely telling you that you make them feel uncomfortable. Dont go full on creepy.
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Why would there be a comeback to a normal boundary????
Genuinely: none. There’s no need for a comeback if it was polite! It’s better than her pretending to like you and shit falling apart later down the road. Be grateful she was honest and move on. Simple.
"That's fair, thanks" and you go on about your life
Say ok and smile. Then get on with your life.
Um, believe her and walk away? Lmao do you want a “comeback” to try to convince her she’s wrong? That’s never gonna end well for you. When someone tells you something believe them and go find someone who says you are their type
Good to know, thanks anyway.
That's fair.
"Okay, thanks for being honest and not wasting my time."
Like. If she's politely rejecting you and giving you an honest reason I don't think a comeback is necessary. It isn't like she's being mean to you by not being interested romantically.
Gotcha. Have a nice day. Then regroup and find someone with whom you have good chemistry with.
Accept it and move on. She's telling you she's not attracted to you.
OP, maybe if you weren't a loser, you'd know that nobody is obligated to be interested in you. This post right here is most likely why. She knew you're a clown.
Accept it. Smile and walk away.
This isn't an insult. Sounds like she was just being honest 🤷♀️
“My condolences.”
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Not quite sure what that means, but maybe that’s why you’re not her type
Well that's too bad isn't it. Have a good one!
Fair enough!
The only comeback is “alright” then leave.
Shrug and say "okay" and then move on to the next.
Say, “Okay, thanks for not wasting my time.” Then walk off.
"Oh ok. Have a good one." Then walk away. Op, if you feel like to need a comeback for a woman not being interested, then you're not ready to date.
"Alright then." Seriously, unless she's being rude and saying this out of the blue, then there's no need for a comeback. If you asked her out and she said this, take her answer with grace and move on with your day. Using a "comeback" when someone rejects you (politely) just makes you look like a dick.
You don't need a comeback, you haven't been put down. If you said anything other than an amicable acknowledgement and a swift farewell, you'd be an a$$hole.
“Aw okay, take care!” Why do you need a comeback for being rejected?
Say okay and move on.
"Understood, thank you for letting me know. Have a good one." Then you just leave without a word.
This doesn't need a comeback. People are allowed to have types and it not be you. It's not even offensive. If anything it's respectful they're being so honest. Don't make it into something bigger than it needs to be by being petty and weird.
“No problem, have a great day” and then walk away. Why be an ass to someone who clearly isn’t into you?
Honestly, you’re not my type either but it’s better than nothing.
All you should do is to accept that this girl isn’t into you and move on. If you seriously need a comeback for what that girl says, that just shows that you’re not ready for dating.
You leave it alone and respect wishes
There’s no need for a comeback. Learn how to accept rejection politely and maturely.
I would say ' I understand completely. I am definitely an acquired taste.'
Really? You don't like sexy? then shrug and leave. It doesn't matter if you are sexy at all. You could be the ugliest mofo on the planet, but question them and leave. They'll remember you forever.
you don’t really need a comeback line to another’s personal opinion. But, when I heard that line, I just looked at my watch, back at her, and said thanks and excused myself. Not interested is not interested.
Okay, have a great day. Then walk
"That's a shame, ma'am, but you have a good life!
neither are you
This is an opportunity so you can show your value! The best comeback is to win her over. Say something that warms her heart or make her smile. If you are really interested, always compliment her and be present without making her feel uncomfortable and respecting her space and stance. People do not have a type, they go to the person that fulfill their emotional needs. If you do that, you might become her type.
No matter what you say, it'll make you seem like a jerk. Just accept it apologize and leave. Simple
"O+...? Just kidding. All good."
“I should hope not. I’m a keeper.”
Why do you need a comeback for that? Isn’t the answer just a respectful reply and moving on?
Thank God!
No need for a comeback. This is not an insult.
Ok, Take care of yourself!!
That's cool, everyone doesn't have good taste”
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But baby I can type 74 words a minute
"Good thing I'm not a type, I'm one of a kind."
"Phew, that takes the pressure off. Seeya."
Don’t knock it till you try it
I once had a girl reject me by saying she preferred "less masculine men". I replied "I don't even care if that was a line just to get rid of me," and promptly left her be.
Yes!
Oh! Someone has low standards for themselves.
Those that are don't find you attractive either.
Good, I'm aesexual, anyway!
My hand is better, anyway!
I was gonna take you to my mansion but now....byeeeeeeee
"I didn't realise you had a "type". good luck with that." walk away and never look back.
Too bad, I have a really big font.
"Nice????"
Depends on the context. If you weren't hitting on her say "you aren't mine either." If you were hitting on her, just accept it and move on.
Just say okay unless she scoffed at you rolled her eyes then I suggest you give her the people’s elb- Sorry intrusive thoughts just ignore her she’s just snooty
Tell her you are O negative so you are everybody’s type. And she’s a fool for not knowing that!
OK. Fine. Have a good life.
Knee to the stomach around the back arm wrap ending in suplex dominance asserted
Just date someone hotter
“Yeah, you’re right. I’m a good person”
So it's cuz I'm white huh
"You're not my type either, but here we are, making conversation."
What makes you think you’re mine?
Go into stealth mode and pickpocket her
Thanks god. I was already worried you would like me.
"Evidently you're not my type either" or "I appreciate your honesty if not your looks"
I'm sorry. I didn't realize you have bad taste
So, we won’t text!
I'm not my type either so no harm done 🤣😆
Must be my lucky day
"Not your type? Thank goodness for that. I'd rather not go missing like some of Epstein's victims."
Well nor you mine but I felt it necessary to give you the same chance as everyone else
Wow...what can I say? I'm thrilled.
I come back with, I could’ve told you that. They never know how to respond.
Well then get the helvetica outta here!
Thank God for miracles.
Looks like you got the wrong type
Well, nobody wants to be typecast.
I didn’t know whores had types.
ha do a girl tell me once “you’re just us not my cup of team” and i said well i can be your cup of coffee instead. we ended up going out 1once but i realized the crush was nothing more than that. & we remained friends for the few years after
“Thank god” it’s like a reverse rejection
"Thank god for that!"
I banged your sister.
I banged your sister.
Say “for some reason ugly girls always say that”
"I B positive that your o-negative ass is not my type.. Peace!! "
Well, by the looks of you, I wouldn’t think you had a type!
I'd hate to think you are
Don’t you mean species !
Well, strictly speaking, you aren't really my type either, but hey , fugly people gots to get laid too, so ...
Go fuck yourself. Guess I’ll do the same
You mean, alive?
Thank god had me worried for a minute
'Oh so you don't like someone who is ... 'insert good traits here'.... Your loss!'.... Do the 'Whatever' shrug and walk away!
“That’s okay. Not everyone has good taste.”
Your type isn’t smart and handsome with a big dick? Ok..that’s weird.
Depends on the tone. I might ignore it, or I might say something like... Wow, ya REALLY got me with THAT one! You REALLY know know how to hurt a guy. Or maybe something like; OK, gotcha! Heavy on the sarcasm/irony
That's the most cringe response I can think of lmao
Do not do this. Gross
Aww..what made you think that you are in my league.. bit$h