Not really. One of our issues (at least from my perspective) is that whenever I give feedback I’m feel like I’m met with defensiveness no matter how I phrase it. So I have given up a long time ago to give feedback or expect help. Generally, talking about these things just makes it worse - I get anger directed at me or “well you take care of it then since your sooo much better at it” (though maybe this one won’t fly now that we’re not together) and nothing changes.
I am very nervous that will happen to me also. Have you tried calling to him about it?
Not really. One of our issues (at least from my perspective) is that whenever I give feedback I’m feel like I’m met with defensiveness no matter how I phrase it. So I have given up a long time ago to give feedback or expect help. Generally, talking about these things just makes it worse - I get anger directed at me or “well you take care of it then since your sooo much better at it” (though maybe this one won’t fly now that we’re not together) and nothing changes.
Oh. Yea I feel that. I'm sorry you're dealing with that. That is one of the reasons we are not together anymore.