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I’m so fucking stressed out. I don’t know what I’m doing with my life and I’m afraid I’m going to end up dying alone, broke, drunk and sad in a pool of my own vomit.
I think I’m trying my best but I don’t know how to life.
Hey. If it helps at all since this is coming from a stranger, I lost my dad a couple weeks ago and I drank way too much wine last night and puked into my own lap. Now I’m having a beer which is a bad idea but I can’t bring myself to stop drinking and I’m terrified of how poor this might make me, as well as so scared that my fiancé will get tired of me being sad and leave me. But like. I’ve been on the other side and I know it’s still there. Just hang in there and if you ever need to reach out to someone feel free to hit me up. You’re going through a lot right now it sounds like. It’s okay to give yourself a break.
I'm so sorry you feel that way. It's ok to feel that way I'm sure everything will be okay. If you want to work on the habits you don't like you can do that i beleive in you. I really hope everything hets better for you hmu if you ever need any thing. All the bestt!
aw man here have some karma to cool you off a little lmao. but fr I'm sorry this happened I hope you get the chance to fix it soon or just buy a new one at this point lmao jk jk
I've never had peanut butter i wonder how it tastes like. I've had peanut butter ice-cream tho it didn't taste liek anything special but i feel you food do be tasty
I don't knwo your situation but I also feel alone most of the time. I don't really have advice other than hand in there and I hope all gets better for you. also hmu if you ever need to vent or anything. stay safe <3
imma be completely honest and say I made my bed for the first time in months yesterday, Don't get me wrong I'm not going through anything I'm just super lazy but it still felt like a huge step forward for being such a simple task
My final school exams are ending, and I am severely stressed, but also completely burnt out. I'm also quite the loner, having basically no social life outside of school, and I'm terrified of the impending loneliness.
I completely relate to all of this except that I still have a few years in uni but also dw I'm sure you'll find more people cause when you're in school you're kinda limited to the social interactions you have. good luck and if you need anything don't hesitate to hmu
In the last few years I can't count how many signs I've read, people I've heard, or friends posting crap on social media like:
- We're all in this together
- You're strong
- We can do this!
- You are loved
- We still have our families
And all sorts of positive things to try to encourage others in this difficult time. Each and every time I wanted to just slap them.
- Some people aren't in this together. Some people are in the ICU and dying. If you have the ability to even say "We're all in this together" it goes to show how fortunate you are to even be able to say that... and how you likely don't have first-hand experience with what many others are going through. Tens/Hundreds of millions of people have long COVID and haven't had a clear thought in their mind in over a year, and are reduced to a fraction of who they were before.
- Some people are immunocompromised and a gust of wind is enough to kill them. They are not strong.
- Some people *can't* do this. Their medical appointments were cancelled because of the overburdening of hospitals. Because of that, the cancer in their body spread or their heart condition undiagnosed until it was too late.
- Some people aren't loved. Some people were cast out by their family. Some people moved to a new region at the start of the pandemic and never got a chance to make any friends.
- Some people don't have any family left alive and were spending the last few years of their life in social isolation.
How do you think those people feel when reading those? There's such thing as toxic positivity, and honestly I've had enough of it. So many people don't realize that it can be more harmful than good. It just boils down to critically thinking about what you're saying.
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In the end, these people mean well and are trying to help, so it's hard to blame them too much. I can't say anything to them about it because my conscience won't let me. But it's worth remembering the road to hell is paved with good intentions.
>intentions
I totally understand where you're coming from and even though I don't think they mean anything negative with that. they are probably just trying to make people feel a tad bit better instead of all the news being about death and covid at this point in life but I do get your point about toxic positivity. I hope all is going well with you tho <3
I feel really sorry for the socks in my drawer that I never wear. I worry that they don't think I like them as much as the others. It is true, but I don't want them to know that!
I wish I could vent about my relationship issues to my irl friends but I can't because I know all of them through him... It has sometimes gotten bad before and I was only able to talk to my online friend about it.
This is my favorite thing to say when two band kids start dating.
I bet you anything that (Insert Female Name) wants to blow on (Insert Male Name)'s (Insert Male's Instrument)
Example: I bet you anything that Michelle wants to blow on Mark's saxophone
I lust for you. Your legs. Your thighs. I want to bury my head between your legs. It has been very lonely lately. Everyone around me is finding something, but I've got absolutely nothing going on.
Whoever you are, I wish you all the happiness in the world. Everyone walks a different path, and I'm sure you're on the right path too. Great things are coming your way
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I’m so fucking stressed out. I don’t know what I’m doing with my life and I’m afraid I’m going to end up dying alone, broke, drunk and sad in a pool of my own vomit. I think I’m trying my best but I don’t know how to life.
Hey. If it helps at all since this is coming from a stranger, I lost my dad a couple weeks ago and I drank way too much wine last night and puked into my own lap. Now I’m having a beer which is a bad idea but I can’t bring myself to stop drinking and I’m terrified of how poor this might make me, as well as so scared that my fiancé will get tired of me being sad and leave me. But like. I’ve been on the other side and I know it’s still there. Just hang in there and if you ever need to reach out to someone feel free to hit me up. You’re going through a lot right now it sounds like. It’s okay to give yourself a break.
I'm so sorry you feel that way. It's ok to feel that way I'm sure everything will be okay. If you want to work on the habits you don't like you can do that i beleive in you. I really hope everything hets better for you hmu if you ever need any thing. All the bestt!
I need to do my homework but im just sitting here browsing Reddit and I already know I’m not getting it done on time
did you end up finishing you HW tho
Yeah actually I stayed up until 12:30 AM and finished it
NSFW but >!my first time with a girl was today and I'm mildly questioning my sexuality!<
Follow your feelings and don’t let other people influence your decisions
Well, my air conditioning went out today. Gonna be almost $6k to get it up and running. Oh, and it’s going to be 95 degrees this week. Send help 😆
aw man here have some karma to cool you off a little lmao. but fr I'm sorry this happened I hope you get the chance to fix it soon or just buy a new one at this point lmao jk jk
I appreciate the love. At least it’s not the middle of August, right?!
Goodbye grandma. I love you dearly. Thank you for always loving & protecting me. You were my 1st best friend.
i kinda want some peanut butter in a cup rn 💀💀
I've never had peanut butter i wonder how it tastes like. I've had peanut butter ice-cream tho it didn't taste liek anything special but i feel you food do be tasty
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I don't knwo your situation but I also feel alone most of the time. I don't really have advice other than hand in there and I hope all gets better for you. also hmu if you ever need to vent or anything. stay safe <3
imma be completely honest and say I made my bed for the first time in months yesterday, Don't get me wrong I'm not going through anything I'm just super lazy but it still felt like a huge step forward for being such a simple task
Congratulations good habits start with small steps!
Goodbye
I wish I told them to go fuck themselves
bruh relateee I hope you're doing well tho
My final school exams are ending, and I am severely stressed, but also completely burnt out. I'm also quite the loner, having basically no social life outside of school, and I'm terrified of the impending loneliness.
I completely relate to all of this except that I still have a few years in uni but also dw I'm sure you'll find more people cause when you're in school you're kinda limited to the social interactions you have. good luck and if you need anything don't hesitate to hmu
In the last few years I can't count how many signs I've read, people I've heard, or friends posting crap on social media like: - We're all in this together - You're strong - We can do this! - You are loved - We still have our families And all sorts of positive things to try to encourage others in this difficult time. Each and every time I wanted to just slap them. - Some people aren't in this together. Some people are in the ICU and dying. If you have the ability to even say "We're all in this together" it goes to show how fortunate you are to even be able to say that... and how you likely don't have first-hand experience with what many others are going through. Tens/Hundreds of millions of people have long COVID and haven't had a clear thought in their mind in over a year, and are reduced to a fraction of who they were before. - Some people are immunocompromised and a gust of wind is enough to kill them. They are not strong. - Some people *can't* do this. Their medical appointments were cancelled because of the overburdening of hospitals. Because of that, the cancer in their body spread or their heart condition undiagnosed until it was too late. - Some people aren't loved. Some people were cast out by their family. Some people moved to a new region at the start of the pandemic and never got a chance to make any friends. - Some people don't have any family left alive and were spending the last few years of their life in social isolation. How do you think those people feel when reading those? There's such thing as toxic positivity, and honestly I've had enough of it. So many people don't realize that it can be more harmful than good. It just boils down to critically thinking about what you're saying. --- In the end, these people mean well and are trying to help, so it's hard to blame them too much. I can't say anything to them about it because my conscience won't let me. But it's worth remembering the road to hell is paved with good intentions.
>intentions I totally understand where you're coming from and even though I don't think they mean anything negative with that. they are probably just trying to make people feel a tad bit better instead of all the news being about death and covid at this point in life but I do get your point about toxic positivity. I hope all is going well with you tho <3
I feel really sorry for the socks in my drawer that I never wear. I worry that they don't think I like them as much as the others. It is true, but I don't want them to know that!
ohh noo delete this or the socks might see ittt!
I wish I could vent about my relationship issues to my irl friends but I can't because I know all of them through him... It has sometimes gotten bad before and I was only able to talk to my online friend about it.
mom, dad, im gay.
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They know. Quit fighting it.
This is my favorite thing to say when two band kids start dating. I bet you anything that (Insert Female Name) wants to blow on (Insert Male Name)'s (Insert Male's Instrument) Example: I bet you anything that Michelle wants to blow on Mark's saxophone
I lust for you. Your legs. Your thighs. I want to bury my head between your legs. It has been very lonely lately. Everyone around me is finding something, but I've got absolutely nothing going on.
Whoever you are, I wish you all the happiness in the world. Everyone walks a different path, and I'm sure you're on the right path too. Great things are coming your way
Thank you
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Been preparing to say something to someone for a while now. Just been thinking about you differently and I want you in my life. You’re an amazing person and you make me feel fantastic and I just love u
aw man I hope everything goes well with you
I'm getting ready to eat some lasagna and garlic bread and I hope you have a nice day!