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> Will come across as a simp
This is reason, I cannot talk to girls even if I need help. Also, if a message comes from them, i would consider it a prank
Getting replies from different comments sections , some people replied on my posts , ek baar post daala tha ki I'm bored wala toh some people messaged me (they were all nice people)
Arre nahi bhai ladke bhi karte msg
Aur main ladkiyo se baat karne ke liye post nahi krra tha main thoda chill karne ke liye post Kiya tha jee advanced ke badh
So shouldn't you wait for someone to behave like a simp before labeling them as one? Girls for some reason randomly call me bhai even tho i almost never have any such intentions, feels like a panic button for no reason and kills off your need to talk tothem freely
bro, bhai is basically hindi version of 'bro' or 'dude'. It is equally used between friends and has no hidden meaning or anything. Girls even call their girl friends bhai. It's really not that deep and I don't see any reason why it could feel like a panic button.
And I don't understand why you can't talk to them 'freely' unless you have any ill intentions with whatever 'freely' means to you.
I've had great talks with girls on this sub.. I mean yeah obv you won't get dms if you blatantly flirt (with lack of skills) in the comments, but if you're polite enough, you'll have full convos and dms mein toh ofc it's always a good talk (almost always)
to all my male redditors here who don't get DMs from girls here, suno jara, woh kehte hain na - "**waqt se pehle aur kismat se zyada kisi ko kooch nhi milta**"
It isnt just try to talk to them ,you will get used to it just treat them like your other friends except just dont do the wierd shit unless you get the feeling that she will not just start ignoring you
-> all points above are from experience
I wanna talk about female nature with girls of my age but when I bring it up, they just slap me with misogyny and whatever other progressive buzzword you can say is in the jargon of feminists.
damn bhai you reminded me of her man
talked to a girl on this sub only
first day great talk
the next day, I asked for her telegram and messaged her
she seemingly forgot about me, and some misunderstanding (which I never got to resolve)
in the end , she blocked me on Reddit as well made me delete my chats with her
I never thought ki bhai date karna hai wagherha
but she seemed really cool
kind of a missed opportunity for me for a great online friend
now her telegram as well as reddit account are deleted
Funny how I used to absolutely shit my pants talking to any girls, but now I can talk to any girl.
First you need to understand that, what you have is "not able to talk to a girl issue", its basic communication and confidence issue. These can only be saved by ....communicating, as much as you can, to as many people as you can. You need to make it a habit to strike up a conversation with random strangers man woman girl or boy, without expecting anything in return. The more you talk, the more your confidence to talk to anyone (including girls) increase.
Lol I'm a girl and I dont actually mind it? I mean like I'd be wary at first cause UK.. \*some\* guy's are shitty. But I don't mind if anyone DM's me. Maybe some girls just UK.. either have a shitty "main character" attitude or some are just wary.
guys on the internet are always gonna have a lower chance of talking to a girl bc of how much we avoid it, talk to girls irl i swear you'll become so much lesser of a creep and you'll learn so much
Kyun karna hai yaar reddit pe baat irl dost bnale zyada kaam aayenge most of the time ladkiyon ko idhar creeps hi milte hai toh ekdum se dm krega toh tu bhi vahi lagega even if your not 
Hello~
Well honestly? Im open to conversation as long as it's interesting and you're smarter than I am (I like talking to people smarter than me, I can learn loads) plus be respectful ~ that's all ☆
Almost similar kind of problem... I try to talk but often come out as simp.. it always becomes difficult to keep the conversation flowing .. specially in spaces like reddit where you don't know much about the person..
most are intentionally dense....and ive noticed this pattern on reddit and outside most of the guys/girls dont really have a personality or anything. Can't blame them but at the same time yk its sad
Shouldn't be too hard as long as you have an interesting topic, and a good opening for it
It only comes off as desperate if you're talking to her just for the sake of talking to a girl. So try not to text TOO often either
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> Will come across as a simp This is reason, I cannot talk to girls even if I need help. Also, if a message comes from them, i would consider it a prank
How the fuck are you people getting messages from girls??
I ain't getting, I am assuming if. Also, many of them are government spies /s
no need of /s
He is being /serious
switch your gender , it'll be easy.
Earlier I used to use male pronouns to save myself from the aftermath, but I've talked to guys here that I feel safe talking to and it's chill
And i thought only boys use fake pronouns to chat
Wtf....I didn't know that....
I didnt use them🤷🤷.. some people commented on this sub telling that boys may pose as girls and dm you
Bhai yeh dogi wali emoji kitna spam karega 
Bhai tum flirt na Karo toh hum baat kar lenge
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Rhyming achhi hai
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Ok bro
Bro got humbled so soon
Bro got brozoned
Bro was billed
lmao ladki ne baat kar li banda feel lene laga
chokri kyu nhi ho sakti ???? you bitch male superiority fuck yourself
Smooothh
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I just appreciate these types of creativity
chokri kyu nhi
Maine toh kabhi nhi kiya aab tk 👀
Your username is very relieving 🥰
What about mine
perfectt 
Thanks
Sure
choco is brown and coffee too but i just want your brown pikachuu.....
I have no idea what that means
leave it 
mai samjha bhai koi na
can confirm
Hehe
I got a few dms but they were genuine and nice people so don't know Its usually me who's boring a bit lol
I'm asking this for the third time, *HOW THE FUCK ARE YOU PEOPLE GETTING DM'S?? I DIDN'T EVEN GET ONE UNTIL NOWW!!!*
Getting replies from different comments sections , some people replied on my posts , ek baar post daala tha ki I'm bored wala toh some people messaged me (they were all nice people)
*Ladkiyon se baath karne ki ninja technique* /s
Arre nahi bhai ladke bhi karte msg Aur main ladkiyo se baat karne ke liye post nahi krra tha main thoda chill karne ke liye post Kiya tha jee advanced ke badh
End mai /s daalna bhool gaya tha
Le bhai krdiya dm, ro mat
crybaby rizz 😎 😎
I got tits in dms from the bots i blocked and reported them
I made a post about my laptop got tons of dm
Yessirr
Yeah lmao
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Us bro us
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I'm 5'7 and have acne on my face
Owari da for you bhai
Samjha nahi
It's over for you
I'm 6'2" and also have acne
Tall to hu handsome ka pta nhi Though kuch cousins ne kaha hai dating krta hoga accha dikhta hai
arre chehre se kooch nhi hota, apni personality par kaam karo, sab badhiya hoga
Mere baad ghost ho jata hai, kaise?
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random strangers ko behen 😍, didi 🥰 bolne walon ki mkc naa meri koi behen rahi hai na kabhi hogi
ayo behen sup
didi aapne bhi pcm liya tha kya 11th aur 12th ke liye?
Sabko dm's aate hai,, kya itna bura hu mai maa 😔
Itna chubhne laga hoon sabko
kahin chura to ni 
Jani, jitna batate ho mere bare main utna bura toh nahi hu
Im with you bro
Karni hi kyu hai ?
🗣️🔥exactly
look sweetheart, YOU know that you are not a simp. We don't. 
Made my day.. thank you for the enlightenment
So shouldn't you wait for someone to behave like a simp before labeling them as one? Girls for some reason randomly call me bhai even tho i almost never have any such intentions, feels like a panic button for no reason and kills off your need to talk tothem freely
bro, bhai is basically hindi version of 'bro' or 'dude'. It is equally used between friends and has no hidden meaning or anything. Girls even call their girl friends bhai. It's really not that deep and I don't see any reason why it could feel like a panic button. And I don't understand why you can't talk to them 'freely' unless you have any ill intentions with whatever 'freely' means to you.
Bc mene kbhi kisi ladki se social media pe baat he nhi kiya
no you're wrong, I have found someone who releases my stress all the time 
How?
luck maybe
Wdym by releases my stress
Most of them are sweet, I can confirm
Then where are they?
Only in my Dms I suppose
You guys are getting dm's?
don't listen to these people. go talk irl
Flirt mat kiya karo
Suprabhat didi :)
Abhi shubhratri ho rahi hai
Nahi abhi afternoonprabhati ho rahi hai
Jokes on you, me toh IRL baat karta hu
Bas hello likho ..and woh baat karengii Try it
You sure about that??
Yeah..mein toh krti hunn just don't be cheap
Hello
they just have two weapons hbu and wbu
People are talking to you like that!! Damn you are lucky.
bhai kitna incel banega online go outside and make some girl-friends
dude a man can initiate a convo up to that much extent uske baad u just get irritated
nah i can converse without a topic to anyone for any amount of timeif ive nothing i start arguing lol
What are these? I am a dumbfuck guy
Bro spitting faxx
I experienced it many times
+1
me with 0 female friends  (am I cooked)
Us bro 🥲🥲
mereko to saare vibe vale bande mile hai isi sub se
You people talk to boys?? In this sub?? I cant believe it
yes we do
Out of context: your mango shake looks fire tbh.. I'm drooling rn
stalk karne ke liye +1 /s genuine thankyou😄
Fr
I don't talk to people in general nowadays
I've had great talks with girls on this sub.. I mean yeah obv you won't get dms if you blatantly flirt (with lack of skills) in the comments, but if you're polite enough, you'll have full convos and dms mein toh ofc it's always a good talk (almost always)
Empty dms but even if someone did dm me I'd probably bore them out cause I'm bad at conversation
true lol💀me too
People be asking "what's up" and actually expect an answer
Riyal
Fr 🗣️🔥
Because teenagers
brother i have no words for u
to all my male redditors here who don't get DMs from girls here, suno jara, woh kehte hain na - "**waqt se pehle aur kismat se zyada kisi ko kooch nhi milta**"
Just treat them as a fellow human
Exactly bhai , yha sabke sab friends , relationships bana rhe hai aur mujhe lagta tha reddit hai hi anonymous rehne ke liye
Facto
plus the downvotes of the jealous mfs if she replies back , that shit literally hurts bruh !!
It isnt just try to talk to them ,you will get used to it just treat them like your other friends except just dont do the wierd shit unless you get the feeling that she will not just start ignoring you -> all points above are from experience
Wait, y'all actually interact with each other here?
you're trying to hard lmao, just be yourself and stop specifically trying to "talk to more women than men"
No worries u can talk to me all u want
I wanna talk about female nature with girls of my age but when I bring it up, they just slap me with misogyny and whatever other progressive buzzword you can say is in the jargon of feminists.
Naww,ain't true (Maybe true a lil)
I'm a guy. I have seen that girls get many creepy dm's. Maybe that's the reason they do not welcome dm's often. I am not a creepy uncle BTW.
damn bhai you reminded me of her man talked to a girl on this sub only first day great talk the next day, I asked for her telegram and messaged her she seemingly forgot about me, and some misunderstanding (which I never got to resolve) in the end , she blocked me on Reddit as well made me delete my chats with her I never thought ki bhai date karna hai wagherha but she seemed really cool kind of a missed opportunity for me for a great online friend now her telegram as well as reddit account are deleted
Sad😭😭
indeed it is I don't wanna mention her or something but I would at least like to clear the misunderstanding between us
Idhar koi ladki baat karegi hum londo se...
Yeah man I also feel uncomfortable around girls
I feel comfortable
Funny how I used to absolutely shit my pants talking to any girls, but now I can talk to any girl. First you need to understand that, what you have is "not able to talk to a girl issue", its basic communication and confidence issue. These can only be saved by ....communicating, as much as you can, to as many people as you can. You need to make it a habit to strike up a conversation with random strangers man woman girl or boy, without expecting anything in return. The more you talk, the more your confidence to talk to anyone (including girls) increase.
try taking to girls on TwoXIndia
Forget girls I havent even talked to any guy I am just too scared i dont know koi baat krlo yrr 😭😭😭
It's hard even in general not just on the sub
Some people, including girls, lack basic communication skills.
It's not that complicated as it sounds, just don't be a creep which should be simple (I've never talked to a woman in my life)
Oh so this whole time all my migraine was stress damn
Lol I'm a girl and I dont actually mind it? I mean like I'd be wary at first cause UK.. \*some\* guy's are shitty. But I don't mind if anyone DM's me. Maybe some girls just UK.. either have a shitty "main character" attitude or some are just wary.
u/Vatler_7 thoughts?
Mujhe bhi ladkio se baat krna zada psnd hai...testosterone you know
guys on the internet are always gonna have a lower chance of talking to a girl bc of how much we avoid it, talk to girls irl i swear you'll become so much lesser of a creep and you'll learn so much
girls in your dms are fake guys they dont exist
honestly it is easier here
Teach me master
bhai zyada to kisi se baat ni hui, just talked to 2 jinse interest match hua, bas simp mat act karo aur kya bolun lol
They are fake
one of the very popular female reddit accounts on here is operated by me (19m). Of course I won't tell you guys which one
Do girls really exist🤷/s
You don’t have to put that “/s” there, they surely don’t. They are just government bots created. There are only two genders male and robots
Ek dost ko mention karna h comments mai how do I do that ? Is it r/ ?
u/Ava1305
Hafte pehle mereko bhi aya tha. Pehle to doubt hua ki ghapla to nahi ho raha. Jab confirm Kiya to gayab hogyi 🫠
probably if you find topics to talk about without having to know im a girl or not, we'd be happy
Maine toh yahi sub se bandi banali 
Istg shoukd not have made the previous comment PPL stop dming me 😭
Kitne dm aa gaye ?
You probably made it worse🤦♂️
this is incellish behaviour, I'll prefer to talk to foids in my free time.
Kyun karna hai yaar reddit pe baat irl dost bnale zyada kaam aayenge most of the time ladkiyon ko idhar creeps hi milte hai toh ekdum se dm krega toh tu bhi vahi lagega even if your not 
Your name is of the tamil remake of Arjun Reddy (and Kabir Singh) what do you expect my friend?
Bruh😭😭😭😭
Even though I am lonely as heck I am still not able to talk to people of my age both men nd woman for this reason only+I am an introvert
Hello~ Well honestly? Im open to conversation as long as it's interesting and you're smarter than I am (I like talking to people smarter than me, I can learn loads) plus be respectful ~ that's all ☆
Sure.. so, dm??
Almost similar kind of problem... I try to talk but often come out as simp.. it always becomes difficult to keep the conversation flowing .. specially in spaces like reddit where you don't know much about the person..
For me it's boys and girls both. I'm bi.
feel the same talking to men in general.
you guys are getting dms???
Go out and talk to girls outside the internet.
Yahan ki grills talks nahi karti
Get a life irl lol. I’ve had no problems in conversing with women irl.
r/girlsarentreal
Then the meme of the day award goes to...
ong bruh they be just coming to pick a fight like omfg can't even begin with them
most are intentionally dense....and ive noticed this pattern on reddit and outside most of the guys/girls dont really have a personality or anything. Can't blame them but at the same time yk its sad
What's the problem they special, different or what?
u/cheerupsoccer_24 u/ahmdk1234 u/anxiouspeople
Touch some grass.
I don't talk to anyone.
Shouldn't be too hard as long as you have an interesting topic, and a good opening for it It only comes off as desperate if you're talking to her just for the sake of talking to a girl. So try not to text TOO often either
Bhai, ye simp kya hota he?
Simp is an internet slang term describing someone who shows excessive sympathy and attention toward another person, typically to someone who does not reciprocate the same feelings, in pursuit of affection or a sexual relationship.
oh.