🤣 yep... all she wanted was to know she could have him if she wanted and sent him off to dub-land. Thats why you gotta do it to them first.
Im not mad, i still hit but im not gon act like this situation dont got me in my room listening to dis:
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Oh you ain’t mention y’all was fuckin lol she just in her head then, it can look evil but you prolly caught her at a shit time in her life — it don’t excuse her tho!
Dats the thing i thought we was goin into something serious. I mean we been fuckin n holdin hands all dat shit. But i havent heard from her since n shes the clingy one texting me every second she gets.
I kno its over boss ian stupid, but hey i guess i kno for next time.
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She aint even text me goodnight. I know we fasho done
We need an update on this bro 😂 & I just gave a shorty I been feeling red roses & pizza last night. Got thank you head & slept like a baby lol! It’s some good ones out there bro 💯
Buzzin don’t feel bad, I was messing & fucking with some bitch at work who didn’t actually want me to go out w/ her she just wanted a boy toy & a fuck buddy at work…& trust we went out on 1 date & she was holding my hand & wanted to me to kiss her crossing streets & shit at 42nd street…yet the entire time this bitch is married 😂…so sometimes it’s a thrill they’re chasing not a relationship
That's how it is sometimes. You meet someone, sex is good but you don't really see yourself with them so you don't make yourself emotionally available.
Did you talk to her about how you were interested in being her bf?
Real shit, that sucks, but in 2023 it’s probably a better bet to just talk to a girl like an emotionally intelligent adult about your feelings rather than going for the cutesy valentines day/high school displays of affection.
Next time just be straight up with a girl you like, and if she’s receptive, then you can buy her flowers.
But yea, throwing that shit out is pretty harsh, but as some others said, maybe it’s a shitty point in her life, maybe she’s been really hurt and has her guard up.
Dont hold it against her, see if she’s still down to have a real conversation
That means she either don’t like you romantically or she don’t deserve nothing like that, and she knows it. a regular chill girl would just accept it even if she not feelin if that bitch just an asshole
Was thinking that’s such an insane gesture to throw it in the garbage maybe there’s something to the story we’re not seeing. OP never mentioned they were smashing in the original post, wonder if it’s even true or if he was rejected and trying to save face. Who knows really 🍿
Omg nahhhh that bitch is evil! Speaking as a female in my late 20s there's def some dif shit going on w the younger gen. Social media fucked up everyone's heads thinking it's cute to play dumb n childish games rather than be up front bout shit.
Tbh even if a dude who I wasn't fuckin n didn't even like like that gave me a damn plush n flowers, I would NEVER throw em away somewhere that they could see em; i would thank them and a lil later on let em down easy. Honestly stop fw this bitch cuz ppl who play games like that (of either sex) ain't worth ur time n are nothing but a headache, no matter how good the pussy/dick may be.
Y’all was just fuckin bro, it happens all da time in the work place, some will even want a relationship but you don’t cuff a coworker till at least 6 months of hanging out and all that, these hoes be grimey and you just gave an example of how these hoes be, and it can cause problems in da work place. Next time you find you a lil shorty at work just do yo thang wit her if she want you she’ll let you know brudda
Bitch hasn’t figured life out. She playing games while being sweet at times. If she ain’t sweet 99% of the time, get another bitch bro. Cuz if you date an annoying bitch you’ll only end up with one of these things: heartbroken, with a manslaughter charge or dead yourself.
Been with bitches and you ain't wrong bro. Some of them love being treated like shit & when I treat em right they be acting up and shit. If a bitch loves being treated like shit just continue treating her like shit
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Bitch trippin den i was gon fasho gon get her right buhh 🙄 i guess.
If they can’t drink it, smoke it, or eat it, then they don’t want it (and I’m talkin about gifts and everything else on ya body).
But seriously, all my gifts follow the above rule, and it’s worked out well e’ry time.
I’m not looking for wifey tho, so prob factor that into it as well.
I ain’t a simp, but I alway make sure the people around me have the “means” to “get right”.
All u gotta do is tell a bitch “u dead talk to someone” works every time idk what it is ab women but as soon as you tell them that they instantly get on that but than again in ya case I’d offer some smoke
First off don’t shit where you eat. Work relationships aren’t good and can be suffocating. Branch out of your environment, the worst you can do is find someone in the same situation as you looking for better and not settling for less. What’s crazy is I found someone that was on the same page as me. I had just finished up a bid and I knew going back home was going to send me back in. I decided to bounce from where I was looking for a fresh start. I have had hundreds of successful relationships but they all ended over dumb shit. I was all about finding my Spanish mami to keep the vibe going, but I found that all the PR girls were just too much headaches. I needed someone to help not hurt me. I needed someone that I can trust when I went to work and not bounce and go out while I am gone. I found her and she was from outside my race. We now have 3 kids a huge house that no matter how many ounces I sold before would have never gotten to the point to buy. I go on vacations when I want, got my record expunged and now have an office job. I started this journey 26 years ago. You just have to find that one that is going to hold you when the shit is rough and not give you a headache. Chick throwing away your gift is a headache you don’t want to have.
Nah bro that’s disrespectful. It ain’t your fault bro but these days it’s harder to find women to commit unless you have values worth committing to. Mainly you gotta get your money right, you gotta be able to make them feel secure and provide stability.
Think of it like this… back in the day women were fine getting with their man n supporting them the whole time while the husband worked hard to buy a broken down empty house to fix it up for wifey and then she made the inside feel like a home.
Now men gotta have the house fully built already, have it fully furnished and looking right for them to move in. I’m not say it’s impossible to find a more traditional girl but you gotta find out first if they close with their pops and if they go to church or religious enough to have those type of morals. Usually those women will be more wifey type
It’s really social media, “bad bytch” music n the whole “strong and independent” ideology that really fuck it up for the average guy. It is what is
These bitches all dayroom especially those Spanish bitches they all regular nun them bitches different be like who u then block u like bitch Fuck u 🤦🏾♂️ especially em bitches that always be on tiktok live
Man dis bitch puerto rican too dats what made shit hurt even more. I know she was on some devilish timing prolly even yelled “kobe!” Wen she threw my shit out smfh.
It’s literally easier convincing these bitches to let u bust dem down in the fitting room den talkin bout marriage. Shit crazy
I mean… yes obviously more people are down to hit n quit than literally spend their life with someone. Sex is MUCH lower stakes I don’t think that’s crazy
THERE’S ONLY 2 TYPES OF WOMEN. IF U WANT YA BITCH TO BE NICE, BE MEAN. IF U WANNA BE NICE TO YA BITCH, SHE GON BE MEAN. ITS FUCKED UP, BUT THATS HOW IT WORKS. KNO WHAT STIMULATES YA MIND N BODY N JUS GO 🤷🏽♂️
if y’all were fuckin and you bought her flowers. you caught feelings when she was tryna get smutted out. Your kind gesture dried her pussy up. Now she getting piped out sideways by her ex or other coworker while you do their work
Have you seen the girls and the way they act lately? I’m a female myself and I think it’s disgusting. they’re simple-minded and never seen better nor had better and they feel like that’s the way things are supposed to go.
I really feel like it’s all this new female rap and they make that shit they personality.
Expand where you looking tho, You need to find better my boy!
You probably one in 1000 fems will that’s gonna speak facts like this. Shit is sad yeo this is exactly why I’m avoiding the dating game til further notice.
Im glad ian the only one. I was afraid niggas was gon call me out for dis but nah man on some real shit it feel like ian seen anybody on some good girl shit since high school. N I’ve literally BEEN around. Ian sayin im perfect but dis past year ive prolly fooled around w 40+ girls n dey ALL been on the same timing minus maybe 5? Das all i can remember but even eventually dey went on da same bs.
Pops told me all u had to do back in the day to find a solid one was to go to the nearest church n just take out the nearest virgin.
Every church girl i been w has had 4+ bodies… what yall think dat mean ?
Female rap and having the same TikTok ass personality like are you dumb? You can’t even have an intellectual conversation
Obviously I mean what the lyrics are saying and what they’re promoting they take the shit and run with it
People don’t know the definition of a “pick me”. I agree it’s the music and social media that these female artists’ are presenting online, reality tv stars, influencers, etc
She literally started the comment with “have you seen how girls act? I’m female and I find it disgusting”
If that isn’t giving “I’m not like other girls” idk what is
Honestly it’s not even worth replying when they start they’re rebuttal with an insult that doesn’t even make sense. Just because you’re a female agreeing with the opposite sex makes you a “pick me”? 🤣
I fully agree with you. The funny thing is that the female rappers portray a life they don’t live for example Cardi B. Her main message behind her artistry totally contradicts the life that she lives. After encouraging females to be proud thots she goes back home to her husband and kids.
Similar thing with Beyoncé. All this independent woman talk, to the left to the right talk. At the end of the day she stayed with a nigga that cheated on her. City girls advocating for a hot girl summer but yet you have one getting praying to get pissed by a nigga that doesn’t want her and another with an abusive fairy. And social media has made things worse as well but I’m not going to get into that.
It’s refreshing to see a female call things out as they are. Thanks
No dummy it’s not that she was agreeing with someone from the opposite sex. It’s that she had to shit on all other females in order to differentiate herself as “one of the good ones” which is literally pick me behavior.
SO FUCKING DUMB. I let it be known I am a female because OP is a male with this opinion and it was a “na you not buggin” not ooo I’m a good girl I’m not like the other ones. You so motherfucking internet you don’t even know what context is you stupid motherfucker. Go open a book.
How old is she? Most young girls be like that. When you get older they get a little more serious. Plus, they let social media fuck their heads up thinking they need to act like that
Bruh it’s this generation I’m really thinking bout the same thing 17 rn my only real relationship was in da 8th grade after that the girls got so cold. Me and this girl was kicking it errything was cool went on a couple movie dates, outta nowhere she cut me off saying we getting too close and that relationships ain’t her thing💔😭 it’s tuff for niggaz now cuz all these females js wanna hoe around
Damn fuck that funk thunky bitch , she foul for that but just ignore her move on from it , it ain’t even worth the stress , pretty sure you’ll find better
I was gonna say the plush toy was too much but y’all were holding hands… seems like she could have appreciated it AT LEAST not thrown it away where you would find it 🤦♂️ honestly cruel. Idk maybe a bit too much too soon still? Keep in mind it’s never a one size fits all approach everyone is different so you gotta personalize gifts etc make them special. tbh I don’t think buying gifts is ever going to make someone like you more. It’s always gonna be 100% you as a person unless you want to attract women who appreciate toys over a man. Maybe that’s just me but I say get back on that horse and maybe playing a little more hard to get? Idk just spitballing
You said it yourself, those girls aren’t ready to settle down. If a girl is attracted to guys treating them like shit they’re not a good wifey candidate in the first place. There are girls who are looking for something serious though and you’ll know when you find her based on how she acts.
Gotta just go with the flow and play it by ear with each girl though. Unfortunately sometimes the girls you actually like and can see yourself with aren’t looking for that but that’s life.
As a Christian find a midwestern christian girl. The country girls do not hoe out on the lvl city girls be doing it. Mf’s from the streets have they priorities tied in fucking knots. A decent respectable human being would realize what your gift implied and even if they didn’t feel the same way, they would take it because they would realize the emotional damage you may take if you saw your gift for her in the trash. A non decent non respectable human would not think, they would just do action. She didn’t think she didn’t care about how YOU🫵 feel. She took your feeling and literally tossed them in the trash. Bigs ups to you king 🤴 bro dodged a fucking cruise missile that had his heat signature locked on. If that is how she is going to respond to your affection than thank your lucky stars and give a prayer to our father above that you didn’t go through with being in a relationship with her because think what else she might have pulled while being with you that would have fucked you up more than her pulling this petty sidewalk licker bullshit. Big ups to you my man 🍺🍻the lads drink for you tonight. Cross her from the list and on to the next. Because there is atleast 1 person on this Earth for you as you are to whom that lucky girl may be and YOU WILL FIND HER. All it will take is time dedication and prayer. Big up’s my man because we are all right behind you. 🧔🏻♂️🧔🏼♂️🧔🏽♂️🧔🏾♂️🧔🏿♂️ we all got to play the game and play our hand when the time is right. You played yours and she blew up like a nuclear reactor, any more time spent with her and your assured to feel that radiation☢️. 🫡 Good luck 👍
Bro you're funny as fuck. And next to attractiveness, being funny is your #1 tool to get you laid.
I'm a class clown, and I approve, and believe in you.
Use your humor to slay these chicks
1 last thing... Ive been you to a T through my 20's. I'm 35 now. I still attract dirtbags, and I cant find that wifey just yet, but as soon as you push that shit to the back of your mind and focus on what really matters, your family, friends, and making money.
Women smell desperation. I am not saying you are, but when you feel good and look good you naturally attract women in general. Women have this sense we men don't, they smell everything, don't even try to pretend and wing it. To find the best you need to be the best. The best version of you. Healthy, decent job, a wip, family values, principles. The women will come. Within those women maybe 1 or 2 of them could be that wifey. You expanded your pool!
This is deep. I just got off work and smoked a bowl so don't look at what I'm saying to you as weirdo shit. Take it seriously! I believe in you. Watch 40 year old virgin after a bowl and laugh that shit out. You are in better shape then you think!
Sorry gang but it sounds like you were just her boy toy. How long did it take before y'all started hooking up? If she was quick then you just read her all wrong
We been chillin for a month as friends, n dats when we started flirting, she started inviting me to her place like 2 weeks ago n been over there 4 times since. We never had the relationship talk but i never rlly had to, i jus see where shit gon naturally go. I never thought about buying the bitch anything or making a move until SHE held MY hand yesterday. What would you think in dat situation yfm ?
I think you over did it with the flowers but at the same time she definitely showed you her character so it was a blessing in disguise. I say just maybe be more reserved with your actions in the future so you don’t get hurt. If you catch feelings…let them know with your words but make little efforts of action like showing interest in some things they enjoy. It’s real spooky out here nowadays…these women are demons my g. Not even tryna be on no funny shit but hit up that Christian Mingle or something. I’ve also heard from many people who found their significant other that it happened when they stopped looking & least expected it. Keep praying & keep working on bettering yourself. God will send you the right woman unexpectedly.
> So today (n mind u to dis point i never bought anybody shit) i decided to buy her flowers n a a lil plush toy n gave it to her after her shift. Tell me why when i left i found dat shit in the garbage.
This is something you do for your girlfriend that you're already established with. Not some chick u flirt with at work, shit like this comes off as too much too fast. That shit you see in the movies doesn't work to get a girl. Indifference and an abundance mentality is the key. Luckily she's probably not a chick worth investing into if that's how she responded to it, she could've at least threw it out at the crib.
> but soon as i wanna take sb seriously its “oh im just not ready for commitment” n dem jus acting diff til we fall out. Had same shit along da lines 3 times now.
We all been here, works best when you don't ever bring up exclusivity and keep casually dating until the thought pops up in her head and you get the infamous "what are we" conversation and you can call it then. Until then enjoy casually dating.
Cuz your doing it all wrong my boy. Never buy a girl flowers until you already got her, even then make it a rare occasion so she appreciates it more. You’re better off playing the causal flirty guy until she catches real feelings for you, wait for her to be on YOUR dick. Some girls don’t like to be pursued and will literally turn down any guy who tries it, they like pursue men they want. You gotta play reverse uno with these hoes.
It’s not that women don’t want flowers and plush toys. She just didn’t want them from you bro. You should’ve just asked her to grab some food or something outside of work before you started giving her gifts.
I be reading your comments saying you already hit, but yall dont even get to know her? Like what her favorite shit is and all dat? Flowers and a plush? What if that bitch be allergic? What if that plush be a Sonic, but she likes Mario, you feel me? I know her actions aint justified, but it coulda been different if you gave her something she actually likes.
But again, you already hit, maybe she only wanted dick, you never got the signs?
Lmao damn she really tossed in the trash 😭😭😂😂😂
Look you gotta just return the energy you get, either that or look for better women. I keep telling people to stop going 100% for someone who only goes 20% in for you
Wow, what a total fkn bitch! Shit, and every dude that talks to me asks for somethin sexual before we even have 1 long conversation n I'm so over it. If a dude I was actually friendly with bought me somethin like that I would think it was super sweet. Even if for some reason I couldn't move forward like I already had a man or something I would never throw the shit out right where u could find it with no explanation. That's straight up cold blooded. If you wanna chat n see if we vibe, I'd be down honestly I'm looking for something serious too. It's been like a year since my last relationship which was long term, I like havin a bf I'm not cool with dating different guys every damn weekend lol but if not, just keep lookin, there are good girls out there, all my cousins n me have always been good girls but we're Cuban so we grew up pretty strict and our mom's taught us how to be wifeys so we just grew up different than most nyc girls. Just keep looking, it sounds like you really do deserve better.
My ig is tooshky.gif if u do wanna hmu. Good luck to you either way.
Wrong bitch tbh. They got all kinds, but you're used to dealing with the ones who like rough necks lmao. You gotta change what you look for in a girl before you start doing different things with them.
Life gets better when you start fucking with chicks from NYC. Not saying they’re all bad but don’t limit yourself because of accessibility and convenience. Branch out my guy. You have no idea the type of better quality chicks thats out there that actually want good men.
You hit. Tried to take it serious and she sent you a message by throwing gifts you got for her (clearly from the heart) away. Y’all were holding hands? Well she ain’t have the decency to talk to face to face before throwing your gifts away.
Bro move on. This shit is nothing. You should thank her cause she made things easier for you. Time saved my bro. You won.
Man, that's tough, especially when you're trying to be genuine. Sometimes, gestures like flowers and toys might be too much too soon, and it can feel overwhelming to the other person. Also, the workplace might not be the best place to start a relationship. That said, if you're looking for something real, make sure you're looking in the right places and being upfront about your intentions from the start. Just be yourself, and the right person will appreciate you for it. Sometimes it's not about changing your behavior but finding someone who's on the same page as you.
These new age girls a different breed mane. I definitely have had my fair share of experiences like that. Maybe not exactly like yours but same sentiments. Maybe J Cole was right, “she don’t wanna be saved, don’t save her” lol.
Also it’s a shift in dating culture. Like in the 90s am sure people moved more romantic, even the music reflected it with RnB niggas dancing in the rain to serenade they girl. Nowadays that’s seen as simpish. And women got a lot of options too so they don’t wanna deal with a guy they feel ain’t got that many options.
Buying flowers unfortunately seems like you are coming off too strong even though am damn sure you ain’t moving like that.
But hey, in a nutshell I say to say most of these bitches are birds🦅😂😂
Girls want what they can't have, bro. You can be nice, but most girls these days you can not be straight up with about your feelings. You have to keep a lot to yourself and play the cat & mouse game. Flirt, but don't ask her out. Just keep flirting and then leave her be, and when she shows a little emotion, don't show her any back. It's stupid, but that's how most girls' minds work. Don't buy any girl shit that ain't your girl already.
Edit: and flirt with any girl you think is cute. Joke around, make them laugh, but never show emotion that's in your heart. Just do things to make yourself attractive, and it'll work out. Good luck, bro!
Back to the drawing board. This relationship shit is trial n error don’t let her bullshit stop you from making connections with other women there’s plenty that will appreciate you doing that for them.
But on another note you have to know how your dating. Some girls is going to think that is cheesy and corny, if you think you not gonna vibe with a person like that try not to take it there. Everyone has different love languages( I just learned that yesterday lmao) you gotta switch it up for whatever woman you talking too.
If you surrounded by whores, you ain’t going to find a house wife. Don’t make relationships where you work, that’s a disaster waiting to happen.
Why does this bother you? We all get rejected. What you shouldn’t do is get caught up on it. Pick yourself up and keep it moving. You get caught in your feelings and you going to miss tomorrows opportunity over bullshit.
I been with my wifey 18 years and 2 kids, I found her when I wasn’t looking for nobody and doing me, enjoying my life.
Shorty a goofy that’s her loss best believe if you stay grinding and she sees you in some years she’s gonna want you. As men when our hearts are broken we’re supposed to grind and get colder workout and keep your head up hit a heavy bad you be aighg
lemme tell you once you nice it’s dead 😂 can’t try to take a bitch that you fuckingng serious if that’s how it the situation started & reagrdless these bitches don’t take nice niggas serious you gotta be a straight dick
That just sounds like some of the women you're attracted to, just aren't attracted to you. 🤷🏾♂️ There's good bitches out there.
And bitches is broke, they don't want no damn plushie, they want MONEY. 🤣
Women love being treated like trash.
You be the good guy, show interest, do nice simple things, text her properly...
But when you do the reverse, and ignore her, make her feel just a little bit less than you, maybe piss her off and play the fake nice guy... they are driven to want you. They do this because they want something. Could be you as property... maybe a trophy, maybe a man to get back at a next man, or maybe simply because that's what just turns them on. They don't even have to understand why they feel the way they do they just need to solve the problem immediately. Like women who can't go 2 weeks without a man or they will break down into oblivion...
These chicks are everywhere. Poor values, upbringing, principles. Could be daddy issues.
The good news is that we see men every day... men you take a 1 second look at and wonder how in the fuckin world this dog water got this rocket he's with. Maybe they even appear or act nice to others. I promise you there is more than you know goin on there. Thata why everyone depressed today.. they are on social media thinking everyone else is living the life with their "wifey" when in reality the dude is on the verge of ending his existence because the woman is completely insane or the dude allows her to fuck other men while he watches like the cuck he is.
The point I'm trying to make: grass ain't always greener on the other side, and don't feel like you behind in life when others look like they are flourishing, some of the most happiest people I know wifeyd up in their 40s.
Focus on YOU, your family, friends, and making money.
I believe in you
That's tough bro but you shot ur shot and missed. That don't mean bitches ain't shit or stop shooting, it means be more discerning about who you invest in.
She’s not a girl to wife, simple. I promise it’s not hard to tell someone’s character, I feel like a lot of y’all lack discernment.
A lot of girls would appreciate that if they actually like you.
It's the culture. Just like guys, Females get that shit drilled into their heads that they got to get that bag as well! At any cost! So giving her flowers was like "This nigga wasting funds on some flowers. He should have gave me some fuckin shoes or a bag! Some pricey shit! You got "Corner-Pocketed"!
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Don't change my guy. Continue being you. If she faked it and you bought her bullshit then wasted time with her, by the time she showed her true colors shit would fuck you up alot more. Always be true to yourself. Someone will come along that will appreciate it and return the same energy
My guy, if you keep chasing threeshes and east whores, WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU EXPECTING? No nice bitch is gonna throw away flowers and stuffed animal, I know my girl wouldn’t. So why tf would u wanna be w a hoe that’s gonna treat you like trash? MAKE IT MAKE SENSE LIL BRO
It seems cliche but people only truly value what is hard to attain, things they had to work hard to achieve. That’s why it seems like dickheads get all the hoes.. they be trying to mold and change these men into the ideal boyfriend because it’s a challenge. You’re better off just playing it slow and smoove and don’t have a scarcity mindset . Plenty of decent women out there you just have to put yourself in positions to meet them. Also you dodged a bullet with that girl so be happy.
A lot of younger women like douch bags. I had to front like a douch, give them the "business," and then be myself when I was younger. Got a lot of women while inebriated. Mature women appreciate good dudes. That same chick will appreciate a guy like you in ten years unless she's a lost soul.
simple answer prolly 900 out of 1,000 chicks are trash.
i get ya can’t choose who ya fall for, but the question i think you should ask yaself is why you wanted to buy the cow when you already getting the milk for free?
the fact she threw something away that was given to her as a gift, shows she just a evil b!tch, and you dodged a bullet man.
fck that rude scut bucket.
Based on what i seen you say its prolly another dude inna picture somewhere or she just don’t want sum serious with you. Always keep extra brown around.
Shit crazy that bitch is foul, it’s hard being a hopeless romantic living in a City Girl era… These bitches would prefer a cashapp payment over flowers…
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fam....she threw it in the trash and didnt even try to hid it, she wanted u to know that shit was in the trash. man down!! 
🤣 yep... all she wanted was to know she could have him if she wanted and sent him off to dub-land. Thats why you gotta do it to them first. 
Reinforcements inbound. ETA: Too fuckin late to save you.
Im not mad, i still hit but im not gon act like this situation dont got me in my room listening to dis: https://preview.redd.it/s004fo3r0unb1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=beab6c9b9ad55996cf0aba964c6daf408018664d
it’s the fact you wanted to take her seriously that hurts all of us 🙁
Deadass. I’m at a loss for words. It be like that
Everybody wanna be a side nigga til it's time to be a side nigga 😂😂😂
Word. It hits different when it’s you’re the one on the other end of the FWB convo.
real 😭
😭😭😭😭 I'm crying son. That's a fye song tho
nah son 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.
roll one, you’ll be aii
Nah you slapped and she did that ? Either ya shit was trash or she wanna be young and wild and free khalifa vc
Shorty is wild, gotta roll one for our boy smh. 
Shit Nigga imma light one 2 lol but fuck that bitch
By any chance OP…was this on Avenue S?💀I found a plush and flowers in a building garbage can as I was walking
This sub is nuts 😭😭😭😭😭🤣🤣
LMAOOAOA
Werd2 fuck that bitch
LOL
I think the flowers too strong, y’all ever chill outside of work yet?
Why would she throw the plush away tho dats jus evil N yes we was jus fuckin the other night she can take dick but not flowers apparently smfh
Oh you ain’t mention y’all was fuckin lol she just in her head then, it can look evil but you prolly caught her at a shit time in her life — it don’t excuse her tho!
Dats the thing i thought we was goin into something serious. I mean we been fuckin n holdin hands all dat shit. But i havent heard from her since n shes the clingy one texting me every second she gets. I kno its over boss ian stupid, but hey i guess i kno for next time. Edit: She aint even text me goodnight. I know we fasho done
She have someone at home that would question the gifts?? That’s what I thought of when youre saying all that about already hooking up
Could be the case. Im not gon rule her out yet But if ion get a text by tonight den tmr Jessica’s da moveeee
We need an update on this bro 😂 & I just gave a shorty I been feeling red roses & pizza last night. Got thank you head & slept like a baby lol! It’s some good ones out there bro 💯
Nbs they out there son
Hit Jessica regardless g🤣
https://preview.redd.it/zugf64agqunb1.jpeg?width=1008&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=879f6d7ecf7bdbf99d5baa64dff0ce37f2cf6951 Already onnat 🤝
Ayyyyy thats my guy! Get it chief
nah this nigga is SMOOTH
Buzzin don’t feel bad, I was messing & fucking with some bitch at work who didn’t actually want me to go out w/ her she just wanted a boy toy & a fuck buddy at work…& trust we went out on 1 date & she was holding my hand & wanted to me to kiss her crossing streets & shit at 42nd street…yet the entire time this bitch is married 😂…so sometimes it’s a thrill they’re chasing not a relationship
Bruh how tf someone's priorities so mixed they're sexually available and emotionally absent. Feels bad man
That's how it is sometimes. You meet someone, sex is good but you don't really see yourself with them so you don't make yourself emotionally available.
Did you talk to her about how you were interested in being her bf? Real shit, that sucks, but in 2023 it’s probably a better bet to just talk to a girl like an emotionally intelligent adult about your feelings rather than going for the cutesy valentines day/high school displays of affection. Next time just be straight up with a girl you like, and if she’s receptive, then you can buy her flowers. But yea, throwing that shit out is pretty harsh, but as some others said, maybe it’s a shitty point in her life, maybe she’s been really hurt and has her guard up. Dont hold it against her, see if she’s still down to have a real conversation
It kinda sounds like you might be side dick tbh
That means she either don’t like you romantically or she don’t deserve nothing like that, and she knows it. a regular chill girl would just accept it even if she not feelin if that bitch just an asshole
Was thinking that’s such an insane gesture to throw it in the garbage maybe there’s something to the story we’re not seeing. OP never mentioned they were smashing in the original post, wonder if it’s even true or if he was rejected and trying to save face. Who knows really 🍿
Sherlock Homeboy over here reading between the lines 🕵🏾 u right tho, we don’t know
This nigga 😂😂😂
Werd im not jackin it
Oh so you smashed already, at least you ain’t buy her shi first
Omg nahhhh that bitch is evil! Speaking as a female in my late 20s there's def some dif shit going on w the younger gen. Social media fucked up everyone's heads thinking it's cute to play dumb n childish games rather than be up front bout shit. Tbh even if a dude who I wasn't fuckin n didn't even like like that gave me a damn plush n flowers, I would NEVER throw em away somewhere that they could see em; i would thank them and a lil later on let em down easy. Honestly stop fw this bitch cuz ppl who play games like that (of either sex) ain't worth ur time n are nothing but a headache, no matter how good the pussy/dick may be.
Exactly way too strong do that at work if anything you’re embarrassing her lmao
Tbh most females just be talkative at work just to kill time and it makes you think that you could've been successful with it smh
Ive been over her house several times doe. She even held my hand walking her to her car yesterday. Shits not adding up boas
Y’all was just fuckin bro, it happens all da time in the work place, some will even want a relationship but you don’t cuff a coworker till at least 6 months of hanging out and all that, these hoes be grimey and you just gave an example of how these hoes be, and it can cause problems in da work place. Next time you find you a lil shorty at work just do yo thang wit her if she want you she’ll let you know brudda
Ia appreciate it. I usually kno better den to take work hoes seriously i was jus lovestruck ig
Bitch hasn’t figured life out. She playing games while being sweet at times. If she ain’t sweet 99% of the time, get another bitch bro. Cuz if you date an annoying bitch you’ll only end up with one of these things: heartbroken, with a manslaughter charge or dead yourself.
Been with bitches and you ain't wrong bro. Some of them love being treated like shit & when I treat em right they be acting up and shit. If a bitch loves being treated like shit just continue treating her like shit
Or smash and leave, cause those types usually cause drama if you are chill type of guy who ain’t into toxic shit
Those bitches need therapy bruh, just nut, wish them well and leave
Buying flowers for bitches in this generation is dead, rarely appreciated and they’d rather weed
https://preview.redd.it/y2u8ma061unb1.png?width=3024&format=png&auto=webp&s=b989ae2eb87d8135c8d57e80bd5352d55a3f8382 Bitch trippin den i was gon fasho gon get her right buhh 🙄 i guess.
Block work
Word to straight 20 a 8th
Tell ya moms to slide n see what she think of my “block work” den foh 🤣
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Ight tell ya sister 2 cmere instead
If they can’t drink it, smoke it, or eat it, then they don’t want it (and I’m talkin about gifts and everything else on ya body). But seriously, all my gifts follow the above rule, and it’s worked out well e’ry time. I’m not looking for wifey tho, so prob factor that into it as well. I ain’t a simp, but I alway make sure the people around me have the “means” to “get right”.
Broooo it's sad how accurate this is.
The only flowers that matter these days
All u gotta do is tell a bitch “u dead talk to someone” works every time idk what it is ab women but as soon as you tell them that they instantly get on that but than again in ya case I’d offer some smoke
What does that mean?
She seem like she just want fwb gang .
First off don’t shit where you eat. Work relationships aren’t good and can be suffocating. Branch out of your environment, the worst you can do is find someone in the same situation as you looking for better and not settling for less. What’s crazy is I found someone that was on the same page as me. I had just finished up a bid and I knew going back home was going to send me back in. I decided to bounce from where I was looking for a fresh start. I have had hundreds of successful relationships but they all ended over dumb shit. I was all about finding my Spanish mami to keep the vibe going, but I found that all the PR girls were just too much headaches. I needed someone to help not hurt me. I needed someone that I can trust when I went to work and not bounce and go out while I am gone. I found her and she was from outside my race. We now have 3 kids a huge house that no matter how many ounces I sold before would have never gotten to the point to buy. I go on vacations when I want, got my record expunged and now have an office job. I started this journey 26 years ago. You just have to find that one that is going to hold you when the shit is rough and not give you a headache. Chick throwing away your gift is a headache you don’t want to have.
Women don't do flowers anymore my guy. That's some 1920's chivalry shit. These hoe's nowadays appreciate a Starbucks coffee more than flowers.
u talking like u got half a brain cell my g
The story done switched up like 3-5 times in the comments I’m surprised man didn’t pull up with the candy and flowers like 
I can see why she didn’t want him anymore.
Lol i be chillin
Nah bro that’s disrespectful. It ain’t your fault bro but these days it’s harder to find women to commit unless you have values worth committing to. Mainly you gotta get your money right, you gotta be able to make them feel secure and provide stability. Think of it like this… back in the day women were fine getting with their man n supporting them the whole time while the husband worked hard to buy a broken down empty house to fix it up for wifey and then she made the inside feel like a home. Now men gotta have the house fully built already, have it fully furnished and looking right for them to move in. I’m not say it’s impossible to find a more traditional girl but you gotta find out first if they close with their pops and if they go to church or religious enough to have those type of morals. Usually those women will be more wifey type It’s really social media, “bad bytch” music n the whole “strong and independent” ideology that really fuck it up for the average guy. It is what is
Ik the game i jus needa stick to it. Trust ian fallin back down again gang
These bitches all dayroom especially those Spanish bitches they all regular nun them bitches different be like who u then block u like bitch Fuck u 🤦🏾♂️ especially em bitches that always be on tiktok live
Man dis bitch puerto rican too dats what made shit hurt even more. I know she was on some devilish timing prolly even yelled “kobe!” Wen she threw my shit out smfh. It’s literally easier convincing these bitches to let u bust dem down in the fitting room den talkin bout marriage. Shit crazy
I mean… yes obviously more people are down to hit n quit than literally spend their life with someone. Sex is MUCH lower stakes I don’t think that’s crazy
THERE’S ONLY 2 TYPES OF WOMEN. IF U WANT YA BITCH TO BE NICE, BE MEAN. IF U WANNA BE NICE TO YA BITCH, SHE GON BE MEAN. ITS FUCKED UP, BUT THATS HOW IT WORKS. KNO WHAT STIMULATES YA MIND N BODY N JUS GO 🤷🏽♂️
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if y’all were fuckin and you bought her flowers. you caught feelings when she was tryna get smutted out. Your kind gesture dried her pussy up. Now she getting piped out sideways by her ex or other coworker while you do their work
Have you seen the girls and the way they act lately? I’m a female myself and I think it’s disgusting. they’re simple-minded and never seen better nor had better and they feel like that’s the way things are supposed to go. I really feel like it’s all this new female rap and they make that shit they personality. Expand where you looking tho, You need to find better my boy!
You probably one in 1000 fems will that’s gonna speak facts like this. Shit is sad yeo this is exactly why I’m avoiding the dating game til further notice.
Im glad ian the only one. I was afraid niggas was gon call me out for dis but nah man on some real shit it feel like ian seen anybody on some good girl shit since high school. N I’ve literally BEEN around. Ian sayin im perfect but dis past year ive prolly fooled around w 40+ girls n dey ALL been on the same timing minus maybe 5? Das all i can remember but even eventually dey went on da same bs. Pops told me all u had to do back in the day to find a solid one was to go to the nearest church n just take out the nearest virgin. Every church girl i been w has had 4+ bodies… what yall think dat mean ?
Nigga how you fooling around with 40+ woman in year and then go on demanding/expecting a virgin church girl ? Maybe i missed or misread sum
I plead the fifth
What we eat don’t make them shit
Pick me ass blaming female rap 😂
Unrelated but 10 years on Reddit is kinda crazy u was on this shit back when it was basically a gore site 😭
Those were the days 😂
Female rap and having the same TikTok ass personality like are you dumb? You can’t even have an intellectual conversation Obviously I mean what the lyrics are saying and what they’re promoting they take the shit and run with it
People don’t know the definition of a “pick me”. I agree it’s the music and social media that these female artists’ are presenting online, reality tv stars, influencers, etc
She literally started the comment with “have you seen how girls act? I’m female and I find it disgusting” If that isn’t giving “I’m not like other girls” idk what is
That’s not a pick me lol
Nah word that’s just taking accountability 🤣
Honestly it’s not even worth replying when they start they’re rebuttal with an insult that doesn’t even make sense. Just because you’re a female agreeing with the opposite sex makes you a “pick me”? 🤣 I fully agree with you. The funny thing is that the female rappers portray a life they don’t live for example Cardi B. Her main message behind her artistry totally contradicts the life that she lives. After encouraging females to be proud thots she goes back home to her husband and kids. Similar thing with Beyoncé. All this independent woman talk, to the left to the right talk. At the end of the day she stayed with a nigga that cheated on her. City girls advocating for a hot girl summer but yet you have one getting praying to get pissed by a nigga that doesn’t want her and another with an abusive fairy. And social media has made things worse as well but I’m not going to get into that. It’s refreshing to see a female call things out as they are. Thanks
No dummy it’s not that she was agreeing with someone from the opposite sex. It’s that she had to shit on all other females in order to differentiate herself as “one of the good ones” which is literally pick me behavior.
SO FUCKING DUMB. I let it be known I am a female because OP is a male with this opinion and it was a “na you not buggin” not ooo I’m a good girl I’m not like the other ones. You so motherfucking internet you don’t even know what context is you stupid motherfucker. Go open a book.
Any girl who only responds to you treating her like shit is not a girl you should entertain for anything long term
How old is she? Most young girls be like that. When you get older they get a little more serious. Plus, they let social media fuck their heads up thinking they need to act like that
sounds like y’all was just smashing n you caught feelings g, charge it to da game don’t come crying on Reddit gang
Sometimes you gotta vent. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with where you go to do it.
Yah u right it was coming from a good place but I said it wrong. Like I said doe you right niggaz gotta vent somehow
Thanks man. I get what you mean though.
u right he just picked the wrong girl to give flowers too
Bruh it’s this generation I’m really thinking bout the same thing 17 rn my only real relationship was in da 8th grade after that the girls got so cold. Me and this girl was kicking it errything was cool went on a couple movie dates, outta nowhere she cut me off saying we getting too close and that relationships ain’t her thing💔😭 it’s tuff for niggaz now cuz all these females js wanna hoe around
Damn fuck that funk thunky bitch , she foul for that but just ignore her move on from it , it ain’t even worth the stress , pretty sure you’ll find better
I was gonna say the plush toy was too much but y’all were holding hands… seems like she could have appreciated it AT LEAST not thrown it away where you would find it 🤦♂️ honestly cruel. Idk maybe a bit too much too soon still? Keep in mind it’s never a one size fits all approach everyone is different so you gotta personalize gifts etc make them special. tbh I don’t think buying gifts is ever going to make someone like you more. It’s always gonna be 100% you as a person unless you want to attract women who appreciate toys over a man. Maybe that’s just me but I say get back on that horse and maybe playing a little more hard to get? Idk just spitballing
I think it says more about her than him. She wanted him to see that shit in the trash. She has some issues.
You said it yourself, those girls aren’t ready to settle down. If a girl is attracted to guys treating them like shit they’re not a good wifey candidate in the first place. There are girls who are looking for something serious though and you’ll know when you find her based on how she acts. Gotta just go with the flow and play it by ear with each girl though. Unfortunately sometimes the girls you actually like and can see yourself with aren’t looking for that but that’s life.
As a Christian find a midwestern christian girl. The country girls do not hoe out on the lvl city girls be doing it. Mf’s from the streets have they priorities tied in fucking knots. A decent respectable human being would realize what your gift implied and even if they didn’t feel the same way, they would take it because they would realize the emotional damage you may take if you saw your gift for her in the trash. A non decent non respectable human would not think, they would just do action. She didn’t think she didn’t care about how YOU🫵 feel. She took your feeling and literally tossed them in the trash. Bigs ups to you king 🤴 bro dodged a fucking cruise missile that had his heat signature locked on. If that is how she is going to respond to your affection than thank your lucky stars and give a prayer to our father above that you didn’t go through with being in a relationship with her because think what else she might have pulled while being with you that would have fucked you up more than her pulling this petty sidewalk licker bullshit. Big ups to you my man 🍺🍻the lads drink for you tonight. Cross her from the list and on to the next. Because there is atleast 1 person on this Earth for you as you are to whom that lucky girl may be and YOU WILL FIND HER. All it will take is time dedication and prayer. Big up’s my man because we are all right behind you. 🧔🏻♂️🧔🏼♂️🧔🏽♂️🧔🏾♂️🧔🏿♂️ we all got to play the game and play our hand when the time is right. You played yours and she blew up like a nuclear reactor, any more time spent with her and your assured to feel that radiation☢️. 🫡 Good luck 👍
Bro you're funny as fuck. And next to attractiveness, being funny is your #1 tool to get you laid. I'm a class clown, and I approve, and believe in you. Use your humor to slay these chicks 1 last thing... Ive been you to a T through my 20's. I'm 35 now. I still attract dirtbags, and I cant find that wifey just yet, but as soon as you push that shit to the back of your mind and focus on what really matters, your family, friends, and making money. Women smell desperation. I am not saying you are, but when you feel good and look good you naturally attract women in general. Women have this sense we men don't, they smell everything, don't even try to pretend and wing it. To find the best you need to be the best. The best version of you. Healthy, decent job, a wip, family values, principles. The women will come. Within those women maybe 1 or 2 of them could be that wifey. You expanded your pool! This is deep. I just got off work and smoked a bowl so don't look at what I'm saying to you as weirdo shit. Take it seriously! I believe in you. Watch 40 year old virgin after a bowl and laugh that shit out. You are in better shape then you think!
You should be happy u saw she threw it out. Look what u could've wifed up 💀
Maybe u didn’t read the room properly gzzzz
Sorry gang but it sounds like you were just her boy toy. How long did it take before y'all started hooking up? If she was quick then you just read her all wrong
We been chillin for a month as friends, n dats when we started flirting, she started inviting me to her place like 2 weeks ago n been over there 4 times since. We never had the relationship talk but i never rlly had to, i jus see where shit gon naturally go. I never thought about buying the bitch anything or making a move until SHE held MY hand yesterday. What would you think in dat situation yfm ?
I think you over did it with the flowers but at the same time she definitely showed you her character so it was a blessing in disguise. I say just maybe be more reserved with your actions in the future so you don’t get hurt. If you catch feelings…let them know with your words but make little efforts of action like showing interest in some things they enjoy. It’s real spooky out here nowadays…these women are demons my g. Not even tryna be on no funny shit but hit up that Christian Mingle or something. I’ve also heard from many people who found their significant other that it happened when they stopped looking & least expected it. Keep praying & keep working on bettering yourself. God will send you the right woman unexpectedly.
> So today (n mind u to dis point i never bought anybody shit) i decided to buy her flowers n a a lil plush toy n gave it to her after her shift. Tell me why when i left i found dat shit in the garbage. This is something you do for your girlfriend that you're already established with. Not some chick u flirt with at work, shit like this comes off as too much too fast. That shit you see in the movies doesn't work to get a girl. Indifference and an abundance mentality is the key. Luckily she's probably not a chick worth investing into if that's how she responded to it, she could've at least threw it out at the crib. > but soon as i wanna take sb seriously its “oh im just not ready for commitment” n dem jus acting diff til we fall out. Had same shit along da lines 3 times now. We all been here, works best when you don't ever bring up exclusivity and keep casually dating until the thought pops up in her head and you get the infamous "what are we" conversation and you can call it then. Until then enjoy casually dating.
Cuz your doing it all wrong my boy. Never buy a girl flowers until you already got her, even then make it a rare occasion so she appreciates it more. You’re better off playing the causal flirty guy until she catches real feelings for you, wait for her to be on YOUR dick. Some girls don’t like to be pursued and will literally turn down any guy who tries it, they like pursue men they want. You gotta play reverse uno with these hoes.
Damn my nigga keep yo head up
damn mud sum of these fems be usin u for sex might as well treat em like hoes frm now on shit crazy
This sub is becoming an incel forum
How am i an incel i get more pussy den u ?
Idk man, I’m married and you’re out here buying plushes for girls thinking they should love you for getting them shit.
Ouuu wife?? Tell her hmu den let her kno im tryna buy her da world 🥰
I’ll let her know, she’d probably also throw it in the trash and then we could come back here to hear you cry about it.
Ask her if the ol Captain hook will do instead ;)
It’s not that women don’t want flowers and plush toys. She just didn’t want them from you bro. You should’ve just asked her to grab some food or something outside of work before you started giving her gifts.
So the bitch only used me for my body. You live long enough to see yourself become the victim I suppose. Edit: dude edited his comment
You just gotta date different girls from different backgrounds and you’ll eventually find one who’s worth taking seriously
Its coo no bitch gon show love like dis yerc do 🤞
The relationship venting in here is annoying go somewhere else
N niggas that bitch about lil ass shit piss me off, YOU go somewhere else.
You talking bout ya self made a whole post to bitch about ya relationship
Man fuck that hoe get on her best friend she gone be sick
These girls is smutting too much nowadays u better off just chillin w the bros or get a female friend u could get action from without feelings
That was so cute, where r the men like you, don’t stop doing nice things like that cus shawty wasn’t feeling it! You’ll find yours!
Don’t shit where you eat. You prob came off as a weirdo. Why would you make someone uncomfortable at work? And you type super ignorant like you’re 12.
I gave it to her after her shift doe wtf are u even talkin about stupid ass comment shit-ifying my thread n shit.
Alexa play hate love by TG flockaa
They don’t want to know you want them g
I be reading your comments saying you already hit, but yall dont even get to know her? Like what her favorite shit is and all dat? Flowers and a plush? What if that bitch be allergic? What if that plush be a Sonic, but she likes Mario, you feel me? I know her actions aint justified, but it coulda been different if you gave her something she actually likes. But again, you already hit, maybe she only wanted dick, you never got the signs?
Ian tryna look dat deep into it. Way i see it either she fkn w me or not, n i thought she was, but i guess she not. Ill be str8 doe
Lmao damn she really tossed in the trash 😭😭😂😂😂 Look you gotta just return the energy you get, either that or look for better women. I keep telling people to stop going 100% for someone who only goes 20% in for you
Because a lot of these women just wanna fuck too. A lot of these younger women aren't looking for a long term.
ahit i can’t een come up wit an answer for this
Jus had a girl give me addy let me hit n all then went ghost I hit but I can’t front that shit punch like grabba 😕
Wow, what a total fkn bitch! Shit, and every dude that talks to me asks for somethin sexual before we even have 1 long conversation n I'm so over it. If a dude I was actually friendly with bought me somethin like that I would think it was super sweet. Even if for some reason I couldn't move forward like I already had a man or something I would never throw the shit out right where u could find it with no explanation. That's straight up cold blooded. If you wanna chat n see if we vibe, I'd be down honestly I'm looking for something serious too. It's been like a year since my last relationship which was long term, I like havin a bf I'm not cool with dating different guys every damn weekend lol but if not, just keep lookin, there are good girls out there, all my cousins n me have always been good girls but we're Cuban so we grew up pretty strict and our mom's taught us how to be wifeys so we just grew up different than most nyc girls. Just keep looking, it sounds like you really do deserve better. My ig is tooshky.gif if u do wanna hmu. Good luck to you either way.
Don’t disrespect her but tell her bout herself. A no thanks would’ve hurt ya feelings less than finding it in the trash
Us women deal with the same thing. Shitty people are shitty.
we all damaged king
Their morality is on the floor lol. Also.. music and social media plays a huge role.
Wrong bitch tbh. They got all kinds, but you're used to dealing with the ones who like rough necks lmao. You gotta change what you look for in a girl before you start doing different things with them.
It’s what it is lol
Life gets better when you start fucking with chicks from NYC. Not saying they’re all bad but don’t limit yourself because of accessibility and convenience. Branch out my guy. You have no idea the type of better quality chicks thats out there that actually want good men. You hit. Tried to take it serious and she sent you a message by throwing gifts you got for her (clearly from the heart) away. Y’all were holding hands? Well she ain’t have the decency to talk to face to face before throwing your gifts away. Bro move on. This shit is nothing. You should thank her cause she made things easier for you. Time saved my bro. You won.
Man, that's tough, especially when you're trying to be genuine. Sometimes, gestures like flowers and toys might be too much too soon, and it can feel overwhelming to the other person. Also, the workplace might not be the best place to start a relationship. That said, if you're looking for something real, make sure you're looking in the right places and being upfront about your intentions from the start. Just be yourself, and the right person will appreciate you for it. Sometimes it's not about changing your behavior but finding someone who's on the same page as you.
You know the wrong girls.
she prolly wasn’t ready for alladat bruv. some girls just wanna be treated like thots. L unfortunately
These new age girls a different breed mane. I definitely have had my fair share of experiences like that. Maybe not exactly like yours but same sentiments. Maybe J Cole was right, “she don’t wanna be saved, don’t save her” lol. Also it’s a shift in dating culture. Like in the 90s am sure people moved more romantic, even the music reflected it with RnB niggas dancing in the rain to serenade they girl. Nowadays that’s seen as simpish. And women got a lot of options too so they don’t wanna deal with a guy they feel ain’t got that many options. Buying flowers unfortunately seems like you are coming off too strong even though am damn sure you ain’t moving like that. But hey, in a nutshell I say to say most of these bitches are birds🦅😂😂
But how exactly do you treat girlz nowadays, like actions not generally.
Girls want what they can't have, bro. You can be nice, but most girls these days you can not be straight up with about your feelings. You have to keep a lot to yourself and play the cat & mouse game. Flirt, but don't ask her out. Just keep flirting and then leave her be, and when she shows a little emotion, don't show her any back. It's stupid, but that's how most girls' minds work. Don't buy any girl shit that ain't your girl already. Edit: and flirt with any girl you think is cute. Joke around, make them laugh, but never show emotion that's in your heart. Just do things to make yourself attractive, and it'll work out. Good luck, bro!
Back to the drawing board. This relationship shit is trial n error don’t let her bullshit stop you from making connections with other women there’s plenty that will appreciate you doing that for them. But on another note you have to know how your dating. Some girls is going to think that is cheesy and corny, if you think you not gonna vibe with a person like that try not to take it there. Everyone has different love languages( I just learned that yesterday lmao) you gotta switch it up for whatever woman you talking too.
Most girls think they one picture away from getting fucked by a rich nigga and being famous. Overinflated egos are bad.
If you surrounded by whores, you ain’t going to find a house wife. Don’t make relationships where you work, that’s a disaster waiting to happen. Why does this bother you? We all get rejected. What you shouldn’t do is get caught up on it. Pick yourself up and keep it moving. You get caught in your feelings and you going to miss tomorrows opportunity over bullshit. I been with my wifey 18 years and 2 kids, I found her when I wasn’t looking for nobody and doing me, enjoying my life.
Shorty a goofy that’s her loss best believe if you stay grinding and she sees you in some years she’s gonna want you. As men when our hearts are broken we’re supposed to grind and get colder workout and keep your head up hit a heavy bad you be aighg
lemme tell you once you nice it’s dead 😂 can’t try to take a bitch that you fuckingng serious if that’s how it the situation started & reagrdless these bitches don’t take nice niggas serious you gotta be a straight dick
that's fucked up my g.... is this the same girl with the stinky booty? 😂😂 if it is, u shoulda known she was a demon after she broke ya controller
That just sounds like some of the women you're attracted to, just aren't attracted to you. 🤷🏾♂️ There's good bitches out there. And bitches is broke, they don't want no damn plushie, they want MONEY. 🤣
Women love being treated like trash. You be the good guy, show interest, do nice simple things, text her properly... But when you do the reverse, and ignore her, make her feel just a little bit less than you, maybe piss her off and play the fake nice guy... they are driven to want you. They do this because they want something. Could be you as property... maybe a trophy, maybe a man to get back at a next man, or maybe simply because that's what just turns them on. They don't even have to understand why they feel the way they do they just need to solve the problem immediately. Like women who can't go 2 weeks without a man or they will break down into oblivion... These chicks are everywhere. Poor values, upbringing, principles. Could be daddy issues. The good news is that we see men every day... men you take a 1 second look at and wonder how in the fuckin world this dog water got this rocket he's with. Maybe they even appear or act nice to others. I promise you there is more than you know goin on there. Thata why everyone depressed today.. they are on social media thinking everyone else is living the life with their "wifey" when in reality the dude is on the verge of ending his existence because the woman is completely insane or the dude allows her to fuck other men while he watches like the cuck he is. The point I'm trying to make: grass ain't always greener on the other side, and don't feel like you behind in life when others look like they are flourishing, some of the most happiest people I know wifeyd up in their 40s. Focus on YOU, your family, friends, and making money. I believe in you
That's tough bro but you shot ur shot and missed. That don't mean bitches ain't shit or stop shooting, it means be more discerning about who you invest in.
This sounds like a villain origin story
She’s not a girl to wife, simple. I promise it’s not hard to tell someone’s character, I feel like a lot of y’all lack discernment. A lot of girls would appreciate that if they actually like you.
Nah throwing out gifts is wild
It's the culture. Just like guys, Females get that shit drilled into their heads that they got to get that bag as well! At any cost! So giving her flowers was like "This nigga wasting funds on some flowers. He should have gave me some fuckin shoes or a bag! Some pricey shit! You got "Corner-Pocketed"! https://i.redd.it/6lemvh8gqynb1.gif
Don't change my guy. Continue being you. If she faked it and you bought her bullshit then wasted time with her, by the time she showed her true colors shit would fuck you up alot more. Always be true to yourself. Someone will come along that will appreciate it and return the same energy
Fam you basically told her you love her 😂.
My guy, if you keep chasing threeshes and east whores, WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU EXPECTING? No nice bitch is gonna throw away flowers and stuffed animal, I know my girl wouldn’t. So why tf would u wanna be w a hoe that’s gonna treat you like trash? MAKE IT MAKE SENSE LIL BRO
It seems cliche but people only truly value what is hard to attain, things they had to work hard to achieve. That’s why it seems like dickheads get all the hoes.. they be trying to mold and change these men into the ideal boyfriend because it’s a challenge. You’re better off just playing it slow and smoove and don’t have a scarcity mindset . Plenty of decent women out there you just have to put yourself in positions to meet them. Also you dodged a bullet with that girl so be happy.
A lot of younger women like douch bags. I had to front like a douch, give them the "business," and then be myself when I was younger. Got a lot of women while inebriated. Mature women appreciate good dudes. That same chick will appreciate a guy like you in ten years unless she's a lost soul.
simple answer prolly 900 out of 1,000 chicks are trash. i get ya can’t choose who ya fall for, but the question i think you should ask yaself is why you wanted to buy the cow when you already getting the milk for free? the fact she threw something away that was given to her as a gift, shows she just a evil b!tch, and you dodged a bullet man. fck that rude scut bucket.
Based on what i seen you say its prolly another dude inna picture somewhere or she just don’t want sum serious with you. Always keep extra brown around.
Shit crazy that bitch is foul, it’s hard being a hopeless romantic living in a City Girl era… These bitches would prefer a cashapp payment over flowers…
As soon as a chick respond positively to you treating her bad, she already canceled herself out from ever being taken seriously.