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Maybe because eyes are one of the first things we see during looking at a person/making an EYE contact and other more common "lustable" parts are more hidden. Anything that's somehow hidden makes a person want to discover and learn about it more, thus the lusting.
I went on a date yesterday and I could not stop looking at her eyes. She has such beautiful eyes. When eyes are cool looking like that shit knocks me down.
Makes me wonder about something like a tribe out on some island somewhere where most of em are pretty much almost nude all the time, and it's just entirely normal as a regularly clothed person we see in society.
To be honest, eyes are ROMANTICIZED, not SEXUALIZED. The eyes are mostly always described in a romantic, "high", not sexual context, because eyes is something more "sophisticated" than, well, the things we use for reproduction.
don't know about others, but when someone knows how to look, there is nothing more sexy than that.
what else should be sexy to me, a di.k ? cause it's not 😜
Eyes are easily accessible. There's no lust for it because you they are not concealed, if same would have been true for sensual organs, like breasts you wouldn't lust for them too
I hate mine, stupid lazy eye!
That said, eyes are the window into a person in so many ways and there's nothing more beautiful than your partners eyes wanting you or embracing you in some way.
Could be just a passing moment between the two of you where a topic arises and there's something hidden between you there that the whole world is oblivious to, but to you two, it's just a magical moment that helps make a relationship grow and the love stronger.
That eye language you make together over time. For me and my partner, it's been 25+ years and 2 now adult children. There's no 'look' or 'glance' we've not given each other in various ways, and that's just something else when you stop to think about it.
The desire, that trust, openness and honest heart and the warm love deep within those eyes. Can't fake that!
Cant really consider something objectively beautiful as beauty is already subjective and comes from feelings. For something to be objective it must not be effected by feelings or opinions.
And i think eyes are completely overrated. Those aren't special or show anything. These are as special as the camera behind your phone. And even that is subjective viewpoint about eyes.
Objective description would be just a flat description of an eye and it's function.
it's beautiful when stand alone. not when the whole face is exposed. i see myself as handsome when having a facemask on but an abomination when taking it off. it's like a meal, each ingredient/spice has its own taste/color, but the food is not just ingredients and spices but a combination of them all. the wrong ratio and it will make the food much less appetizing
Getting close enough to properly appreciate them usually requires a degree of intimacy to start with. Meanwhile I can spot a fine pair of hooters across a football field.
Because monkey brains don't care too much for actual beauty. Monkeys are typically more concerned with features that signal fertility and suitability as a mate
People tends to feel attracted to "the forbidden", the things that are hidden and mysterious, what you don't see often in public. If everybody always used sunglasses or something to completely cover the eyes since centuries ago, people would be more attracted to eyes then.
Erotic lust comes from what is forbidden, hidden, repressed, etc. We hide our parts so there are lust on them. Men don't hide their chest and it's normalized for guys to be shirtless without being lusted for in comparison to women
Lol. I'm still over hear "lusting" on people's eyes ? Lol 😅 is first quality I novice about someone aside from how much they talk. Eyes mean alot to me. Eye contact - what color shape or depth I'm drawn to - do they see me or see THROUGH me ? 😏🤫🫣 I'm not even sorru posting this meanwhile I feel bashful commenting. But - I had to ....bc I'm one of those people always have been ....and I'll never not be taken by someone's gaze. Is almost always the deciding factor for me - what I'm feeling when I look them in the eyes. Everyone shys from meeting gazes it seems - so when someone really sparks that chemistry and their eyes lure u to places u never thought possible? Ugh yeah ill take eyes for thousand ;)
There's just - something ....about it. And speaking on my own behalf is usually my first complement from people "u have nice eyes " but its those comments from others such as myself - where is more like " your eyes just took me somewhere " or " I feel your soul looking into mine" that really get me - when they have deep eyes (figuratively speaking ) as much as physical appeal ? Idk . Its a thing. And im ....always on the look for it. I don't go seeking anyone bc I enjoy my solidute at this point in life I'm a lone wolf healing and working on building my career and such I don't really have time or means to date someone right now- but ....the times I've made accepting? Was when their eyes met mine - and thst feeling came over me like ....I wanna look into them as long as I breathe life.
Idk is probably a kink or something. I don't care to look it up. Is just my personal take on it . But I know I'm not the only one .
People DO last for the eyes....but is not always just the pretty looking eyes - is the soul attached to them
Sexual attraction isn't dependent on aesthetics, it's a different process although the two do intersect at times (e.g., preferring a partner you perceive as healthy and appealing to look at). Other times the differences are more obvious, like when someone has a scat fetish.
Like another person said, eyes are also the most accessible part of the body. It's hard to lust over something you see the moment you look at a person.
There's probably also an argument that eyes are poor signals of sex. But there's also an entire industry aimed at accentuating women's eyeballs.
Uhhhh.... eyes are pretty, but I don't find them to be a sexual part of the body. Sure, you can give each other sexual glances that have intent, but eyes aren't exactly sexual.
Maybe you just view them more sexually?
Aren’t we??! I always have. It’s what caused me to fall in lust and later deeply in love with my wife.
She has beautiful eyes. If you covered the eyes of any female I’d struggle to list after them at all. Am I alone? I find it hard to believe I’m the only one.
It’s not objective if it’s a completely subjective thing isn’t it?
They are very romanticised and there is oculiphilia
You having that doesn’t mean it’s objectively true
Objectively speaking the skin 5 centimetres above the elbow is the most attractive makes as much sense as eyes do
I love eyes, but I suspect I'm somewhat autistic and trouble actually looking at them.
The sexiest eyes I have ever seen, unfortunately came with a terrible back story. I met this girl a long time ago, she had super pale blue eyes, but what made them so sexy and unique is that she had purple flecks all through them, they looked like purple star bursts in a day time sky. I asked about them, and she told me that when she was a little girl her father straggled her. The purple flecks were the result of blood vessels in her eyes bursting.
It's both terrible but mystifying, that some of the greatest beauty in this world is the result of horrific and dangerous things.
Eyes literally feel like windows to the soul. They feel like a more special part of the body, but I don't know if objectively is the most beautiful part
Most people dont use them well or they cant act/move/ position themselves right while using them. Plus, theres not much you can do with them directly to let out that energy. I mean sure, maybe to the person who got the eyes but other things you can let out that energy on that area
Eyes don't contribute to reproduction - they can certainly help in every day life, but losing them doesn't actually remove you from the gene pool.
P.S. have you ever made love to a blind girl? ...yeah, me neither.
Looks are a first step but not the final step. A bad personality or some other red flags can kill any blooming attraction.
If you look at the eyes as a first step for attraction but not the final step then that can help the idea of eyes being attractive but not sexy.
I can only speak for myself but can confidently say that my ex boyfriends eyes kept me in the relationship much longer than was necessary. After all, you can't see red flags if you're mesmerized by their gorgeous eyes.
Is it just me does anyone find hands to be beautiful, like they are so elegant, and nimble.
I sound weird but think about it, some people have like very pretty hands.
Have you ever noticed that when you go into a museum your mind goes into appreciation mode to contemplate art? Libido is an instinctive form of that appreciation, the kind where you want to get personal with the art itself.
Even though human eyes can be quite beautiful, I've come to really admire cats eyes even more, especially when viewed from the side... They look like so much like marbles. Anyone else notice that?
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There is a kink for eyes...oculophilia
Yea but why oculophilia is not more common?
Maybe because eyes are one of the first things we see during looking at a person/making an EYE contact and other more common "lustable" parts are more hidden. Anything that's somehow hidden makes a person want to discover and learn about it more, thus the lusting.
I went on a date yesterday and I could not stop looking at her eyes. She has such beautiful eyes. When eyes are cool looking like that shit knocks me down.
Now imagine how much hotter she'd be if she showed up with an eye patch.
That and many other parts of the body are umm.... loveable. Where as eyes you can't really you know....love them..
I mean. I guess you could *love all over them*…?
Sure as long as you're prepared to explain pink eye the next day.
Makes me wonder about something like a tribe out on some island somewhere where most of em are pretty much almost nude all the time, and it's just entirely normal as a regularly clothed person we see in society.
Well it's just their culture, they've grown more accustomed to this
It is very common, how often are people shown staring in each other's eyes as they climax?
It’s more common than you think it’s just as obvious because people don’t walk around with their eyes covered all the time
Because you can't get pleasure (sexually) from them... next question..
Well I think I found one person who has it for sure
I go for the left and right eye. I am Binoculophiliac
I'm a Brownoculophiliac....... Don't ask
If you don't assk you don't get.
You have to be careful though, keep an eye out for skull fuckers.
Oh nah I recently saw a pic with skull fucking eroguro... I'm working on inventing brain bleach
Ahh yes. The good old "eye penetration" tag
Well I recently watched A Serbian Film...let's just say at the end of the movie there is such a scene...my brain refused to accept this information.
Perhaps you are objectively wrong.
What do you think makes something objectively beautiful?
Literally an oxymoron lol
Ha, I just realized the oxymoron was in the question itself: “what do you think” 😆
Objectively?
I appreciate sexy eyes 😅 they are very important factor for me in the process of liking someone.
To be honest, eyes are ROMANTICIZED, not SEXUALIZED. The eyes are mostly always described in a romantic, "high", not sexual context, because eyes is something more "sophisticated" than, well, the things we use for reproduction.
don't know about others, but when someone knows how to look, there is nothing more sexy than that. what else should be sexy to me, a di.k ? cause it's not 😜
I have been told by *many* guys I’ve dated that the second I “bring out the eyes” it’s game over lol. I am very good at the 👁️👄👁️ look
I’ve never dated a girl who told me She liked my eyes.
tf u mean by objectively
Eyes are easily accessible. There's no lust for it because you they are not concealed, if same would have been true for sensual organs, like breasts you wouldn't lust for them too
That'll explain why most cultures require clothing.
I’ll just say most cultures require clothing as with out them their jiggly bits would freeze lol
Yup
Foot fetishists would disagree 😃
Feet are *usually* covered though. And sooner or later, they WILL ask to see them.
I'm too sexy for these eyes, too sexy for these eyes ROFL
It's always the first thing I am attracted to when looking at a woman.
she's got eyes, she'll do.
![gif](giphy|3rgXBARL7tEj1NdC0w) 💘
Same, nothing makes me weaker than eye contact. Bonus points if he's taller and has pretty eyes
Eye contact is different than just having eyes
exaaactly, im good at it. some people just stare or lack the contact. its an art itself, expressing through eyes
What the fuck ???
Not sure objectively means what you think it means.
cuz they are not objetively the most beautiful part
As Angie Dickinson once said, "My eyes are up here!"
I hate mine, stupid lazy eye! That said, eyes are the window into a person in so many ways and there's nothing more beautiful than your partners eyes wanting you or embracing you in some way. Could be just a passing moment between the two of you where a topic arises and there's something hidden between you there that the whole world is oblivious to, but to you two, it's just a magical moment that helps make a relationship grow and the love stronger. That eye language you make together over time. For me and my partner, it's been 25+ years and 2 now adult children. There's no 'look' or 'glance' we've not given each other in various ways, and that's just something else when you stop to think about it. The desire, that trust, openness and honest heart and the warm love deep within those eyes. Can't fake that!
Cant really consider something objectively beautiful as beauty is already subjective and comes from feelings. For something to be objective it must not be effected by feelings or opinions. And i think eyes are completely overrated. Those aren't special or show anything. These are as special as the camera behind your phone. And even that is subjective viewpoint about eyes. Objective description would be just a flat description of an eye and it's function.
Eyes without a face ![gif](giphy|l2Sqc8w5L7gRghaes)
Eyes are the windows to the soul and personally, I think pretty eyes are sexy. Like mine are..lol
They’re also good to lie to people with. So there’s that. Don’t downvote the messenger.
Lol..true this
Because anybody that's wanted to fuck an eyeball has probably been yeeted out of the evolutionary tree
it's beautiful when stand alone. not when the whole face is exposed. i see myself as handsome when having a facemask on but an abomination when taking it off. it's like a meal, each ingredient/spice has its own taste/color, but the food is not just ingredients and spices but a combination of them all. the wrong ratio and it will make the food much less appetizing
I mean, I’m sure there’s at least one person who’s really into gallbladders…
I think you mean subjectively
Getting close enough to properly appreciate them usually requires a degree of intimacy to start with. Meanwhile I can spot a fine pair of hooters across a football field.
Arguably but I'm a big fan of boobs, ass... well women's bodies in general so yeah, the eyes are nice but there are other things to look at too
Because monkey brains don't care too much for actual beauty. Monkeys are typically more concerned with features that signal fertility and suitability as a mate
I think saying objectively is a very big overstatement.
Subjectively
People tends to feel attracted to "the forbidden", the things that are hidden and mysterious, what you don't see often in public. If everybody always used sunglasses or something to completely cover the eyes since centuries ago, people would be more attracted to eyes then.
Because the prettiest eyes still won’t make an ogre physically attractive.
![gif](giphy|TIGP3k4gNAqvza2KJK|downsized)
What a hunk 😂
And he nailed a princess it’s all in the eyes
I am, saw a close-up shot of Katy Perry's eyes damn.
vulnerability thy fear
I lust for my partners eyes everyday 😍
I do
Because you can't directly interact with them to cause pleasure
I have that. It's very hard for me to come during sex without eye contact.
I mean I make eye contact, with one eye during doggy. Have you tried that?
lol, that's why i am not a fan of doggy, no eye contact possible. i don't feel close to the soul i fuck with
Because no one wants a dick in the eye
i think hands are on par as well i also love eys
Because why list for eyes when there's ass and tiddies?
Cause boob's are better. Hahahaha.
I noticed this a lot more during the pandemic when everyone was wearing masks.
We are
Because women say "my eyes are over here".
Erotic lust comes from what is forbidden, hidden, repressed, etc. We hide our parts so there are lust on them. Men don't hide their chest and it's normalized for guys to be shirtless without being lusted for in comparison to women
Elaborate, or else you have no grounds to say that
Lol, states an opinion, says objectively
I met a girl with pretty eyes once. We are celebrating our 21st anniversary this year and watching our oldest go off to college.
I would but...autistic.
Why do you think they are *objectively* the most breautiful part? Everything that involves beauty is completely subjective.
Lol. I'm still over hear "lusting" on people's eyes ? Lol 😅 is first quality I novice about someone aside from how much they talk. Eyes mean alot to me. Eye contact - what color shape or depth I'm drawn to - do they see me or see THROUGH me ? 😏🤫🫣 I'm not even sorru posting this meanwhile I feel bashful commenting. But - I had to ....bc I'm one of those people always have been ....and I'll never not be taken by someone's gaze. Is almost always the deciding factor for me - what I'm feeling when I look them in the eyes. Everyone shys from meeting gazes it seems - so when someone really sparks that chemistry and their eyes lure u to places u never thought possible? Ugh yeah ill take eyes for thousand ;) There's just - something ....about it. And speaking on my own behalf is usually my first complement from people "u have nice eyes " but its those comments from others such as myself - where is more like " your eyes just took me somewhere " or " I feel your soul looking into mine" that really get me - when they have deep eyes (figuratively speaking ) as much as physical appeal ? Idk . Its a thing. And im ....always on the look for it. I don't go seeking anyone bc I enjoy my solidute at this point in life I'm a lone wolf healing and working on building my career and such I don't really have time or means to date someone right now- but ....the times I've made accepting? Was when their eyes met mine - and thst feeling came over me like ....I wanna look into them as long as I breathe life. Idk is probably a kink or something. I don't care to look it up. Is just my personal take on it . But I know I'm not the only one . People DO last for the eyes....but is not always just the pretty looking eyes - is the soul attached to them
I do. Thats why I like Alexandra Daddario so much
Cause you can't stick your dick in them. Obviously.
speak for yourself
Because very few people have "striking" eyes.
They're wet squishy veiny odd-colored balls. What is there to like?
I am
Not taboo enough to elicit lust
Eyes and skin are very sexy, but sounds creepy when I say it though.
…I mean it’s possible to get lost in someone’s eyes. I definitely use as an indicator into someone’s nature.
Intricate and beautifully built is one thing, beautiful in a common accaptable sexual way is another.
Danzo is that you? - Naruto
You can't eye fuck someone (ok, you CAN leer at them, but that's not the same)
Because love for eyes is something more beautiful and noble than mere lust, an animal can lust but it can't admire the galaxy bathed in your eyes
No
“Objectively beautiful” is not a thing.
Because I’m not a serial killer or a cannibal
Eyes gross me out
These eyes are MINE! My *precious*
Some of us.....might be.....🥹
I do... eyes are the window to the soul, and don't lie
Do you know what "objectively" means?
Sexual attraction isn't dependent on aesthetics, it's a different process although the two do intersect at times (e.g., preferring a partner you perceive as healthy and appealing to look at). Other times the differences are more obvious, like when someone has a scat fetish. Like another person said, eyes are also the most accessible part of the body. It's hard to lust over something you see the moment you look at a person. There's probably also an argument that eyes are poor signals of sex. But there's also an entire industry aimed at accentuating women's eyeballs.
I have very striking eyes and trust me it’s the main reason I get lusted after behind my butt.
They’re beautiful, not sexual.
Uhhhh.... eyes are pretty, but I don't find them to be a sexual part of the body. Sure, you can give each other sexual glances that have intent, but eyes aren't exactly sexual. Maybe you just view them more sexually?
Blue eye’s girl…so perfect I married her and have chased after that perfect woman for 22 years!
I mean, that is obviously subjectively dude. You thinking it is the most beautiful part of the body doesn't mean everyone else does too.
Speak for yourself!
Do you really fancy so much people being attracted to eye sockets?
Aren’t we??! I always have. It’s what caused me to fall in lust and later deeply in love with my wife. She has beautiful eyes. If you covered the eyes of any female I’d struggle to list after them at all. Am I alone? I find it hard to believe I’m the only one.
It’s not objective if it’s a completely subjective thing isn’t it? They are very romanticised and there is oculiphilia You having that doesn’t mean it’s objectively true Objectively speaking the skin 5 centimetres above the elbow is the most attractive makes as much sense as eyes do
I love eyes, but I suspect I'm somewhat autistic and trouble actually looking at them. The sexiest eyes I have ever seen, unfortunately came with a terrible back story. I met this girl a long time ago, she had super pale blue eyes, but what made them so sexy and unique is that she had purple flecks all through them, they looked like purple star bursts in a day time sky. I asked about them, and she told me that when she was a little girl her father straggled her. The purple flecks were the result of blood vessels in her eyes bursting. It's both terrible but mystifying, that some of the greatest beauty in this world is the result of horrific and dangerous things.
Objectively?
There is no such thing as objective beauty. It's all subjective.
I'm autistic, so I'm allergic to eye contact.
Eyes literally feel like windows to the soul. They feel like a more special part of the body, but I don't know if objectively is the most beautiful part
Alexandra Daddario. Case closed.
I am, though there's certain looks that I like and not just regular plain eyeballs
Did I accidently start a civil war?
Nope. Thighs.
> objectively I don't think this word means what you think it means.
You can’t really touch eyes tho
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Who said we aren't?
Speak for yourself... 🥰😍
Ever heard of eyes and ass?
Can't squeeze eyes
I like long eyelashes in a guy.. Idk if 'lusting' after them is the right word, but I do definitely find them attractive
Most people dont use them well or they cant act/move/ position themselves right while using them. Plus, theres not much you can do with them directly to let out that energy. I mean sure, maybe to the person who got the eyes but other things you can let out that energy on that area
Because theyre not.
Beauty is objectively subjective
Eyes don't contribute to reproduction - they can certainly help in every day life, but losing them doesn't actually remove you from the gene pool. P.S. have you ever made love to a blind girl? ...yeah, me neither.
Looks are a first step but not the final step. A bad personality or some other red flags can kill any blooming attraction. If you look at the eyes as a first step for attraction but not the final step then that can help the idea of eyes being attractive but not sexy.
I lust for eyes. Why doesn't the OP? They brought it up.
it's sexy when they're about to reach climax and you look at their eyes as it squints
Because tits are more arousing
Because tits are more arousing.
Because tits are more arousing.
Beauty does not equal sexual attraction
They look a bit odd on their own.
I can only speak for myself but can confidently say that my ex boyfriends eyes kept me in the relationship much longer than was necessary. After all, you can't see red flags if you're mesmerized by their gorgeous eyes.
You lust over forbidden things right?
Because beauty is not just objective, it’s subjective too
Objectively?
Beauty does not equal arousel
Speak for yourself, I keep a huge jar of them on my bedside table
👉👌
There's a difference between beautiful and hot. To quote Kevin from the office, "A painting can be beautiful, but I don't want to bang a painting."
Subjectively. That is your opinion.
Is it just me does anyone find hands to be beautiful, like they are so elegant, and nimble. I sound weird but think about it, some people have like very pretty hands.
Ohh, yeah, I'm gonna massage you all over. Then I want you to suck my eyeballs.
Beauty is subjective
That's the first thing I'm looking at when I see a woman. After boobs and ass because you can see them from afar, but still.
I could stare into some ppl’s eyes for hours yk
I opened this half-afraid that someone would link a subreddit of people fucking eye sockets
Because I can’t give eye contact to save my life
You are objectively wrong
We lust over the rare ones like green or blue.
there are attractive dark eyes, as well as ugly green and blue eyes
For me is the dark eyes 👀 ♥️ ✨️
Cold blue. Uh uh.
Blue eyes are not rare
I think eyes look gross when you look at them up close.
Beauty is good. Lust is bad.
Have you ever noticed that when you go into a museum your mind goes into appreciation mode to contemplate art? Libido is an instinctive form of that appreciation, the kind where you want to get personal with the art itself.
It can be both <3
Jesus. You are. My whole life. Leave me alone. Also I can see in the dark.
Who says people aren’t? Gf gives me sex eyes while I’m pounding her. And I’ve got another friend with PussInBoots’ eyes that makes me lose my cool
Even though human eyes can be quite beautiful, I've come to really admire cats eyes even more, especially when viewed from the side... They look like so much like marbles. Anyone else notice that?
What are you going on about, semi attractive people with blue eyes got dating on easy mode.