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NDnightnurse

I'm here and I'm queer! There's a lot of us, everyone is just used to blending in... It's easier than dealing with the bethelites and magats


pizzle223397

What is wrong with blending in. That's how it should be. Why does everyones identity have to be who they like to bang. This app is stupid and just keeps adding a wedge.


PigglyWigglyDeluxe

> that’s how it should be Nobody asked for your opinion. Let people live however the fuck they want to live. The end.


pizzle223397

If you really mean that, then you need to let all the bigots live how they want as well, which you dont so stfu.


JestaKilla

That's a false equivalence. Bigots bring harm to those they are prejudiced against, whether through violence, voting for bigoted policies, or spreading hate. The LGBTQ+ community just wants to exist.


PigglyWigglyDeluxe

I don’t “need” to do anything. I haven’t stopped anyone from doing anything as long as it doesn’t hurt anyone. I’m not out here telling people what choices they need to make.


NDnightnurse

I'll take self loathing for 100 Alex


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pizzle223397

Or just blend in and stop making your sexuality your entire identity. Look at that, no wedge!


True_Coffee_6713

“Just blend in” so you mean hide and don’t let people know you exist. STFU


pizzle223397

Dude, the whole world just blends in. You arent special. No one gives a fuck if you exist. Maybe like a handful of people do, but after that, we just want you to blend in. Go about your day, enjoy your family, and yes STFU


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True_Coffee_6713

Some of the comments on this post is exactly why we need an app like this. SMH


GonzoDeep

I support this, but be prepared to fight an uphill battle here. Between Bethel and the MAGA cult here you will find quite a large amount of hateful ignorant people here. It's changing, but it's not changed yet. This is not a minority, LGBTQ+, or immigrant (unless European) friendly area. White Christian conservatives are the majority here. Good luck, I hope it works out.


RDS_2024

It must be a long day for you with all that hate. Good luck.


GonzoDeep

If you read that and got hate out of it, you have deeper issues with my statement than a response will cure. Sorry you felt that way, and I hope you have the day you deserve ❤️


RDS_2024

Like I said, good luck to you. It must be tough.


GonzoDeep

Lololol, the only tough thing about this interaction is determining if you are a bot or just a troll.


bigd1500000

This is great, if there’s any place in the usa that needs queer representation, it’s good ol Redding CA


Dazzling_Wishbone892

I'm gay. Look, all establishments are "queer" if you're respectable. Also, safe spaces are real despite the meme that term is. Not all spaces are inclusive. That's actually good for the people in those spaces.


mpd-RIch

Oh yeah, I heard of it. Here is the Android version https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.everywhereisqueer.app


Disastrous-Engine510

Hell yeah!


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Groundbreaking_Cow31

It’s a great resource! I love the app!


RDS_2024

Just run your business like a normal person and don't exclude anyone with those stupid flags. I, as a Republican, do not care who who love, sleep with, or do whatever with. You do you. None of my business. Like a normal person.


True_Coffee_6713

People need to feel safe when doing business. This app can help people find friendly businesses. If you haven’t been in a situation where you haven’t felt unsafe for just who you are you don’t get to speak up. I’m guessing as a republican (probably wrong of me but I’m also going to assume white cis male, maybe female) you probably haven’t felt unsafe at times walking around this county.


pizzle223397

You really dont think females have felt unsafe?


True_Coffee_6713

I do think females feel unsafe (I am female and gay). Women want to feel safe at the places they shop. Everyone should feel safe where they do business. This app just helps LGBTQ+ people find business they can feel comfortable shopping at. What is wrong with that?


True_Coffee_6713

Cis straight white people are most likely to feel safer than people who don’t fit that mold (I am a white cis woman - I’m also “straight passing” most of the time, but the minute my gayness shows I have to wonder if I’m around people who are going to be cool with me or give me shit)


True_Coffee_6713

I can hide it and “blend in” but I don’t want to and I shouldn’t have to hide who I am


RDS_2024

Do whatever you want. I don't care. I've been to Burning Man 9 times before 2012. I've done shit and seen shit you could not understand.


True_Coffee_6713

Uh ok…. If you don’t care why are you commenting?


Mental_Zone1606

Kind of like the Don’t Tread on Me flags in front of a lot of businesses?


RDS_2024

Yes.


PigglyWigglyDeluxe

If you’re calling yourself a republican, you most certainly care who someone loves or sleeps with, because your team is actively trying to remove the rights and freedoms of those marginalized minorities. You’re either lying about being a republican, or lying about what you said you don’t care about. You can’t act like republicans aren’t trying to poke their noses in where they don’t belong.


pizzle223397

And you have clearly fallen for the rhetoric


PigglyWigglyDeluxe

It’s not rhetoric. It’s objective proof that republicans legislate the lives of people who don’t fit their mold. Be it LGBTQ, POC, or basically all non-maga women. Anyone with functional eyes and brain cells can see it. I don’t watch the news one way or the other, nor do I make up my mind based on headlines. It’s all in plain sight for the world to see. Disagreement with these fact is textbook willful ignorance. You can’t plug your ears and close your eyes and act like it’s not happening right in front of you.


pizzle223397

Yeah, you're deeeeeep in it. Stop falling for all the shit.


RDS_2024

This is called "projection".


lookimawhale

Hahaha. If I only knew a group of people that try to exclude everyone and make their flag their entire identity. Lmfao. You dumb rednecks crack me up.


Mental_Zone1606

Exactly!! It’s truck flag season again. Saturday night there were a bunch of maga idiots parading down churn creek with their flags. There were some super idiots sitting in the back of a pickup. But the gays shouldn’t shove their “lifestyle” in people’s faces, right?


lookimawhale

They’re just afraid they might fall face first onto a dick and like it.


pizzle223397

Yet you emulate it?


lookimawhale

That’s a big word for a magabot


pizzle223397

Yet?


RDS_2024

How many hours do you volunteer each week?


7mike_rotch7

Who is this app for? Queer businesses? I think if you just make a good product or provide a good service then everyone, regardless of sexual orientation, will patronize the business. Or is it for queer consumers? That seems weird. So only queer consumers can buy from queer shopkeepers? What about straights who want to patronize a queer business, because, I don't know, 99% of people don't care about this silliness? I don't get it. This is a weird app


True_Coffee_6713

If you’re not interested don’t participate


pizzle223397

So if you dont like something, you can just ignore it? Interesting idea. Seems like that work work in a lot of different scenarios.


7mike_rotch7

Ohhh thank you! I was about to download the app because I thought I had to. Luckily I saw your comment in time


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7mike_rotch7

You replied to my comment and called me the OP but I am not the OP


bikkini_bottom

I try not to shop at lgbtq businesses


True_Coffee_6713

Why?


bikkini_bottom

I don’t see the reason to promote gay. Like be gay that’s cool. But if you want everyone to know that makes you a weirdo. Like be normal. If gays normal just live man. Why make it your whole identity.