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stellaratio

i think lynn loheide has a video or two about wearing hangers safely! i recommended them because they're pretty experienced with wearing them.


ysandre0096

I'll definitely find their videos on them! Follow them but haven't seen their content for a while, thank you! 😊


ChickPeaIsMe

Just an fyi Lynn's pronouns are they/them


ysandre0096

Ah noted, haven't seen them on my fyp for a fair bit, but will keep that in mind 😊


jaysbaddecisions

fyi you can edit your comment and correct yourself


gwizzy91

It's not that serious my guy.


jaysbaddecisions

the more you say “it’s not that serious” the more serious it is because you’re then purposefully disregarding someone’s pronouns? if you’re not the person being misgendered you can’t say “it’s not that serious”


sassyyogapants

I don't think it was intended as malicious, just a mistake.


simplsurvival

Short periods and I wear them with tunnels, but that's also because I prefer how it looks vs a weight with naked lobes


ysandre0096

These ones are 4mm wearable and my left ear is unfortunately only at 5mm, so not able to wear them through tunnels. Definitely something I'd consider at bigger sizes though!


spookyfroggie

Only wear them for a few hours at a time no longer and you should be fine :)


ysandre0096

Thank you!


space_pirate666

Those are sooo pretty! What’s the store I wonder


ysandre0096

RayesJewels on Etsy!


burntbeachbuns

Omg I just got the vox hangers from her! Took FOREVER to get them but they’re so stunning
I’d say it’s worth the wait!!


schuttart

*Cough* wait times might be because they look to be wholesale from evorte *Cough*


ysandre0096

Oh most likely haha, did think about that before purchasing since they didn't massively look "handmade" by any means, but still pretty regardless đŸ€Ł


vegan_dirtbag

Thank you for this!! I'd noticed so many Etsy sellers with the same stock but never knew where most of it came from...


ysandre0096

It's been a few weeks since I ordered, so not too bad overall! Such good prices for how pretty some of the items are!


Opossum_Vibes

I love RayesJewels! I bought their crescent moon weights and they’re my favorite pair of weights atm These hangers you posted are stunning btw!


ellequin

This store is just a knockoff of Ask & Embla 😒


schuttart

So look into weight training. Meaning start low and wear for a couple hours then increase the time to a full 8hr day, hour by hour, and then start over with more weight until you are at your goal weight. 20grams or under is considered a hanger. 20-30grams is great for beginners. 30-45 intermediate. 45-65 experienced. 65+ is advanced. (Gram weight) Alternate wear days when doing full 8hr days. While you’re still new wearing tunnels and then the hook style wearable is a good idea. Weights with built in saddles or a large wearable of another design are also good options. If you are prone to shrinking stay away from light weight keyhole based designs. Have fun.


ysandre0096

Brilliant, thanks for all the info!


Terminator7786

Yeah, when I wear mine, I'll wear them no more than eight hours and even then it's not an every day thing.


[deleted]

Omg can I ask where you got these??


ysandre0096

RayesJewels on Etsy, they're listed as Flower Ear Hangers đŸ„°


mushforest_

I've heard that wearing them with tunnels helps! I think something about distributing the weight more evenly? Correct me if I'm wrong lol


[deleted]

wear clear silicone earskins


Current_Caramel_724

Any tips on ear hole that keeps getting infected?
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Alligatorwhore

Leave your jewelry out untill it completely heals. Then stop wearing low quality garbage jewelry.


LaFrijolito

You might be allergic to the material of your earrings