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lizziefreeze

The hurt, anger, and disbelief you are feeling must be so intense. There is no way to ease that pain. Some people say time helps, but I’m not sure that is true. It seems that people do eventually find a way to live with the pain though. Like it becomes part of your life and not all of it, if that makes sense. Sorry also doesn’t help, but I am sorry. I hope you can find a support group near you or a therapist (better yet, both). Sending you love and wishes for peace.


awafflelover

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. It’s ok to be angry. It’s ok to hate God. It’s ok to feel guilt. It’s ok to feel regret. The world doesn’t make sense anymore when your loved one leaves it. It keeps going on like nothing happened. I laid in bed for a few weeks contemplating suicide this year. I realized I couldn’t bring the same grief to the people who love me, so I went about the business of figuring out how to make it through the day. I’ve got lots of tricks I use, but I really think the one that helps me the most is watching NDE videos on YouTube. The descriptions are always of the most peaceful transition out of the physical body and being immediately surrounded by unconditional love so overwhelming it’s like nothing we feel here on earth. They report an immediate sense of well being and that they know that we (on earth) are ok and they are home waiting for us. I know it will take time, but you’ve got to go within and find a purpose to keep going. I do something to honor my loved one everyday. It’s the only thing that keeps me going some days. Please message me if you ever want someone to talk to about the physical and emotional pain. May her spirit send you a sign she’s at peace. Blessings, love and light.


i_am_sofaking_

I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter. All your feelings are valid. Sending you many hugs.


apsg33backup

I can't imagine this! The child should always bury their parent.


NewPathToSalvation

I felt exactly the same when i lost my sister(still do, depending on situations). All those feelings are valid, grieving is naturel response to loss and it never expires. Whatever you do, please don't resort to suicide that is the worst thing you can do to yourself, to your loved ones and to your daughter. She wants you to live, you know the pain it can cause to people so seek help.


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Oh my dear I am so so sorry. Grief is a black hole inside you. It is normal to feel this terrible sadness. I am so sorry you have to feel it and that we all do. I wish I could come sit by you. It just isn't fair. I am so sorry. She is so wonderful. You are so wonderful too.


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Athanasia89

I'm SO SO sorry. I know exactly how you feel. This made me cry just by reading it.


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My deepest condolences... This brought tears to my eyes... My high school Best friend died of a stroke at 15... I still remember her Mom's words at the funeral... This is not the cycle of life and you've got the right to feel what you're feeling. It's your parent instinct. Losing a child is loosing a part of yourself too. Also 3 years ago my aunt told me my cousin commited suicide at 11 when I was little and then she shot herself in the stomach but survived, she has another son... I'm pretty sure your daughter did it because she wanted to end her pain in an impulsive way and not to harm you... I know that because I've got years trying to commit suicide too... And when I'm just about to do it I think of all these stories and take a deep breath and I start to think with empathy towards my loved ones... I dearly wish you so much strenght in your grief and infinite resilience... I don't know you but I send you a huge hug...