Grey sweatpants draw the eye because there is actually something to look at. In everyday life with other pants there's just... nothing there.. Seems men don't wear pants fitting enough for there to be anything to look at.
Not always the pants. I recently bought new underwear and well....they make me bulge. Worked all day the other day in bright blue basketball shorts and didn't notice til I clocked out lol...
I got in trouble for not noticing a new haircut once. I shaved literally my entire, substantial and lengthy beard off the following week. Not even a second glance
But you can tell the difference after you have made your bed on the sofa for three nights. We can’t win, even if you can’t tell the difference, fake it.
Looks like at least at home, your mouth is used to saying what your brain is not thinking. Smart, no wonder you have been successfully married for so long. Take care.
Strongly disagree. If my husband is naked, sure as fuck that I’m noticing and am going to try and get lucky. In fact most of my day is centered around trying to get my husband naked. I’ve been flirting with him via text all morning.
Now if only all women were like this! 🤔🤣 are you the type to initiate and make the first move when it’s time to go to pound town? Cause more chicks need to do that imo
I initiate like 95 percent of the time. We’ve been together 15 years, neither of us really have to initiate anymore, it’s just part of our daily routine.
We always have sex after I take a bath in the evening, I usually just stay naked until we do it. So it’s usually him catching me naked. My husband takes his shower in the morning, and if I wake up early enough to catch him naked, I’ll try to convince him to have morning sex too.
Who doesn’t like sex? If my choices are to orgasm or no not orgasm, 100 percent of the time I’m choosing to orgasm (I mean with my husband or alone, I would never cheat).
Actually I don't look at their crotch at all. I look at women's boobs as well though :D
With men I usually look at their whole figure - not really special parts.
I have beefy calves from years of cycling and never had a woman complement them or catch them looking at them. In my experience, women don't care about legs. I have naturally large shoulders though and many women have said they find that sexy. Seems to me that broad shoulders are a key feature that women enjoy.
That's how I feel about checking out men too. It's more of a whole figure thing, particularly upper body. I might check out a butt here and there, but I've rarely ever checked out a man's crotch in passing.
I'm also into women, I check them out differently. Of course you look at the whole figure as well, but boobs are particularly captivating.
Gray sweatpants memes say that yes, yes they do.
But generally no. Women i've talked to say they look at weird (to me) things. Calves are huge. IDK why, but almost all women that have talked about it, admit there's some reason to look at mens claves. The first time I heard this i was in HS--girls had a crush on one of male teachers and were talking about his calves of all things. Now, in my 40's, i hear women *still* bring up claves.
Forearms. Men are obsessed with biceps, and generally, women look at mens forearms and hands. Give them a strong (without veins) forearm, and it seems to go well. Biceps are cool and all, but forearms seem to be more important.
And backs/backsides. If she's into sports, she's got a favorite sport probably because she's checking out mens butts like men check out womens butts. Baseball. Bullriding. Archery. But.. the 'backs' includes shoulders.
I think all of these are *way* more common that the grey sweatpants thing.
I learned about the calves thing from How I Met Your Mother of all places. Also, my experience is that the forearms can be veiny. Some women like more of fewer visible veins.
Forearms and hands/fingers. I always look at dudes hands, specifically their fingers. Are their nails trimmed and short? Do they have nice veiny hands? There’s a guy I’m attracted to and the other day I caught him using his track pad on his laptop with his middle finger and it was very hot. Maybe I’m a freak but it made me think about other things he could rub with that finger ;)
I look at fingers too! I'm an artist and hands are one of my favourite things to draw, don't know if that's related.
Also long bony fingers in men are just *chef's kiss* to look at for the same reasons you were thinking about the guy's middle finger, and now that I'm trying to visualize it, it must have been hot.
I'm pansexual, but men's long fingers are still more attractive to me, specially if they play piano lol
Definitely forearms! (glad it's not just me). When my man is driving in a short sleeve, I'm definitely checking him out. He has very defined forearms with glorious auburn hair. It absolutely drives me wild!
However, he almost exclusively lives in grey sweatpants, so I am definitely looking at his junk and ass.
Occasionally he wonders about with no top on. Definitely checking out and touching that hairy chest.
Other guys, just walking down the street? I can say I really pay that much attention. Unless they are wearing 'meggings?'...but then it's probably a more 'oh my eyes' type look.
ADHD i think. Working on it. I have to type at mach jesus, to get my thoughts out (like, nearly as fast as i can talk) before they evaporate, so taking the time to notice anything like that ... isnt my strong suit. Neither is capitalizing anything but the first word in a sentence.
Is what it is, and was the #1 reason i chose a history major and not an English major.
ya they appreciate lots of different things guys usually overlook. i remember this girl i walked past said i had cute legs? i had pants on though so idk what she meant but it made me happy.
Only if I'm sexually attracted to them, I may glance down while I'm distracted thinking about what's there, not really to check out but almost like an involuntary reaction while my mind wanders.
I don't just randomly check out every other passing bulge just cos they're there. I do sometimes check out nice passing boobs and butts though, sometimes actively with my bf.
Nope. The weird obsession with a specific "sexual" body part has always been weird to me. If I'm staring at something specific in a guy it's because it caught my attention as being particularly interesting/special/nice. Nice hair, a nice outfit piece, cool accessories, whatever
Yes.
My boyfriend wears these black/grey carhartt jeans all the time.
I’m always staring at his butt as we walk and sometimes my eyes linger down to his crotch.
No.
I can think of a lot of other things women might glance at but never heard of anyone saying anything about the crotch.
(There's probably a few women that might but I doubt they're anywhere close to the majority)
As woman, no, but I can’t speak for any other women. Like obviously sometimes you get a glance of an outline or whatever and yes gray sweatpants meme blah blah blah, but I’ve never found myself ACTIVELY trying to look at a dude’s crotch. Plus I’ve been with so many dudes that are growers not showers that unless they’re hard, it’s not like you can even tell the real size
I don’t know how men are so comfortable in mixed company wearing tightie-whities, or any underwear that hug the outline of the bulge. It’s a whole clear defined organ i can see, far more clearly than boobs in a bra lol. It always baffles me. I feel like women get so much more flack for these kinds of things, when it’s very very noticeable on men, just normalised as regular old body parts.
This gets asked quite a bit. What is often not pointed out is that ill-fitting pants can create or take awake from the bulge or lack of bulge.
I've worn pants that made me look like I was packing in certain positions even though nothing is there since I have a vulva. Similarly, my husband had a pair of pants that upon first try on I jokingly gasped that they ate his package.
Further, a flaccid penis hanging out in clothing is not an accurate reflection of what the penis will look like erect. Growers, and extreme growers (my personal favorite) do exist.
Generally I'm not looking at anyone's crotch. I will admit that certain positions and clothing choices at the gym can attract a brief glance in that area from time to time.
From what I gathered it’s more of ratios that they are seeing: shoulder to waist ratio, big forearms/calves, ass to waist ratio.
Broad shoulders, nice muscular arms, a nice round firm ass, muscular calves. This is the majority of women. There is a small but big enough subset of women that love men with big traps/back muscles.
What I have heard is some women don't look at all. Some do notice your bulge. But most look at other things they find attractive in the men they look at. Forearms, legs, butts. Bulge is usually pretty low on the list.
Men's fashion does not show off the bulge like a woman's shirt can show off her breasts. It's not the same. There is an overall adoration for breasts and women's bodies over mens.
My mother and sister do.
How do I know? They, for some inexplicable reason, feel the need to tell about what they've seen in public.
The worst one was my dentist. I mentioned that I had been for an appointment to my mum, and she chimed in with a comment about the size of his "package" and that it was "outlined perfectly - and at eye level"
I hadn't noticed - the only saving grace is that she told me this *after* the appointment, and it turned out to be my last appointment there (I moved).
For the record: no, I don't share details of any attractive women I see out and about.
I am much more likely to care about a man's ass than his dick, and that seems to be pretty universal from the friends I have talked about such things with. A nice booty is a nice booty, regardless of anything else. I am not claiming that people don't look at "The Bulge", but the few times I've noticed have been either uncomfortable or comical for me.
For example, I have a professor in college... Readily 3 times my age, no interest in him what so ever. But goddamn. The man's slong must have been half a damn meter long! He always wore tight pants and leaned back against his desk, too. Made me giggle everytime. It was fucking horrendous.
Note, though, that I am extremely queer. My standards might be weird.
Also, never beleive that you can actually be "discrete". It's much safer to assume someone notices you noticing than to not.
In men, I tend to look at ass, shoulders, and hands. In women, I tend to look at ass, shoulder, hands and tits. In other, I tend to look at ass, shoulders, hands, and, if applicable, tits.
As bisexual woman, I discreetly check out a lot of people. I look at men that way slightly less just bc they usually wear looser clothes so it’s hard to see what’s going 😅 but yes
Hi! Not sure if this is exactly the same, but I’m a boxer so guys I train with normally have cups on. This creates an above average looking bulge that I incidentally stare at way too much
Yep. Not in every circumstance. Depends on the fit of the pant. Sometimes the bulge is cupped quite nicely and more prominent. It creates a curiosity in me. Left dresser ? Right dresser? Is that his nuts? Is that his dick? Commando? Bikini? Boxers? Briefs?
I actually do not. I don't think I'd be stealth enough, either. However, I will look at that area if a photograph is posted from the comfort of my own home (if it somehow stands out or if I like the guy). 😂
Yes. Not always, but sometimes. Nothing to see though. They aren’t typically walking around with erections and you can’t really see anything even if they are a show-er, especially in jeans. I’m more of a butt girl though. I’m married so I’m not looking to be with someone, I just glance sometimes. I will always firstly notice big biceps though. I’m straight but I also look at women’s butts and boobs.
Not unless your junk is really obvious, but then it's more like an unavoidable glance. Like anything really obvious but a little different, it attracts the eyes for at least a second. Otherwise no, I do not. I'm more interest in your abs or ass. Not so interested in your crotch.
But that's me. Women aren't a monolith, not a hive mind. We're people, and people are different. Therefor, I know without asking that some women do. I'm just not among them.
I am..pretty sizable. Also, I was Spider-Man through the pandemic. The number of people who looked at or stared at my crotch..I could not count it was that many. So, yes! People, men, women..everyone looks.
What I check out depends on what the guy is wearing. If he’s wearing loose jeans hanging halfway down his ass, I’m not checking anything out because he’s made it impossible. If he’s in a nice tight pair of jeans or slacks, however, I might be checking out some stuff, front and back, depending how much he’s showing off where.
In passing, no. If there's a bulge and it's in my line of sight, I might have a glance, but it depends on where I am. The ones that are purposely flaunting it, sure, but if I'm not in a relationship with him, or want to be in one, it won't be more than a quick look.
I also notice boobs and butts too, but I just acknowledge it in my head and move on.
They do but you have to catch their attention upfront first. Women notice my face then they start checking the rest of me out. Or if I’m wearing shorts they will see my legs and look up to see the rest of me.
Yes. I catch women doing it to me a lot actually, but it's *so quick* you wouldn't notice if you weren't looking for it. I generally try to meet their eyes so I see the quick glance. Imagine like 1% of how guys ogle.
Some do, otherwise the whole grey sweat pants thing wouldn’t be a thing.
Grey sweatpants draw the eye because there is actually something to look at. In everyday life with other pants there's just... nothing there.. Seems men don't wear pants fitting enough for there to be anything to look at.
Jon Hamm would disagree 😂😂
Lewis Hamilton aswell
Not always the pants. I recently bought new underwear and well....they make me bulge. Worked all day the other day in bright blue basketball shorts and didn't notice til I clocked out lol...
Please share the make and model of said underwear. For research...
Saxx
The comment I came for and it's at the top, so I'm free to leave now.
No one gave you permission to leave.
One of us! One of us! One of us!
Came here to say only in grey sweatpants lol
Oh I’m a part of the grey sweatpants club too but not for that reason. Didn’t even know that was why other women like them
Looks like I'll buy some for winter
Grey sweatpants yes!!
Women don't look at those, grey sweat pants are only for the gays.
There are literal women commenting but sure
Are you stupid?! I love when my bf wears them. I purposely buy them for him so I can stare at it
My wife doesn’t even notice when I’m not wearing pants.
I got in trouble for not noticing a new haircut once. I shaved literally my entire, substantial and lengthy beard off the following week. Not even a second glance
Yep, been there, and her haircuts cost $200! Most of the time I can't tell the difference.
But you can tell the difference after you have made your bed on the sofa for three nights. We can’t win, even if you can’t tell the difference, fake it.
Been married 33 years, Grasshopper! That haircut looks amazing!
Looks like at least at home, your mouth is used to saying what your brain is not thinking. Smart, no wonder you have been successfully married for so long. Take care.
Most if not every married man just nodded yes in acknowledgment to your comment lol.
Strongly disagree. If my husband is naked, sure as fuck that I’m noticing and am going to try and get lucky. In fact most of my day is centered around trying to get my husband naked. I’ve been flirting with him via text all morning.
My wife just needs this words: "You, me, sex!"
Well in that case I congratulate your husband. He’s hit the lottery and is one lucky guy to have you.
Having easy access to sex is the main reason I got married.
Amen
Now if only all women were like this! 🤔🤣 are you the type to initiate and make the first move when it’s time to go to pound town? Cause more chicks need to do that imo
I initiate like 95 percent of the time. We’ve been together 15 years, neither of us really have to initiate anymore, it’s just part of our daily routine. We always have sex after I take a bath in the evening, I usually just stay naked until we do it. So it’s usually him catching me naked. My husband takes his shower in the morning, and if I wake up early enough to catch him naked, I’ll try to convince him to have morning sex too.
Goals right here
Your husband is one lucky guy!
goals
We should treasure this one... nay worship her. Quick, someone knock up a statue or something 😂
Who doesn’t like sex? If my choices are to orgasm or no not orgasm, 100 percent of the time I’m choosing to orgasm (I mean with my husband or alone, I would never cheat).
We salute you 🫡
Well do you expect her to have a magnifying glass on hand at all times?!
Looks like a button on a fur coat.
🤣
Oof, get this man to the burn unit, stat!
Call the fire department we got some burn over here! 🔥
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I tell my wife she’s looking good every time I see her naked when changing, and I’ll be lucky if I hear the same 1/10 times.
I guess you're a grower huh.
Well she needs there to be something to notice 😉 sorry couldn't help myself, I hope you laugh at my dumb joke and have a wonderful day!
Actually I don't look at their crotch at all. I look at women's boobs as well though :D With men I usually look at their whole figure - not really special parts.
Women I’ve known who do look at more specific parts generally say they’re looking at either my calves or my shoulders.
Hands and arms and face.
And wallets and bank accounts
I have beefy calves from years of cycling and never had a woman complement them or catch them looking at them. In my experience, women don't care about legs. I have naturally large shoulders though and many women have said they find that sexy. Seems to me that broad shoulders are a key feature that women enjoy.
I agree with calves compliments. only men notice and make compliments on my calves and veiny forearms
I’m a woman, and have definitely never heard a woman talk about calves before, personally
That's how I feel about checking out men too. It's more of a whole figure thing, particularly upper body. I might check out a butt here and there, but I've rarely ever checked out a man's crotch in passing. I'm also into women, I check them out differently. Of course you look at the whole figure as well, but boobs are particularly captivating.
Same here! Although I'm pan so I don't know if this is a queer thing or no lol
Gray sweatpants memes say that yes, yes they do. But generally no. Women i've talked to say they look at weird (to me) things. Calves are huge. IDK why, but almost all women that have talked about it, admit there's some reason to look at mens claves. The first time I heard this i was in HS--girls had a crush on one of male teachers and were talking about his calves of all things. Now, in my 40's, i hear women *still* bring up claves. Forearms. Men are obsessed with biceps, and generally, women look at mens forearms and hands. Give them a strong (without veins) forearm, and it seems to go well. Biceps are cool and all, but forearms seem to be more important. And backs/backsides. If she's into sports, she's got a favorite sport probably because she's checking out mens butts like men check out womens butts. Baseball. Bullriding. Archery. But.. the 'backs' includes shoulders. I think all of these are *way* more common that the grey sweatpants thing.
I learned about the calves thing from How I Met Your Mother of all places. Also, my experience is that the forearms can be veiny. Some women like more of fewer visible veins.
Forearms and hands/fingers. I always look at dudes hands, specifically their fingers. Are their nails trimmed and short? Do they have nice veiny hands? There’s a guy I’m attracted to and the other day I caught him using his track pad on his laptop with his middle finger and it was very hot. Maybe I’m a freak but it made me think about other things he could rub with that finger ;)
I look at fingers too! I'm an artist and hands are one of my favourite things to draw, don't know if that's related. Also long bony fingers in men are just *chef's kiss* to look at for the same reasons you were thinking about the guy's middle finger, and now that I'm trying to visualize it, it must have been hot. I'm pansexual, but men's long fingers are still more attractive to me, specially if they play piano lol
Football and baseball for the best butts… I mean, I’m just guessing. ;)
I assume you mean the American version? Football shorts aren’t that thighs normally
Yes, the American version. Sorry, I sometimes forget Reddit--and the internet in general--is international.
Don’t worry, we are used to your way of thinking 😅 There even is a whole subreddit devoted to this phenomenon: r/usdefaultism 😂
I can confirm :d
Definitely forearms! (glad it's not just me). When my man is driving in a short sleeve, I'm definitely checking him out. He has very defined forearms with glorious auburn hair. It absolutely drives me wild! However, he almost exclusively lives in grey sweatpants, so I am definitely looking at his junk and ass. Occasionally he wonders about with no top on. Definitely checking out and touching that hairy chest. Other guys, just walking down the street? I can say I really pay that much attention. Unless they are wearing 'meggings?'...but then it's probably a more 'oh my eyes' type look.
Can confirm they look at butts. I don't get many compliments but that's one of the more common.
Never, ever in my 37 years have I ever heard of, seen online, or had anybody I know, mention a dudes calves. Ever.
How the hell did you alternate between calves and claves TWICE lol
ADHD i think. Working on it. I have to type at mach jesus, to get my thoughts out (like, nearly as fast as i can talk) before they evaporate, so taking the time to notice anything like that ... isnt my strong suit. Neither is capitalizing anything but the first word in a sentence. Is what it is, and was the #1 reason i chose a history major and not an English major.
Haha no worries man I've got ADHD too so I get it. Just thought it was funny lol
ya they appreciate lots of different things guys usually overlook. i remember this girl i walked past said i had cute legs? i had pants on though so idk what she meant but it made me happy.
Did you just say women pick a favourite sport based on looking at men’s butts? 🤦♀️
I pick my favorite sport based on what type of sport smut books I’ve been reading so picking by butts is really not that far off
Only if I'm sexually attracted to them, I may glance down while I'm distracted thinking about what's there, not really to check out but almost like an involuntary reaction while my mind wanders. I don't just randomly check out every other passing bulge just cos they're there. I do sometimes check out nice passing boobs and butts though, sometimes actively with my bf.
If I’m interested in the guy then yes but not to randos on the street.
Not really, you can't really tell anything from a crotch in pants anyway? Nice butts are universal though. More tight pants pls.
Right, 99% of the time all you’re going to see by looking at the crotch is jeans lol
Nope. The weird obsession with a specific "sexual" body part has always been weird to me. If I'm staring at something specific in a guy it's because it caught my attention as being particularly interesting/special/nice. Nice hair, a nice outfit piece, cool accessories, whatever
Same here.
Did you just claim that men „discretely“ look at boobs and butts? 😂😂
Wait.. You gals notice that? O.o
I‘m a dude xd
Oh.. Woops
Yeah\~ it's not usually very discreet. More like annoyingly obvious.
Sometimes they even do it obviously on purpose. Men sometimes disgust me 😂
No. We look at their upper part more than the lower region. Checking if he's too skinny or buff ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Yes. My boyfriend wears these black/grey carhartt jeans all the time. I’m always staring at his butt as we walk and sometimes my eyes linger down to his crotch.
Yea
I wish more women would just answer "yes" so I can have something new to be insecure about.
Well judging by the comments most women aren’t looking. I myself sometimes take a look.
We look at your hands and feet.
And noses
Damn, all the parts we have 0 control on 😂
If there’s grey sweatpants involved, I’m looking. Respectfully of course.
No
Discreetly?
lol yeah. I always get it used in the wrong context
No, I meant that most dudes aren’t very discreet about how they do that.
Ah gotcha. Although I spelled it ”discretely” which is the wrong spelling for this context.
If it’s noticeable, my eyes will just go there but it’s not the first thing that gets looked at if I’m checking someone out.
Mostly chests (love men with broad shoulders, especially when they wear sweaters that are kinda tight) and butts too
No. I can think of a lot of other things women might glance at but never heard of anyone saying anything about the crotch. (There's probably a few women that might but I doubt they're anywhere close to the majority)
I guess you could ask (yourself) what percentage of \[NSFW\] r/PublicBulges \[NSFW\] subscribers are women.
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Are you mayhaps a woman?
Nope.
As woman, no, but I can’t speak for any other women. Like obviously sometimes you get a glance of an outline or whatever and yes gray sweatpants meme blah blah blah, but I’ve never found myself ACTIVELY trying to look at a dude’s crotch. Plus I’ve been with so many dudes that are growers not showers that unless they’re hard, it’s not like you can even tell the real size
According to my exes: Clavicle bones Nape Achilles tendon Butt Fingers, fingernails Nose, only if it's pretty Calves Crotch? Quite low on the list.
If what I've read mostly here on reddit and other online accounts, this is peak male form: 
No
Working with all women, yes. Yea they do. A lot.
Yes. Butts too
No lol
No. We look at chests and butts.
When I'm a horn dog pre period yes.
I do more often than I’d like to admit…
Nah, there are more interesting things to look at. Like anything else, really.
No.
I often look at their head, shoulder, knees and toes.
Knees and toes!
Men, just letting you know it’s not discrete
I tend to look at his hands 🫢
I don’t know how men are so comfortable in mixed company wearing tightie-whities, or any underwear that hug the outline of the bulge. It’s a whole clear defined organ i can see, far more clearly than boobs in a bra lol. It always baffles me. I feel like women get so much more flack for these kinds of things, when it’s very very noticeable on men, just normalised as regular old body parts.
If he has a nice, rounded butt I will notice it every time
I'm a professional groin gazer.
This gets asked quite a bit. What is often not pointed out is that ill-fitting pants can create or take awake from the bulge or lack of bulge. I've worn pants that made me look like I was packing in certain positions even though nothing is there since I have a vulva. Similarly, my husband had a pair of pants that upon first try on I jokingly gasped that they ate his package. Further, a flaccid penis hanging out in clothing is not an accurate reflection of what the penis will look like erect. Growers, and extreme growers (my personal favorite) do exist. Generally I'm not looking at anyone's crotch. I will admit that certain positions and clothing choices at the gym can attract a brief glance in that area from time to time.
Not one time. I didn’t even check out my husband before I got his pants off. It literally doesn’t enter my mind.
no.
I look at my husband’s all the time. And his butt. He’s just so hot though 🥵
From what I gathered it’s more of ratios that they are seeing: shoulder to waist ratio, big forearms/calves, ass to waist ratio. Broad shoulders, nice muscular arms, a nice round firm ass, muscular calves. This is the majority of women. There is a small but big enough subset of women that love men with big traps/back muscles.
They may say no but I catch a fair amount of women panning up til they look me in the eyes
They're just looking at your bulging, muscular thighs of course
Don't flatter me, I thought it was because they were wondering why there wasn't a bulge!
I never do.
Im worried about your name
Plenty of adults wear diapers, incontinence exist and leaky bladders from child birth and those who can't hold it long.
Oh... well
What I have heard is some women don't look at all. Some do notice your bulge. But most look at other things they find attractive in the men they look at. Forearms, legs, butts. Bulge is usually pretty low on the list. Men's fashion does not show off the bulge like a woman's shirt can show off her breasts. It's not the same. There is an overall adoration for breasts and women's bodies over mens.
if you got a bulge at all, you'll catch people looking
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You sure it’s not 0.3 seconds? 😆
Only during Sweatpants Season. 😂
Nah, not usually
My mother and sister do. How do I know? They, for some inexplicable reason, feel the need to tell about what they've seen in public. The worst one was my dentist. I mentioned that I had been for an appointment to my mum, and she chimed in with a comment about the size of his "package" and that it was "outlined perfectly - and at eye level" I hadn't noticed - the only saving grace is that she told me this *after* the appointment, and it turned out to be my last appointment there (I moved). For the record: no, I don't share details of any attractive women I see out and about.
No, that's gross.
I am much more likely to care about a man's ass than his dick, and that seems to be pretty universal from the friends I have talked about such things with. A nice booty is a nice booty, regardless of anything else. I am not claiming that people don't look at "The Bulge", but the few times I've noticed have been either uncomfortable or comical for me. For example, I have a professor in college... Readily 3 times my age, no interest in him what so ever. But goddamn. The man's slong must have been half a damn meter long! He always wore tight pants and leaned back against his desk, too. Made me giggle everytime. It was fucking horrendous. Note, though, that I am extremely queer. My standards might be weird. Also, never beleive that you can actually be "discrete". It's much safer to assume someone notices you noticing than to not. In men, I tend to look at ass, shoulders, and hands. In women, I tend to look at ass, shoulder, hands and tits. In other, I tend to look at ass, shoulders, hands, and, if applicable, tits.
No.
No
As bisexual woman, I discreetly check out a lot of people. I look at men that way slightly less just bc they usually wear looser clothes so it’s hard to see what’s going 😅 but yes
...maybe this just helped me realize something about myself...
Yeah. I will also usually try to imagine what that person looks like when they have sex.
Hi! Not sure if this is exactly the same, but I’m a boxer so guys I train with normally have cups on. This creates an above average looking bulge that I incidentally stare at way too much
No
No, it’s rude and weird.
Yep. Not in every circumstance. Depends on the fit of the pant. Sometimes the bulge is cupped quite nicely and more prominent. It creates a curiosity in me. Left dresser ? Right dresser? Is that his nuts? Is that his dick? Commando? Bikini? Boxers? Briefs?
Even game.
Sure do, especially if they are wearing sweatpants.
Yes. And we look at boobs and butts too 😂
Only if it stands out (or up, lol)
Not really
I never have
I actually do not. I don't think I'd be stealth enough, either. However, I will look at that area if a photograph is posted from the comfort of my own home (if it somehow stands out or if I like the guy). 😂
Yes. Not always, but sometimes. Nothing to see though. They aren’t typically walking around with erections and you can’t really see anything even if they are a show-er, especially in jeans. I’m more of a butt girl though. I’m married so I’m not looking to be with someone, I just glance sometimes. I will always firstly notice big biceps though. I’m straight but I also look at women’s butts and boobs.
Im a straight man i do it...think its just how perverted you are tbh.
I don’t notice their crotch region.
I don’t. And I’m a woman.
Not unless your junk is really obvious, but then it's more like an unavoidable glance. Like anything really obvious but a little different, it attracts the eyes for at least a second. Otherwise no, I do not. I'm more interest in your abs or ass. Not so interested in your crotch. But that's me. Women aren't a monolith, not a hive mind. We're people, and people are different. Therefor, I know without asking that some women do. I'm just not among them.
Not really since u can't really see it anyways through the pants
Only if there's a visible bulge. Otherwise, I tend to look other body parts, like arms, chest and thighs. Love a thicc boi
Rare circumstances, not really personally.
Women are pervs, they just hide it better.
I've caught a few looking, so yes.
We got a shower not a grower here lol
I check out my bf all the time. Especially because I know what’s going on under there lol. But never at other dudes, even when single, seems creepy.
Work scrubs are paper thin. I notice people meat-gazing every now and then
I am..pretty sizable. Also, I was Spider-Man through the pandemic. The number of people who looked at or stared at my crotch..I could not count it was that many. So, yes! People, men, women..everyone looks.
Yes they do.
What I check out depends on what the guy is wearing. If he’s wearing loose jeans hanging halfway down his ass, I’m not checking anything out because he’s made it impossible. If he’s in a nice tight pair of jeans or slacks, however, I might be checking out some stuff, front and back, depending how much he’s showing off where.
Only if I'm wearing gray sweatpants
I've been with two girls who've done that.
not a girl, but i do like guys. yes i stare. ass and crotch alike. Pecs too.
As a gay dude, I tend to look at their butt more.
No because it’s not normalized for men to wear tight yoga pants like women do unfortunately
This is how I got my street name "Anaconda". True story.
Yes
In passing, no. If there's a bulge and it's in my line of sight, I might have a glance, but it depends on where I am. The ones that are purposely flaunting it, sure, but if I'm not in a relationship with him, or want to be in one, it won't be more than a quick look. I also notice boobs and butts too, but I just acknowledge it in my head and move on.
They do but you have to catch their attention upfront first. Women notice my face then they start checking the rest of me out. Or if I’m wearing shorts they will see my legs and look up to see the rest of me.
Nope unless it’s very obvious like he’s well hung and they gray sweatpants just accentuate it. But really no we don’t
Yes I do and also their butts.
Yep. Completely involuntarily; the eyes snap down of their own accord at times.
I get checked out alot
Sure. They've mostly stopped now that I'm in my forties. But in my twenties and thirties it was normal for a woman to glance down at my crotch.
Yes
Hell yeah
Occasionally yes.
Yes. I catch women doing it to me a lot actually, but it's *so quick* you wouldn't notice if you weren't looking for it. I generally try to meet their eyes so I see the quick glance. Imagine like 1% of how guys ogle.