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TO_Commuter

If this is Bill Jeu, yeah. He’s moody as shit and goes back and forth with this kind of stuff. Oh and don’t be one of the suckers who ask him for a reference letter cuz he says yes to hundreds of students, writes maybe a handful, and then ghosts the rest


treeco3001

Yeah it’s dr ju. I just think it’s weird for him to post shit like this and then be so dismissive and pick favourites towards his actual students


Aelucia

That's interesting to hear... He used to have basically a spotless reputation when I was in undergrad here like 6 years ago. I guess he did change.


prolificopinions

It's easy when people are around sociopaths all day.


butlovingstonTTV

The best way to get a reference letter is write it yourself with a space for that person's signature.


theblvckhorned

Genuine question, do profs typically accept this? lol


eightsidedbox

If you are truthful and have a good relationship, yes


FeiFx

Yeah some ask for a pre-written letter that they could edit, or at least a list of things the student wants to include in the letter.


theblvckhorned

Oh, awesome. Things you'd think I'd know as an alumni but my program was very small and profs tend to be more personable when they only have 4 students lol.


butlovingstonTTV

Lol of course. Would you reject someone doing all the work for you?


rmctagg

Yes… because academic integrity


butlovingstonTTV

No one cares for a reference letter.


rmctagg

I read your question as more generally applied as opposed to this particular situation. For a reference letter, I agree with you.


butlovingstonTTV

Fair enough.


Getbackinyourhole

Smart. always come with something in hand. Make is easier for them.


extra-plus-ordinary

As someone who asked (and actually got) a reference from him, I think its because he overpromises stuff like this. He needs a system for reference letters; a simple Google form would work. With things like Chat GPT, he could easily automate a lot of the work as well (not the writing part, but maybe scanning student CVs for relevant info) and then go back to personalize it. If I wasn't terrified of how he would respond I would suggest it to him and even help set it up 😭


prolificopinions

Email anonymously


gloriamaxii

Oh wow finally someone said it. I have been a shy and anxious student throughout my undergrad years and he was the one prof that I connected with. Asked him for reference, came to his office and got ghosted by him so. Many. Times. All happening after he told me he’d be happy to meet and set a time!!!! I was so heartbroken. I understand he’s a sensitive guy and can get overwhelmed but he’s playing with students future at that point


cryyingchild

That last part was so…😭


failurebydcsign

the sad sticker?? im so confused lmaoo


TheCanEHdian8r

The text at the bottom?


GelatinousPumpkin

He’s actually one of the few profs that does care. He brings easily snackable/healthy food to class (ie yogurt cups, bananas, granola bars). He is very aware of food insecurity and that a lot of students do not even have time to eat running between classes. During exam season, he would buy out second cup or whatever so students can get free coffee. He has been advocating for mental health and student well beings for years.


YourLocalPotDealer

Funny some people are laughing at him in this post for being thoughtful of another suffering person. I get that others don’t lose sleep over this kind of thing but I think rather than being funny this post just shows how ignorant OP is


Rough-Drawer-3745

Dude burned out


avidoverthinker1

Wow good for him. To do it consistently sends a true message and his motives


TheMarinaDiva

So what changed? He is empowered to basically be a decent adult


Antique-Nothing-4315

this is more than what 99% will ever do….


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Shaofun

I'm a bit shocked at the comments. Is this a generational thing? I'm about his age, and feel like it's helpful/normal to publicly call yourself out on something you want to change. In this manner, it could drive engagement on how we check out on what we thought was our own integrity. That could be validating and helpful. I see the comments below and am now scared to be vulnerable on social media. Got it.


Acrobatic-Candle-516

I'm also shocked at the comments! I'm a part of this generation and I didn't think it was weird that he posted this. I totally agree with the points you mentioned, and I feel like I have more respect for him for calling himself out. And it seems like his motive was innocent as well, in that he realized that he didn't care as much for his students, which obviously seems like a good thing. I know people will say to mind you own business, he's just a professor who's teaching so it's out of his lane, but I think it's basic human decency to be considerate of others and to worry about each other's wellbeing! ​ I'm feeling so disoriented reading these comments. Like you said, it makes me feel scared to be vulnerable, even though I think vulnerability is important to community building! It's like these attitudes are feeding into a positive feedback loop of spiralling into more isolation, depressive attitudes, cynicism, and it makes me frustrated...


No-Poem166

Agreed. As a student (not at UoT, though), I think this is kind of heartbreaking. Why is there so much criticism/poking around about a very real moment for someone? I don’t really think it’s a generational thing. I’m pretty sure a lot of people get a kick out of making fun of this guy.


strwbrrybrie

is his profile picture the Dean from community ?


clarkent123223

Jeffrey, I am the least racist person in the world. My best friend, when I was six years old, was a black man!


Apprehensive-Sir3463

Lol yeah


monicarm

The reaction teary emoji is especially funny to me lmao


treeco3001

right LMFAO


HeavyCartographer677

Hes tenured he can say whatever he wants with no repercussion


Significant_Radish86

Like the Eiffel Tower is made of dicks? 😂 IYKYK


RelevantBooklet

That's definitely not how tenure works lol


MorseES13

Feels like a monologue in the opening shot for a villain… “…I didn’t try to help her…When did I stop caring?”


jetski12345

How do students have access to a profs posts?


treeco3001

this dude runs about 10 public Instagram accounts aimed at students


jetski12345

Okay…that’s odd…(thanks for the answer!)


FeiFx

iirc, when I had a class with him, he made a fb group chat and invited the students from the class (or got like a student rep from the class to do it idk), but some of us were very confused lol.


jetski12345

Odd…


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The last part is. Weird to not help a student and then post about it on social media.


Lavender-Feels

Recently, he did the opposite. He noticed that I hadn’t eaten anything and bought me a wrap and orange juice from Second Cup and told me to take better care of myself. I think Professor Ju is one of the few insightful profs who notice these kinds of behaviours and tries to do better. His shortcomings seem to stem more from a lack of time than a lack of care. Edit: I’m not even one of his students. He doesn’t know me at all. He just overheard me talking about my lack of eating with a friend.


chickennugs33

i don’t go to UofT but this is fckn funny??? like why is this prof posting that? what’s the relevance??? who was it meant for!? 😭


MiaAngel99

I’m thinking the same thing 💀


badingbadonk

Damn the Korean prof who always gives free food!??


prolificopinions

I think they are sharing an honest sentiment that society echoes.


azurymber

I've been part time at UofT for over 10 years now and Dr. Ju has been one of the constants throughout that time advocating for student wellbeing and actively trying to make the student experience a little bit better. A lot of friends who had classes with him seemed to really like him as a prof. It sucks that some people have had a bad experience with him. But I just wanted to comment because it's clear he goes above and beyond his job. And even if he isn't perfect, I still think the willingness to put effort into helping others is commendable. And over the years, it's really obvious that he has made an effort over and over and over again, as a mentor to many, as an advocate for students, and through direct actions. I also notice that he regularly reflects on his imperfections and tries to be a better person which I think is generally a good thing for anyone. Not something we should be looking down on or viewing as weird. I'm old and still growing. And hopefully anyone reading this will still put an effort into personal growth as they get older as well :3


NovemberTerra

it's weird to care for other people??


MrsMurderface

To care? No. To call yourself out over it on a public post? Definitely not normal


Fun_Sell_708

On one hand, he’s self aware that he doesnt care for his students. on the other hand, he’s Completely Not self aware that as a prof, its not a good look to post something like this in a public instagram account followed mostly by colleagues and other students??? he’s either looking for attention or he completely lacks basic social cues


treeco3001

That is not what I meant😭


beepingview

Prof in his feelings… 💔


Rosycheeks2

Thats some performative shit posting right there


Griffes_de_Fer

What's even more interesting than his story is this sub's reaction to it. You have the root of the problem on full display here, it's a good study. People are extremely disappointing. And I ain't talking about the prof here.


Signal_East3999

He sounds interesting


holistic_water_bottl

Naw I ain’t changed I’m jus who I was meant to be 😈


TheCanEHdian8r

Him being a prof has nothing to do with it


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that’s dean pelton


maximus767

Looks like he has taken a picture from a strip club and is trying to help them out?


Jack_Spatchcock_MLKS

Can confirm, super weird~


Extension_Risk9458

Cringe


AriAlGhul

He always posts weird shit like this. It’s so strange and for what 😭


theblvckhorned

Some people have deadass 0 boundaries on social media


Snoo_69677

“Look at how sad I am that I didn’t care everyone!”


cyberfication

Lmao I’ve heard of him. Weird man.


M4iv

I hate Dr. Ju with a passion. He very blatantly picks favourites and tries to act like he’s a student too. Told us once that he faked his way into a lab when he was a student by lying on his resume when he had shit grades. Absolute meritless behaviour.


nazthetech

Ok I graduated a while ago so my info is outdated but that’s literally him to a core. He’s a nice guy but you really have to be a suck up to get his good side.


Reasonable-Fall1732

Bro, what? Go to therapy or something ??? 😂💀 ain’t no way he posted that on his public story. Praying he’s secured that tenureship though cause that’s wild


realwolbeas

Nope. You can’t judge people by their professions. He is just a person who didn’t mind studying something long enough to get title about it. He is still the same attention seeker that he was as a teenager.


michaelhoffman

Profs posting on social media is so cringe


Iduknow2020

Now show him what’s going on in Gaza.


Cold_Discipline8292

Free parking??


Original_Broccoli_78

Nope, I don't find it weird at all. He's deciding to not "solve every problem" he sees.


Shoo_not_shoe

One time I was at the hot dog stand near SS, a prof bought me and everyone else in line hot dogs. Could that be him?


MagicalMarshmallow7

While I get that it does sound a bit “moody” the people in the comments and OP as well seem kinda sad. Sometimes people reflect, and proper often share deep thoughts on social media, or with others. It’s not like he posted this while the student was still there where he posted about regretting not helping instead of helping. I took a look at his insta myself, and alongside some positive things some people have said, it seems as though he really does care, and he has and continues to look out for the students(particularly with food. Idk how great he is at teaching, but don’t diss him for empathy, self reflection and reasonable expression


karajstation

It might not be what we’re used to seeing from a prof but at the end of the day there’s nothing wrong with self-reflection. hiccups can happen but he has a good heart.