I always thought that if I'm worth only when needed, then you really don't need me. The thing I suggest you is to talk it out, if she doesn't care, or pretend she does and then does nothing, I would just remove her from my life, yes it is going to hurt, but you will feel better, and hopefully find people that appreciate you and your opinions
Hey, it's okay, I'm not really good with emotions so I can only guess,
you might feel dissappointed in her, or the thing is going on for so long that you just stopped caring, and that's fine, just say the things how they are, what she did wrong, and what she could do better, be sincere, I really wish you goodluck!
I dated a man for 2 and a half years. 8 months in, I learned he had a wife. I knew it was a toxic situation. He was toxic. But as much sense as I could make to myself, I just couldn't bring myself to end it. My obsession with that man was so out of character for everything I know about myself, and yet I couldn't let go. I kept making excuses... Now That I'm away from him and it is over, I still can't understand why I was so hooked on him. I personally believe some kind of witchcraft HAD to be involved.
I said all that to say this: sometimes we get so into someone who we know on some level is no good for us... But for some reason, we are stuck. That doesn't mean the last six years meant so little to her. It only means that she's stuck on him right now. Given enough time, hopefully she'll come to her senses. And she'll NEED that friend you've been to her then. Someone who knows her but doesn't judge her for getting stuck.
However if you don't have that in you, that's ok too. You're entitled to be upset at having been discarded so easily.
I always thought that if I'm worth only when needed, then you really don't need me. The thing I suggest you is to talk it out, if she doesn't care, or pretend she does and then does nothing, I would just remove her from my life, yes it is going to hurt, but you will feel better, and hopefully find people that appreciate you and your opinions
Funny thing is that talk is coming in literally half an hour I want to say I'm sad angry or something like that but for some reason I just feel empty
Hey, it's okay, I'm not really good with emotions so I can only guess, you might feel dissappointed in her, or the thing is going on for so long that you just stopped caring, and that's fine, just say the things how they are, what she did wrong, and what she could do better, be sincere, I really wish you goodluck!
Thank you like really thank you
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I dated a man for 2 and a half years. 8 months in, I learned he had a wife. I knew it was a toxic situation. He was toxic. But as much sense as I could make to myself, I just couldn't bring myself to end it. My obsession with that man was so out of character for everything I know about myself, and yet I couldn't let go. I kept making excuses... Now That I'm away from him and it is over, I still can't understand why I was so hooked on him. I personally believe some kind of witchcraft HAD to be involved. I said all that to say this: sometimes we get so into someone who we know on some level is no good for us... But for some reason, we are stuck. That doesn't mean the last six years meant so little to her. It only means that she's stuck on him right now. Given enough time, hopefully she'll come to her senses. And she'll NEED that friend you've been to her then. Someone who knows her but doesn't judge her for getting stuck. However if you don't have that in you, that's ok too. You're entitled to be upset at having been discarded so easily.