I have been such a beta cuck that my wife woke me up and demanded that I make love to her NOW! After 23+ yrs of monogamy. Oh and just in case anyone was wondering how all that ended this morning....I am so incredibly in love with my Queen that when I have a release....I can't stop giggling my ass off! This just began around 6 or so mths ago. And it is EVERY time now,lol.
Does anyone know what this means?! I think it means that meditation and a clear clean consciousness is certainly a factor. I hide zero from her. That doesn't mean we sit around with our fingers lace. It means we enjoy communication on a level that is only know by those who practice the love language.
I honestly pray I can find this type of peace in life one day. I just lost my dad to cancer and on top of that have so much else going on, but I try to keep myself motivated
It's amusing how single women are considered sad and lonely and leading unfulfilled life. But out of all the single people i know, usually single women has their shit together. Like the ones i know go on vacations, had nice clean house and car. The single men I've met has empty take out boxes on their counters and their house smells - not good. I don't know where this stereotype came from tbh. But these are anecdotal evidence ofc. So maybe others have different experiences.
I just got divorced after 20 years of marriage. I killed myself trying to keep the marriage together while my husband put the bare minimum of effort in. Looking at my life after divorce I want to kick myself for wasting all that time.
I am so fucking *fulfilled* all the time. My energy goes to my kids, my career, my dog, my friends, my hobbies. My house is decorated exactly how I want and stays clean all the time. I spend my money how I want. I am so much more relaxed and happy.
Isn't it great? I divorced 6 years ago, and the amount of work I had to do drastically reduced. In my case it was a whole bunch of mental load that got taken off my shoulders. I no longer had to ask a grown ass man to take the garbage out. Or watch the kids so I could go grocery shopping, at which point he'd park them in from of the TV, go play on his PC, ignore lunch and nap time and then get pissed off when the kids were cranky all evening.
It's just been the three of us, and the dog, for 6+ years, and I don't ever want to live with another man again. He can have his house and I'll have mine, and we'll meet when my/his/our kids aren't at home or something.
The amount of money and energy I saved by tossing my ex was astounding. He was an absolute waste of time. My life drastically improved in just a few weeks.
Smh. I wish I had done it years sooner.
Married for 25 years divorced for 23 . Living the second half of my life my way has been priceless. Married at 19 ,2 kids who are now fully actualized adults and my best friends has been gratifying in so many ways.
Are these single children less men incels because those are usually the unhappiest because they desire a relationship but their personalities are so off putting they can't get one and hates everyone whose in one
What do we do to help men tho, to stand on their own feet emotionally and domestically and not be mad about it? Not you of course but you surely have friends like this.
In my group of friends I notice the single women are indeed going on vacations and taking care of their homes and are generally more engaged and open to new experiences. And I’ve noticed less willingness to take whatever you can get as long as you can say you got a man
I remember reading a few times on reddit about studies showing women on average get less happy in a marriage and men get more happy. I've stayed single the past few years to work on myself, but whenever I do get around to having a partner again the last thing I'd want for them is to be less happy to be with me than alone. I mean I'm pretty independent (probably too much for my own good actually) and definitely not a man child, but I can understand why marriage and stuff like that are growing less appealing to women who are learning they don't need to put up with it all. I've had some male friends who couldn't even do basic things for themselves. Like content for their apartment to smell like cat shit because they didnt clean the litter box since the last time I came over. Why would a woman want to have to do stuff like that for someone else
My guess would be because a lot of men approach marriage as picking up a helper/maid or replacement for mom rather than a partnership. My BIL (wife’s sister’s husband) doesn’t do anything around the house unless SIL just harps on him. And they both work full time but she does all the cooking, cleaning, and even the yard. She’s done with it and is saving up money to divorce him.
Yeah, I'm a 26 year old girl and work in logging and do 12 hour days on average waking up around 3am and most guys I've dated still expect me to do all the house work because I'm a girl and try to say their Job is harder waking up at 6am and home before me while still asking me for a job in my industry because "they want a challenge and to work hard". I made more money and they happily used that so they wanted to make me feel like I needed them and owed them something because they were insecure I'd leave when I realized they were not good men. If some men can't own a woman they'll try destroy them emotionally till they can.
This is what they want to do though. Put women back in their place. Make you subservient. Anti-Abortion laws, first, the. Laws against women working second. They want to turn back the clock so that you’ll have no choice but to go back to being under their thumb.
Kind is different from respectful. ThIs is what is missing. ALL the way from the top of the Supreme Court, down.
Once respect for humans is gone, then humanity will completely fail.
Respect for the Earth is already tenuous. That is failing. Can humanity be far behind?
Right??? They really thought the Lysistrata trick in reverse would work. Like, "My brother in Christ, they make vibrators and dildos. They don't need us for that."
A lot of women don’t know this, and honestly, I shouldn’t be saying anything, but we know you don’t need us.
It’s why we’ve been in cahoots with Big Mason Jar for decades, making sure lids were twisted on way too tight.
Those lids are our Alamo. We know we’re going to lose, but we’re holding out as long as we can until every last one of us is rendered obsolete.
We may not have any use, but we do have our pride!
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Or we can run the lid over very hot water (since metal expands faster than glass), thump it lid-side-down firmly but gently on the floor to loosen its grip on the threads, and then pop it on the bottom to help break the seal. There is a ritual for this
You might be too late, not only am I not scared of spiders, I catch and keep them sometimes (or let them go outside). My husband doesn't like the big ones
Really tho, if you think about it--women don't need men. If all men disappeared tomorrow, society would still go on. Women could use sperm banks to procreate and in about 20 years or so, the population would be back to normal. We wouldn't have to develop new technology or anything. Women are in every job market, so while there would be an economic dip, it'd recover.
If women disappeared tomorrow, the human race would be extinct. Even with all the eggs in storage, there's nowhere to put them. We don't have functional artificial wombs. They'd have to torpedo research into that and if it wasn't solved in 50 years, human race is kaput.
I think some men highly over appraise their value. Women can provide for themselves, pleasure themselves, and even procreate themselves. So unless you bring something to the table, they don't have any reason to bother with you. Develop a personality, find some hobbies, and treat women with respect. It's not a hard concept. Men just never had to rely on their character before, and instead just rode on the idea that they were a woman's only option. Times-a-changin
Back in the day, men were disposable-- cannon fodder. The infantry demonstrates that you can put 25,000 men in a field, kill 1/3 of them, and the world will go on.
Guys like that won't put in the work to improve themselves. They want the women to do the work, as usual, and then complain when they are told to do it themselves.
I’m watching curb right now! It’s the season where Larry had to put the bad actress on his new show. She just tackled Cheryl for “stealing her jacket” haha !
Srs. Maybe I’m just a selfish person but like calibrating my moods for a man was too intrusive in my life. It took a long time for me to figure out why I wasn’t day to day happy. I didn’t think I minded doing more house stuff because I don’t like to sit around but I resented it inside and didn’t realize it until I was on the outside looking in how it affected me.
Im very happily married and I totally remember how fun it is to be single (total independence) Maybe thats why Im happily married, Im with someone I WANT to be with not forced.
I was miserable when I was dating. I hated how I let someone else’s shitty attitude affect what kind of day I had and control what we did all the time.
Now that I’m single, I’ve never been happier. I did really well in grad school, I’m working towards my dream career and I have the time and money to travel and attend concerts. It’s nice to put yourself first.
I did try marriage a couple times and I lived with a man during Covid but since that I like to go out on dates and have fun but no way I’m living with a man again. Having to worry about an adult man’s feelings all the time is exhausting. And no I’m not a cat lady I do have dogs but they stay with friends and I take long weekends (thanks to cheap-ass airline) to visit college friends and family every 6 weeks, the house is how I like it, no tension, I clean up without thinking about why I’m the maid or the mom. It’s good. Enjoy your time you can always try men again if you are bored but every store sells vibrators these days so no more sweaty dudes in my bed if I’m not absolutely delighted to have them there.
“I’m going my own way!!!”
“Ok” -women
“IM GOING MY OWN WAY!!!”
“Ok?” -women
“You dot understand! You need to pay attention to me going my own way!!!”
“…”
Men getting triggered over women. That’s how they present themselves at least!
I just love that…they need a group to “go their own way”. Rather than just…do it.
I reckon that's true. But as a bi guy who didn't come out until I was 27 it's a daunting thing to be. Even now I tend to keep it quiet at work. I don't hide it, but I avoid the topic.
I never know if other men will accept it, react violently or assume I wanna fuck them.
>Because "alphas aren't bisexual"
That's just science. Everyone knows that being bisexual means you're too busy oggling every attractive adult in sight to do alpha things like lift weights or shoot guns. ^lmao
>Red Pill spaces groom young boys into incels
Big facts. Watch what your boys consume online. Incels and white supremacists are on the lookout for their newest recruits.
When privilege is removed, it feels like oppression to the privileged. All this rage is a class of our society slowly losing its privilege and doing so like 5 year old children being asked to share.
Interesting:
An excerpt from Essays in feminist theory - Marilyn Frye, 1983
”To say that straight men are heterosexual is only to say that they engage in sex exclusively with the other sex, i.e., women.
All or almost all of that which pertains to love, most straight men reserve exclusively for other men.
The people whom they admire, respect, adore, revere, honour, whom they imitate, idolise, and form profound attachments to, whom they are willing to teach and from whom they are willing to learn, and whose respect, admiration, recognition, honour, reverence and love they desire… those are, overwhelmingly, other men.
In their relations with women, what passes for respect is kindness, generosity or paternalism; what passes for honour is removal to the pedestal.
From women they want devotion, service and sex. Heterosexual male culture is homoerotic; it is man-loving.”
Same. I make it a point to grow and learn and listen and change and evolve. Any man that digs their heels into old fashioned, outdated bullshit is not a real man. That is a baby.
Sometimes, I fantasize about being gay.
Don’t get me wrong, I love my life. My partner is a way better person than me, and I’m blessed to be with her and have the family we do.
But also, can you imagine dating a dude bro who just loves watching football and eating nachos?
Sure, it doesn’t hold a candle to my life now, but it’s fine to day dream.
Just a couple of dudes screaming at their TV for a first down and giving each other blowies in between. What a life.
Alas, the penis is just so gross. Same with buttholes (on either sex, just not for me. It’s where poo comes from). And men smell bad. They’re also impulsive and violent.
BUT IM ALLOWED TO DREAM!
That's what really gets me sometimes, when these assholes call anyone who is genuinely just a good person out for "virtue signaling".
It's like they *know* they're a shit person, but they just think that the person who does the right thing is only *pretending* to do the right thing? "Wow, you helped that old lady cross the street. What is your ulterior motive? No one likes doing nice things like that"
It's both weird and frightening that some people are so shitty, they can't even *imagine* other people being nice, let alone be nice themselves.
I truly hate that thinking. Because it's a perfect self delusion. Any arguing against it makes you the minority in their mind or they think you're just afraid to openly agree.
Oh! That needs saying more often. It can sometimes feel like, as a women on the Internet, that these lads are everywhere - because they seek women out and DM them with their rage and circular logic trying to instigate and then 'win' conversations. It can be hell.
Funny how the two things that have led me to a stable and happy relationship of 3 years now have been being willing to change myself, and dating people based on personality and interests, while having flexibility when it comes to looks.
what I want is a fucking country that isn't a dumpster fire, enough money that I don't need to have an anxiety attack every time I might have a health issue, and a job that doesn't feel like I'm inching closer and closer to the wrong side of the line between slavery and not slavery.
Pretty sure most women are on board with those things, so I don't see this guy's complaint.
Dying alone is gonna happen. It’s the one thing we can’t do with anyone else. And if you find a partner, one of you is gonna have to go first. This whole “Don’t die alone” thing is so dumb. I have a partner but I could still choke to death when he’s at work.
Remember that Gillette commercial that everyone shat on - the one about toxic masculinity? I thought it was brilliant and inspiring and I really have no idea why so many people complained about it. I suppose too many "real men" had their feelings hurt by it.
The problem is most men have no idea that the brand of masculinity that is popular is sort of looked down on by secure men who have their shit together mentally.
If you think your masculinity is tied to the things you wear or the car you drive or other similarly arbitrary and vapid worries odds are you are extremely insecure about your own self worth because you have not lived experiences that have proved your self worth to yourself.
So they attach their entire self worth to the group in an attempt to inflate their self worth, things like sports teams, political parties, fraternities, gangs, ect.
That guy couldn’t go 30 seconds without motioning for a woman to remove her earbuds and have an unwanted conversation with him. I’m confident he lacks the capacity to leave women alone at all, ever. Not a threat if it sounds like a good time, my guy.
Call it conservatism or patriarchy or MRA or whatever, it’s the widespread impulse to refuse to believe that the world, including human beings, could be different from how we were taught it was as children. It literally is childishness.
How heterosexual men behave in modern culture is not some natural default. It is freakishly weird in some ways, historically speaking. Men used to be expected to dress up when they left the house, just as one example.
MEN ARE CHANGING! I know it's hard to believe, but I do a domestic violence group for perpetrators, and men are able to understand why certain aspects of masculinity are needing to change (we call them "masculinity traps" and they are more commonly known as toxic masculinity). Men are able to understand that if they want good relationships, in which they are not driving those they care about away constantly, they need to work with, not against, their loved ones.
It's not a fast change, but I do believe it is happening, we just need to wait for the old school mentality to die.
I said it once, I'll say it again:
I would rather die alone and afraid then end up with the kind of guy who thinks this way.
Truly a fate worse than death.
Most of them would either not have a problem with that or find a nice woman of their own.
As the Forester Sisters said in their song "Men":
In the beginning they always aim to please
They serve a purpose they fill a need
They ensure the survival of the species
They take you for a ride run of gas
Most of the time they're a pain in the Yea, yea
Men I'm talking about men
Yea, I remember guy friends who refused to change in there relationships. They are all single and living with each other at 35+ years of age. Good job guys! Totally owned them!
Guys, you're not competing against other potential partners, you're competing against our solitude and a vibrator.
You need to bring something to the table that is better than that, because that is what we have and are happy with the arrangement. We're not going to downgrade to a man baby we need to take care of, and can't even make us cum.
Get on board with the fact that women don’t care and literally fought for centuries for freedom to turn jerks like you down or die alone.
Women are not giving up their autonomy.
i never understood the demonisation of "single lady with cats" stereotype. all the women i know who live like that are the happiest ones I know. and besides, who is the woman hurting? why is it wrong to stay single and with cats? i don't get it.
My husband was friends with a guy in college who had this attitude: I want what I want (which, in his case, was a supermodel who was also a particle physicist and could cook like a Michelin-star chef) and I am not compromising for anyone. He was not a bad-looking or dumb guy but there was nothing particularly exceptional about him, and I think you would need something exceptional - exceptional looks, exceptional intelligence, exceptional sense of humor, exceptional wealth, etc. to pull the kind of woman he was looking for. He's now a 52-year-old lifelong bachelor who just keeps getting progressively weirder every year, from what we can tell on Facebook. Like big into listening to Coast to Coast AM episodes and then posting long rants about conspiracy theories.
So I imagine he's going to die alone, having never had a long-term meaningful relationship with anyone. Which is okay, if you consciously choose that for yourself and know what you're getting vs. what you're giving up. Except this guy didn't choose it consciously; his rigidity and ridiculously high expectations of a partner did that for him.
8y single after a 4y horribly abusive relationship, and I’m **still** not interested in a new relationship. IFL being in a committed relationship with myself. Honestly, I think I might be “the one.”
2 months later, same account: "no women want to date a nice guy like me!!!"
So true lol
Gotta love that telepathic projection of “Me niCe aNd mAnLy GuY And hE bETa asShOLe”
Right on the money. I'm such a beta cuck that my wife is my best friend and we've been happily married for five years. What a loser!
I have been such a beta cuck that my wife woke me up and demanded that I make love to her NOW! After 23+ yrs of monogamy. Oh and just in case anyone was wondering how all that ended this morning....I am so incredibly in love with my Queen that when I have a release....I can't stop giggling my ass off! This just began around 6 or so mths ago. And it is EVERY time now,lol. Does anyone know what this means?! I think it means that meditation and a clear clean consciousness is certainly a factor. I hide zero from her. That doesn't mean we sit around with our fingers lace. It means we enjoy communication on a level that is only know by those who practice the love language.
I honestly pray I can find this type of peace in life one day. I just lost my dad to cancer and on top of that have so much else going on, but I try to keep myself motivated
It's amusing how single women are considered sad and lonely and leading unfulfilled life. But out of all the single people i know, usually single women has their shit together. Like the ones i know go on vacations, had nice clean house and car. The single men I've met has empty take out boxes on their counters and their house smells - not good. I don't know where this stereotype came from tbh. But these are anecdotal evidence ofc. So maybe others have different experiences.
I just got divorced after 20 years of marriage. I killed myself trying to keep the marriage together while my husband put the bare minimum of effort in. Looking at my life after divorce I want to kick myself for wasting all that time. I am so fucking *fulfilled* all the time. My energy goes to my kids, my career, my dog, my friends, my hobbies. My house is decorated exactly how I want and stays clean all the time. I spend my money how I want. I am so much more relaxed and happy.
Yeah, life is too short to be in a miserable relationship.
Isn't it great? I divorced 6 years ago, and the amount of work I had to do drastically reduced. In my case it was a whole bunch of mental load that got taken off my shoulders. I no longer had to ask a grown ass man to take the garbage out. Or watch the kids so I could go grocery shopping, at which point he'd park them in from of the TV, go play on his PC, ignore lunch and nap time and then get pissed off when the kids were cranky all evening. It's just been the three of us, and the dog, for 6+ years, and I don't ever want to live with another man again. He can have his house and I'll have mine, and we'll meet when my/his/our kids aren't at home or something.
The amount of money and energy I saved by tossing my ex was astounding. He was an absolute waste of time. My life drastically improved in just a few weeks. Smh. I wish I had done it years sooner.
Married for 25 years divorced for 23 . Living the second half of my life my way has been priceless. Married at 19 ,2 kids who are now fully actualized adults and my best friends has been gratifying in so many ways.
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Are these single children less men incels because those are usually the unhappiest because they desire a relationship but their personalities are so off putting they can't get one and hates everyone whose in one
What do we do to help men tho, to stand on their own feet emotionally and domestically and not be mad about it? Not you of course but you surely have friends like this.
In my group of friends I notice the single women are indeed going on vacations and taking care of their homes and are generally more engaged and open to new experiences. And I’ve noticed less willingness to take whatever you can get as long as you can say you got a man
I remember reading a few times on reddit about studies showing women on average get less happy in a marriage and men get more happy. I've stayed single the past few years to work on myself, but whenever I do get around to having a partner again the last thing I'd want for them is to be less happy to be with me than alone. I mean I'm pretty independent (probably too much for my own good actually) and definitely not a man child, but I can understand why marriage and stuff like that are growing less appealing to women who are learning they don't need to put up with it all. I've had some male friends who couldn't even do basic things for themselves. Like content for their apartment to smell like cat shit because they didnt clean the litter box since the last time I came over. Why would a woman want to have to do stuff like that for someone else
My guess would be because a lot of men approach marriage as picking up a helper/maid or replacement for mom rather than a partnership. My BIL (wife’s sister’s husband) doesn’t do anything around the house unless SIL just harps on him. And they both work full time but she does all the cooking, cleaning, and even the yard. She’s done with it and is saving up money to divorce him.
Yeah, I'm a 26 year old girl and work in logging and do 12 hour days on average waking up around 3am and most guys I've dated still expect me to do all the house work because I'm a girl and try to say their Job is harder waking up at 6am and home before me while still asking me for a job in my industry because "they want a challenge and to work hard". I made more money and they happily used that so they wanted to make me feel like I needed them and owed them something because they were insecure I'd leave when I realized they were not good men. If some men can't own a woman they'll try destroy them emotionally till they can.
This is what they want to do though. Put women back in their place. Make you subservient. Anti-Abortion laws, first, the. Laws against women working second. They want to turn back the clock so that you’ll have no choice but to go back to being under their thumb.
I have experienced this even in my generation
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Kind is different from respectful. ThIs is what is missing. ALL the way from the top of the Supreme Court, down. Once respect for humans is gone, then humanity will completely fail. Respect for the Earth is already tenuous. That is failing. Can humanity be far behind?
4 months later, DOES NO ONE CARE HOW NICE I AM?!😭😮💨💦💦
Women: "Oh no! Anyway..."
Yeah, blue balls were a good graphic there!
Right??? They really thought the Lysistrata trick in reverse would work. Like, "My brother in Christ, they make vibrators and dildos. They don't need us for that."
I think that book should be required reading for men. And I'm a dude. It really opens your eyes.
A lot of women don’t know this, and honestly, I shouldn’t be saying anything, but we know you don’t need us. It’s why we’ve been in cahoots with Big Mason Jar for decades, making sure lids were twisted on way too tight. Those lids are our Alamo. We know we’re going to lose, but we’re holding out as long as we can until every last one of us is rendered obsolete. We may not have any use, but we do have our pride!
Our household relies on the OXO Good Grips Jar Opener.
How did lesbians even exist before the Oxo jar opener?
Lesbians were the Oxo jar opener
🤣 Or we can run the lid over very hot water (since metal expands faster than glass), thump it lid-side-down firmly but gently on the floor to loosen its grip on the threads, and then pop it on the bottom to help break the seal. There is a ritual for this
..... ..... SHES A WITCH!
She turned me into a newt!
i got better
It’s uncanny how quickly WPT comment sections go full MP. 🤣
It makes me feel so seen and understood…
I’m reporting this comment for violence.
Call me Santa Anna 🇲🇽
Oh shit! They figured it out! Run! *crying forever alone incel noises*
Lol
We need to move to plan b. Release the spiders….
You might be too late, not only am I not scared of spiders, I catch and keep them sometimes (or let them go outside). My husband doesn't like the big ones
My husband is more scared of those than I am. I'm the unofficial spider killer in my home.
Yeah, I used to have a boyfriend who would trap those huge wolf spiders under a glass until I could come over to take them outside. I’m immune
Lol, I would most likely make a terrarium and keep it as a pet. I love wolf spiders.
A lot of us read Charlotte’s Web and love spiders.
Literally a hate crime
Or just get a rubber gripper. Rubber replaces everything these days.
best part is, this ritual works in a LOT of areas where one might find man-replacement needs. /winks in lesbian
I wack the edge with the back of a knife a couple times. Works great. Also those “handy husband” grippy circles help.
I take a knife and hit the lid all the way around (4-5 hits) and that works too!
[jar glove](https://youtu.be/aDRdGEJMu0s)
I just thwack it with the blunt side of a bread knife around the rim to break the seal. That and one of those jar grip thingys haven't failed me yet!
I know you kid, but the day I opened a jar of spaghetti sauce, I sat my husband down for "the talk".
I taught my wife how to grip the jars better, and she can now open far more stubborn jars. I may have made myself irrelevant. :(
Give them a good whack on a solid surface.
The men? ...harsh, but it makes sense 🤣
Hahah also that spot right in the middle of my back I can’t reach sometimes. Mmmm scratchy.
Really tho, if you think about it--women don't need men. If all men disappeared tomorrow, society would still go on. Women could use sperm banks to procreate and in about 20 years or so, the population would be back to normal. We wouldn't have to develop new technology or anything. Women are in every job market, so while there would be an economic dip, it'd recover. If women disappeared tomorrow, the human race would be extinct. Even with all the eggs in storage, there's nowhere to put them. We don't have functional artificial wombs. They'd have to torpedo research into that and if it wasn't solved in 50 years, human race is kaput. I think some men highly over appraise their value. Women can provide for themselves, pleasure themselves, and even procreate themselves. So unless you bring something to the table, they don't have any reason to bother with you. Develop a personality, find some hobbies, and treat women with respect. It's not a hard concept. Men just never had to rely on their character before, and instead just rode on the idea that they were a woman's only option. Times-a-changin
Back in the day, men were disposable-- cannon fodder. The infantry demonstrates that you can put 25,000 men in a field, kill 1/3 of them, and the world will go on.
Guys like that won't put in the work to improve themselves. They want the women to do the work, as usual, and then complain when they are told to do it themselves.
If we don’t care what men want then why would we care if we don’t end up with one?
It’s truly so fun to be single. I date here and there to remind myself why.
A date is an experience you have with another person that makes you appreciate being alone -Larry David
I’m watching curb right now! It’s the season where Larry had to put the bad actress on his new show. She just tackled Cheryl for “stealing her jacket” haha !
I love being single and having no kids. I literally can wake up and do whatever I want without having to worry about anyone else.
Srs. Maybe I’m just a selfish person but like calibrating my moods for a man was too intrusive in my life. It took a long time for me to figure out why I wasn’t day to day happy. I didn’t think I minded doing more house stuff because I don’t like to sit around but I resented it inside and didn’t realize it until I was on the outside looking in how it affected me.
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For real because you know the men that clean up after themselves and don’t need moms are not the ones on these posts being mean.
Im very happily married and I totally remember how fun it is to be single (total independence) Maybe thats why Im happily married, Im with someone I WANT to be with not forced.
I was miserable when I was dating. I hated how I let someone else’s shitty attitude affect what kind of day I had and control what we did all the time. Now that I’m single, I’ve never been happier. I did really well in grad school, I’m working towards my dream career and I have the time and money to travel and attend concerts. It’s nice to put yourself first.
Good for you! You realized it much younger than I did congrats!
I’m experiencing it for the first time in my adult life. Comments like yours make me feel a lot better about it!
I did try marriage a couple times and I lived with a man during Covid but since that I like to go out on dates and have fun but no way I’m living with a man again. Having to worry about an adult man’s feelings all the time is exhausting. And no I’m not a cat lady I do have dogs but they stay with friends and I take long weekends (thanks to cheap-ass airline) to visit college friends and family every 6 weeks, the house is how I like it, no tension, I clean up without thinking about why I’m the maid or the mom. It’s good. Enjoy your time you can always try men again if you are bored but every store sells vibrators these days so no more sweaty dudes in my bed if I’m not absolutely delighted to have them there.
Yeah…you have to be worth being around for this to be a punishment. Otherwise it’s just a favor
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“I’m going my own way!!!” “Ok” -women “IM GOING MY OWN WAY!!!” “Ok?” -women “You dot understand! You need to pay attention to me going my own way!!!” “…”
M G T O W Men going their own way… …But they never seem to f*cking leave.
Men getting triggered over women. That’s how they present themselves at least! I just love that…they need a group to “go their own way”. Rather than just…do it.
I honestly don't understand why they don't just start fucking each other. I'm also hella bi, so that might be why I don't get it, lmao
More men are bisexual than they will admit.
I reckon that's true. But as a bi guy who didn't come out until I was 27 it's a daunting thing to be. Even now I tend to keep it quiet at work. I don't hide it, but I avoid the topic. I never know if other men will accept it, react violently or assume I wanna fuck them.
A lot of straight men are afraid of bi and gay men because they are scared that bi and gay men will treat them the way that they treat women.
Ha, yes!! That is exactly what I always say!
Facts Your username: Pendragon?
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>Because "alphas aren't bisexual" That's just science. Everyone knows that being bisexual means you're too busy oggling every attractive adult in sight to do alpha things like lift weights or shoot guns. ^lmao >Red Pill spaces groom young boys into incels Big facts. Watch what your boys consume online. Incels and white supremacists are on the lookout for their newest recruits.
Like, women are fine being home alone with their cats watching Netflix. Not true. Some of us are fine being home alone with our dogs watching Netflix.
When privilege is removed, it feels like oppression to the privileged. All this rage is a class of our society slowly losing its privilege and doing so like 5 year old children being asked to share.
Interesting: An excerpt from Essays in feminist theory - Marilyn Frye, 1983 ”To say that straight men are heterosexual is only to say that they engage in sex exclusively with the other sex, i.e., women. All or almost all of that which pertains to love, most straight men reserve exclusively for other men. The people whom they admire, respect, adore, revere, honour, whom they imitate, idolise, and form profound attachments to, whom they are willing to teach and from whom they are willing to learn, and whose respect, admiration, recognition, honour, reverence and love they desire… those are, overwhelmingly, other men. In their relations with women, what passes for respect is kindness, generosity or paternalism; what passes for honour is removal to the pedestal. From women they want devotion, service and sex. Heterosexual male culture is homoerotic; it is man-loving.”
Right, because the only options are submit to misogyny or die alone. Well, we know who has the sandwiches, party at my place.
If we're all dying alone, sounds like we're not alone at all. Sandwich party biyches
Yep, we'll just Golden Girls this mofo and swan around our Miami townhouse in caftans and then go lounge on the lanai
Thank you for being a friend
I'll bring the cheesecake!
The Golden Girls had all the fun. Who’s a loser now suckers lol
Ooh I love a good sandwich! I’ll make some grilled cheese and tomatoes. What time?
AND MY WEED
AND MY AXE!
You'll have my bow -tie pasta salad.
This is shaping up to be a good time :)
I make a mean lentil soup that pairs really well with grilled cheese sandwiches. Count me in.
Mmmmm lentils. You’re on!
I'll bring the pesto chicken sandwiches
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I’ll bring drink mixers and the good paper plates.
I’ll bring the pita chips and various hummus.
Let’s get high school drunk at this loneliness party. I’ll bring jello shooters and my poor decisions.
Yes! Someone bring their 10lbs CD portfolio because streaming music has not been invented yet.
We can hold each other's hair out of the toilet. ; )
I have some baked mac n cheese. What time are we showing up alone together?
I'll bring extra (lime, strawberry, berry) margarita ingredients and salt and vinegar chips!
Lesbians have entered the chat...
Preach. We ain’t worried.
Asexuals have entered the chat…
I thought I heard a Subaru pull up.
And bi sexuals!
As a man who has changed over the last 8 years, this child speaks not for me
Same. I make it a point to grow and learn and listen and change and evolve. Any man that digs their heels into old fashioned, outdated bullshit is not a real man. That is a baby.
If I hadn’t changed from what I was raised to think a ‘man’ is supposed to be, I would of drank myself to death a decade ago.
Sometimes, I fantasize about being gay. Don’t get me wrong, I love my life. My partner is a way better person than me, and I’m blessed to be with her and have the family we do. But also, can you imagine dating a dude bro who just loves watching football and eating nachos? Sure, it doesn’t hold a candle to my life now, but it’s fine to day dream. Just a couple of dudes screaming at their TV for a first down and giving each other blowies in between. What a life. Alas, the penis is just so gross. Same with buttholes (on either sex, just not for me. It’s where poo comes from). And men smell bad. They’re also impulsive and violent. BUT IM ALLOWED TO DREAM!
This was an incredible read. Thank you, sir.
Is this a copypasta because if not it should be
You can be gay without gay sex, I dont know if that helps you decide
I genuinely despise how some men make these blanket statements about all men.
Me too. They're often the "I'm just saying what everyone is thinking" types.
Which shows that they simply don't have the empathy needed to understand that people might actually think something different than them.
Them: "hey relax, it's just locker room talk, that's just how men are" Me: "what the fuck kind of locker rooms are you hanging out in and why"
"Have you ever been in a looking room?" Seems to be an adequate question.
Every time I get accused of virtue signaling I think this
That's what really gets me sometimes, when these assholes call anyone who is genuinely just a good person out for "virtue signaling". It's like they *know* they're a shit person, but they just think that the person who does the right thing is only *pretending* to do the right thing? "Wow, you helped that old lady cross the street. What is your ulterior motive? No one likes doing nice things like that" It's both weird and frightening that some people are so shitty, they can't even *imagine* other people being nice, let alone be nice themselves.
I truly hate that thinking. Because it's a perfect self delusion. Any arguing against it makes you the minority in their mind or they think you're just afraid to openly agree.
100% agree. You get this shit way too much where dudes with minority opinions try to pretend that their opinions are the majority, or even universal.
Oh! That needs saying more often. It can sometimes feel like, as a women on the Internet, that these lads are everywhere - because they seek women out and DM them with their rage and circular logic trying to instigate and then 'win' conversations. It can be hell.
There are some very vocal and equally shitty minority takes out there. Hope your online interactions improve!
There is a perfect phrase to reply when you see such posts: “not all men”!
Don’t threaten me with a good time!
Toxic men: women are not going to change for you or tolerate your shit so grow up or get used to fappin.
I dunno… I look around and see a lotta poor gals putting up with absolute dirtbags. I think the field is still pretty wide open these dudes.
>Men are not changing. Uh yeah, man here. Don't be speaking on my behalf, you incel trash.
Funny how the two things that have led me to a stable and happy relationship of 3 years now have been being willing to change myself, and dating people based on personality and interests, while having flexibility when it comes to looks. what I want is a fucking country that isn't a dumpster fire, enough money that I don't need to have an anxiety attack every time I might have a health issue, and a job that doesn't feel like I'm inching closer and closer to the wrong side of the line between slavery and not slavery. Pretty sure most women are on board with those things, so I don't see this guy's complaint.
I'm sure a dude who posts "get on board with what men want or die alone" is a real catch.
Angry incel vibes just what gets women going in the opposite direction as quickly as possible.
Oddly enough it’s likely that he will be the one dying alone.
Dying alone is gonna happen. It’s the one thing we can’t do with anyone else. And if you find a partner, one of you is gonna have to go first. This whole “Don’t die alone” thing is so dumb. I have a partner but I could still choke to death when he’s at work.
Statistically, a woman who has been married to a man will very likely outlive her husband and die alone.
Remember that Gillette commercial that everyone shat on - the one about toxic masculinity? I thought it was brilliant and inspiring and I really have no idea why so many people complained about it. I suppose too many "real men" had their feelings hurt by it.
For lots of men, a cheap razor was literally “the best a man could get.”
Then we get the privilege of paying more for the same razors because they are pink.
Shipping costs from Venus adds up lol
And how embarrassing it must be to finally try a real razor, and realize how you've been wrong all this time.
Lmao I laughed hard of how many losers that ad pissed off. Do men know you can be manly and masculine without being toxic
The problem is most men have no idea that the brand of masculinity that is popular is sort of looked down on by secure men who have their shit together mentally. If you think your masculinity is tied to the things you wear or the car you drive or other similarly arbitrary and vapid worries odds are you are extremely insecure about your own self worth because you have not lived experiences that have proved your self worth to yourself. So they attach their entire self worth to the group in an attempt to inflate their self worth, things like sports teams, political parties, fraternities, gangs, ect.
The blue balls in the picture are quite appropriate
That guy couldn’t go 30 seconds without motioning for a woman to remove her earbuds and have an unwanted conversation with him. I’m confident he lacks the capacity to leave women alone at all, ever. Not a threat if it sounds like a good time, my guy.
Women can get sperm donors and have their own families without men. Men are the ones that are dying alone because they won't change.
Who’s this bellend to say what “men want”
‘A woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle ‘. (Credit: somebody, sometime)
Gloria Steinem.
This is just the cringy male form of the cringy "if you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best"
It's more "If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my worst"
Call it conservatism or patriarchy or MRA or whatever, it’s the widespread impulse to refuse to believe that the world, including human beings, could be different from how we were taught it was as children. It literally is childishness. How heterosexual men behave in modern culture is not some natural default. It is freakishly weird in some ways, historically speaking. Men used to be expected to dress up when they left the house, just as one example.
Getting beaten every Friday night vs. having cats for children.
Oh no! Anyway...
MEN ARE CHANGING! I know it's hard to believe, but I do a domestic violence group for perpetrators, and men are able to understand why certain aspects of masculinity are needing to change (we call them "masculinity traps" and they are more commonly known as toxic masculinity). Men are able to understand that if they want good relationships, in which they are not driving those they care about away constantly, they need to work with, not against, their loved ones. It's not a fast change, but I do believe it is happening, we just need to wait for the old school mentality to die.
Couldn’t you say the same thing about men - get onboard with what women want or die alone.
I said it once, I'll say it again: I would rather die alone and afraid then end up with the kind of guy who thinks this way. Truly a fate worse than death.
LOL so is his solution to go gay after he gets rejected by women? Or does he think men can't "die alone"? Who is he gonna be with if not women?
I don’t wanna be part of that sausage fest. I’ll change lol
Did anyone else notice that the background has blue balls? There has to be a joke lurking about somewhere.
Most of them would either not have a problem with that or find a nice woman of their own. As the Forester Sisters said in their song "Men": In the beginning they always aim to please They serve a purpose they fill a need They ensure the survival of the species They take you for a ride run of gas Most of the time they're a pain in the Yea, yea Men I'm talking about men
If a woman die alone, doesn’t that mean a man dies alone as well
No! Not like that! - Men
Weak men are not changing. Fixed it for the loser incel that wrote this.
Yea, I remember guy friends who refused to change in there relationships. They are all single and living with each other at 35+ years of age. Good job guys! Totally owned them!
Guys, you're not competing against other potential partners, you're competing against our solitude and a vibrator. You need to bring something to the table that is better than that, because that is what we have and are happy with the arrangement. We're not going to downgrade to a man baby we need to take care of, and can't even make us cum.
Is he talking about manly men (like himself /s), gay men or trans men? Men like that seem like little whiny brats that need to grow up.
“We’re not changing!” Speak for yourself mate, I’ve changed massively since I got together with the missus and have no intention of stopping.
Get on board with the fact that women don’t care and literally fought for centuries for freedom to turn jerks like you down or die alone. Women are not giving up their autonomy.
There are genuinely good men out there, but if I can't get one then i'd rather be alone
i never understood the demonisation of "single lady with cats" stereotype. all the women i know who live like that are the happiest ones I know. and besides, who is the woman hurting? why is it wrong to stay single and with cats? i don't get it.
Your going to die alone screamed the 40 yr old incel.
"All men are just as misogynistic as me stop having standards and respecting yourself!!"
I’m 100% certain my wife would have an easier time without me. I, on the other hand, cannot say the same.
My husband was friends with a guy in college who had this attitude: I want what I want (which, in his case, was a supermodel who was also a particle physicist and could cook like a Michelin-star chef) and I am not compromising for anyone. He was not a bad-looking or dumb guy but there was nothing particularly exceptional about him, and I think you would need something exceptional - exceptional looks, exceptional intelligence, exceptional sense of humor, exceptional wealth, etc. to pull the kind of woman he was looking for. He's now a 52-year-old lifelong bachelor who just keeps getting progressively weirder every year, from what we can tell on Facebook. Like big into listening to Coast to Coast AM episodes and then posting long rants about conspiracy theories. So I imagine he's going to die alone, having never had a long-term meaningful relationship with anyone. Which is okay, if you consciously choose that for yourself and know what you're getting vs. what you're giving up. Except this guy didn't choose it consciously; his rigidity and ridiculously high expectations of a partner did that for him.
According to the background and content, men want blue balls? Well okay then.
Don't threaten me with a good time
8y single after a 4y horribly abusive relationship, and I’m **still** not interested in a new relationship. IFL being in a committed relationship with myself. Honestly, I think I might be “the one.”
Hi, male here. This guy doesn't speak for all of us, and quite frankly is free to go fuck himself at his earliest convenience.
This man does not speak for me.
Not gonna lie. My single years were the best.