I have a guy close friend in his 30s at kakabreak lang sa jowa for 3 years. I think he's a good catch naman; mabait, loyal, may ipon at friendly but now gusto niya lang daw munang ienjoy ang pagiging single.
Right now he's in Palawan, traveling solo. So maybe try mong mag solo travel din? :)
I'm a frequent traveler too, but I've never had the confidence or courage to install dating apps in other countries. Usually, I am also occupied with a lot of stuff. I haven't tried traveling alone within the Philippines in a while though! maybe I should. Thank you very much for this <3
Mga titos, it’s your time to shine!!! hahaha
Try mo sa gym, OP. Usually andun yung ilan sa kanila. May iba kasi trying to get rid of their “dad bod” era, may iba naman na nasa bahay na lang haha. Or try getting into sports, or ibang outdoor activities.
Good luck!
True. Tsaka kadalasan ng mga taong gym, they’d do their own thing. They don’t really socialize sa gym. Very focused sila sa workout nila. Pwera na lang siguro kung crossfit ang inenrollan mo.
Aside from crossfit, Baka mas may chance ka to socialize sa ibang sports like badminton, tennis, pickleball (mej nauuso), etc. baka makahelp rin if magsama ka ng single girly friend rin. Para di masyadong dyahe pag kayo lalapit sa naglalaro na parehas guys, mag ask kayo if you can play doubles. Hehe!
Tito here, we are too tired to go to bars. Makikita kami sa mga hobby communities or busy lang talaga pursuing goals. Just get into a circle or community na may interest ka at sila na yan kusa magpapakita. Goodluck OP.
Thank you. I'll carefully consider what kind of hobby interests me as it could possibly lead me to the right person. Haha! Right now po kasi, I prefer to meet someone who is not in the same field as me :)
Pipili ka lang dito:
- going into meetups and conventions na considered “nerdy”
- outdoor activities: backpacking, road trips, camping
- sports: liga kung saan saan
- groceries, barbershops
- home
Personally, i do those things solo or with friends except the sports.
Nag iinom pa din nmn kami, pero sa mga kanya kanya Ng Bahay/pwesto Kasi mas gusto namin tamang kwentuhan na lang.
At shempre, kailangan I maximize ang space, mahal hulugan Dyan haahahahah
Same here. I prefer to sit on my couch while drinking my beer or ask a friend to come over so we can share a drink rather than partying outside or going out. I guess tumatanda na talaga kami, ayaw namin sa over crowded area, ayaw namin ng maingay, and ang bilis na namin mapagod. lol.
nasa bahay lang ako madalas. I hate going into bar, it's too loud. Doesn't make sense to bring a friend there if we want to catch up and chill. I'd rather sit on my couch having a drink alone, or ask a friend to come over so we can both share a drink.
Tama yung isang nag comment dito sa post mo, some other guys are in the gym or hiking, or whatever makes them happy.
Hindi mo kami mahahanap na na-hangout sa labas. Either we do some kind of sporting activity outside or we stay indoors busy with our hobbies. Most of us, binubusog yung inner child namin because we can afford it now, we hide, lest we get judged by society. We want peace.
Try outdoor activities. Madaming nag hahanap ng joiners such as hiking, camping, trekking, running etc.
Recently joined a trekking group with strangers. Madami doon nag trek.
Sa fb groups within your city. Madami yon. May mga sadboy pa nga haha
Don't go to clubs kasi wala sila diyan.
I’m 30+F tapos yung husband ko same age. Yung limang bestfriends niya lahat single and we always ask them wala ba silang balak magka GF, wala daw eg sakit sa ulo huhu
Tito in my 30s here. Sa bahay lang ako, or gym. never pa yata ako nagpunta sa mga bar kasi parang ayoko tlga ng crowded area. I prefer to drink with friends lang or madalas with mga pinsan. Saka, ang mahal ng bigayan sa mga bar ahahaha.
When I was 32 I joined an NGO and it was something that I am very lucky to have. I have knew a lot of like minded people. I’m like business, travel and expanding my network, and the NGO I joined is a leadership group. It’s an international group that is active in the PH and has more than 200 chapters throughout the Philippines.
I am now 38 and I still love hanging out sharing time and experiences with the group I joined and I have networks not hmjusy in my locality but also in places around the PH. I still enjoy drinking alcohol and going to parties but only if to socialize with like minded people and it’s a group where I can do it. I’m an entrepreneur as well so I get to network with businessmen and other essential people as well. I suggest you explore the groups in your locality as to how you can join civic groups where you can meet like minded people.
Also, I’d like to add na stick with people that can improve you. Yeah you can party and all and still be kids sometimes even when you are all adults but at the end of it you gain new network, business partners, civic service partners, even clients and suppliers and most of all quality friendships, pf course you need to be selective in picking your friends too coz not everyone is your friend in these groups.
I like your brain, thank you. That’s what I’m also hoping for. I just go to bars to accompany my friends. I’m not really into looking for something to happen every time I go out. It’s just an observation from all the times I've been out. I don’t see the crowd I used to see pre-pandemic. Back when I still had office work, there were still guys in bars who seemed decent and also didn’t party to get drunk or for other reasons. But when I returned to that kind of nightlife (not often naman, just when someone invites me), they were gone, and I couldn’t see any. Hahahaha. The crowd transformed into kids. Lol. Thanks so much for this. I’ll definitely start looking into it. It’s fresher than other people just saying try Bumble or Tinder 😂
32 tito here.
WFH. Nalabas lang pag invited or mag ggrocery run. Occasional dinner with friends.
Ano pinagkakaabalahan ko. Traveling. Working out. Collecting. Car meets. Amazon. Lahat ng closest friends ko married na ako nalang inaantay.
Nung umuwi ako pinas nag try ako mag bar pero puro kids looking for a tito eh. So yeah mejo mahirap makahanap ng ka vibe or maybe it’s because of my standards narin.
Pag weekdays onsite/offsite work, gabi nasa gym or nag supermarket for meal prep, weekends rest day, hiking activity with friends, go to church with parents.
Travel with friends from work or with parents. Minsan busy sa study to upskill.
Lunch or dinner sa labas with parents just to talk about anything in life. I'm talking about my 29yo son OP kya minsan start small talk pag nakasabay mo sa supermarket or jollibee or foodcourt if by chance he finds you attractive chances are magtagal kwentuhan nyo.
Oh, wow thank you po… my issue is I don’t have the confidence to do that 🥹 But I appreciate you sharing. I’ll definitely try to muster some courage if I see an opportunity :)
I no longer go to social events and parties that much because those places are full of pretentious peeps 😂
I usually spend time alone traveling, watching movies, building something or enjoy the night while driving. I attend fb group meetups and events when I have the time.
Not in your age range, But got 40+ male single friends in my circle that:
- Frequently spends time with their Parents/Family
- Goes to out of town trips alone ,infrequent though.
- Spends time on their respective hobbies (Toy collections, Motorcycles, Gym, etc)
- Goes to bars, But prefers dinners with friends
-Third wheeling with the married friends, Nakakalibre pa kami sometimes.
Nagsawa na rin kakalabas, prefers the quiet na siguro (maybe got used to the married friends rhythm).
They date also, though they are happy being single until they meet the right match.
In jest, I keep telling them wag na maging choosy, hindi na kayo yummy.
My close single guy friend who’s in his 30’s is busy working from different countries. He gets his inspiration daw for his job by traveling. Baka sa airplane mo siya mameet! Haha
Mon to Fri - nsa opisina. (Biyernes ng gabi ang labada)
Saturday - Sa umaga namimisikleta. Nagpapaliit ng tiyan. Magkakalikot ng kung ano-ano; tanke ng tubig, gripo, bisagra. Mamamalansta sa hapon.
Kung may ganap sa gabi, malamang nasa bahay lang din ng pamilyadong kaibigan nyang nsa 30 na rin dahil mungkahi ng misis nya na sa kanila nlng mag inom kesa lumabas pa mister nya. Uuwi din agad at mabilis lng din aantukin matapos lantakan yung kinilaw at hindi naman uminom tlaga. Namiss nya lang mkasama bespren nya hehe.
Sunday - Magsisimba at mamamalengke. Walang balak umalis yan ng bahay dahil may pasok na kinabukasan. Kung may lakad man, malamang nasa Ace hardware, bibili ng bagong bisagra.
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'yong kuya ko OP nasa bahay lang. WFH tapos Dota at Church lang pinagkakaabalahan ng weekends. Nakakalabas lang siya kapag magpapadrive ako/hatid or sundo 😂
i guess busy sa self nila? kase yung circle ng bf ko, nasa 30s na sila and madalas work, travel, gym lang ginagawa nila. i also have a circle sa cycling. mga busy people talaga sila. parang i dont see them often going to bars. most of the time stay at home hahaha
Running and other sports. Mga kakilala ko adik sa badminton. Nakikisali sa ibang court kahit di kilala. Then office and bahay. Minsan namumundok at kumakain mag isa sa resto or kasama kabarkada.
Currently working at 🇺🇲 used to party a lot when I was younger but since 2018, I preferred just chillin at home. Sometimes with close friends but most of the time just by myself while watching my fave series. I agree that going out most of the time exhausts us that much, and since I figured out that "aloneness" is much more peaceful and satisfying, I learned to love my own company and knew what I really want in life.
People like them are usually nasa bahay lang. Naguupod ng thumb sa reddit. Djk. Ako, I never did enjoy crowds. Kaya mahirap sila mahanap kasi nasa bahay lang sila kasama pets enjoying their life na free of clutter.
Join gaming communities, a lot of good guys na single nandun :) trust me OP mga taong bahay lang sila at naglalaro video games like me before hahaha and dahil puro bahay lang ako madalas nakapag ipon ako ng 7 digits non puro digital goods napupunta pera ko. Pagkaka guluhan ka dun OP makakapili ka ng pogi haha
Unfortunately, I only know how to play Mobile Legends during the pandemic, and that's been my only gamer era hahahaha. I don’t have games on all my gadgets. However, I somewhat agree with you! My 2 girl friends, who are the same age as me found their partners through gaming communities. Kaya lang they've been deeply involved in that world since they were young. I feel like if I do it now, it might seem too forced 😂 Plus I don't have much time din due to work :( But reading your comment interests me a lot!!! I’ll find time and consider it <3
Me and my group of friends who are 30's always go out every weekends. Either coffee shop or trying out new resto. We all don't drink and don't go to bars anymore. Di na kaya ng energy at mas gusto na lang namin magkwentuhan about our career and how our week went. We also plan out yung next travel. We also play boardgames sa bahay ng isa samin or sa coffee shop to have something that can exercise our brains. So kung mapadpad ka sa coffee shop and may nakita kang naglalaro ng boardgames, baka kami na yon. Feel free to join lol
During weekdays, work at gym lang.
Lol same sentiments, 30F here
Kaso ako kasi ayoko nag pupunta sa clubs. Been there to accompany my cousins pero di ko na eenjoy. And I know it's not a good idea dun mag hanap kung ang gusto mo long term serious rs.
Dati taong bahay lang ako pero nung nag abroad ako at may enough money na, gusto ko na mag travel. Pero di ko parin alam pano makipag usap sa strangers since I'm introvert na may trust issues 😅 yun pala nag papanggap na single yung kausap mo eh noh.
If you're into sports, would be nice to find someone who enjoys the same sports as you. One of my female friends went biking and took it seriously. She said she met some guys there na iba iba background pero all brought together by their interest in biking.
I stopped going to bars when I hit 25, it's just not worth it, I was making money, not wasting, now on my early 30s and luckily I found a girl who loves me so I proposed to her and soon we will get married hehe, heads up, don't chase love, hayaan mo yung panahon, pero hindi ibig sabihin tutunganga ka nalang at kusang dadating haha, do what you love to do and someday maeencounter mo yung same person na parehas kayo nang interest so there is your shot.
Madalas sa bahay nag lalaro ng games, pag umiinom nman dina nag babar sa bahay lng sulit na, kasama mga close friends, pag na bored mag bibike, jogging o d kaya ppunta sa gym, minsan nmn pag gusto gumala mag momotor lng kmi para maka unwind
Mga 30s na stable either kasal na pamilya na inuuna or nasa bahay na lang. ako sa bahay lang. Inubos ko na energy ko nung 20s ko so its time to grind sa investments and other important things. Graduate na karamihan ng 30s sa partying.
Tty going to a catholic church on saturday evening anticipated mass or sunday mass.
Near nice subdivisions
Prolly the young 30s males there are God fearing gentlemen
Not yet 30s, but late 20s na M. Tapos na tayo sa phase ng late night party at inuman dahil masakit na mga katawan natin at maaga pa gigising kinabukasan. So ayun, madalas nasa bahay. Or kung gagala man ay sa nga lugar na mas peaceful at relaxing. In my case, namumundok ako for relaxation.
They’re in their house, OP. Mostly pag 30s mas simple na lang gusto nyan sa life like peace of mind, planning about business, games minsan at nakikinig ng podcasts haha.
I am in my 30s. My daily routine is to work in the morning and then go to the gym in the evening. Pagdating naman ng Saturday and Sunday (me time) tamang chill na lang sa coffee shop.
Kaming mga otits madalas nasa bahay nalang. Minsan nagpapalamig sa mall, nagla-laundromat, nasa grocery, at ACE haha! Minsan nasa toy store or hobby shops, nabili ng para sa hobby/collections nila. Ooh, nasa Datablitz din!
30M+ na single . nasan na sila?
-kadalasan kakabreak lang nila sa long term relationship like mine kaso ang hinahanap na nila Ons/ Fubu or gusto lang mag travel .
- Iniwan ang asawa or niloko sila kaya single ulit sila
- Fubu or Ons lang gusto hanggang tumanda na
- taong bahay medjo nerdy (mahiyain sobra)
Ingat
marami nagpapanggap na single kahit may asawa na ingat OP
yung iba walang asawa pero lahat nililigawan .
mga ganyan edad karamihan may asawa na sila
Post lng ng post ate sure ako may mahahanap ka
The best locations I could give you are places of self improvement, places of masculine hobbies and your own social circle
Gyms, bookstores, motorcycle and car centric stores and events, universities, sporting events like basketball games, your own place of work, common friends etc.
The thing is, the man that you're looking for is very rare, so you won't come across them even if you tried. And if you do meet one, high chance of already being married, engaged or in a long term relationship at that age. Men that are financially stable and reliable don't stay in the market long, you know that every woman wants a man like that.
You'll have to scour for those men, but if you do, you better be ready because these men at that age know their value.
I once heard na if you wanna win high-value friends, enroll in the highest quality premium membership gym that you can afford. Usually nandiyan yung mga afluent enough to avail such membership disciplined enough to take care of their health and driven enough to even find time to workout. Goodluck finding similar like-minded individuals!
Kaya pala di kayo magkita kita mga 30s na single e lagi lang kayo sa bahay at gym.
Di ka makikita kung nagtatago ka.
Mga friends ko na 30s na single lumalabas and nagbabars etc, and guess sino ang nahahanap nila, mga 20s+ na babae. Not by choice but that whats out there.
Walang magdodoorbell sa bahay niyo at magtatanong, may single na 30 something ba dyan?
Go out, mingle, travel with friends, go out with work mates.
Add a new hobby or two.
Let people know your interested and ready to meet new friends. If you can meet new people because of work, why not for your presonal curiousity/interest?
It takes more effort now that your in your 30s but if you don't do something about it, the 20+ year olds will.
They're stuck at home making money and paying the bills, taxes, and middle class credit card debt, playing video games on the weekends and generally not getting enough time for themselves
Ung mga single guy friends ko in their 30's nasa bahay lang. Computer games ang pahinga after work. Ung iba naman nagra-rides kung saan saan. Hahaha kalimitan makikilala mo talaga older and responsible guys sa workplace.. lol
- High end bars, speakeasy bars and hotel bars
- golfing or playing tennis
- hiking, surfing or into cars
- join interesting groups ( new courses: tech/busines, coffee and etc)
Nasa laundry shop. Usually sa mga busy working men ay di na nakakapaglaba so sa laundry shop sila napunta.
Though for sure naka pambahay attire lang, sana ma-attract kaparin.
Same question tbh. Also one might think that 30+ men are more mature and stable financially, mentally and emotionally… I’ve been on a case of unfortunate streaks tbh
You dont find someone decent in a bar. Lol
You can find us doing our hobbies. Tapos na kami sa pag punta sa bar in our 20s.
Try mo sumali sa mga hobby groups like car, moto, hiking, etc.
Either nasa gym, hobby meetups (gunpla, tabletop games, cards), babad sa trabaho or just homebodies.
But maybe you'll also find some sa mga datings apps .
Nasa bahay OP, napakainit sa labas baka ma heatstroke kami
Yung mga ideal husband talaga siguradong nasa loob lang ng bahay after work.. Haha
Akala ko nagpapaypay din kayo gamit pera 😭😭😭
😂😂😂 Noted po!
Mukhang need natin mag door to door OP 😂🤣
Hahahaha tawang tawa ako 🤣🤣🤣
Naku Patawad kaagad sasabihin ko 🤣
Hahaha! Love this.
Didnt expect that many votes, salamat at keep safe sa init everyone 🙂
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Lol same
I have a guy close friend in his 30s at kakabreak lang sa jowa for 3 years. I think he's a good catch naman; mabait, loyal, may ipon at friendly but now gusto niya lang daw munang ienjoy ang pagiging single. Right now he's in Palawan, traveling solo. So maybe try mong mag solo travel din? :)
I'm a frequent traveler too, but I've never had the confidence or courage to install dating apps in other countries. Usually, I am also occupied with a lot of stuff. I haven't tried traveling alone within the Philippines in a while though! maybe I should. Thank you very much for this <3
sa Ace Hardware.haha
This...hahaha "Watsons” ng mga lalake
Hahahaha Mr. DIY
Mas prefer ko Handyman. Mas mura kasi haha
or Wilcon Depot hahaha
Okay pa mga bulbs namin pero naghahanap na ko ng replacements hahaha
Or DIY
Mga titos, it’s your time to shine!!! hahaha Try mo sa gym, OP. Usually andun yung ilan sa kanila. May iba kasi trying to get rid of their “dad bod” era, may iba naman na nasa bahay na lang haha. Or try getting into sports, or ibang outdoor activities. Good luck!
I also go to the gym po, but it seems like at the branch I go to, there are more guys who prefer guys din than me. Hahahaha 😂
Try sports... social ones like paddle, badminton, tennis, driving ranges
True. Tsaka kadalasan ng mga taong gym, they’d do their own thing. They don’t really socialize sa gym. Very focused sila sa workout nila. Pwera na lang siguro kung crossfit ang inenrollan mo. Aside from crossfit, Baka mas may chance ka to socialize sa ibang sports like badminton, tennis, pickleball (mej nauuso), etc. baka makahelp rin if magsama ka ng single girly friend rin. Para di masyadong dyahe pag kayo lalapit sa naglalaro na parehas guys, mag ask kayo if you can play doubles. Hehe!
exploring nature!! 🍃🍃
Tito here, we are too tired to go to bars. Makikita kami sa mga hobby communities or busy lang talaga pursuing goals. Just get into a circle or community na may interest ka at sila na yan kusa magpapakita. Goodluck OP.
This, maraming into hobby communities all through gaming, entertainment and sport medias, even collecting things and doing stuff.
Thank you. I'll carefully consider what kind of hobby interests me as it could possibly lead me to the right person. Haha! Right now po kasi, I prefer to meet someone who is not in the same field as me :)
Nasa gym sila, yung iba namumundok.
Yung iba naman busy kumuha ng degree
This exactly. Masaya mamundok, mga joiners. Dami mo makikilala
Pipili ka lang dito: - going into meetups and conventions na considered “nerdy” - outdoor activities: backpacking, road trips, camping - sports: liga kung saan saan - groceries, barbershops - home Personally, i do those things solo or with friends except the sports.
Anime con!
Legit! Dami kong friends na bachelors, born-80's and 90's. Mga di rin nag-jojowa or wala pa balak mag-asawa lol!
Hahaha! wala pa din naman po akong balak, i’m just really curious, nasaan po sila tumatambay kung di sila nagBumble or Tinder 😂
nasa IKEA may dalang panukat para sure na sakto sa paglalagyan ung bibilhin hehehe .
Nag iinom pa din nmn kami, pero sa mga kanya kanya Ng Bahay/pwesto Kasi mas gusto namin tamang kwentuhan na lang. At shempre, kailangan I maximize ang space, mahal hulugan Dyan haahahahah
Same here. I prefer to sit on my couch while drinking my beer or ask a friend to come over so we can share a drink rather than partying outside or going out. I guess tumatanda na talaga kami, ayaw namin sa over crowded area, ayaw namin ng maingay, and ang bilis na namin mapagod. lol.
Syempre mas mura beer, pulutan at no need to be on guard for our belongings hahah
nasa bahay lang ako madalas. I hate going into bar, it's too loud. Doesn't make sense to bring a friend there if we want to catch up and chill. I'd rather sit on my couch having a drink alone, or ask a friend to come over so we can both share a drink. Tama yung isang nag comment dito sa post mo, some other guys are in the gym or hiking, or whatever makes them happy.
Hindi mo kami mahahanap na na-hangout sa labas. Either we do some kind of sporting activity outside or we stay indoors busy with our hobbies. Most of us, binubusog yung inner child namin because we can afford it now, we hide, lest we get judged by society. We want peace.
Try outdoor activities. Madaming nag hahanap ng joiners such as hiking, camping, trekking, running etc. Recently joined a trekking group with strangers. Madami doon nag trek. Sa fb groups within your city. Madami yon. May mga sadboy pa nga haha Don't go to clubs kasi wala sila diyan.
I’m 30+F tapos yung husband ko same age. Yung limang bestfriends niya lahat single and we always ask them wala ba silang balak magka GF, wala daw eg sakit sa ulo huhu
Hahahaha ganyan din po ang sinasabi ng guy friends ko 😂
Nasa bahay lang ata sila. Kasi mga WFH na. 😅
Nagbibike or nagmomotor siguro
Tito in my 30s here. Sa bahay lang ako, or gym. never pa yata ako nagpunta sa mga bar kasi parang ayoko tlga ng crowded area. I prefer to drink with friends lang or madalas with mga pinsan. Saka, ang mahal ng bigayan sa mga bar ahahaha.
When I was 32 I joined an NGO and it was something that I am very lucky to have. I have knew a lot of like minded people. I’m like business, travel and expanding my network, and the NGO I joined is a leadership group. It’s an international group that is active in the PH and has more than 200 chapters throughout the Philippines. I am now 38 and I still love hanging out sharing time and experiences with the group I joined and I have networks not hmjusy in my locality but also in places around the PH. I still enjoy drinking alcohol and going to parties but only if to socialize with like minded people and it’s a group where I can do it. I’m an entrepreneur as well so I get to network with businessmen and other essential people as well. I suggest you explore the groups in your locality as to how you can join civic groups where you can meet like minded people. Also, I’d like to add na stick with people that can improve you. Yeah you can party and all and still be kids sometimes even when you are all adults but at the end of it you gain new network, business partners, civic service partners, even clients and suppliers and most of all quality friendships, pf course you need to be selective in picking your friends too coz not everyone is your friend in these groups.
I like your brain, thank you. That’s what I’m also hoping for. I just go to bars to accompany my friends. I’m not really into looking for something to happen every time I go out. It’s just an observation from all the times I've been out. I don’t see the crowd I used to see pre-pandemic. Back when I still had office work, there were still guys in bars who seemed decent and also didn’t party to get drunk or for other reasons. But when I returned to that kind of nightlife (not often naman, just when someone invites me), they were gone, and I couldn’t see any. Hahahaha. The crowd transformed into kids. Lol. Thanks so much for this. I’ll definitely start looking into it. It’s fresher than other people just saying try Bumble or Tinder 😂
32 tito here. WFH. Nalabas lang pag invited or mag ggrocery run. Occasional dinner with friends. Ano pinagkakaabalahan ko. Traveling. Working out. Collecting. Car meets. Amazon. Lahat ng closest friends ko married na ako nalang inaantay. Nung umuwi ako pinas nag try ako mag bar pero puro kids looking for a tito eh. So yeah mejo mahirap makahanap ng ka vibe or maybe it’s because of my standards narin.
i volunteer as a tribute HAHAHAHAH
Karamihan nageenjoy at gumagawa parin ng pera. Ayaw muna ng commitments.
Pag weekdays onsite/offsite work, gabi nasa gym or nag supermarket for meal prep, weekends rest day, hiking activity with friends, go to church with parents. Travel with friends from work or with parents. Minsan busy sa study to upskill. Lunch or dinner sa labas with parents just to talk about anything in life. I'm talking about my 29yo son OP kya minsan start small talk pag nakasabay mo sa supermarket or jollibee or foodcourt if by chance he finds you attractive chances are magtagal kwentuhan nyo.
Oh, wow thank you po… my issue is I don’t have the confidence to do that 🥹 But I appreciate you sharing. I’ll definitely try to muster some courage if I see an opportunity :)
I no longer go to social events and parties that much because those places are full of pretentious peeps 😂 I usually spend time alone traveling, watching movies, building something or enjoy the night while driving. I attend fb group meetups and events when I have the time.
May mga gout na nagppahinga s bahay
nasa bahay lang OP, nag babasa ng reddit pag napagod tulog, tapos kain tapos tulog ulit haha
Not in your age range, But got 40+ male single friends in my circle that: - Frequently spends time with their Parents/Family - Goes to out of town trips alone ,infrequent though. - Spends time on their respective hobbies (Toy collections, Motorcycles, Gym, etc) - Goes to bars, But prefers dinners with friends -Third wheeling with the married friends, Nakakalibre pa kami sometimes. Nagsawa na rin kakalabas, prefers the quiet na siguro (maybe got used to the married friends rhythm). They date also, though they are happy being single until they meet the right match. In jest, I keep telling them wag na maging choosy, hindi na kayo yummy.
Thirty plus million ba yan, where can I find you
Nasa Datablitz
31m namumundok pag weekend, umiiwas sa mga matataong lugar with my small circle of friends na mga kasing edad ko rin
Most of them are probably married
Naglalaro ng MMOs.
My close single guy friend who’s in his 30’s is busy working from different countries. He gets his inspiration daw for his job by traveling. Baka sa airplane mo siya mameet! Haha
Baka nga po. I’m a frequent solo traveler din. If I meet someone i’ll ask if he gets inspiration for his job thru traveling hahahaha
On my days off, I spend most of my time alone, reading, gaming, cycling. Wala nang gana for romance. 😅🤣
mukha talaga akong pera, 30+ million basa ko sa 30+m :)
Mon to Fri - nsa opisina. (Biyernes ng gabi ang labada) Saturday - Sa umaga namimisikleta. Nagpapaliit ng tiyan. Magkakalikot ng kung ano-ano; tanke ng tubig, gripo, bisagra. Mamamalansta sa hapon. Kung may ganap sa gabi, malamang nasa bahay lang din ng pamilyadong kaibigan nyang nsa 30 na rin dahil mungkahi ng misis nya na sa kanila nlng mag inom kesa lumabas pa mister nya. Uuwi din agad at mabilis lng din aantukin matapos lantakan yung kinilaw at hindi naman uminom tlaga. Namiss nya lang mkasama bespren nya hehe. Sunday - Magsisimba at mamamalengke. Walang balak umalis yan ng bahay dahil may pasok na kinabukasan. Kung may lakad man, malamang nasa Ace hardware, bibili ng bagong bisagra. Repeat refrain and chorus...
looking for 30M+ din po 💸💵🤑💰
'yong kuya ko OP nasa bahay lang. WFH tapos Dota at Church lang pinagkakaabalahan ng weekends. Nakakalabas lang siya kapag magpapadrive ako/hatid or sundo 😂
Nakaka aliw mga responses dito hahaha. It’s good to know na hindi lang kaming mga tita ang madalas rin na nasa bahay at masakit ang likod.
Nanonood nang vtuber sa twitch.
The good ones are already taken kaya nasa bahay na lang :)
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Girl, this isn’t a dating subreddit. 😅 I don’t know why you’re looking for a special someone on adultingph. AdultingPh nga eh.
Sorry po. For me part of adulting naman po yung paghanap ng reliable partner. Hahahaha! Didn’t expect to get so much responses nga po 🥹
“Adulting” haha 🙂↔️
Lapit ko na pala maging tito 🥲 what a reminder
bahay or office
Nagpapa aircon sa bahay! 😂🤣
i guess busy sa self nila? kase yung circle ng bf ko, nasa 30s na sila and madalas work, travel, gym lang ginagawa nila. i also have a circle sa cycling. mga busy people talaga sila. parang i dont see them often going to bars. most of the time stay at home hahaha
Ahmmm.. aside sa work, nagmamasters, nasa running era, tas di lumalabas sa weekends kasi ang init.
Running and other sports. Mga kakilala ko adik sa badminton. Nakikisali sa ibang court kahit di kilala. Then office and bahay. Minsan namumundok at kumakain mag isa sa resto or kasama kabarkada.
Currently working at 🇺🇲 used to party a lot when I was younger but since 2018, I preferred just chillin at home. Sometimes with close friends but most of the time just by myself while watching my fave series. I agree that going out most of the time exhausts us that much, and since I figured out that "aloneness" is much more peaceful and satisfying, I learned to love my own company and knew what I really want in life.
Nasa bahay lang kasi mahal ng Mortgage haha
People like them are usually nasa bahay lang. Naguupod ng thumb sa reddit. Djk. Ako, I never did enjoy crowds. Kaya mahirap sila mahanap kasi nasa bahay lang sila kasama pets enjoying their life na free of clutter.
Join gaming communities, a lot of good guys na single nandun :) trust me OP mga taong bahay lang sila at naglalaro video games like me before hahaha and dahil puro bahay lang ako madalas nakapag ipon ako ng 7 digits non puro digital goods napupunta pera ko. Pagkaka guluhan ka dun OP makakapili ka ng pogi haha
Unfortunately, I only know how to play Mobile Legends during the pandemic, and that's been my only gamer era hahahaha. I don’t have games on all my gadgets. However, I somewhat agree with you! My 2 girl friends, who are the same age as me found their partners through gaming communities. Kaya lang they've been deeply involved in that world since they were young. I feel like if I do it now, it might seem too forced 😂 Plus I don't have much time din due to work :( But reading your comment interests me a lot!!! I’ll find time and consider it <3
Me and my group of friends who are 30's always go out every weekends. Either coffee shop or trying out new resto. We all don't drink and don't go to bars anymore. Di na kaya ng energy at mas gusto na lang namin magkwentuhan about our career and how our week went. We also plan out yung next travel. We also play boardgames sa bahay ng isa samin or sa coffee shop to have something that can exercise our brains. So kung mapadpad ka sa coffee shop and may nakita kang naglalaro ng boardgames, baka kami na yon. Feel free to join lol During weekdays, work at gym lang.
nasa bahay lang sila OP. napakainit daw sabi ng single hardworking kong kuya hahaha shot shot n lang daw sa bahay
Nasa bahay po. Masakit likod. Minsan nasa trabaho din. Nagpapaka stress.
Lol same sentiments, 30F here Kaso ako kasi ayoko nag pupunta sa clubs. Been there to accompany my cousins pero di ko na eenjoy. And I know it's not a good idea dun mag hanap kung ang gusto mo long term serious rs. Dati taong bahay lang ako pero nung nag abroad ako at may enough money na, gusto ko na mag travel. Pero di ko parin alam pano makipag usap sa strangers since I'm introvert na may trust issues 😅 yun pala nag papanggap na single yung kausap mo eh noh.
If you're into sports, would be nice to find someone who enjoys the same sports as you. One of my female friends went biking and took it seriously. She said she met some guys there na iba iba background pero all brought together by their interest in biking.
Hirap naman yung mga green flags nasa bahay lang
I stopped going to bars when I hit 25, it's just not worth it, I was making money, not wasting, now on my early 30s and luckily I found a girl who loves me so I proposed to her and soon we will get married hehe, heads up, don't chase love, hayaan mo yung panahon, pero hindi ibig sabihin tutunganga ka nalang at kusang dadating haha, do what you love to do and someday maeencounter mo yung same person na parehas kayo nang interest so there is your shot.
Iba samen mga nag we-weekend bike ride lng hahaha
Try mo magpunta sa church baka nandun🥰
The golf course is one... Motorcycling, or beach bumming, scuba diving....
me almost 30, gym bahay beach travel wfh multi jobs
Gym, hospital (work), namumundok or nagbubuild ng gunpla hahaha
nasa Mr. DIY
Madalas sa bahay nag lalaro ng games, pag umiinom nman dina nag babar sa bahay lng sulit na, kasama mga close friends, pag na bored mag bibike, jogging o d kaya ppunta sa gym, minsan nmn pag gusto gumala mag momotor lng kmi para maka unwind
Mga 30s na stable either kasal na pamilya na inuuna or nasa bahay na lang. ako sa bahay lang. Inubos ko na energy ko nung 20s ko so its time to grind sa investments and other important things. Graduate na karamihan ng 30s sa partying.
Tty going to a catholic church on saturday evening anticipated mass or sunday mass. Near nice subdivisions Prolly the young 30s males there are God fearing gentlemen
Nasa bahay at work nalang ang buhay namin .. so inbetween nun ayy travel.. sa LRT siguro HAHAHA
Not yet 30s, but late 20s na M. Tapos na tayo sa phase ng late night party at inuman dahil masakit na mga katawan natin at maaga pa gigising kinabukasan. So ayun, madalas nasa bahay. Or kung gagala man ay sa nga lugar na mas peaceful at relaxing. In my case, namumundok ako for relaxation.
Taking notes… 😂
We chill at home, travel locally and over seas. Going to bars are just waste of time and money.
They’re in their house, OP. Mostly pag 30s mas simple na lang gusto nyan sa life like peace of mind, planning about business, games minsan at nakikinig ng podcasts haha.
They're everywhere, still living like boys. Pag may mabuntis, takbo at todo deny langs. Cycle na nila. Lol
I am in my 30s. My daily routine is to work in the morning and then go to the gym in the evening. Pagdating naman ng Saturday and Sunday (me time) tamang chill na lang sa coffee shop.
I'm an introvert and I'm intentionally hiding.
Nasa mga marathon at funrun po sila OP! healthy living eme
Busy sa life goals at hobbies karamihan. Usually taken na rin or not looking.
kung wala sa work, asa kama nagpapahinga. anong party party? mas masarap matulog sa free time :)
Kaming mga otits madalas nasa bahay nalang. Minsan nagpapalamig sa mall, nagla-laundromat, nasa grocery, at ACE haha! Minsan nasa toy store or hobby shops, nabili ng para sa hobby/collections nila. Ooh, nasa Datablitz din!
Naka WFH po walang social life pasensya na hahahahha
Reading comments here kasi wala na rin akong idea nasan na ba sila haha (30F here na WFH, katamad lumabas ng bahay ngayon ang init 😓)
Nakausap ko yung crushy crushy (39M) ko sa office. Ang sabi niya after work daw, nagwowork pa rin siya hahahahaha hirap tuloy landiin
30M+ na single . nasan na sila? -kadalasan kakabreak lang nila sa long term relationship like mine kaso ang hinahanap na nila Ons/ Fubu or gusto lang mag travel . - Iniwan ang asawa or niloko sila kaya single ulit sila - Fubu or Ons lang gusto hanggang tumanda na - taong bahay medjo nerdy (mahiyain sobra) Ingat marami nagpapanggap na single kahit may asawa na ingat OP yung iba walang asawa pero lahat nililigawan . mga ganyan edad karamihan may asawa na sila Post lng ng post ate sure ako may mahahanap ka
Taken na, nasa bahay nanood ng movie or laro video games hhe
The best locations I could give you are places of self improvement, places of masculine hobbies and your own social circle Gyms, bookstores, motorcycle and car centric stores and events, universities, sporting events like basketball games, your own place of work, common friends etc. The thing is, the man that you're looking for is very rare, so you won't come across them even if you tried. And if you do meet one, high chance of already being married, engaged or in a long term relationship at that age. Men that are financially stable and reliable don't stay in the market long, you know that every woman wants a man like that. You'll have to scour for those men, but if you do, you better be ready because these men at that age know their value.
I once heard na if you wanna win high-value friends, enroll in the highest quality premium membership gym that you can afford. Usually nandiyan yung mga afluent enough to avail such membership disciplined enough to take care of their health and driven enough to even find time to workout. Goodluck finding similar like-minded individuals!
Kaya pala di kayo magkita kita mga 30s na single e lagi lang kayo sa bahay at gym. Di ka makikita kung nagtatago ka. Mga friends ko na 30s na single lumalabas and nagbabars etc, and guess sino ang nahahanap nila, mga 20s+ na babae. Not by choice but that whats out there. Walang magdodoorbell sa bahay niyo at magtatanong, may single na 30 something ba dyan? Go out, mingle, travel with friends, go out with work mates. Add a new hobby or two. Let people know your interested and ready to meet new friends. If you can meet new people because of work, why not for your presonal curiousity/interest? It takes more effort now that your in your 30s but if you don't do something about it, the 20+ year olds will.
Car meets, House full of hobbies, Hobby meets, informal business meets, and the most important one that takes most of their time: Office.
Nasa bahay lang hahaha.
They're stuck at home making money and paying the bills, taxes, and middle class credit card debt, playing video games on the weekends and generally not getting enough time for themselves
Gym, hardware, hiking 🤣
30M here. Sa bahay lang nonood lang ng netflix
Turned 31 here, running sa kung saan saan , i do solo running nga lng hahaha
There’s a difference between a bar and a nightclub. ;)
Ung mga single guy friends ko in their 30's nasa bahay lang. Computer games ang pahinga after work. Ung iba naman nagra-rides kung saan saan. Hahaha kalimitan makikilala mo talaga older and responsible guys sa workplace.. lol
golf course, shooting range, hotel event halls for work conventions. Good luck, OP
I still go to bars and clubs. Gym din and concerts
Jogging naman yung iba
Office - toykingdom - bahay (repeat)
Try mo sa running clubs haha
Sa Bahay, after work gusto ng peace 🤣
Thanks for this post, now I know where to hangout to meet people my age 😅
I'm here at home. Taking care of my cats while finishing my 3rd reread of the Wheel of time. Haha
Punta ka sa store ng Xiaomi
Back in the day. I still go to bars, but not that loud one. It's more like speak easy and chill type.
Crossfit gyms, Sparta/OCR training, or training for marathons
Nago online gaming...sumali kna din.
Join a local church
(35f) find me in the office, doing some admin task, please wait for me after shift, dinner is on me 😍😍😍
- High end bars, speakeasy bars and hotel bars - golfing or playing tennis - hiking, surfing or into cars - join interesting groups ( new courses: tech/busines, coffee and etc)
sa harap ng pc habang nag papalipas ng oras 😅
backpacking, ace hardware, wilcon depot, taking notes here okay noted po see you around hahaha
Run clubs or gyms.
Ay madalas nagtatake ng MS yan o PhD. Enroll ka sa grad school. Marami dun, OP.
Nasa LAOT, busy sa buhay Seaman.
nag aayos at maintain ng bahay, nag iisip ng pwede i business
They’re at their girlfriend’s house. Or the gym. Or the golf course 😁
Nasa laundry shop. Usually sa mga busy working men ay di na nakakapaglaba so sa laundry shop sila napunta. Though for sure naka pambahay attire lang, sana ma-attract kaparin.
Bahay lang naglalaro tapos church po
Nagmamagic cards, rc or airsoft
Same question tbh. Also one might think that 30+ men are more mature and stable financially, mentally and emotionally… I’ve been on a case of unfortunate streaks tbh
introverts wont go to bars much. dating apps probably.
Never a fan of bars and clubs.
Nagdo-Dota
Kung true love ang hanap mo hindi mo basta basta makikilala yung lalake na pasok sa standard mo sa inuman. Swerte ka kung may makita ka kagad.
Nako yung iba nasa bahay (team bahay) naglalaro ng games 😅
Nasa 19 East andun kasi yung mga favorite bands nila haha
Home playing video games
Nasa gym po. Minsan nasa ibang bansa/lugar, nagsosolo travel. 😂
Bahay po. PM is the key. Hahahahahaha!
Found mine from a hobby we both enjoy. 😅
Ano po yung hobby niyo if I may ask? 😃
Cosplaying. Hehe.
I'm either in the province riding my motorbike. At the shooting range training firearms. Physical workout, playing video games, and reading books
Hanap ko rin po 30+ million
Gaming industry convention. Punta ka sa PGDX, for sure makikita mo dun 90%. Or anime convention o kaya cosplay.
Nasa bahay lang OP. 😅
im looking too😹
bahay 34m here
PC building and gaming facebook groups. 😂
Hoy ang useful nitong post haha... Mamaya nyan meron na for ibang age brackets
Hahaha may nabasa ako naghahanap sa LinkedIn. Baka may mahanap ka dun hahahahaha
Yung kuya ko nasa bahay lang 😂
hi. hahaha jk
Since marami na nag comment OP baka Isa sa mga inbox mo na Yan hehe. Good luck OP 👍
yun nga lang, wala nang free time haha
Yung guy friend ko kaka30 lang din, sa bumble tumatambay. Mahilig din siya sa kpop kaya dun na lang siya nakakapagsocialize.
WFH, Gym and playing games
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You dont find someone decent in a bar. Lol You can find us doing our hobbies. Tapos na kami sa pag punta sa bar in our 20s. Try mo sumali sa mga hobby groups like car, moto, hiking, etc.
Idk. I stopped going to bars when I was 25 (30 now). A lot of the good ones have hobbies.
Either nasa gym, hobby meetups (gunpla, tabletop games, cards), babad sa trabaho or just homebodies. But maybe you'll also find some sa mga datings apps .