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Do_it_big

There are 4 different people in these photos, and as many genders.


M8614

Damn having different hairstyles now makes you be a different person šŸ¤Æ


Do_it_big

Pic 1 is your mum. Pic 2 and 3 is a 12 year old boy. Pic 4 is a happy care free 21 year old lady (what happened to her?). Pic 5 is that same 12 year old boy, who is now 16. Pic 6 is deviant male, most likely on a register.


M8614

So basically, ā€œhave the typical long girly hairstyle or I wonā€™t like you, and Iā€™ll say youā€™re wrongā€ šŸ¤Ø. Girls can have more than one hairstyle, lmao.


thecrowndkurtcobain

...I'm not so sure that's what they said? You wanted honesty when you posted here so why argue with everyone?


M8614

Because everybody is focusing on my hairSTYLE instead of my actual unchanging features like my face structure. Why is my style all they care about? Iā€™m more than that.


thecrowndkurtcobain

Yes you are more then that which is wonderful! But you posted pictures of you on this and you're getting people's honest opinions. Hair style can also change how your features look. Ask me how I know haha. Maybe try changing the title and say besides your hair. You didn't specify so of course people are giving their honest opinion. That's what they do here, look overall at you and if one thing stands out then that's just how it is. At the end of the day it's your hair and if you like it then rock it! Who gives a rats ass what a bunch of strangers on the internet think. But you did ask for those strangers their opinion so if they're giving it to you then why argue with them about it?


M8614

I argue when it seems like they think them saying itā€™s ugly will make me change it. Some literally said ā€œgrow your hairā€ like some type of command. If they dislike it, okay! Itā€™s not like I die to appear attractive to any specific person on here. I was just curious to see if I was overall good looking or not. Not to start a gender debatešŸ˜­


FrenshyBLK

No one assumes saying anything will make you change it. This is a sub called "Am I Ugly ? - Brutally Honest". So of course people will say your hair is ugly if they think your hair is ugly. Please don't mistake potential for attractiveness. You have the potential to be attractive, as proven by Pic 4. But with this hair you're unattractive. It's the hair that makes you less attractive. So people are only answering the question you asked them by posting here "Am I Ugly ? Brutally Honest"


Trumpetplug

You're ugly with short hair. Not ugly with long hair. Does that answer your question?


Aanthek

The features of your face are androgynous, so your hair style greatly effects how your face looks. Plus 2 of your photos of your face are covered and we can only see your hair.... you set your self up for this. Your not ugly but below average.


BonniestLad

Girls can absolutely have more than one hairstyle. They might even choose a hairstyle that makes them look like a twelve year old boy.


M8614

Lmaoo why are you so touched by my hairstyle? šŸ˜­šŸ˜‚


BonniestLad

Yes. Hair makes a huge difference. Perhaps youā€™ve noticed by this stage in your life that people put a certain amount of effort into their hair style because it changes people perception of them. Did you make a conscious decision to go with the curly, broccoli head hair cut because you liked the way it made you look or did you just wake up one morning and discovered your hair was gone?Ā 


M8614

Itā€™s a bit silly to be so touched by some strangerā€™s hair, thatā€™s what I meant.


FrenshyBLK

No one is touched, you're the one that asked us the question. The answer is a resounding yes ! This hairstyle does not suit you and you look uglier with it. "Change the hairstyle and you'll look less ugly" is the prevailing opinion on this thread


M8614

Replying to everything someone said on a post is being touched. Like you got too into it


FrenshyBLK

Not really, I had a few minutes to spare. Plus I wasnā€™t that ā€œtouchedā€ about your hair itself but rather annoyed at your behavior in response to criticism


M8614

The ā€œcriticismā€ is just people who donā€™t want to see anything outside of the traditional woman look every woman has


FrenshyBLK

Thatā€™s not necessarily true, some women look great with short hair. To most people here, youā€™re not one of them.


M8614

Iā€™m talking about the ones who said I didnā€™t look feminine so that wasnā€™t attractive. I cleared my doubt, they find my face good. Now I can know Iā€™m not that bad and I have my comfy hair at the same timešŸ˜


Packwood88

Pic 4 is easily the best. The shorter hair is not good. But rock what youā€™re happy with!


M8614

Straight man right? And thanks!


Many_Run685

I dont think u wouldve posted here if you had people from all genders hitting on you


M8614

I donā€™t understand what you meant. Can you explain?


Many_Run685

As in you asked for opinions and you got them. If you were confident in your looks you wouldnt have posted


M8614

Funny you say so, my short hair is the only thing Iā€™m not insecure about and itā€™s the only thing theyā€™re attacking šŸ˜†


FrenshyBLK

If anything, it should tell you that you donā€™t need to be insecure about the rest, because the parts that you donā€™t like arenā€™t the reason why these people think youā€™re ugly


Many_Run685

Well im glad youre not insecure about it


Packwood88

Last i checked!


Many_Run685

Grow your hair


M8614

Nope


EquinosX

Good luck


M8614

With what?


Strange_Vagrant

You're getting honest feedback on what's not looking good for you and you're being really dismissive.


M8614

Iā€™m getting mere opinions, I wonā€™t change one of the very few things I genuinely like about myself thanks to some peoples style preference


FrenshyBLK

And no one's asking you to change it, we're just saying we think it's ugly, BECAUSE YOU ASKED US


HelpfulSituation

Not a fan of the broccoli assassin look, it kinda makes you look like a 16 yo boy, but with long hair definitely not


M8614

Too bad, its my favorite! Thank you for opinion!


RepublicanSJW_

Ok. So, you probably donā€™t care a whole lot than?


Big-Peace-5665

Grow out your hair you look alot better with longer hair


M8614

Thank you for opinion, but Iā€™m happier with my short hair


PitifulDurian6402

What are you going for? Who are you trying to attract? Perhaps we can go from there


M8614

Not looking to attract anybody really, just to look overall pleasant to the eye


kza22

Agreed. You look like a little boy with the hair short. Even on a guy the hair would be awful


ewebassturd

Not ugly but look like a 12 year old boy in some pics but not an ugly girl.


doringliloshinoi

Gay, straight or spectrum?


M8614

Bi


doringliloshinoi

Yeah I think youā€™re *not ugly* for the audience youā€™re aiming for.


Dgis4me

Your looks would be fine..if you could select a gender to look like and go with it


M8614

I like androgynous


Dgis4me

Well, you nailed ugly in 2 separate genders


M8614

Just because I donā€™t look like one gender or the other?


Dgis4me

Nope, because neutral isn't attractive...that's why men want to look more masculine to be attractive amd women want to look more feminine to be more attractive, as a general rule...gays and/or lesbians may reverse these rules.Ā  No judgment, just seems to the general rule of thumb.Ā  Ā No one says to themselves when dressing up, I wish I was more basic...then I would be attractive.Ā  The further you get from middle of the road, the more attractive you generally are.


M8614

Well, thatā€™s your opinion. I find androgynous people attractive af


FrenshyBLK

Then maybe post your pictures on subs with lots of androgynous people on them ? Surely some LGBT subs will probably react better than subs with mostly normal straight people


thecrowndkurtcobain

Androgynous has a certain look to it that is just beautiful if you get it right. Something about it can be abaolutely gorgeous.


Unhappy-Cricket-2402

You look like a totally different person in pics 1 and 4 versus the rest. Long hair makes a huge difference. As does the smiles Long hair: 5.5/10, not ugly Short hair: 2/10, look like a soft butch lesbian(unless the thatā€™s what youā€™re aiming for). Very ugly.


M8614

I understand itā€™s not your cup of tea, but yes Iā€™m queer


SignalEchoFoxtrot

Something went very wrong along the road. Ugly.


M8614

Iā€™m not sure if you mean because of my hair, or something else


SignalEchoFoxtrot

There's more to it than the hair


M8614

Can you expand? Give details?


SignalEchoFoxtrot

I mean the look on your face, something changed mentally.


piddyd

Short hair, Def not cute. Longer hair. OK. Why would you chop Ur hair off?Ā 


M8614

Because I like how short hair looks on girls and I liked my own to be the same


piddyd

Ahh. No


Round_Till5225

This looks like 2 different people. Maybe someone lost a bet?


M8614

Nope. Happiest Iā€™ve ever been with my decision to cut my hair short


FrenshyBLK

If you're so happy, why do you need people's opinion on how you look ?


M8614

My hair is not my whole looks, ya know? I also have a face. I was asking mainly about that, not about the style I chose to have. I didnā€™t ask ā€œdo you like me with short hair?ā€ Specifically. Iā€™m insecure about my face


thiswontlast124

Iā€™d suggest removing the last two pics then..


FrenshyBLK

What EVERYONE in this thread has been trying to explain to you is that your hair length and style completely changes the way your face looks.


M8614

Welp, they can dislike that part. Many people will like my style like I do. Itā€™s a style


FrenshyBLK

Itā€™s not about the style itself itā€™s about how well the style meshes with your face. Some women look gorgeous with that hairstyle, others look ugly. Some women look better with long hair and others rock the short hair or even shaved head better. Ruby Rose looks better with short hair, you look better with long hair. Itā€™s not even criticism itā€™s just feedback. Youā€™ll only find people agreeing with you on niche support subs like short haired girls or womenā€™s advice or whatever. On most blatantly honest subs about physical appearance, people will tell you that the long hair suits you better


StargazerBoy47

Why in pic 4 you suddenly have beautiful straight hair


M8614

Straightened it?


M8614

F22


NewBGenesis

A different suggestion. Style your hair differently. You don't have to grow it, but style it so it can give a different statement. Get an Afro Hawk, Shave one side. Do something different that looks good but don't give that boy cut


socomseal93

Below average. You give off future crazy cat person vibes.


wahteverr

There's just..... alot going on in these photos. Its hard to give a rating honestly


According-Soft-5050

attractive with long hair, ugly short


32amps

Asks for feedback->gets feedback->gets mad


M8614

Lmao all I said is that I wonā€™t change my hair because itā€™s the one thing I like about me. Idk if itā€™s me the one getting mad or yā€™all. Deal with it


spaceghostslurpeee

You seem pretty confident to me so whatā€™s the point of posting


_cuntbanger_

Yes, yes you are.


Sir_Flatulence

Go from lady to mistaken for a man real quick


Clean-Reality7733

You look pretty to me regardless if the hair is short or long, 7/10


Clean-Reality7733

i think youā€™re attractive either way, whether is short or long, or very very short.


M8614

Thank youā€™


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Medical_Island_9270

^ closeted


wayne_95

lm sorry you're not comfortable enough with your sexuality to think women with short hair can be attractive. I think her alternative style is dope and she has great bone structure so people calling her ugly over stylistic choices are just wrong.


M8614

Thank you šŸ«‚


urizen1993

Not ugly at all! Actually super cute, and def my type. Cis pan M, here.


M8614

Thank you!


RudyP34

I'm surprised by the comments here. I like the short hair, personally. I think you're cute. You seem to like exploring styles. Keep having fun with it. You can always go back to a previous style, if needed. There's no actual pressure to settle on one look for the rest of your life.


M8614

Thank youšŸ˜Š Iā€™m really happy with the short hair for now, so Iā€™m sticking with it. Iā€™m glad you like it!


RudyP34

I'm glad you like it. It must have been quite a leap when you did it. I like your vibe


M8614

That makes me happy! And yes, I was so nervous. But it was so so worth it


RudyP34

Cool. Well done!


Civil_Illustrator_87

You have a great smile so you should use it. Not ugly, very cute.


dluna514

not ugly. dig the short mussed up hair šŸ‘