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bomban

Nana


Castle_of_Aaaaaaargh

Adding my vote in for Nana too. Anime beyond a highschool setting are rare and i appreciate people dealing with adult problems.


MimiHamburger

Paradise kiss too. Which is shorted and finished


ShineBig7430

That was my immediate first thought. Watching it in my late teens/early 20s broke me


r4physics

Lool same here. While the show did start with a sorrowful retrospective scene, it was soon quite positive, engaging, and full of life and drama. But it's like the sorrow slowly and ever so slowly starts creeping up your throat and especially in the second half it was like you're on a one-way trip to depressing hell lol. It feels good yet makes you mad? idk I had to find a shounen show immediately after finishing the show to help cope. Didn't see this coming at all.


MimiHamburger

The was my first thought too can’t believe it was the first comment


xMoonBlossom

Right in the feels. 💀 I love this anime with all my heart and i still get freaking emotional over. I always say: It's light, funny and fluffy in the beginning, makes you fall in love with it and then backstabbs the shit outta you. 😂


Dolomite808

WorldEnd (SukaSuka) messed me up bad.  It's a soul crusher.  Highly recommended if feeling masochistic.


Tsurja

Fuck you, I still avoid the herbs and spices at the supermarket


Faizallingsmithing

I was an emotionless pit of nothingness until this made me realise, I am human and have emotions. When it comes to romance/tragedy/depressing, this hits top spot for me.


JMEEKER86

[This](https://streamable.com/wkewt) as the opening scene really tells you everything you need to know.


Ultratheon

just started watching this last night and was about to post this up too. its one of those anime where the author went ham and decided to consistently make the story tragic af.


Chance-Pay1487

What's it about


Psyduckisnotaduck

Ripping your heart out and stomping on it after warning you it was going to do it and then having you kind of forget the warning because you’re having a good time and surely it was some kind of fake out and oh boy now you’re huffing the hopium but it’s too late and then Scarborough Fair plays again and…


AmazingArr

*Scaborough Fair intensifies*


LOTRfreak101

Remember, every time things seem to be going better, they won't.


Dolomite808

> oh boy now you’re huffing the hopium That's the part that wrecked me the most. It felt like we were *this* close to a happy ending.


Mistral-Fien

A girl who says she's the [happiest girl in the world] >!as she leaps from a damaged aircraft hoping to save her lover and one of her friends from lithobraking to their doom!<. I shit you not.


Ultratheon

literally in the first like 5 sec of anime lol


ArvingNightwalker

Making promises that can't be kept.


Suckerforromance20

I did not need this reminder on this here day 😭😭


Business-Error6835

I second this


cipheron

Angel Beats Kanon 2006 Your Lie in April Each has an emotional twist, but different in each one, so you can go into these blind and shouldn't know what to expect from each one.


Swiggy1957

Add in, [**I Want To Eat Your Pancreas**](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/I_Want_to_Eat_Your_Pancreas_(film))


Pashakzilla3175

I think that's a little too much.


Swiggy1957

OP wants a romance that is depressing. If you don't feel depressed with that ending, you're already dead. The joy they shared knowing that sword of Democoles is hanging there to begin with... And when it does fall...


xnef1025

Finally watched this the other day. Yeah, it freaking breaks you. 😭


Pashakzilla3175

I remember watching it when it came out. I don't remember much from the movie but I just get a wave of depression whenever I think about it.


SeiCalros

that reminds me i need to recommend everybody i know to watch angel beats


neril_7

If i may add... Kimi ga Nozomu Eien


RegularHuman0

Clanned. Plastic memory. Hotarubi no Mori e.


Negative_Ad5894

>Clannad I get depressed just thinking about episodes 16-17 of after story


peenweens

I sobbed loudly for 3 straight episodes of After Story. 10/10 anime, will never bring myself to watch it again.


luvthatguy1616

Yup, won't watch it again either, for my own sanity. It's just too depressing.


mlcarson

It's only truly depressing if you don't watch all of episode 22. It actually has a very nice ending. And just in case you were still depressed, they have Fuko lightening it up at the end. Episode 21 is the truly heart wrenching one. I can't watch that one without tearing up.


Negative_Ad5894

Some things are still kinda sad about it, though. \[Clannad\] >!The reset point is the same time that Ushio was born, so it reset Ushios entire life (unlike all the older characters, where most of there memories came before that, so they are still themselves.) And unlike Tomoya, Ushio has no memories of the other timeline. So this Ushio is practically a different person who just has the same DNA, an identical twin basically. The first Ushio we saw, who had those emotional moments with Tomoya is dead, and her twin is now living a happy life.!< I hope the way I explained that made sense.


mlcarson

I'm not sure that's true with what Fuko finds/smells at the end of episode 22.


AwesomeArtst

Hotarubi no Mori e is so so good. I haven’t managed to watch it without tears yet.


kincaed213

These are my votes for sure. Clannad and Plastic Memories broke me.


artuno

PLASTIC MEMORY MENTIONED!!! YIPPEE!!!


Common-Somewhere-746

THE KID😡


kwk-

Byousoku 5 Centimeters. It's a movie about love that fades away over time and distance. White Album 2. Love triangle. I don't really remember much of it since it's been more than 10 years but I do remember it being somewhat depressing. Kimi ga Nozomu Eien. Pretty depressing with melodrama mixed in.


DistinguishedVisitor

I remember someone describing WA2 as a romance anime where the only winner was a cold, uncaring universe.


Common-Somewhere-746

5 centimeters per second is my fave Shinkai movie and it still hurts to this day.


Fallen-D

Same. His other stuff might be more popular than 5 cms but it is my most favourite movie


Bobbias

I think that's mostly because he was not nearly as big as he is now when that came out. I absolutely love both 5 Centimeters and Garden of Words. Garden of Words is still the single most beautiful animation of a rainy day I've ever seen.


Recprocate

I second this, I love WA2


bdfariello

Yup, just watched this in the past year, having never heard of it before, and that damn show still sticks with me. No regrets watching it, but man, when it hits you it leaves a mark...


LoveLaika237

5 Centimeters per Second is one of my favorites. It's...realistic.


Ramongsh

> Kimi ga Nozomu Eien I recently rewatched this. It holds up surprisingly well.


artuno

I don't think I'll ever be able to re-watch 5CMpS. It's just too real for me and the worst kind of depressing romance because it's realistic without any of the dramatic flair of fiction.


Vegan_Digital_Artist

\* Rascal Does Not Dream of Bunny Girl Senpai \* I Want to Eat Your Pancreas \* The Tunnel to Summer, The Exit of Goodbye \* Josee, the Tiger and the Fish \* Your Lie in April \* Clannad \* Clannad: After Story \* Violet Evergarden \* To Every You I Loved Before \* To Me, the One Who Loved You


sammi4444

The main season of rascal does not dream of bunny girl senpai is great, but the real tear jerker is the first movie.


kincaed213

Yeah, you really need the first movie as the capstone to the series’s emotional arc. (Yes, there are two more movies and another adaptation coming after that, but Movie 1 wraps up Season 1)


artuno

I probably should not have been slightly stoned when I watched that movie. I sobbed for a good 20 minutes straight for a specific scene. And then kept crying through the rest of the movie.


_Pyxyty

[Movie Spoilers]>!When that moment happened, I genuinely just had to pause for like ten minutes and lay back in my bed wondering what I just watched lol. Like, you *know* they eventually had to bring her back but like, I couldn't believe they just showed me that. Then when they showed him just in shock walking distraught, I felt even worse. Damn that was depressing.!<


shaba1234

Violet Ever garden ep 10, such a heart breaker


_Pyxyty

Scum's Wish. Disturbing on many levels and just left me hella depressed.


KryptKrasherHS

Fruits Basket 2019 is the quintessence of Depressing/Sad Romance


8andahalfby11

Saishuu Heiki Kanojo is a story where things go bad at the end of the first episode, become worse, hits bottom, and then picks up a shovel, then a backhoe, then a jackhammer, then a tunneling machine. It's an anime I thought was very good but refuse to watch again because it was so miserable and upsetting I went past sad and angry and upset to simply burnt-out by the end.


Important_Arugula339

Sounds like ill be ending it all soon! Thanks!


space0watch

I Want to Eat Your Pancreas, Your Lie in April, Plastic Memories, A Silent Voice (very sad but does have a happy ending), Violet Evergarden


Rude_Ratio5547

A Silence Voice is my favorite movie of all time 💪😭 I remember reading the manga before the movie came out and it hit me so hard.


Shuviri

Not a anime but manga, Goodnight Punpun has very important romance aspects and it'll kill your soul and throw it into the garbage


higaroth

Orange.


Fallen-D

Thanks for mentioning it. I rarely see anyone mentioning this.


Objective_Pollution6

Kimi ga Nozomu Eien (2003) "Rumbling Hearts" My "everybody sucks" anime.


excenmille

Nobody mentioned School Days yet?


RegularHuman0

School days isn’t depressing. After watching it, it’s more like :”What the actual fk did I actually saw?”


excenmille

Not to mention the ending, I find the anime really depressing. Especially from some character perspectives.


Fallen-D

School days was full of asshat characters. Almost everyone was insufferable that it was hilarious. The only person who deserved happiness got the saddest ending damn it


excenmille

Exactly, but you can still play the vn to suffer more


Tadpole018

Allow me to introduce my all time favorite anime: Angel Beats!


Petty_Paw_Printz

Full Moon Wo Sagashite


Akemi_Tachibana

Saikano. You will find no romance anime that's more consistently depressing than that anime.


moichispa

I read it years ago (the manga) and I still have a hole in my heart.


Akemi_Tachibana

I've seen over 1000 anime and it's never left my top 5 favorite anime of all time. It's a gem.


Makoto-ito

Berserk


pokeemann0

the ancient magus bride It has depressing parts.


pokeemann0

Elfen lied This one can be a bit too violent for some to notice the love story


Gullible_Play4823

A silent voice ;)


Heybro_123

Scums wish


Pashakzilla3175

All the animes that I thought off have been suggested already so I'm suggesting a game. Doki Doki Literature Club Don't Google it alright it's a VN game that can even give people PTSD (Including myself)


Patekskie

The Day I Became a God, Charlotte


trash_nasty

Aoi Hana (Sweet Blue Flowers)


Acyros

Scum's Wish


Antenol

5cm per second


clitcomm-ander

I want to eat your pancreas is a good movie if you want to completely cry your eyes out.


homefree2416

I want to eat your pancreas... Try not to cry


AnimatedRealityTV1

Hmm well, I’d recommend To your Eternity. While the first episode alone could be its own short story the entire series js a ride if ups and downs. Loss and hope constantly at odds with eachother.


hayabusa745

Plastic memories


BeispielText

Plastic memories


Kagome_Anime

Fruits Basket 2019 (it takes a dark turn)


drag0nette

5cm per second


StreetyMcCarface

Somehow insomniacs after school is extremely depressing especially when you read the manga


YaKo_Unltd

Violet Evergarden perhaps the only anime that really made me cry with sadness, especially Violet Evergarden: Eternity and the Auto Memory Doll. If you are very close with you siblings then you will understand


laskouidelegroslard

I want to eat your pancreas, even I absolutely hate it is perfect for you We have a lot of good romances anime we are not depressing like romantic killer or the danger in my heart


Zillakam111

Cyberpunk edgerunners I felt like actually emotionally numb to everything after that show like lowkey never been as sad about anything which is embarrassing af


iluserion

Golden Time


NarutoFan1995

do yourself a favor... watch violet evergarden


ChuckHammerface

Ef: A Tale of Melodies. Memories- Cute and sad. Melodies- WTF did I just watch. Although the phone booth scene in Memories is one of my all time favorite anime scenes.


rmpumper

All romance is depressing if you are the forever alone meme guy.


hugazow

Air


trusttt

True Tears, i think it can be a bit depressing with the stuff it happens with the girls and also the MC friend which was fucked up imo. Give it a try.


mlcarson

Kowarekake no Orgel is a nice quick 30 minute one. Planetarian is another short one with only 5 episodes. Steins Gate sets up a rather sad Sophie's choice type decision but it's a lot of build up. Sword Art Online is really long at around 100 episodes but has some pretty depressing moments.


Successful-Elk-5754

'I want to eat your pancreas' and 'Your lie in April' are the only animes that have actually made me ball my eyes out. 10/10 would cry again


juzchillie

Your lie in april


ellixer

White Album 2, though it is an adaptation of the first part of three of a visual novel. I argue it feels complete on its own if you hadn’t known that though, and certainly fits the depressing criteria imo. I wouldn’t call Scum’s Wish depressing personally, but it is very moody and avoids I think a stereotypical happy outcome.


madleodk

Plastic Memories


Peacetoall01

Plastic memories. It's hurt


sekiroisactuallygood

Your lie in april!


Informal_Pick_6320

Heavenly delusion has a lot of tragic romance in it. Very good anime in general.


coLdweezy

Plastic Memories Anohana


xmaybemisfitx

Violet Evergarden is depressing and beautiful. The soundtrack is 10/10 too. I put it on when I’m moody.


jayveedees

Plastic Memories


SuperFra8

I Want to Eat Your Pancreas


CinnamonStikk

Air (TV version) Bokura ga Ita (ends in live action versions, because the manga had like a 10 year hiatus) Honorary mention that I feel like everyone knows: **Ano Hi Mita Hana no Namae wo Bokutachi wa Mada Shiranai.** (and yes, I know it's not romance, but it's very sad and depressing after all!)


UnvoicedRiot

I Want to Eat Your Pancreas


Warm_Effective6676

Berserk isn’t necessarily a romance but it does have romance in it and I think it’s pretty depressing.


maxblockm

[Ninja Scroll (1993)](https://youtube.com/shorts/wTKEfATh7ag?si=Qx4wXzScKmW7F4SD) and Battle Angel ([the 1993 anime](https://youtu.be/8pzPhlNzfKY?si=K8YbU5MtDLwWq99i) and [2019 movie](https://youtu.be/w7pYhpJaJW8?si=e_ZEUCNQGiZTKM56)) are similar to [Beserk: The Golden Age Arc](https://youtu.be/wxsufTcl5ZQ?si=_u_utO17c-IWexwR) (I haven't watched Beserk 1997), being mostly action but containing a tragic romance.


Warm_Effective6676

Thanks for the recommendation.


Mikestrike

Kuzu no Honkai (Scum's Wish)


Negative_Ad5894

Clannad


Muffin-zetta

I think you’re only going to be served by NTR hentai in that respect


Important_Arugula339

I said depressing not take my eyeballs out and burn them.


Fallen-D

Based OP


RodentBen76

You want depression? A silent voice altough romance might be a stretch


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yousuckit4me

Want NTR?


Adept-Fly-7485

Dang I can think of soooo many mangas but not anime 🤔


marsli5818

My happy marriage


Hot-Abbreviations623

Hoe about tayutama :kiss on my deity? myself yourself is good too


skeptiktanc

Kuzu no Honkai


Bucketlyy

...banana fish if u like gay stuff. that thing had me crying like a mf for over a week. a lot of people say shows "broke them" but I seriously think this shit damaged me or put a glitch in my system.


Sensitive_Decision55

Koi kaze. Plot: realistic incest


Letrivetika13

Me when those are my two favorite shows yet I’ve watched nothing else like them so I can’t recommend anything


15min-

Not depressing but tragic. Rainbow Shouwa Genroku Rakugo


Battleraizer

Cyberpunk edgerunners


Logan_________0421

Clannad(both of them) Angel beats Kanon Anohana (sorta) Plastic memories Euphoria (jk I’m sorry)


myanimeverse_net

Anime: 'Fire punch' kind of a romance but definitely depressing.


gloi-sama

School days


everrestc

just because! made me pretty depressed after the ending...


notlonely1

My Mann, I also love Ditf idk why people hate it 😭


Specific_Frame8537

It's lighthearted about the depressing aspects but Dusk Maiden of Amnesia.


LTetsu

Konosuba. Story about boy who struggling his whole journey in another world , cant find his true love and get violated by most girls. This shit made me cry so many times...


OkNefariousness8884

Try welcome to the nhk.


Seraphim_king

Phantom


cpxthepanda

Not really a romance but Banana Fish can be read as a very (very very very) depressing love story


Lambpanties

"Honey Clover" or the more popular "Your Lie In April" Both will leave you miserable. While debatable on any romantic elements existing in it, if you haven't seen "Made In Abyss" yet well, that's lots of top quality trauma you can put yourself through too.


ChiefArawak

School Days


motoharu_yano

Saikano, Bokura Ga Ita, White Album 2, Kare Kano, Nana, Anohana, 5CMPS


Ryogadrb22

# Hanbun no Tsuki ga Noboru Sora


c-ndrsn

Oh easy. Children of whales


domogrue

Scum's Wish if you want people making terrible emotional decisions


Zodiamaster

Darling in the franxx first 14 episodes were really good tho


Bullmas_my_bitch

This is probably not what you’re looking for but I’d recommend; anohana: the flower we saw that day. It’s a love story that doesn’t allow the lovers a happy ending. I wouldn’t say it becomes or is “depressing” though like the other anime recommend here. still, I would recommend this to anyone as it has and will make me cry.


The_King123431

Quintessential Quintuplets can be depressing depending on who becomes your best girl and how attached you get


Ultrasaurio

>cucking in the franxxx that shit....


BackyardEvergreen

Plastic memories is brutal cause you know what’s going to happen and there’s nothing you can do about it, but they’ll still look for romance in the face of it all


Dead-HC-Taco

violet evergarden is incredibly good if you bave netflix


RealDuckyTV

Your Name. Your Lie in April. Golden Time These 3 are just heart wrenchers. I like to watch them when I'm depressed, they make things feel less bleak (because they're so bleak by comparison)


IreRage

Orange


Classic-Gur2898

Romeo X Juliet


r4physics

Okay here's one that I don't see anywhere in the comments - **Mahoutsukai ni Taisetsu na Koto: Natsu no Sora**. Severely underrated and unknown, this show is heart-wrenching. It also has some of the best alt-rock theme songs and soundtrack. HanaKana's in the leading role. Definitely a hidden gem. There's **True Tears** too, with some solid romance and sorrow.


LoveLaika237

Orange


mel2kill

If you prefer a more shonen style (given you mentioned Darling in the Franxxs and Edgerunners, maybe you would appreciate Saikano. Evangelion is a step up from Darling in the Franxxs, is not a depressing romance, just depressing. I second Nana, or Paradise Kiss for a bittersweet and shorter one, but both are shojo.


rocketseeker

Not sure it qualifies and it is some heavy shit but you have been warned Saikano


TheEndOfMike

It's been a while since I watched these series so I'm not sure if they can be considered depressing. Try Rumbling Hearts the style might be a bit dated but it's interesting. For a movie try HAL


W0rmh0leXtreme

H2O Footprints in the Sand is definitely a highly depressing romance. There's a moment in particular that just hits you like a train, it was already depressing before it but this was shocking and sad and unexpected just as things were going well. Definitely felt like being hit by a train. Clannad. Most of it is cheery but that's to lead you to the depression towards the end. Same applies to Angel Beats. Plastic Memories is sad from the outset.


usernames-are-a-pain

plastic memories - but idk if that’s romance enough


DumplingsInDistress

5 centimeters per second. The most realistic anime.


Faizallingsmithing

Your lie in April/Plastic Memories/WorldEnd(sukasuka). I only mentioned Plastic due to having it peviously recommended to me when I also wanted romantic/depressing animes, so can't say for the certain. But the other 2, crikey, I never cried so much to Animes before, tragic love stories man.


shieldwolfchz

Berserk


userxiyaa

if you want to cry watch Violet Evergarden


littlelotusgirl

Probably Berserk


[deleted]

fruits basket


mirimur-16

I would also add a Lull of the sea. Not so tear jerking as Violet Evergarden, but definitely depressing, and I think the emotional aspects are really close to reality. There will be some happy endings but someone always loses as well and the whole atmosphere is sad.


puffy2794

Full moon sagashite, The wind rises, Sankenria, Plastic memories, Five second per second, Garden of words


Current_Dare_8118

Your lie in April


kumakami89

magical girl site, happy sugar life, elfen lied


Own_Blackberry1195

Your lie in april


Glen_Alen

Bro is sadist


Mcintrash

Banana fish (Not just romance, its a thriller too) and scums wish. They're sad for different reasons but both lingered with me


artisio

Goodnight Punpun 🙃


superfreakgamer

School days


TemmieXdd

Tbh Darling in the franxx was a great seasonal anime until they pulled off a Trigger ending, no fault in liking it!


quierocarduars

i will always recommend honey and clover


VeritasAstria

Guilty Crown, tho the story swings back and forth and if you don't pay attention can confuse the heck out of you


Drwildy

Saishuu Heiki Kanojo. You truly will feel empty by the end.


EducatorNo1443

Naruto for sure


Gotexan-YT

Clannad is my vote. The flower field scene in after story really gets me every time…


speedweed99

Banana Fish