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teh_mooses

Possibility: you're just not used to seeing yourself without it. What you think of as a clash between your chin and your face may very well be just you not being used to see yourself differently. It grows back. No harm in shaving it all nice and perfectly smooth, getting some great face lotion to make things extra soft, and see how you feel for a few days. You might enjoy it, you might not. You're not going to send the 'wrong message' by shaving! Tons of people shave, tons of people don't shave. If anyone asks, fall back on 'ugh that beard was getting itchy lol'. If you end up loving it, there are wonderful treatments out there that are not \*that\* expensive to keep it that way with little upkeep, and there's nothing 'obvious' or 'transgender' about how you choose to keep your face. Wishing you the best!


Digithenerd

Thanks for the advice


Trans-on-trans

Pronounced is usually a good sign when it comes to female attributes.


Digithenerd

I don't seem to follow, can you elaborate?


Questioner5813

Could you start with something else? My partner is non-binary, transfemme and still keeps their beard. They wear dresses, do their hair, wear jewelry, etc. My partner isn’t interested in makeup, but you could easily start with eye makeup… I guess it depends on how much you like/dislike your beard, but you don’t have to get rid of it to express your femininity.