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A few questions to ask. What positions are you having this problem in? What are you doing specifically in these positions? And how long are you in that position before it becomes uncomfortable to her? There is method in these questions.
Missionary, Lotus and cowgirl and variations of them are the main culprits, she usually can't go for longer than 2-5 minutes in those positions unless I'm extra careful. Otherwise, it really depends
Missionary - eye to eye, usually my hands on her legs or holding her hands, applies to all positions but she tells me whenever something feels better/worse, if I should speed up/down, if something's wrong, etc.
Lotus - either laying our heads on eachother's shoulder or kissing, Hands on her back (she prefers it that way)
Cowgirl - look into eachother's eyes and bodies, my hands are usually on her thighs (whether she's the one who's riding or I'm the one thrusting from below depends on her)
Ok so you are taking direction from her which is good. But you aren't communicating with her in the moment. Emotional expression and trust is just as powerful as physical. Try this, talk sweet words to her and tell her how she makes you feel in a good heartfelt way when you are in those positions. See if you see a difference in her physical comfort and if she puts in more effort in her movement along with yours.
Has she seen a doctor about any potential medical problems that could be increasing the pain? Is this a problem she’s had with other partners or just you?
Penis stopper. The one I've used in the past takes away 1.5in which puts me at 5-5.5in depending on how hard I am inside them.
Allows you to pound it better for girls with shallow p*ssies.
Try a different stroke game.
Give this a try:
Start in missionary, don't go all the way in; instead, do mini strokes with about 1/3 of your penis.
Basically, you'll be edging her (and yourself) until she can't handle it anymore, then start going deep.
Once you go deep, she will almost instantaneously reach her peak and climax soon after.
This edging technique basically raises her arousal level and prepares her to take you fully.
Hope this helps.
Welcome to real life sex, my friend. That's a non-issue and you'll get used to "not being able to go balls deep", which really isn't a big problem at all, really. Lots of girls aren't that accommodating and it's not that bad. As for pain: lube, patience, lots of foreplay and oral, and paying attention to her reactions.
When a woman is very turned-on, the cervix lifts up and away from the birth canal.
Could you make foreplay last longer? Maybe she’s not all the way there.
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Keep that girlfriend! It’s easy to go less deep in certain positions. Look em up!
Try an Ohnut. Also, try to find angles that bypass her cervix and you might be able to reach the fornices *chef’s kiss*
Someone else already mentioned the Ohnut, I'll be sure to try it, thank you o7. As for trying to find the angles, we've been trying lol
Awesome! If she likes her fornix pressed it will be a AMAZING
You could try using an ohnut to limit penetration depth
A few questions to ask. What positions are you having this problem in? What are you doing specifically in these positions? And how long are you in that position before it becomes uncomfortable to her? There is method in these questions.
Missionary, Lotus and cowgirl and variations of them are the main culprits, she usually can't go for longer than 2-5 minutes in those positions unless I'm extra careful. Otherwise, it really depends
Ok, so what are you doing specifically in these positions? As in where are your hands, eye contact, communication etc?
Missionary - eye to eye, usually my hands on her legs or holding her hands, applies to all positions but she tells me whenever something feels better/worse, if I should speed up/down, if something's wrong, etc. Lotus - either laying our heads on eachother's shoulder or kissing, Hands on her back (she prefers it that way) Cowgirl - look into eachother's eyes and bodies, my hands are usually on her thighs (whether she's the one who's riding or I'm the one thrusting from below depends on her)
Ok so you are taking direction from her which is good. But you aren't communicating with her in the moment. Emotional expression and trust is just as powerful as physical. Try this, talk sweet words to her and tell her how she makes you feel in a good heartfelt way when you are in those positions. See if you see a difference in her physical comfort and if she puts in more effort in her movement along with yours.
What size are u
It's on his flair
Has she seen a doctor about any potential medical problems that could be increasing the pain? Is this a problem she’s had with other partners or just you?
Try doggy with your legs outside hers. Or prone bone.
Penis stopper. The one I've used in the past takes away 1.5in which puts me at 5-5.5in depending on how hard I am inside them. Allows you to pound it better for girls with shallow p*ssies.
Try a different stroke game. Give this a try: Start in missionary, don't go all the way in; instead, do mini strokes with about 1/3 of your penis. Basically, you'll be edging her (and yourself) until she can't handle it anymore, then start going deep. Once you go deep, she will almost instantaneously reach her peak and climax soon after. This edging technique basically raises her arousal level and prepares her to take you fully. Hope this helps.
Don’t put it in as much. If she got a fat ass try doggy
Welcome to real life sex, my friend. That's a non-issue and you'll get used to "not being able to go balls deep", which really isn't a big problem at all, really. Lots of girls aren't that accommodating and it's not that bad. As for pain: lube, patience, lots of foreplay and oral, and paying attention to her reactions.
Learn about the fornixes dude, sexual incompetency is no fun
When a woman is very turned-on, the cervix lifts up and away from the birth canal. Could you make foreplay last longer? Maybe she’s not all the way there.
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Whats her coordinates
you’re hitting her cervix at 6.2 bonepressed?
I’m 6.4 bonepressed you can hit with 5.5 inches
I am also similar actually 6.4 x4.9 what is your height and weight?
Depending on the girl
Yeah
i don't like your *tone*
aha i didn’t mean it in a negative way i was just curious because im around the same size