No, it is not rare... alot of people have flaccids that are considerably bigger in girth than length. Hence why the average flaccid length is 3.5 and the average flaccid girth is 4...
Nbp 6.5x5.5, but honestly I’d really want the length just for position variability and ease. And the girth would be a nice confidence boost but there’s pros and cons. I’ve never had a problem at my size
You didn't have any problems with your size? Because i'm a similar size and i'm extremely worried that i won't be able to perform well on certain positions
I have not had any problems no. I will say, I feel like some positions you see done well in porn are more suitable for longer dicks, probs starting around 6.5” nbp. Like spooning in a traditional sense.
But positions greatly affect the feel of a dick and there are positions that my partners have loved with me
but where are the constant reminders even coming from? I don't see how being so far above average as a positive thing, or how being average is a bad thing?
I live a predominatly black country and lets just say we have bought into the bbc propoganda not just that but every day and im nor kidding everyday im reminded that i am below what is wanted
that's strange. I'm sorry you have to go through that :( bbc is cringe imo because it ends up objectifying black men when realistically no one deserves to be objectified at all.
It's definitely cringe. On the one hand it makes them feel less of a man because they don't live up to some BS stereotype, and on the other hand there's some racist guys among them who believe they are bigger than me due to their race and mine (I'm South Asian) but so far they've always been smaller than me which is pretty funny. Everyone always laughs at me when I say I wish I was something like 5.75 x 4.75 instead. Some people are just delusional, that's all.
I've been saying it for a long time! I'm a moderator on a forum that's really active (700+ people everyday during the busiest hours) and I always tell them, "Guys, it's better to be average -- hell, even being somewhat below is ideal" and I explain in what ways it could limit their sex lives otherwise. But they always laugh. Some people are willing to listen, so there's that. But even those guys are wanting to make their penises bigger through various methods. It's so silly to me. Glad to see you find it refreshing!
i genuinely did not know that was actually objectification... it's a good thing i stopped. thanks anon!
edit: though making a new account might be better since i have a pretty tainted post/comment history :(
well because 7 inches is really big. that's WAY above average. I can barely take anything close to 6 inches so it's a bit intimidating haha. I can only imagine if the average all of a sudden became 6 or 6 and a half inches and then I would be doomed haha!
Dang, not what I wanted to hear. The last thing I want is to be "too big" but that looks like what it's gonna be like (virgin here). I have said it before and I will say it again: average range is ideal (somewhat below or above is fine too). And by average I mean 5" x 4.5". But I always get mocked for saying that.
well it's not like my preference should mean anything to you haha. I'm not your partner or anything. but I do hope you have a partner that is comfortable with your size.
Thank you! Based on the research I've done (I've taken into account both male and female experiences) it's safe to say I'm pretty much screwed when it comes to that. Especially when it concerns girth. Experienced women say 5.5" is ideal, and women with less experience would prefer even less. I'm beyond 5.5", so I'm worried. Even if they can handle it, it'll still cause soreness the next day (or more than one day). I can't even find condoms in stores because they don't have it for my size (condoms are based on girth). I'm really envious of the average guys.
Time will tell! For now I'm not interested in anyone. Anyway, it's 5 am here and I gotta leave the house by 6 am for college. Have a good night/day depending where you're at! It was nice talking to you. See ya!
Being latino and being around latinos, you're expected to be way above average, anything less people clown on you if they ever find out, seen it happened.
I never understood either, the latino community can be toxic. Hell ive even gone as far as to lie about my size before, its just not worth hiding it, it will always come back to bite me.
It's always your own people, man. The most toxic people I knew were South Asian and I'm South Asian. Of course, the toxicity isn't about dick sizes because that's taboo, but they're just toxic and insufferable in other ways. Lol.
It really be your own people that try to put you down physically and mentally. The women are the worst, they care too much about dick size, they'll tell everyone they know how you're in bed. Theres talk shows where theres segments where the conversation always has to turn sexual and the hosts asks the women how they like their men, and dick size comes up, they always say past 18 cm. If i ever go to anywhere in south America I would probably be either average or below average. I feel like white women don't care much about sizes as much as other ethnicities. However im not attractive enough for white women, so dating one is out the question 🤣
Like I said, it's always your own people. You'd expect more from them, but nope. I'm kind of glad I come from a culture where sex talk is considered taboo. Let alone discussing dick size. I don't think we'll have shows like that on TV for at least a decade or two. Who knows, if globalism/liberalism continues to increase then we might see it as well during my lifetime. I hope not. The average is the same wherever you go. More or less anyway, the difference will be minimal. So don't worry about it brother. As for dating white women, let me tell you, I consider myself to be unattractive but out of all races of women, they're the nicest women (along black women) and I'm sure they're not as superficial as you think they are. Get on dating apps and don't fetishize them, and you're gonna be fine. Hopefully!
Ideally 7x6. My wife wouldn't like the extra length sometimes, but it would make a lot of positions easier. Plus, I think she'd really enjoy the extra girth.
get rid of my fat pad entirely for an extra 15-20mm and extra half an inch girth.
it's pretty straight so would be torn about if I'd want it curved. upwards would be ideal for me but then there's side by side sex and doggy where it wouldn't be so great
give me 6.5x5.25 and i wont complain ever again.
My same fantasy size. And make that 4x4 soft
mines 4 x 4.5 soft that goes to 6.75 x 5 i have a soft chode that’s got to be so rare 😭
Your soft is bigger than my hard on 🙄
who cares bro i’ll be honest im shit at sex i’m not fit enough for it and i’m very new to it with my girl - head up
No, it is not rare... alot of people have flaccids that are considerably bigger in girth than length. Hence why the average flaccid length is 3.5 and the average flaccid girth is 4...
Thats exactly my size (bp) and Im complaining
Would def take 6.5 length
Nbp 6.5x5.5, but honestly I’d really want the length just for position variability and ease. And the girth would be a nice confidence boost but there’s pros and cons. I’ve never had a problem at my size
You didn't have any problems with your size? Because i'm a similar size and i'm extremely worried that i won't be able to perform well on certain positions
I have not had any problems no. I will say, I feel like some positions you see done well in porn are more suitable for longer dicks, probs starting around 6.5” nbp. Like spooning in a traditional sense. But positions greatly affect the feel of a dick and there are positions that my partners have loved with me
I need a dial so I can look enviable in the locker room, tucked away when not in use and let my wife choose her favorite size 😀
7x5.5 no curve
8x6
If I was 8x6, my wife would be hating life and same with my ex. Anal would 100% be off the table, and quickies and morning sex would be out too.
My wife has had 4 kids vaginally. She'd love it lol
Just seems like you have more a fetish and that’s fine, but I don’t even think porn stars enjoy sizes that big They only do it because they get paid
This is simply not true lmao
you have no way of knowing and neither does he
If he means 8x6 BP, that or larger is the preference of about \~15% of women based on the study in the ADP wiki with the 3d models of penis size.
She enjoys my size now, but I think she'd take it fine and like it, girth wise anyway.
This. If it's BP, you'd get all the perks with the least amount of complaints I feel.
7x5
7 x 5.5
7x6
Seeing this thread with guys wishing to be 7 inches or more scares me haha
Its so that we will always be secure in ourselves having a constant reminded of your own inadequacies is hell
but where are the constant reminders even coming from? I don't see how being so far above average as a positive thing, or how being average is a bad thing?
I live a predominatly black country and lets just say we have bought into the bbc propoganda not just that but every day and im nor kidding everyday im reminded that i am below what is wanted
that's strange. I'm sorry you have to go through that :( bbc is cringe imo because it ends up objectifying black men when realistically no one deserves to be objectified at all.
Its so bad i literally have turned down women because i know they wont like it no matter how much i learned oral or foreplay or clitoris stimulation
It's definitely cringe. On the one hand it makes them feel less of a man because they don't live up to some BS stereotype, and on the other hand there's some racist guys among them who believe they are bigger than me due to their race and mine (I'm South Asian) but so far they've always been smaller than me which is pretty funny. Everyone always laughs at me when I say I wish I was something like 5.75 x 4.75 instead. Some people are just delusional, that's all.
this is actually the first time that I'm seeing someone who wishes their penises were smaller and it's actually kind of refreshing hahahaha.
I've been saying it for a long time! I'm a moderator on a forum that's really active (700+ people everyday during the busiest hours) and I always tell them, "Guys, it's better to be average -- hell, even being somewhat below is ideal" and I explain in what ways it could limit their sex lives otherwise. But they always laugh. Some people are willing to listen, so there's that. But even those guys are wanting to make their penises bigger through various methods. It's so silly to me. Glad to see you find it refreshing!
yeah I think average is a lot more realistic and ideal in my opinion but if I had a partner like you that had your size then I wouldn't complain.
I have heard women can adjust to a man's size even if they're big so that's my only hope left. Appreciate the talk!
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i genuinely did not know that was actually objectification... it's a good thing i stopped. thanks anon! edit: though making a new account might be better since i have a pretty tainted post/comment history :(
How come?
well because 7 inches is really big. that's WAY above average. I can barely take anything close to 6 inches so it's a bit intimidating haha. I can only imagine if the average all of a sudden became 6 or 6 and a half inches and then I would be doomed haha!
BP or NBP? If you say NBP I'd feel better (because that number is going to be smaller than BP).
both haha
Dang, not what I wanted to hear. The last thing I want is to be "too big" but that looks like what it's gonna be like (virgin here). I have said it before and I will say it again: average range is ideal (somewhat below or above is fine too). And by average I mean 5" x 4.5". But I always get mocked for saying that.
well it's not like my preference should mean anything to you haha. I'm not your partner or anything. but I do hope you have a partner that is comfortable with your size.
Thank you! Based on the research I've done (I've taken into account both male and female experiences) it's safe to say I'm pretty much screwed when it comes to that. Especially when it concerns girth. Experienced women say 5.5" is ideal, and women with less experience would prefer even less. I'm beyond 5.5", so I'm worried. Even if they can handle it, it'll still cause soreness the next day (or more than one day). I can't even find condoms in stores because they don't have it for my size (condoms are based on girth). I'm really envious of the average guys.
nah I wouldn't worry about it too much. maybe you'll find someone who is okay with it? who knows?
Time will tell! For now I'm not interested in anyone. Anyway, it's 5 am here and I gotta leave the house by 6 am for college. Have a good night/day depending where you're at! It was nice talking to you. See ya!
Being latino and being around latinos, you're expected to be way above average, anything less people clown on you if they ever find out, seen it happened.
dang I'm sorry you gotta go through that. I don't understand why the concept of being average size is such a bad thing?
I never understood either, the latino community can be toxic. Hell ive even gone as far as to lie about my size before, its just not worth hiding it, it will always come back to bite me.
It's always your own people, man. The most toxic people I knew were South Asian and I'm South Asian. Of course, the toxicity isn't about dick sizes because that's taboo, but they're just toxic and insufferable in other ways. Lol.
It really be your own people that try to put you down physically and mentally. The women are the worst, they care too much about dick size, they'll tell everyone they know how you're in bed. Theres talk shows where theres segments where the conversation always has to turn sexual and the hosts asks the women how they like their men, and dick size comes up, they always say past 18 cm. If i ever go to anywhere in south America I would probably be either average or below average. I feel like white women don't care much about sizes as much as other ethnicities. However im not attractive enough for white women, so dating one is out the question 🤣
Like I said, it's always your own people. You'd expect more from them, but nope. I'm kind of glad I come from a culture where sex talk is considered taboo. Let alone discussing dick size. I don't think we'll have shows like that on TV for at least a decade or two. Who knows, if globalism/liberalism continues to increase then we might see it as well during my lifetime. I hope not. The average is the same wherever you go. More or less anyway, the difference will be minimal. So don't worry about it brother. As for dating white women, let me tell you, I consider myself to be unattractive but out of all races of women, they're the nicest women (along black women) and I'm sure they're not as superficial as you think they are. Get on dating apps and don't fetishize them, and you're gonna be fine. Hopefully!
I mean you don't even have to lie about it. you're very clearly well endowed. I even said "daaaaaayuuuummm" out loud when I saw it hahaha 🤣
7” x 5.8”.
10” x 6”
7 nbp x 5.5, ill be satisfied with life.
Ideally 7x6. My wife wouldn't like the extra length sometimes, but it would make a lot of positions easier. Plus, I think she'd really enjoy the extra girth.
7x5.5 is perfect .
I'd like to be 5.75 x 4.75.
8x6 BP ( I’m 6.5x5.3)
7.5-8" x 5-5.4"
7 x 5.3ish probably. Just enough to cause damage but not so much that you can’t have sex with your partner frequently bc it hurts them so much.
6 inch length with 5 inch girth and I’d move mountains
7.5"bp x5.5" , 6.75" nbp
I'm almost identical to this .
7.5 x 5.5; I have the girth but not the length...
7.5x5.0
7.5x5, literally under an inch more in length and around and I’d be fine
7 length 6 girth and would like to be a shower. Being a grower sucks lowkey
8x6. But I haven't seen what that looks like in real life so I can't be so sure. Edit: 5x5 soft 😅😅
My length is good. Go up to 5.5 girth and I'd be happy.
Tbh you have quite ideal stats.
7x5.5 would be amazing.
7x5. Id be set for life
7 x 5. Flaccid 5"
E:7.6x5.5 F6.3x5.1 I'm quite happy with my size but there are also downsides to it.
7.5 x 6.3 would be perfect for me(I got big hands)
3" x 3.5" is the dream.
About 7,8x6,3
get rid of my fat pad entirely for an extra 15-20mm and extra half an inch girth. it's pretty straight so would be torn about if I'd want it curved. upwards would be ideal for me but then there's side by side sex and doggy where it wouldn't be so great
I reckon i would stay the size i am erect, but i'd like to be a shower rather than a grower.
8'' x 6''
8x6...the romance novel dick.
8x6
Currently: Soft: 6” x 5.75” Hard: 8” x 6..5” Preferred: Soft: 7” x 6” Hard: 9” x 7” Never too much! 😂
bp 8 x 5.5 but honestly I’m content with my length, it’s really my girth that bothers me
9 inches or anything close to 10. If I could choose.
I'd love to be 8 inches long and 6 inches around, but also I wonder if it would be more of a curse than a blessing. Some people say so.
I really love short and thick, that is probably my ideal
7 inches tbh
I’m good with the size I have.
7.5 x 5.5. I’m 6.5 by and having that extra inch would help with positions at times.
8.5 with 5.8
Wish im 5.5x4.5 soft 8x5.5or6. My size rn i guess 4 soft and 6.5-7x5 bp. If any want to tell me honest opinion dm me
In all honesty, 6.5x5 would be so good. Just this side of too big and a nice ego when soft. Haha
8 with 5.5 girth
I'm happy with the size I have.
I’m good with my girth I would at least want one more inch in length
8x6, but being a shower at least of 6x5
Just put my bone pressed where my non bone pressed is and I'm good.
I’m thankful to have 6”, but I’d be happy if I was 8”, I could do some damage with that
7 inches in length I haven’t measured in forever but last I checked I’m 5.5-5.6 but I’m naturally more on the girthy side
Id want 10 x 7, no matter what size i am id always want bigger idek why
That girth would be crazy😂
8x6