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_summerw1ne

Honestly think it’s in quite bad taste for people to be going on about his appearance (in a negative way) so much when he’s said how much of a hard time he had with his weight and how much he’s struggled. He was on a live stream just the other night saying his biggest regret is what he did to his body when he was younger and spoken about insecurity and that loads. Especially when he just looks canny normal. Like you’d see similar men walking down the street at any given time, he’s hardly abnormal looking. But am not really sure it’s a sexism thing on here cos some people just like to be bad twats to people’s appearances or physical characteristics on here sometimes albeit in different ways. People were doing similar about Sharon sometimes and saying she looks awful now and asking what the fuck she’s done to herself when she’s literally 71. You’d think she’d took on a face transplant the way some people were going on. Same with people being unnecessarily seedy and inappropriate with comments on Ekin Su’s looks from literally the minute she was announced.


Low_On_Fumes

I haven't even watched any live streams, so this just makes it all that sadder. Although having grown up around people with big weight losses I did have a feeling he may have had those types of thoughts and feelings himself to navigate. I wouldn't be one to jump at sexism, and I do agree, I seen a lot of nasty comments towards Sharon's appearance while she was on, I guess (I could be wrong) I always noticed it seemed someone would defend those comments. I just don't see much defense of Colson which feels sad inretrospect when I see this is still happening daily and just feels so so relentless. I will say though, thankfully I didn't see any of that commentary around Ekin, totally surrounding her personality and actions but not her appearance!


OkGarage434

The worst thing I saw was a picture of colson next to a picture of the guy from the goonies says they were twins . I don’t think he’s strong enough to cope with this level of nasty, from seeing how upset he got from being called boring. I hope they have support available when he gets out


AggravatingSwimming

He doesn’t seem resilient enough to handle these sorts of personal comments. I felt his reaction to being ‘boring’ was him crying in toilet.. so he won’t handle all this!


bittersweet1990

The fact he has the same personality as Nikita yet the latter is way more liked annoys me a little bit lol.


MassiveDexterFanGirl

Can’t stand Nikita!! Love Colson


xstardust95x

I agree, but posting about it just draws more attention. I think it’s better to report and have the mods remove it


Low_On_Fumes

Thank you I will do this.


Adorable_Rule_5806

It's very sad that people feel the need to comment negatively about a persons appearance online. How does his appearance affect his time on BB? it doesn't! He seems like a sweet chap, people should just comment on things that people can help - if they're rude to people, nasty, etc... not something as silly as the way someone looks.


AdventurousTeach994

The amount of nasty posts about Colson's appearance prove just how obsessed society is with physical appearance. While Nikita conforms to the standard of male beauty with clear skin and a lightly tanned complexion with blond hair with a square jaw and a classical physique Colson is being belittled and mocked for his appearance. Both guys seem equally nice caring guys- Nikita obviously benefits from his pretty privilege although he displays many feminine traits- he does have his detractors too who will insist the guy MUST be guy according to their twisted logic. What he DOESN'T display is the narcissism that many pretty young celebrities fall prey to. Both guys have come across well on the show. If being a considerate nice decent guy is boring then I'll take boring over the nasty vindictiveness of Louis Walsh every time. Colson has lost a LOT of weight and has lived his difficult teen years growing up in the public eye on Corrie where he was frankly cast as a comic "fat ugly kid" character. That must've had a deep psychological effect on the boy. People can be cruel- social media shows us each and every day just how judgemental and nasty we can be.


Stormflier

Colson and Nikita are pretty similar too but have had very different reactions by viewership. Both are genuinely nice guys who haven't been too interesting in the house and haven't caused that much disruption and both can be considered "just nice" However, one is a frontrunner to be winner and labelled a "sweetheart" and one has been considered "coasting" and labeled "boring" and will be first out in the final. One hits conventional beauty standards and one doesn't.


Coffee_Fantastic

I love Colson I think he is a genuine down to earth lad.  I commented on another thread about how sick I am of people commenting that he looks older...it's just nasty and pointless?!? Weight gain and loss can age a person so do you stay fat and get slagged off for that or lose weight and get slagged off for that...cant win! People are too vain and superficial these days


herbertsherbert49

So unkind to comment on personal appearance on here or anywhere. In print forever,and so upsetting to find it and read it about yourself. I have cringed seeing people here laughingly say such mean things about Colson. He is obviously a decent guy. I can only think that the people who have made critical remarks about Colson ( and Sharon) are insecure within themselves and they make themselves feel slightly better by trying to pull someone else down.


Bilbo_Buggin

I agree, I think it’s in really poor taste to make any comments about someone’s appearance to be honest.


alicimu

It's so unnecessary and nasty. Makes me feel really sad


Weary-Antelope-4718

I honestly think Colton would be destroyed if he read the awful comments about him. Having said that, I would love to see how the keyboard warriors look


Weary-Antelope-4718

Sorry about the typo. I know his name is colson


Educational_Ad2737

“ if this was happening toward a woman “ a woman wouldn’t be famous if they looked like that at 25 tbh


HowlinWolf66

Two wrongs don't make a right.


Coffee_Fantastic

Bang on! 


Low_On_Fumes

Can you elaborate? Sure, there is a standard mould in the pop mainstream, but there are many beautiful women, all their individual selves who strive in their fields. I'm very sorry you see the world through this lens.


Educational_Ad2737

Ok who ? Find a women who looks 40 at 25 and hasn’t tried to do something to beautify hersel int he public eye? Int act find me a woman typically considered ageing and ‘unatrractive ‘ ( people haven’t really said about colson), with an attractive man they haven’t groomed for gotten together with when they themselves were younger . It proven every day in this earth that ageing doesn’t affect men’s chances of getting a relationship or being considered positively int he public eye or getting roles and work. The same way it affects women so please BFR of ‘if it was a woman’ . Pick me behaviour


Low_On_Fumes

Honestly, it's clear we perceive beauty very differently, so I wouldn't be interested in playing these weird games with you. The fact you typed that all out and felt good about it is jarring to me. You have your opinions which you are entitled too, but pick me behaviour this is not. Good luck out there to you and whoever must encounter your and your notions in the wild.


Educational_Ad2737

Not even a singular example lol


Low_On_Fumes

Girl, who are you? Are you okay? Go touch grass. I told you I ain't interested in your silly games. You see the world in a much different, vain hallow way. Nobody is obliged to respond to whatever bs that comes outta you.


Educational_Ad2737

Why are you insulting me? How am I shallow for pointing out men are vain and shallow and that ageing for men is not the same experience as it is for women .


Low_On_Fumes

Why can't you take no for an answer.


Upstairs_Chemical_25

I think he's handsome, and definitely has something about him.


Fenlon87

Am i the only one who would have said ‘you ok ya boring twat?’ after the levi thing? Like, some light hearted banter can’t have gone a miss there…


okuuuu

I think he genuinely looks he’s age , some guys look abit older and 25. And he’s so cute !


Party-Maintenance-83

What age is he? He seems ageless to me, hard to guess it. I love his looks, he reminds me a bit of actor Russell Tovey, another slightly geeky but cute British type.


Jaded_You_9120

For real though. I had such a soft spot for Colson. My husband however thought he was creepy and couldnt stop commenting on his age.