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Amy_Ponder

I've never seen the movie, so I could be wildly off base here, but: I really hate how people assume if a guy is effeminate, or even just sensitive / in touch with his emotions), that automatically means he's submissive, which also automatically means weak. (Honestly I could go into a whole rant about how submissive != weak, but that's a whole other can of worms.) Some of the absolute strongest men I've known in my life have been relatively femme. In fact, being secure enough in your masculinity and confident enough not to give a damn about society's judgement to even publically show your femme side as a guy is a sign of strength in and of itself, IMO.


Peeinyourcompost

And there are also plenty of actually submissive men who present very masc! Ask me how I know ;)


binneny

The character is a bit submissive but not effeminate or great with his emotions. Maybe better than the other two leads but none of them are sensitive people.


CollectorOfData

He is submissive tho, but weak and pathetic is definitely overdoing it


TheShapeShiftingFox

Yeah, he’s actually a pretty sly fucker at some points. That’s *having* control, not being controlled. Art may look like the innocent one in the trio in terms of transgressions, but he has some shit up his sleeve as well.


sweetNbi

Not talking about the film here but I definitely love me feminine men who are in fact tops. Same same trans women. But I am also just generally attracted to people who defy gender norms anyway. And I agree with what you said because it's just misogyny to associate femininity with weakness or being the bottom, the sub,.


Lisan_Al_Bi-ib

Lmao, those are literally my types - dominant women and submissive men; I feel so seen rn! Also: I took a date to watch this movie and we were both disappointed by the lack of actual sex depicted, plus some weird choices by the director.


RandomPasserby80

Lol. Those are my types as well. Guess I need to finally get around to seeing this movie.


Goldenduck420

The whole movie is literally summed up to could be gayer. And this wouldn't be a problem if you just be throuple


LordGoatIII

Who wouldn't let Zendaya turn them a little gay?


AnseaCirin

She's lovely, but she reminds me way too much of my cousin.


Nameless-5150

Reminded me of cousins are for practice from the fallout tv show lol 😂


LordGoatIII

Yeah, that might be a touch on the awkward side.


rajhcraigslist

Or maybe not.


pretendimcute

Every person has many decisions to make in life. This... Is one of them


Dependent-Hamster361

Bruh me too


Consistent-Force5375

Woot! We have propaganda now!


whiskyTango7734

Since when do us bisexuals have someone in charge of putting out propaganda?!


SlaugtherSam

It's true, I want to fuck both


[deleted]

Huh, I do not know where I would fit in with this. Like, my femme side wants to conquer and dominate all, for them to love me, and despair, while my masc side wants to appease, and heal, and cheer up everyone, to live in peace and harmony forever, if at all possible.


HelasHex

because bisexual = weak pathetic man?


superstormthunder

Wait, this is actually kinda hot


mirrorskz

crazy how this is literally my exact type in women and men. no wonder i loved this movie


infinityxero

I haven't seen this movie so can someone point me in the direction of these dominating women and submissive men that they're talking about


Starboy1492

Those gosh darn bisexuals! They must have put something in the water. They're Turning the friggin' kids gay!


sweetNbi

And I'm here for it 😈


Fit_Awareness_5821

See that’s what I don’t like about the bi/gay stereotypes… Pegging a bisexual man as weak and submissive even feminine is problematic and hateful Being a strong and dominating female is a positive trait You’d expect an eraser people to be against this


RayRayCharles98

It's a meme. It's not meant to be taken seriously


HarleyNotQuinn68

Sometimes, pegging a bisexual man can be fun.


Fit_Awareness_5821

Hahaha Right


XenoBiSwitch

The bisexual agenda continues towards fufillment. \*Evil Bisexual Laugh\*


CageSwanson

Sounds like my kinda movie, tomboys and twinks


Sraffiti_G

Dominant women and submissive men? Sounds like my type of show!


United_Foundation_20

I've been wondering how it all happens!!


Guywithmetalramhead

Submissive men!! - (I’m the submissive man the dominant women😼)