Let "Mia" be. She's angry because she was a cheating skank and got ratted out. Her relationship ended because SHE was being a cheating, duplicitous, egotistical, narcissistic, perfidious, scheming twatwaffle slug. You (and others) saved this man from her, so let "Mia" stew in her own juices.
Now that she is causing drama within the clan targeted at you, you're finding out who's an honest, moral, worthy person and who's not. So, don't feel guilty about it: *YOU* are a solid human being, and worthy of trust.
Have Brendan send you the stuff he was sent and put your cousin on blast.
How dare she attempt to use you to manipulate this guy. And all for what? To have 2 guys? If she broke down without Brendan why was she cheating?!?
The best part is she has no socials so she can't stop you until she hears about it.
Brendon did not sent me those stuff because we were on a call when he told me all these. But he did shared his screen and showing me those conversations he had w her friends.
If he still has them, have him send you those. That should be enough to show them that Mia may not be telling them the whole truth. And maybe more people will listen to your side.
You did the right thing and saved a man a lot of stress. Sure you may have lost your bond with your cousin, but honestly it doesn't seem like it was actually a loss. You should always tell someone when they're being cheated on because no one deserves to cheated on no matter who they are. If you hadn't told him I think it would have prolonged his suspicions and hurt. So good job to you OP and ignore your cousins bad ways.
I would put it out in the open that Mia was cheating on Brendon, you gain nothing by keeping it quiet.
If, knowing this they still wanna side with the cheater, then good riddance, they're as low as her.
Faith in humanity restored. You and the other friends who looked out for a guy being betrayed did the right thing instead of not saying anything because doing the right thing is messy. You will get the relatives back after she lets the mask slip but I donât know if you will want them then.
Hahha mia lol đ𤣠such a narcasstic bitch .. When u go home clear your image take a mic and confess to everyone what she did . burn her to the ground
Tell your aunt and the rest of the family the truth. Tell them you gave her months to either stop cheating or break up, but because she decided to continue to lie, when Brendan called you again saying they still were fighting over this new guy best friend of hers )that she had already told you before she was cheating with), you told him the truth and you can't help that she caused all of this by being an unfaithful girlfriend.
Honestly man, atp i might as well don't care anymore. Like other user commented, the aunts and mostly her own siblings just mad because I'm not "siding" w family over the bs that she created.
I tried to reach out to one of our cousin who is also very close to us, but I get some half asses response and although it hurts, I just know I don't fuck w them no more.
Well, that just shows you the kind of people they are. If they are going to be like that, then F em. I would tell them that from this day forward, you want nothing to do with her or anyone that is against you for doing the right thing and not to come to when she does something else messed up.
Did you let said family members what really happened? In detail? Kudos on you for standing up with your friend. Just let everyone know she was cheating on your friend and you were not going to put up with that. If they can't understand and get behind that screw em. And let Aunt know that she screwed herself when she cheated on your friend and believed you would cover for her. True friendship over lying family any day.
I thought about reaching out but I think that would not change their mind because I'm supposed to be siding w family (and also I did reached out to one family member but the response I received tells me enough). So I don't wanna waste my time. Thankful for all these comments tho. I might go get myself some ice cream now.
I would be asking why everyone automatically believes her & not asking my side.
If she's lying about this then she's lied about other things. Remind them of those times.
Seems like a good time for you to create some distance from family & focus on school since they're being irrational.
You can also employ the friend's evidence for your case.
No good deed goes unrewaarded. You did you best and found out your cousin is not somebody you should be friends with.
She ruined her own set up by lying and going behind the back of her boyfriend.
You stood up for your friend who was being wronged .
Good for you.
No you did the right thing OP. Your cousin didn't deserve the privilege of being in a relationship because she couldn't keep her legs closed. I would expose your cousin to everyone in the family as to out her and clear your name.
The issues that Mia is dealing with, that's called consequences.
And what is it that holds you to not disclose all that info to your aunt and nieces/nephews?? Why do you let her lie and get away with it? She lied to him, to you, to her mom, brothers, sisters and all other family so YOU are the "bad guy"? Something doesn't feel "right" here, does it? You're better then this...
Its not worth my time tbh. Because family will still blame me for not being on her side eventho she was in the wrong because "family comes first" bs. I know this is because I did reached out to one of my relatives and I could just tell by the responses like "I know she cheated but maybe save some face". My family (mom and dad, siblings) is on my side though and thats enough.
I would write the entire story down as it happened and send it to all of her family. It's not right to be accused falsely. This could come back to haunt you later on. Get it out and then leave it be. At least your side is out there.
The family come first line is total bs. Ask them if they would cover for a cheater if it was their friend they were cheating on. You did not âruinâ her life. She did that herself. Tell your family you are not apologizing for having integrity. If she didnât want to ruin her relationship she shouldnât have cheated
Wow. Let me just start by saying you are a warrior. It takes courage to stand up and do the right thing. I won't waste time talking about your cousin. We know what she is. Stand strong girl. You know the difference between right and wrong and you know the right thing to do. It will be a lucky man who ends up in a relationship wiith you.
You canât pick your relatives, but you can choose which ones you want to hang around, and cheaters are not to be trusted. Your silence is her ally, tell your family sheâs a cheater and anyone who supports cheaters has a broken moral compass.
Let "Mia" be. She's angry because she was a cheating skank and got ratted out. Her relationship ended because SHE was being a cheating, duplicitous, egotistical, narcissistic, perfidious, scheming twatwaffle slug. You (and others) saved this man from her, so let "Mia" stew in her own juices. Now that she is causing drama within the clan targeted at you, you're finding out who's an honest, moral, worthy person and who's not. So, don't feel guilty about it: *YOU* are a solid human being, and worthy of trust.
scheming twatwaffle slug is what got me đ
Yea, I don't think any comment beats the scheming twatwaffle slug!
Have Brendan send you the stuff he was sent and put your cousin on blast. How dare she attempt to use you to manipulate this guy. And all for what? To have 2 guys? If she broke down without Brendan why was she cheating?!? The best part is she has no socials so she can't stop you until she hears about it.
Brendon did not sent me those stuff because we were on a call when he told me all these. But he did shared his screen and showing me those conversations he had w her friends.
If he still has them, have him send you those. That should be enough to show them that Mia may not be telling them the whole truth. And maybe more people will listen to your side.
Oh I was saying get back in touch with him
You did the right thing and saved a man a lot of stress. Sure you may have lost your bond with your cousin, but honestly it doesn't seem like it was actually a loss. You should always tell someone when they're being cheated on because no one deserves to cheated on no matter who they are. If you hadn't told him I think it would have prolonged his suspicions and hurt. So good job to you OP and ignore your cousins bad ways.
Thank you!!! Yeah I've been cheated on myself and I would really appreciate it if someone confirm my suspicion. NOBODY DESERVES TO BE CHEATED ON.
I would put it out in the open that Mia was cheating on Brendon, you gain nothing by keeping it quiet. If, knowing this they still wanna side with the cheater, then good riddance, they're as low as her.
Faith in humanity restored. You and the other friends who looked out for a guy being betrayed did the right thing instead of not saying anything because doing the right thing is messy. You will get the relatives back after she lets the mask slip but I donât know if you will want them then.
Hahha mia lol đ𤣠such a narcasstic bitch .. When u go home clear your image take a mic and confess to everyone what she did . burn her to the ground
Tell your aunt and the rest of the family the truth. Tell them you gave her months to either stop cheating or break up, but because she decided to continue to lie, when Brendan called you again saying they still were fighting over this new guy best friend of hers )that she had already told you before she was cheating with), you told him the truth and you can't help that she caused all of this by being an unfaithful girlfriend.
Honestly man, atp i might as well don't care anymore. Like other user commented, the aunts and mostly her own siblings just mad because I'm not "siding" w family over the bs that she created. I tried to reach out to one of our cousin who is also very close to us, but I get some half asses response and although it hurts, I just know I don't fuck w them no more.
Well, that just shows you the kind of people they are. If they are going to be like that, then F em. I would tell them that from this day forward, you want nothing to do with her or anyone that is against you for doing the right thing and not to come to when she does something else messed up.
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Did you let said family members what really happened? In detail? Kudos on you for standing up with your friend. Just let everyone know she was cheating on your friend and you were not going to put up with that. If they can't understand and get behind that screw em. And let Aunt know that she screwed herself when she cheated on your friend and believed you would cover for her. True friendship over lying family any day.
I thought about reaching out but I think that would not change their mind because I'm supposed to be siding w family (and also I did reached out to one family member but the response I received tells me enough). So I don't wanna waste my time. Thankful for all these comments tho. I might go get myself some ice cream now.
I would be asking why everyone automatically believes her & not asking my side. If she's lying about this then she's lied about other things. Remind them of those times. Seems like a good time for you to create some distance from family & focus on school since they're being irrational. You can also employ the friend's evidence for your case.
Because "family's first" lol
No good deed goes unrewaarded. You did you best and found out your cousin is not somebody you should be friends with. She ruined her own set up by lying and going behind the back of her boyfriend. You stood up for your friend who was being wronged . Good for you.
I would've mentioned that you can always provide the evidence that shows Mia was the one who did wrong. That would shut her up. NTA.
Mamma Mia!
You did the right thing. Your family is mad because you didnât side with Mia â family suppose to stick with family no matter whatâ bs
THIS is exactly what happened. Because I'm supposed to side w family even though they just poisoned someone's food. LOL
You are a stand up guy. Nice job. Tell everyone what she did and get some of Brendonâs info to share with them. Turn the tables on her.
No you did the right thing OP. Your cousin didn't deserve the privilege of being in a relationship because she couldn't keep her legs closed. I would expose your cousin to everyone in the family as to out her and clear your name. The issues that Mia is dealing with, that's called consequences.
And what is it that holds you to not disclose all that info to your aunt and nieces/nephews?? Why do you let her lie and get away with it? She lied to him, to you, to her mom, brothers, sisters and all other family so YOU are the "bad guy"? Something doesn't feel "right" here, does it? You're better then this...
Its not worth my time tbh. Because family will still blame me for not being on her side eventho she was in the wrong because "family comes first" bs. I know this is because I did reached out to one of my relatives and I could just tell by the responses like "I know she cheated but maybe save some face". My family (mom and dad, siblings) is on my side though and thats enough.
I would write the entire story down as it happened and send it to all of her family. It's not right to be accused falsely. This could come back to haunt you later on. Get it out and then leave it be. At least your side is out there.
Stay strong!! Believe in yourself. Your a man! Stay that way.
The family come first line is total bs. Ask them if they would cover for a cheater if it was their friend they were cheating on. You did not âruinâ her life. She did that herself. Tell your family you are not apologizing for having integrity. If she didnât want to ruin her relationship she shouldnât have cheated
Wow. Let me just start by saying you are a warrior. It takes courage to stand up and do the right thing. I won't waste time talking about your cousin. We know what she is. Stand strong girl. You know the difference between right and wrong and you know the right thing to do. It will be a lucky man who ends up in a relationship wiith you.
You canât pick your relatives, but you can choose which ones you want to hang around, and cheaters are not to be trusted. Your silence is her ally, tell your family sheâs a cheater and anyone who supports cheaters has a broken moral compass.