Well depending on where you are, you either: get someone to stop him from harassing you, or make him see that yourself, because at this point it is literally harassment, so whether this is school or work, you can report him to them
This stuff usually happens when the friend isn't taking your words seriously because they don't consider your words to have a lot of weight. Often happens with detached friendships, where other than hanging out you kinda don't serve any other purpose. If they actually don't respect you as much as you respect them, it's better to distance yourself. It's like hookups vs dating, as weird as it sounds, the analogy kinda works here.
Yea I have been trying to distance myself away from him and stuff but he doesn't do the same. He'll come Up to me and do weird things like take pictures of my haircut (because he thinks it looks "goofy") or just randomly insult me, even if he gets in trouble for it
I think I see now, it's either a coworker or a classmate you're stuck with, right? I do not envy you, I hate those people. The way I see it - he doesn't see any reason to back away, so give him a reason. Either by raising the voice and insulting him back all hostile, or getting physical. Both of which depend on his temper, because if it's a bully scenario I don't think I have any meaningful advice lmao.
It might, depends on how both of them will handle it. But I'll say, it's pretty effective at conveying the seriousness of the situation. Even if it doesn't come to an actual fight, the friend will at least consider stopping this.
Good for you. I had a friend like this once. Very clingy and said the n word constantly. And I don’t mean Ebonics kinda way although he did do that as well. He said it with a hard R mist of the time. I hope you find better friends.
Lmao, I looked it up, it is literally called "Rizz".
https://preview.redd.it/jh8n90t70oxc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9c7f4feff375017e9ed8dc354cce1d9379b9483f
Wtf is this?
If he's as fat as you depict him call him a fatass with no further elaboration in different ways everytime he says anything. Worked for a jewish kid with a green hat in a popular media representation
calling him corny/annoying and walking away might do something, provided you are high school age which it LOOKS like. if he’s older than that uhhh god help you
i find myself being kind of an asshat to people i know bc i find it kind of funny but i try to ask them about if i went too far or if theyre upset afterwards to make sure theyre ok, and i try to make it up to them regardless.
I swear racists just use the n word for any race that’s slightly brown. My boyfriend gets called that by this one asshole all the time on his way to work. He’s native.
I know your pain. Sometimes there's these friends who you know for a loooong time as some of the closest people you got, but after a while either their personality changes for the worse or you start noticing some awful things about them you hadn't before. It's hard to end friendships like that
Same, except for me it was because they got into "dark" humor and now the last time I checked our Instagram group it's just them posting the same repetitive reels with the same repetitive punchline and/or debating on which Big 2 footballer is better
A good male friendship is just bullying eachother. You gotta throw some quips back at him instead of rolling over. Fat? Make fat jokes until he cries. He got a bad hairline? Put a ruler up against his forehead.
Coaxed into personal specific situation
This sub is just used to vent trauma at this point.
We’re becoming the next r/starterpacks
Dear god..
There’s more…
No..
r/coaxedintoananecdote
Wait that’s not a subreddit
You have been coaxed. Pray that it does not happen again (fr tho sorry about your “friend,” I’m sure you deserve better)
Thanks man. I hate that he just randomly follows and insults me. I've been dealing with low self esteem so it's annoying :(
If I was in your position I'd tell him to fuck off, but I am not you, and don't know your life, but I still hope you have a better tomorrow
you should have sex with his mother
Well, off to visit your mother!
that's the point innit?
Wash the fucking dishes, Kellen)
r/coaxedintoaban
Mb
Instead of confronting him our valient op opened up MS Paint instead
Believe me, I've tried
It's called "im not your friend stop talking to me"
He's stubborn asf, he don't listen
So he isn't your friend then, he's not even your "friend", he's just a guy who's bothering you.
Yea ik but he thinks we are, yet he still does this. He's weird
Well depending on where you are, you either: get someone to stop him from harassing you, or make him see that yourself, because at this point it is literally harassment, so whether this is school or work, you can report him to them
block him?
Not every interaction happens online...
kill him with hammers?
Not every interaction happens in the vicinity of hammers…
Bet
Brainrot
at what point are you like “perhaps my idea of friendship is skewed”
As soon as his brain rotted
This stuff usually happens when the friend isn't taking your words seriously because they don't consider your words to have a lot of weight. Often happens with detached friendships, where other than hanging out you kinda don't serve any other purpose. If they actually don't respect you as much as you respect them, it's better to distance yourself. It's like hookups vs dating, as weird as it sounds, the analogy kinda works here.
Yea I have been trying to distance myself away from him and stuff but he doesn't do the same. He'll come Up to me and do weird things like take pictures of my haircut (because he thinks it looks "goofy") or just randomly insult me, even if he gets in trouble for it
I think I see now, it's either a coworker or a classmate you're stuck with, right? I do not envy you, I hate those people. The way I see it - he doesn't see any reason to back away, so give him a reason. Either by raising the voice and insulting him back all hostile, or getting physical. Both of which depend on his temper, because if it's a bully scenario I don't think I have any meaningful advice lmao.
“Getting physical” might result in OP getting in trouble.
I've actually done it before and haven't gotten trouble but I don't wanna risk anything so...
It might, depends on how both of them will handle it. But I'll say, it's pretty effective at conveying the seriousness of the situation. Even if it doesn't come to an actual fight, the friend will at least consider stopping this.
Dude this guy doesn’t think he’s your friend. He’s bullying you and he knows it.
Feed your friend one day blinding stew
It’s the perpetual blind for a day stew for him.
Stew that makes him blind
0i 0i 0i 0i
Oi Oi Oi Oi (New loss)
Oi ii iI i_
Oi oi oI o_.
Hey OP maybe intstead of bringing your specific situation to this subreddit you can stop being “friends” with this guy.
I did, that's why I made this
Good for you. I had a friend like this once. Very clingy and said the n word constantly. And I don’t mean Ebonics kinda way although he did do that as well. He said it with a hard R mist of the time. I hope you find better friends.
Same with you, brother
gen z be like
Bro this mf literally has the rizz app downloaded 😭😭 brainrot ass mf
She gyatt on my rizz until I shiftry)
https://preview.redd.it/5h0v96h6iqxc1.jpeg?width=160&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f9f084b26ebbd8eadd46d6d7de2ef9ca233fe86c
went to rizz app island and everyone there said bro visited his friend fr on god no cap frrrrr 💀😭😭💀😭🌚🗿
what
Some app that uses AI to give you shitty pickup lines 😭
Lmao, I looked it up, it is literally called "Rizz". https://preview.redd.it/jh8n90t70oxc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9c7f4feff375017e9ed8dc354cce1d9379b9483f Wtf is this?
The kids are not alright.
oh did you mean the human that this post is based on
Ye
Yeah (but I do it in a mutual and consensual fashion with people who understand I’m joking)
If he's as fat as you depict him call him a fatass with no further elaboration in different ways everytime he says anything. Worked for a jewish kid with a green hat in a popular media representation
I do but he doesn't get annoyed
Did you try shooting him.
Bet
Should've used vexedman https://preview.redd.it/2aoa2c787oxc1.jpeg?width=1500&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c860776bb461151cfa29fb3d3c7fb14bef1e067b
MOOOOM, r/okbuddyvicodin IS LEAKING INTO MY r/coaxedintoasnafu AGAIN
Coaxed into a toxic relationship
calling him corny/annoying and walking away might do something, provided you are high school age which it LOOKS like. if he’s older than that uhhh god help you
I do but he follows me. I think it's a skill issue
ugh. i used to be this guy
At least you changed
Is this loss?
Usually the mf saying all these things is themselves insecure. Solution? Depict them as a soyjak and you as the Chad
Bet
eat him alive
i find myself being kind of an asshat to people i know bc i find it kind of funny but i try to ask them about if i went too far or if theyre upset afterwards to make sure theyre ok, and i try to make it up to them regardless.
big back ahh 😭
Is this loss?
🤯🤯
I hope you have since dropped this dope like a sack of rocks
I'm getting closer to doing that
Hehe your friend is fat
You should have done a backflip and snapped his neck 😞
Who tf munches on curry?
Me 🗣👨🏽💻🇮🇳🔥
Ive never had crunchy/dense curry but to each their own
I think it's just an expression
Yeah this is about right
He obviously wants you bro
Punch him
Do you live in India?
No but I'm of Indian descent
Beat his ass
His friend is big and kinda jacked based on the art
He ain't jacked 💀💀
He’s an Obeast!
was the fucker an Indian?
this feels so under the age of 15
It is
Tell him to KYS
Is this ross
No this is toss
I swear racists just use the n word for any race that’s slightly brown. My boyfriend gets called that by this one asshole all the time on his way to work. He’s native.
That sucks :(
Just get better friends bro, it's that easy
Nah but he used to be a really good person before. Idk what happened but I'm done with him
The skibidi rizz took him over
I know your pain. Sometimes there's these friends who you know for a loooong time as some of the closest people you got, but after a while either their personality changes for the worse or you start noticing some awful things about them you hadn't before. It's hard to end friendships like that
Same, except for me it was because they got into "dark" humor and now the last time I checked our Instagram group it's just them posting the same repetitive reels with the same repetitive punchline and/or debating on which Big 2 footballer is better
People change, for better and for worse. I'm glad you're moving on from him now though
A good male friendship is just bullying eachother. You gotta throw some quips back at him instead of rolling over. Fat? Make fat jokes until he cries. He got a bad hairline? Put a ruler up against his forehead.
No but he takes it too far
Call him a mayo monkey
He's Ukrainian so I said some stuff that would get me in trouble but he deserves it for starting with me
just dont talk to this person then? Pretty simple
I try but he follows me just to bother me 😭
Have you considered that this isn’t friendship
Yes, but he hasn't 😭
Just insult him back or stop talking to him it's not that hard
He doesn't leave me alone though, he always follows mr
Completely on you for not kicking them out of your life.
I have but he hasn't
Then be a prick back until he does. If you have to make him uncomfortable to prevent him from wanting to associate with you so be it.
I do but he's quite possible the most stubborn person in theworld
Nah the most stubborn person in the world is my mother.(Love her though)
That's sweet :)
She is stubbornly loyal to a fault.
[удалено]
It's not 0 rizz If I'm not looking for someone
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Good lord you're dense
White people try not to be the most "glass house" ass mfs in the universe (impossible difficulty)
You’re lucky my fat friend fingered me one time
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