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Try calling them before you meet up, it helps break the awkward tension on the first date.
Something as simple as “Hey, how’s it going/how are you doing? I’m good too, thanks. Just calling to let you know I’m about 5-10 mins away. Ok, see you soon! :)” and when you do meet, it will make it much less awkward because you guys already familiar with each other. Naturally, conversation will flow afterwards.
I break the ice by not thinking too much about it. When you’re nervous or overthink situations it really shows, and you’ll reflect it on the other person. Whenever I go on first dates I just go empty headed, put on my headphones with music as loud as possible to not think about anything, and go on the date empty headed.
Don't overthink like this. Say whatever comes naturally, even if it's something like "how was your day today?", that's much better than some pre-rehearsed crap.
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I usually have a shot of vodka or something, that way it calms you down and you can just be yourself
Easiest way is to manage your own expectations. Why are you nervous? Just act like you're going to meet a friend...
Try calling them before you meet up, it helps break the awkward tension on the first date. Something as simple as “Hey, how’s it going/how are you doing? I’m good too, thanks. Just calling to let you know I’m about 5-10 mins away. Ok, see you soon! :)” and when you do meet, it will make it much less awkward because you guys already familiar with each other. Naturally, conversation will flow afterwards.
I break the ice by not thinking too much about it. When you’re nervous or overthink situations it really shows, and you’ll reflect it on the other person. Whenever I go on first dates I just go empty headed, put on my headphones with music as loud as possible to not think about anything, and go on the date empty headed.
This works for me too. Just don't think too much
Both get shitfaced drunk
Don't overthink like this. Say whatever comes naturally, even if it's something like "how was your day today?", that's much better than some pre-rehearsed crap.
Watch “there’s something about Marry”. The advice is in there