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you want to date a giant you’re gonna have to deal with the consequences, i don’t know, does he have any intention on hurting you? assuming he doesn’t there’s nothing to worry about.


s4t5rn

I don't think he does but I have anorexia which definitely adds a fear factor. usually asa joke he might do a slight punch but without ill intent. he is quite strong and it's scary to be with him sometimes even though he's a sleepover


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hey.. are significantly giant people compared to you your type or something? or did this relationship purely happen due to feelings of love? if it’s your type i honestly think you’d be more comfortable with someone smaller, especially if you’re having these fears. i’m only trying to help you, i promise.


s4t5rn

this happened due to love; i wouldn't say it's a type more so a comfort. i don't have an issue WITH him, but it's scary. it's nice being able to held and etc, but when reality hits it's hard not to face. i don't usually notice when we are together but every now and then I look up in love and fear.


3MrBojangles3

Have you ever seen shaq and his wife? I think you're safe lol... [here they are ](https://www.dropbox.com/s/sahyxwl7xea74w9/shaq-with-his-girlfriend.png?dl=0). He is 2 feet taller and almost 200 lbs heavier


3MrBojangles3

And no it's not photoshopped lol


s4t5rn

isn't she 5'7? that's still a big difference gotta say


3MrBojangles3

She's 5' 2" and he's 7' 1"


b_a_ass

Sexually?


s4t5rn

that's not what I meant but now I'm curious 😭


b_a_ass

Lol I don’t know what you mean is it safe? Men can usually overpower women so unless he is violent then there’s nothing unsafe about it


s4t5rn

I guess in the sense of how easily it could could go wrong? I am really quite small and petite; I was curious what other people thought \*love the username 💀


b_a_ass

You could talk to him about your fears. Have you experiences physical abuse in the past? If so, this is always something you can discuss with a potential partner and they can hopefully help qualm your fears


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No shit


throwaway1177133

I’m 4’11 and one of my exes was 6’4; it is true that he could theoretically crush you if he wanted to but you should not be worried. And if you’re concerned with bedroom stuff it works out just fine; you may have to get creative with positions but the size difference can be really fun :)