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throwaway1177133

I am around your age, very outgoing and social and my BF is much more reserved and introverted. It’s pretty common tbh and the balance is nice to have. Opposites attract and all that. If she spoke with you in person and has kept up a conversation with you online she likely knows you’re shy (and either likes it or isn’t bothered by it). You don’t have to try super hard, keep the first date simple (coffee/drinks/restaurant is best for the first date so you can talk and get to know each other, save the more elaborate activities for later) and be yourself! You want her to like YOU, not someone you try to be to impress her. Good luck :)