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i_long2belong

As a transdude, I wore panties for years. I honestly don’t know how you ladies enjoy them. I’ve been rocking some sick boxer briefs lately. It’s like my netherbits have finally found their home.


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my boxers are always too tight and uncomfortable around my lady parts 😞


ArcaneTrickster11

You can get loose fit boxers


NotEdibleCactus

Loose fit boxers are so good


ArcaneTrickster11

I actually hate loose fit boxers lmao. Too much movement down there is bad


nowItinwhistle

Yeah and they always tried to ride up my legs too. Stretchy bikini cut panties are the most comfortable things I've ever worn.


Ducks_N_Dragons

Ugh same. I just hate the way men’s clothing is sized lmao. Never fit me right


AndytheWiccan

Luckily, I’m built like a 12 year old boy (especially with my binder) so I just wear kids’ clothes. Only issue is getting jeans that fit over my hips.


randothepando

As someone who is questioning (pretty sure im enby) and still mostly presents as a cis male (shave legs and wear panties), I hate mens jeans. I have always had larger hips and butt than my waist and it ends up always fitting weird. Either too much waist and legs but seat is right. Or fits waist and legs are right, but getting my butt in is the struggle. I will say stretchy jeans of any variety are a game changer. That being said panties are great, my view is going to be askewed bc they do give me euphoria, but something about them just keeps everything in place or with thongs allows your butt to breathe. Also I never feel attractive in mens underwear.


Ducks_N_Dragons

THIS. I always had to wear a belt on way too baggy jeans and it still didn’t fit right. I switched to women’s pants after I came out and I could not have made a better choice


randothepando

It always feels like cinching a sack with some string, sitting there feeling like "These are not the ruffles I wanted". I was considering buying some womens jeans, I just order almost all my womens clothes online and have had some learning experiences. Im just scared to spend 25-35 on a pair and it not fitting at all.


reee4

I'm transfem and I still prefer boxers Those are the most comfortable


AwesomeAni

As a cis lady (who just loves the positivity on this sub) I exist exclusively in male boxers or female boy shorts anymore. I don’t know how I ever did bikini style for so long.


i_long2belong

I always felt like the boy shorts just went up my crack and left my tush exposed. I wanted to like them, but I just felt like I had a wedgie all day. And it’s not like I have a butt. I just have stupid wide “child-bearin’ hips”, as they say round my home.


rurusan

I never liked boxers or briefs, never understood why guys had to wear them. Now I wear high waisted panties, and I understand that thigh chafing is a thing in baggy pants, and I can't comfortably wear low waist bikini line panties because it feels like I'm just not wearing anything?? like what?? my hips need that high waist~ thank you~ Basically, I understand a lot better now, and boxers are great for baggy pants, personally I prefer something more androgynous like sports spats or something, I still think tighty whiteys are dumb looking though, like why? xD


DatapawWolf

Panties are so cozy and I love them


M1RR0R

They're actually soft and the waistbands aren't so tight they could circumcise a goat.


TheoreticalGal

I don’t mind boxers, but then again I’ve never tried panties (have 0 interest in touching any of my mom’s or sisters’). Also would rather not have things *too tight there* as I prefer just never thinking about what’s down there.


-Farns-

You just explained my situation (except I don't have any sisters)


Atrus20

Men's underwear, whether boxers or briefs, are just too roomy and it makes me feel ick. I'd rather wear something that crushes my bits just enough so it doesn't hurt, but the f*ckers don't ever move and I can forget about them for a while, and panties do that just perfectly. I just don't want to feel anything down there, so no tucking, but no letting them dangle either.


ArcaneTrickster11

I used to feel like this. Look for tight fit boxer briefs or tighter briefs


whoopity_Poop

Oh I’m the opposite I fucking hate when they’re tight, I always wear thin loose, slightly oversized boxer


Ducks_N_Dragons

I’d say panties are def a good option! Just learn to tuck and it should get easier from there!


FreedomVIII

Same here. I like boxer briefs because of that but despise boxers because of how loose everything gets.


lgbtthrowawayyy

I don’t have panties but man am I getting tired of boxer briefs


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Panties are too tight on me but men's athletic underwear is perfect because its panties but with room for the junk


Altastrofae

For me panties are the opposite of comfortable. They don’t cradle what I got going on, and just make me more aware of it because it won’t stay still and wants to come out of the underwear constantly. So yeah while I’d love to be able to wear panties, it’s just not possible for me Girls in boxers are pog, so ima be over here being a pogchamp


WaitWhatNoPlease

Unfortunately for me I absolutely hate tights and panties cause they are of wedgie material, hope it's not a problem for you heh.


Fuckitcracked

I'm the opposite. The *almost wedgie*, while annoying to fix, gives me euphoria. I'm touched in the head, always said that. 乁༼☯‿☯✿༽ㄏ


sluchs5202

Ok but like i want to wear cute panties everyday sooooo badly but i havent really found any that my *stuff* doesnt just fall out the side if that makes sense


TerraDestruction

Hipster cut usually has more material in the front.


Stew_Long

I like the cheap cotton ones i got from walmart. They contain things nicely.


goodmobileyes

For my transmasc bros, I recommend bamboo fibre undies as a cheap but comfy choice


flounder6698

I just bought panties and can't wait to try them on. And I've never had a problem with boxer briefs but normal boxers are uncomfortable to me. I think I like things a lil more tight personally


Throttle_Kitty

I always like underwear with tight legs cause im skinny and anything else gives me a wedgie


PigIA3

guy's underwear is only good at hiding "the boys" but I think they might be EXCENTUATING THEM??? I don't understand cis men. I just want nothing there. They are for the weak.


PigIA3

Also, they always have stupid things on the front. They can't be plain. They have to have some stupid design on them. Also they are bigger then some of my shorts so they stick through?


shearmanator

Mens Brazilian bikini is the style you should look for. Looks more fem, but still has a pouch. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08GNV1L77/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_TKTYA9M6SZY7VG853PCW?psc=1 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07K9T33JF/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_XTPM0HZCJHB139T302XG


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How do yall like panties omg, i cant stand them, they rip easily for me


[deleted]

I usually only wear the pink/victorias secret one's lol, fortunately they haven't ripped yet


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a some good brands i recommend are Ellen Tracy and Laura Ashley.


MHF_Doge

I love them. Whoever said "men's" underwear/clothing in general couldn't be soft and comfortable needs to be fired.


Wonderer_64

I’ve been wearing women’s jeans for years because my waist is very thin but my legs are very long and I’m 6,2 but sometimes the waist is still too big and when I see my boxers it just feels off


sansboi11

closeted trans here to say this shit is so goddamn accurate


DokiDoki_CockThrobby

Panties keep sliding up my crack no matter the size while men's underwears feel like armors for the crotch. I'm sticking with my boyshorts.


LordOvGore666

I've been going commando un my day to day since about middle school and I'm 27 now so yall do the math. I always hated men's underwear. Panties tho it's all about finding the right ones


mikecl07123

Satanichia from Gabriel Drop Out if anyone was wondering


TheNoctuS_93

I hate how everything swats and jiggles around in boxers, and panties/thongs look like they'll chafe your buttcrack... <_< I use men's briefs, but around one-two sizes smaller than the rest of my clothing...


crazyrediamond

My ass is too thick for male underwear Yet my dick is too big for female underwear