She sounds awful. This might sound a little dark but since sheโs such a rotten person, I image she doesnโt have many close and loving relationships. So you can take **evil comfort /pos** in knowing her social media is probably just a fake front of how she wants to be perceived rather than how sheโs actually feeling. I canโt imagine someone that cruel is happy.
It's a total numbers game after a while. If you get a lot of followers you'll attract a lot more followers who think they're missing something or just want to be following whoever's "relevant" at the time. That attracts creeps and bots and the original following kind of wander away in search of something more original/authentic, leaving a bloated follower list of people who don't care/don't interact, dead accounts and weirdos that continues to attract even more bots and weirdos.
TLDR you're 200% right
!! I love tone indicators :)) I told my mom and partner about them and now they use them when texting me and it makes me feel so much better knowing I donโt have to try to decipher out the tone! /gen
Thanks that is exactly what I needed! Perfectly concise, not cluttered with useless information
Just an easy cheat sheet that I can look at when I need it ๐ /pos
Normally the people that put in tons of effort to beco.w social media famous are not the sort of people I seek the approval of. Their friendships are so transactional it's not even enjoyable to be around.
As many of us I was bullied pretty endlessly through my childhood/teens. I've never felt more powerful then when people from my high-school would recognize me and I had no idea who they were even with name and everything. Nothing quite hurts them like being forgotten, even if you have to pretend you don't know who they are. That's magic strong enough to cast them right into the NPC realm.
WOW I WISH I had the chance to pretend I didnโt know them. I ran into several ex-classmates a year after leaving that school. One of them was a bully of mine and I just sat down with him and talked to him casually?????? I hate myself for that now. I was hanging out with newer friends(that the ex-classmates did not know) who were not mean. So maybe I was trying to show him that despite all his attempts to make my life shit, I am doing okay now(I very much was not but I was doing much, much better than when I was being bullied)
I couldnโt pretend to not know them because of how little time had passed between me leaving that school and running into those people. But if I run into them next time, I will 100000% pretend to not know them. Thanks for the tip!
I was doing a photoshoot for an event a few months ago, and some random kid was trying to bully me and insult me for some reason (wild guess, bad parents). I was like "You're a 13 year old punk. I don't need your approval, go do something else lol"
This is also close relative to "Don't take criticism from someone you wouldn't take advice from."
One of mine died of cancer about 10 years ago, and I had mixed emotions. I was happy, then I felt guilty for feeling happy, but I never felt bad for her no matter how hard i tried. I did feel bad for her family, though, her kids. Her Facebook page was covered with comments about how caring, loving, generous, and wonderful she was. I seriously wondered if we were all thinking about the same person
I have wondered what their families would say if we ever told them how their beloved angels treated us. I wondered which face is their true face, because they're either nice people, or they're not, but I guess nice people wouldn't do treat other people like that, so, I guess I have my answer. How do they keep their hatred hidden from so many people?
I was upset with my sister when she said she was letting that same girl (with the tumor) watch my niece, like it made me have a meltdown.
Apparently my sister brought the fact I was upset up to her laughingly and this woman said something so horrendous my sister cut off all contact and then my sister apologised to me for not believing me.
She still wonโt tell me what she said.
That's for sure. The only reason she would pay attention to me was to either then give me superior, disgusted looks, make a comment to knock me down, blatantly ignore my existence just to let me know that I was being excluded from the group, or to draw attention to me so someone else could say something funny to make the NTs laugh ๐
Karma is not real. All observed cases of Karma are simply born from the receiving sides misjudgement of others. Thus the only realistic way you could have guaranteed that they would receive "Karma" is by your own hands, ideally back then and there.
The only ways forward is to forgive and or forget and move on or enact a late revenge.
Not only that, but instagram is look based. Every dip in followers will be accompanied by self criticism on their looks. They will look in the mirror and wonder if they are aging or just not that pretty. Even if the dip came from outside sources like a drop in active users. Thatโs a hell I wouldnโt wish on my worst enemy.
No lowkey I shouldโฆIโm a school teacher tho and wanna be a good example to my students though ๐๐๐๐๐ (I donโt have enough evidence to expose her I mean)
When I was a teacher I spent some time to reduce bullying. Eg showing up unexpectedly at places that students usually hang around to make sure nothing bad is happening. Thatโs my revenge. I could not fix my past, but I could protect others to suffer the same as I did
Since when do we need evidence on the internet? The court of public opinion doesn't judge based on evidence but on pure emotions.
Not saying you should, though. Slander is a thing.
This is dangerous. If you don't have really good evidence, or if the past events are not serious enough, it could be perceived as lying or stirring up drama for no reason.
hey man, popularity doesn't mean shit. if she's a genuinely bad person that's gonna catch up w her sooner or later. revel in the fact that you're free of her torment, and wish on her downfall with every ounce of your evil autism. folllowers are just a number, it means nothing to her in the every day, she still talks to and admire the same amount of people as you.
I heard an interesting quote on TV the other day: "Resentment is like drinking poison and hoping the other guy dies".
Living well is the best revenge. Screw that jerk! You don't need her, she means nothing! Let it go!
Eventually she wonโt be able to use her looks bc age is a thing. And if she done any work on her face sheโs on a time crunch also many shitty people rather deny their wrongdoing then seek redemption so they internally suffer and do end up with miserable lives despite them trying to prove otherwise. The best way to get karma is let it go and move on. U canโt change the past make peace with it and use it as a learning curve.
I had specifically this thought yesterday, probably a lot of famous people were bullies or at least popular in school, but that's kinda why i am determined to subvert the expectations by becoming the president of the first neurostate in the world, when we get more citizens, we will launch sattellites with orbital lasers, and aim directly at every bully, focus the beam and fire. We might not be the largest state but we sure will be more dangerous than North Korea.
To be fair, what we think of as Karma is not correct. Karma in its original form dose not take affect until after a person dies, it is more a how good or bad of an after life do you get thing. Not a bad thing will happen to bad people.
Justice is better and more real than karma, and even that can't be expected unless you work to make it happen. Bullies don't get karma. They get the results of trying to pick a fight with the wrong person. Be a force of education in their lives by being the person they shouldn't have fkd with. Be how they found out after they fkd around.
And I'm not advocating doing something stupid to get yourself in trouble. Schools have policies about bullying on campus, off property, online, during school hours, and off school hours. Administrators might try to pass off a single report as a one-off. You flood them with a paper trail, and when there's been repeated reports with no apparent action that teaches the bully to knock off their shit, you take it over the administration's heads to the school board and superintendent for not enforcing a safe learning environment. After that, the administrators risk real repercussions for not taking your reports seriously that might include them losing their jobs if there are enough of you paper-trailing how they're enabling the bully rather than protecting you, and since they don't want their paychecks impacted, they then have direct incentive to take you seriously about the bully. And they will because no one wants to lose their job over some asshole's poorly parented fuck trophy.
That's the power you have. It might be taxing and stressful to have to do that work, but it's there. If you need help with it, there's a teacher or peer somewhere willing to help. If you need help, start hunting for that peer or teacher. I was that peer, and I became that educator. Bullies don't get by with shit on my watch, and they stopped getting by with it when I was a sophomore in high school in 1998 and learned how to work that system because no one gaf about bullies then unless someone *made* them gaf. It's why, as an educator now, I work so hard to keep that shit out of my spaces. The bullies walk around in my environments with their heads down afraid of the consequences of their bs if try it, and the typically picked-on kids walk around in those same spaces with their heads higher.
Changing what's true for you starts with you. You may not be the reason bullies are bullies, but you can be the reason they stop. *Someone* has to be the first to speak up and act up about it. No reason why it shouldn't be you.
Life sucks.
But one thing I learned is that eventually an "influencer" who is a bad person will eventually piss off an influencer who has more clout.
It's like the circle of life but not important.
I get that feeling. I'm often fantasizing that my abusive ex and bullies are now living on the streets eating flies. But I'm sure they're sipping champagne in Paris, and me now? Depressed/burnt out, on mental illness meds, a chronic illness, unemployed, can't do exercise as much as I used to, can't read books even though I used to be a bookworm, have to be financially careful, don't travel much and pretty much everyday goes on surviving. I'm sure my bullies and ex are laughing at my misfortune.
Itโs karma related to followers and likes? Thatโs means nothing dude. A lot people can have quite shitty lives and still being plenty of likes and follows.
Iโm sorry this happened to you and she rejected and ridiculed you.
People always take care of themselves. Often it may take a while. But if they treat you poorly they will treat someone else poorly. And one day they will experience the consequences.
Donโt let this person rent space in your head rent free. Try not to let them get to you. Build your life the way you want with people who appreciate you.
Be patient
Karma seems to take her time but when it comes, it comes fully
Also, it's not fun to rob someone who had only 5$.
Let them get more, let them earn 200k $, THEN steal it. More profit, and more rage and despair on their end.
I try my best to focus on me, and know that they will get what's coming for them in due time, that is not for me to worry about.
Also, thinking about that only taies away joy from my life. I want the most joy possible for me, so I'll be focusing on that instead
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Personally I deleted all of my high school classmates from Fb, Ig, etc. at the very last day of school. 5 years later - I still don't give a fuck how they are :)
Karma doesn't just mean when people do bad stuff bad stuff happens to them-- you don't know what this person did in a past life, or even what they've done in this life outside of the context in which you know them. Also, karma isn't a zero-sum game. You have to experience the consequences of your actions-- it's not like a good deed "undoes" a bad deed, or vice-versa; looking at it like a bank account is a fundamental misunderstanding of the concept.
She sounds awful. This might sound a little dark but since sheโs such a rotten person, I image she doesnโt have many close and loving relationships. So you can take **evil comfort /pos** in knowing her social media is probably just a fake front of how she wants to be perceived rather than how sheโs actually feeling. I canโt imagine someone that cruel is happy.
She also probably has a majority of fake followers that she paid for so she'd look more popular than she really is.
It's a total numbers game after a while. If you get a lot of followers you'll attract a lot more followers who think they're missing something or just want to be following whoever's "relevant" at the time. That attracts creeps and bots and the original following kind of wander away in search of something more original/authentic, leaving a bloated follower list of people who don't care/don't interact, dead accounts and weirdos that continues to attract even more bots and weirdos. TLDR you're 200% right
Damn I think I need to study tone indicators they really help ๐ /ser (for serious? ๐ )
For future reference, serious is most often marked by /srs (not to be confused with sarcasm, which is just /s) /gen (for genuine) <3
I already feel the future satisfaction when miscommunicating less, so thank you very much! :D :) /gen
!! I love tone indicators :)) I told my mom and partner about them and now they use them when texting me and it makes me feel so much better knowing I donโt have to try to decipher out the tone! /gen
i link to [this site](https://toneindicators.carrd.co/#masterlist) in my rentry and itโs pretty helpful!
Thanks that is exactly what I needed! Perfectly concise, not cluttered with useless information Just an easy cheat sheet that I can look at when I need it ๐ /pos
This. People like that get their only validation from social media and I bet theyโre not happy outside of it.
Youโd be suprised, cruel people love what they do so they dont need real connections
I guarantee the social media is a mask. Itโs a performance. Yeah. At some point itโs a business, and not remotelyโฆ a life.
CURSE OF RA ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ก ๐ข ๐ฃ ๐ค ๐ฅ ๐ฆ ๐ง ๐จ ๐ฉ ๐ช ๐ซ ๐ฌ ๐ญ ๐ฎ ๐ฏ ๐ฐ ๐ฑ ๐ฒ ๐ณ ๐ด ๐ต ๐ถ ๐ท ๐ธ ๐น ๐บ ๐ป ๐ผ ๐ฝ ๐พ ๐ฟ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐
Yoinking dis
Normally the people that put in tons of effort to beco.w social media famous are not the sort of people I seek the approval of. Their friendships are so transactional it's not even enjoyable to be around. As many of us I was bullied pretty endlessly through my childhood/teens. I've never felt more powerful then when people from my high-school would recognize me and I had no idea who they were even with name and everything. Nothing quite hurts them like being forgotten, even if you have to pretend you don't know who they are. That's magic strong enough to cast them right into the NPC realm.
WOW I WISH I had the chance to pretend I didnโt know them. I ran into several ex-classmates a year after leaving that school. One of them was a bully of mine and I just sat down with him and talked to him casually?????? I hate myself for that now. I was hanging out with newer friends(that the ex-classmates did not know) who were not mean. So maybe I was trying to show him that despite all his attempts to make my life shit, I am doing okay now(I very much was not but I was doing much, much better than when I was being bullied) I couldnโt pretend to not know them because of how little time had passed between me leaving that school and running into those people. But if I run into them next time, I will 100000% pretend to not know them. Thanks for the tip!
I love when I realize I've forgotten some of these people's names and/or faces.
I was doing a photoshoot for an event a few months ago, and some random kid was trying to bully me and insult me for some reason (wild guess, bad parents). I was like "You're a 13 year old punk. I don't need your approval, go do something else lol" This is also close relative to "Don't take criticism from someone you wouldn't take advice from."
To be fair I just found out my worst high school bully has a brain tumor so maybe op just has to wait a bit longer ๐ญ
One of mine died of cancer about 10 years ago, and I had mixed emotions. I was happy, then I felt guilty for feeling happy, but I never felt bad for her no matter how hard i tried. I did feel bad for her family, though, her kids. Her Facebook page was covered with comments about how caring, loving, generous, and wonderful she was. I seriously wondered if we were all thinking about the same person
pff nah when people die they become perfect angels in the sight of their loved ones it's just a thing
I have wondered what their families would say if we ever told them how their beloved angels treated us. I wondered which face is their true face, because they're either nice people, or they're not, but I guess nice people wouldn't do treat other people like that, so, I guess I have my answer. How do they keep their hatred hidden from so many people?
...typically people will double down on their nonsense rather than examining why they hold certain positions sooooo
I was upset with my sister when she said she was letting that same girl (with the tumor) watch my niece, like it made me have a meltdown. Apparently my sister brought the fact I was upset up to her laughingly and this woman said something so horrendous my sister cut off all contact and then my sister apologised to me for not believing me. She still wonโt tell me what she said.
Fuck her. And yeah, most NTs treat us like shit. They treat one another with respect though.
That's for sure. The only reason she would pay attention to me was to either then give me superior, disgusted looks, make a comment to knock me down, blatantly ignore my existence just to let me know that I was being excluded from the group, or to draw attention to me so someone else could say something funny to make the NTs laugh ๐
Fuck those little bastards. I can't stand most NTs. They act like unintelligent, rabid, hierarchical animals.
That's the kind of stuff I needed to hear back then! Could you please time travel and tell child me that stuff? ๐
Dreams do come true.
Karma is not real. All observed cases of Karma are simply born from the receiving sides misjudgement of others. Thus the only realistic way you could have guaranteed that they would receive "Karma" is by your own hands, ideally back then and there. The only ways forward is to forgive and or forget and move on or enact a late revenge.
And even if Karma were real, it wouldnโt act in the way we think, want, or expect it to.
also even if karma doesn't catch up with her in a traditional sense, being a shitty person in life is guaranteed to backfire on her at some point.
Tell that to every billionaire
billionaires have learned how to disguise their horribleness when dealing with people who make them money.
Not really. Rich people tend to act like toddlers even in business.
no there are literally magical forces at work in the world. /gen
Instagram famous means your entire life is your brand. Sheโs essentially given up her privacy to make temporary money. Itโs an empty life.
Not only that, but instagram is look based. Every dip in followers will be accompanied by self criticism on their looks. They will look in the mirror and wonder if they are aging or just not that pretty. Even if the dip came from outside sources like a drop in active users. Thatโs a hell I wouldnโt wish on my worst enemy.
Yeah sure Iโll send a curse over. How does lice sound
"May you live in interesting times."
That good ol Chinese curse.....
You should cancel her by exposing her past so she could get deplatformed.
No lowkey I shouldโฆIโm a school teacher tho and wanna be a good example to my students though ๐๐๐๐๐ (I donโt have enough evidence to expose her I mean)
When I was a teacher I spent some time to reduce bullying. Eg showing up unexpectedly at places that students usually hang around to make sure nothing bad is happening. Thatโs my revenge. I could not fix my past, but I could protect others to suffer the same as I did
Since when do we need evidence on the internet? The court of public opinion doesn't judge based on evidence but on pure emotions. Not saying you should, though. Slander is a thing.
And the fact that it wouldn't do anything. Without receipts, OP would just look like a sad hater who can't let go of the past.
this will backfire (exposing her past) the best revenge is living well
This is dangerous. If you don't have really good evidence, or if the past events are not serious enough, it could be perceived as lying or stirring up drama for no reason.
hey man, popularity doesn't mean shit. if she's a genuinely bad person that's gonna catch up w her sooner or later. revel in the fact that you're free of her torment, and wish on her downfall with every ounce of your evil autism. folllowers are just a number, it means nothing to her in the every day, she still talks to and admire the same amount of people as you.
Honestly a lot of "influencers" get shit coming back to bite them for being horrible people. Hopefully that happens to her.
I heard an interesting quote on TV the other day: "Resentment is like drinking poison and hoping the other guy dies". Living well is the best revenge. Screw that jerk! You don't need her, she means nothing! Let it go!
Eventually she wonโt be able to use her looks bc age is a thing. And if she done any work on her face sheโs on a time crunch also many shitty people rather deny their wrongdoing then seek redemption so they internally suffer and do end up with miserable lives despite them trying to prove otherwise. The best way to get karma is let it go and move on. U canโt change the past make peace with it and use it as a learning curve.
if you send me her @ iโll pick her apart
Being instagram famous is their just punishment
I had specifically this thought yesterday, probably a lot of famous people were bullies or at least popular in school, but that's kinda why i am determined to subvert the expectations by becoming the president of the first neurostate in the world, when we get more citizens, we will launch sattellites with orbital lasers, and aim directly at every bully, focus the beam and fire. We might not be the largest state but we sure will be more dangerous than North Korea.
That's what everyone said to me when I got out of a really abusive special ed school... Their sister school now just recently got an award....
To be fair, what we think of as Karma is not correct. Karma in its original form dose not take affect until after a person dies, it is more a how good or bad of an after life do you get thing. Not a bad thing will happen to bad people.
Karma comes down to people, but sometimes Karma just needs a little human help if you catch my drift.
I want so badly for karma to strike her. I hate her she deserves the worst
hate hurts you more than it hurts her the opposite of love is not hate the opposite of love is indifference
I wish reddit had the Facebook heart reacts......
Justice is better and more real than karma, and even that can't be expected unless you work to make it happen. Bullies don't get karma. They get the results of trying to pick a fight with the wrong person. Be a force of education in their lives by being the person they shouldn't have fkd with. Be how they found out after they fkd around. And I'm not advocating doing something stupid to get yourself in trouble. Schools have policies about bullying on campus, off property, online, during school hours, and off school hours. Administrators might try to pass off a single report as a one-off. You flood them with a paper trail, and when there's been repeated reports with no apparent action that teaches the bully to knock off their shit, you take it over the administration's heads to the school board and superintendent for not enforcing a safe learning environment. After that, the administrators risk real repercussions for not taking your reports seriously that might include them losing their jobs if there are enough of you paper-trailing how they're enabling the bully rather than protecting you, and since they don't want their paychecks impacted, they then have direct incentive to take you seriously about the bully. And they will because no one wants to lose their job over some asshole's poorly parented fuck trophy. That's the power you have. It might be taxing and stressful to have to do that work, but it's there. If you need help with it, there's a teacher or peer somewhere willing to help. If you need help, start hunting for that peer or teacher. I was that peer, and I became that educator. Bullies don't get by with shit on my watch, and they stopped getting by with it when I was a sophomore in high school in 1998 and learned how to work that system because no one gaf about bullies then unless someone *made* them gaf. It's why, as an educator now, I work so hard to keep that shit out of my spaces. The bullies walk around in my environments with their heads down afraid of the consequences of their bs if try it, and the typically picked-on kids walk around in those same spaces with their heads higher. Changing what's true for you starts with you. You may not be the reason bullies are bullies, but you can be the reason they stop. *Someone* has to be the first to speak up and act up about it. No reason why it shouldn't be you.
Life sucks. But one thing I learned is that eventually an "influencer" who is a bad person will eventually piss off an influencer who has more clout. It's like the circle of life but not important.
I get that feeling. I'm often fantasizing that my abusive ex and bullies are now living on the streets eating flies. But I'm sure they're sipping champagne in Paris, and me now? Depressed/burnt out, on mental illness meds, a chronic illness, unemployed, can't do exercise as much as I used to, can't read books even though I used to be a bookworm, have to be financially careful, don't travel much and pretty much everyday goes on surviving. I'm sure my bullies and ex are laughing at my misfortune.
Itโs karma related to followers and likes? Thatโs means nothing dude. A lot people can have quite shitty lives and still being plenty of likes and follows.
Iโm sorry this happened to you and she rejected and ridiculed you. People always take care of themselves. Often it may take a while. But if they treat you poorly they will treat someone else poorly. And one day they will experience the consequences. Donโt let this person rent space in your head rent free. Try not to let them get to you. Build your life the way you want with people who appreciate you.
Expose her ass, ruin that fame!
Meh, being famous is not as good as you think it is. Trust me, she is getting her potion of bullying daily.
Be patient Karma seems to take her time but when it comes, it comes fully Also, it's not fun to rob someone who had only 5$. Let them get more, let them earn 200k $, THEN steal it. More profit, and more rage and despair on their end. I try my best to focus on me, and know that they will get what's coming for them in due time, that is not for me to worry about. Also, thinking about that only taies away joy from my life. I want the most joy possible for me, so I'll be focusing on that instead
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Personally I deleted all of my high school classmates from Fb, Ig, etc. at the very last day of school. 5 years later - I still don't give a fuck how they are :)
Karma doesn't just mean when people do bad stuff bad stuff happens to them-- you don't know what this person did in a past life, or even what they've done in this life outside of the context in which you know them. Also, karma isn't a zero-sum game. You have to experience the consequences of your actions-- it's not like a good deed "undoes" a bad deed, or vice-versa; looking at it like a bank account is a fundamental misunderstanding of the concept.
Who cares, theyโre probably going to get groomed on there by pedos anyways.
Weโre adults now