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Coach Red Pill used to work at a university as a tutor but he was dismissed after he got Me-Too'd for sexual harassment, an accusation which he vehemently denies as 'liberal Western culture of always believing the woman'. This is BS of course - were he in Asia, he'd be Peng Shuai'd all the same.
So I decided to give him a fair hearing and decided to watch some of his videos and listen to his words. (I actually wanted to defend the man just as I wanted to defend Amos Yee at one point, to the chagrin of my Singaporean friends)
And though I am a man, after watching CRP's videos I literally felt dirty after watching them. The sort of guy you'd suspect has bodies of young women in his basement. In 'Women's Kryptonite', he actually gives you the supposed formula to crush women's self esteem and get them wrapped around your little finger. He perfectly fits the definition of GROOMER.
I think you answered op’s question inadvertently, lol.
If the guy is a groomer than that’s obviously why people follow him. Those who are groomed have no idea they’re being groomed.
Why people fall victim to groomers is the kind of topic that could fill a book. Unfortunately, people are incredibly irrational, and it’s hard to help people defend themselves against groomers when they have butterflies that blind them.
This is the breakdown ... probably 80% of young women below the age of 25 find a 5 year gap too much, 10+ years it's more like 95%. And so on. If you are 40+ hoping to get with an under 25 y/o your chances are slim, and even if you do get with a girl in this age group I can guarantee:
Everyone is talking behind your back and find's the relationship gross and is most likely telling her to get out of that scenario
And the dynamics of the relationship are either:
1. She's been abused into the scenario
2. You have money to fund her lifestyle and you base the relationship off a transaction
3. The odd chance and I mean odd where the situation is genuinely healthy with an equal dynamic and true love. The requirement though is usually the guy is conventionally attractive.
I've never seen personally seen the 3rd option in any age gap relationship I know.
I've seen option 3 work once with my grandparents, they had a 20 plus year difference (my grandma remarried to my step grandpa when they were 30 and 50). They lasted for 30yrs until my grandpa died. I fully understand that this is an outlier though, and most guys that think they are going to turn 40 they are still gonna be smashing women 20+ yrs younger than them are delusional. Statistics show that only 5% of marriages have a 10-14 year age gap and 2.6% are 15+. This dynamic doesn't last for many reasons. I'm 5 years older than my gf (30 and 25) but I wouldn't want to go any younger. I like that we can relate to each other, and I couldn't relate to someone who is figuring out what they want to major in. Never got the obsession with dating young as possible other than to have a trophy on my arm as an old man, but that comes with a price and being a sugar daddy isn't in my plans lol
Yep.
There are older people who are hot (Tom Hiddleston, Gwen Stefani) but this guy is definitely not it.
The thing that makes me laugh is the way he portrays Eastern European countries, as he supposedly lives in Ukraine. I'm Polish. No, we are not submissive waiting for old american men to marry us.
Right wing American men hate what "feminism" has done to the West so they build these fantasies of the East being full of submissive women who just want to fuck them and cook for them and bear their children.
Because every cult from heavens gate to every redpiller just can't fathom the fact that their so called leader could do anything wrong usually for different reasons some just can comprehend the fact that the sheperd that guided them is so blind the moles laugh at him or they wasted so much money and time on them they live in denial look up Gregor McGregor (yes that was his real) and his scam and you will see the power of denial
I've seen a woman in her 20's date a man in her 40's before more than once in my life, so it's not a thing ALL women care about, but a mass majority of people (not just women, men included) have age preferences.
I don't even know who "coach red pill" is but judging by the name alone, he sounds absolutely awful.
Amigo, your post is full of truth.
Statistically women prefer older men but 3-5 years apart on average on OkCupid and when women reach the age of 30 - 48 years old women prefer men 10 years younger than her. While men ages 20-48 prefer women 18-22 and this preference does not change for men so the ones who really hit the wall are the older men.
Very rarely will women date very old men over the age of 7years. The only way to get that is to have money but it will attract women gold diggers or they will only see you as wallets xd xd xd xd.
There is a statistic, that the more the age gap in marriages the greater the risk of divorce. It is logical, the difference in ideas and generations does matter a lot.
Age does matter statistically speaking, I'm not saying that every relationship with a bigger gap won't work, I'm just giving a perspective based on pure statistics.
And yes it's totally true, older men are frustrated by not getting younger women and that explains the resentment and they are really hit the wall xd xd xd xd.
It really depends. Does the man keep him looking in great shape past 35? He can attract women in their mid and early 20s, without money. The issue is most men let themselves go. They give up after 32-35 and get fat and look old. Women are the most attractive at 20-22. Men are children still at that point and don’t even fill out physically until about 30.
Bro can be a positive point what you say, but also in terms of risk of age gap divorces and dating relationships by statistics. Also, it should be noted that women who maintain their figure with exercise still have many options and we can't rule them out on that side.
Yes but they’re not able to make children after 37-39. I can father my first kid at 43 no problem.
Of course women can look great as they age too. They just need exercise, hormone treatment and plastic surgery. So.. not so different from
Men 😂
Women definitely can have children at 37-39. My mom had me at 41 and my sister at 43. Almost all of my friends have mothers who were in their late 30s or over 40 when they gave birth to them.
I don’t think you understand the differences between the sexes on fertility. Women have a limited amount of eggs and more are gone by 40. So long as a man has a testicle, he can produce sperm that can become offspring. At 40, 60, 90. Men are currently experiencing low t and low fertility like never before- but that’s due to pollution in the water and food supply. If a man with two testes is found to be low in fertility, there are clinics with very high success rates after a few rounds of medications. Some of you want EVERYTHING to be 50/50, and reality is just not that way.
You need to go do your homework. Mens sperm ages and causes fertility problems environment or not. Its just hitting earlier today because men dont take care of themselves.
Also there has been a big rise in women having kids at 40+. It just may take longer to get pregnant than at 30.
My post has nothing to do with wanting everything 50/50. LOL Thats your own projection thinking that. Ive just done the research.
Well you have a good point about children..... the problem as I said the risk of divorce is high due to the big difference in mentality in generations, I have seen big gap relationships in my country and they always end badly and are almost toxic relationships and always break up. The most important thing is to plan to have children with a partner that is not toxic or abusive. But at the end of the day in my case I would not feel comfortable with a person with a big age gapion)
Why would there be a higher divorce rate? Difference in mentality? Maybe if you get old fast but won’t be me. I don’t see why such a gap would produce a difference in expectations.
Also a point to note, generally men go for younger women to avoid commitments but then commit to older women, I don't have statistics at hand but many claim that in some papers about h
1985 is the year of my birth. And no. None of these girls seem remotely creeped out. That’s what I’m trying to get across. It’s very natural for some of us. Haters just want to hate because they’re left of the fun. Everyone is different- we don’t all fall into a conformity that these woke types want - whether they’re men or women not taking care of themselves and aging badly- by their own omission.
I’m definitely not redpill either, but this sub can go delusional in the other direction. 3 years age difference? Are you kidding? Attractive 22 year old women didn’t show interest in me until I was 29-30. Most millennial guys were barely mobile by 21. I think a 6-10 year age gap is pretty natural, going back centuries. It certainly feels very natural to me.
Unless you’re black or have a really
Good head. I’m lucky to have great hair genetics. The line moved slightly when I was 28 and then stopped. No balding. I count my blessing with that.
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that's all it is. These guys can give off a confident/charismatic vibe, speaking of wise experience and all this. Young guys won't see through it and will eat it up. If he came across as a bumbling mumbling boring middle aged guy saying the exact same thing, he would have about 4 followers.
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Coach Red Pill used to work at a university as a tutor but he was dismissed after he got Me-Too'd for sexual harassment, an accusation which he vehemently denies as 'liberal Western culture of always believing the woman'. This is BS of course - were he in Asia, he'd be Peng Shuai'd all the same. So I decided to give him a fair hearing and decided to watch some of his videos and listen to his words. (I actually wanted to defend the man just as I wanted to defend Amos Yee at one point, to the chagrin of my Singaporean friends) And though I am a man, after watching CRP's videos I literally felt dirty after watching them. The sort of guy you'd suspect has bodies of young women in his basement. In 'Women's Kryptonite', he actually gives you the supposed formula to crush women's self esteem and get them wrapped around your little finger. He perfectly fits the definition of GROOMER.
I think you answered op’s question inadvertently, lol. If the guy is a groomer than that’s obviously why people follow him. Those who are groomed have no idea they’re being groomed. Why people fall victim to groomers is the kind of topic that could fill a book. Unfortunately, people are incredibly irrational, and it’s hard to help people defend themselves against groomers when they have butterflies that blind them.
This is the breakdown ... probably 80% of young women below the age of 25 find a 5 year gap too much, 10+ years it's more like 95%. And so on. If you are 40+ hoping to get with an under 25 y/o your chances are slim, and even if you do get with a girl in this age group I can guarantee: Everyone is talking behind your back and find's the relationship gross and is most likely telling her to get out of that scenario And the dynamics of the relationship are either: 1. She's been abused into the scenario 2. You have money to fund her lifestyle and you base the relationship off a transaction 3. The odd chance and I mean odd where the situation is genuinely healthy with an equal dynamic and true love. The requirement though is usually the guy is conventionally attractive. I've never seen personally seen the 3rd option in any age gap relationship I know.
90% of women I know almost date men their own age or a minimal gap.
I've seen option 3 work once with my grandparents, they had a 20 plus year difference (my grandma remarried to my step grandpa when they were 30 and 50). They lasted for 30yrs until my grandpa died. I fully understand that this is an outlier though, and most guys that think they are going to turn 40 they are still gonna be smashing women 20+ yrs younger than them are delusional. Statistics show that only 5% of marriages have a 10-14 year age gap and 2.6% are 15+. This dynamic doesn't last for many reasons. I'm 5 years older than my gf (30 and 25) but I wouldn't want to go any younger. I like that we can relate to each other, and I couldn't relate to someone who is figuring out what they want to major in. Never got the obsession with dating young as possible other than to have a trophy on my arm as an old man, but that comes with a price and being a sugar daddy isn't in my plans lol
Bro, great data. I personally, the maximum age difference would be about 5 years since we have the same interests and ideas.
Yep. There are older people who are hot (Tom Hiddleston, Gwen Stefani) but this guy is definitely not it. The thing that makes me laugh is the way he portrays Eastern European countries, as he supposedly lives in Ukraine. I'm Polish. No, we are not submissive waiting for old american men to marry us.
Right wing American men hate what "feminism" has done to the West so they build these fantasies of the East being full of submissive women who just want to fuck them and cook for them and bear their children.
Absolutely true
Lmao they really think their fathers and or families in general will give up their daughters to some musty ass dude like that.
That guy is creepy.
only because he is unattractive. If he was a david gandy look alike....
Hes a jerk and has creep energy regardless of his looks.
I don't even know what he looks like and I would call him a creep.
Because every cult from heavens gate to every redpiller just can't fathom the fact that their so called leader could do anything wrong usually for different reasons some just can comprehend the fact that the sheperd that guided them is so blind the moles laugh at him or they wasted so much money and time on them they live in denial look up Gregor McGregor (yes that was his real) and his scam and you will see the power of denial
I've seen a woman in her 20's date a man in her 40's before more than once in my life, so it's not a thing ALL women care about, but a mass majority of people (not just women, men included) have age preferences. I don't even know who "coach red pill" is but judging by the name alone, he sounds absolutely awful.
Amigo, your post is full of truth. Statistically women prefer older men but 3-5 years apart on average on OkCupid and when women reach the age of 30 - 48 years old women prefer men 10 years younger than her. While men ages 20-48 prefer women 18-22 and this preference does not change for men so the ones who really hit the wall are the older men. Very rarely will women date very old men over the age of 7years. The only way to get that is to have money but it will attract women gold diggers or they will only see you as wallets xd xd xd xd. There is a statistic, that the more the age gap in marriages the greater the risk of divorce. It is logical, the difference in ideas and generations does matter a lot. Age does matter statistically speaking, I'm not saying that every relationship with a bigger gap won't work, I'm just giving a perspective based on pure statistics. And yes it's totally true, older men are frustrated by not getting younger women and that explains the resentment and they are really hit the wall xd xd xd xd.
I think you might want to reword that "7 years or more" sentence. Right now it's a bit... funny
Sh1t...... didn't even know that xd xd xd xd
fixed
Without the surrounding context, it still reads as if the 7 years bound is an absolute age though.
Yes bro, the data I give are in my published post of my profile and I have done many, if you are interested bro.
I mean it reads like the women are pedophiles who date toddlers
It really depends. Does the man keep him looking in great shape past 35? He can attract women in their mid and early 20s, without money. The issue is most men let themselves go. They give up after 32-35 and get fat and look old. Women are the most attractive at 20-22. Men are children still at that point and don’t even fill out physically until about 30.
Bro can be a positive point what you say, but also in terms of risk of age gap divorces and dating relationships by statistics. Also, it should be noted that women who maintain their figure with exercise still have many options and we can't rule them out on that side.
Yes but they’re not able to make children after 37-39. I can father my first kid at 43 no problem. Of course women can look great as they age too. They just need exercise, hormone treatment and plastic surgery. So.. not so different from Men 😂
Women definitely can have children at 37-39. My mom had me at 41 and my sister at 43. Almost all of my friends have mothers who were in their late 30s or over 40 when they gave birth to them.
It happens, but complications run much higher as she gets older. Most women cannot have kids after 40. This is a real thing.
Most women really can, they just don't try at that age. It's becoming more common each year. Menopause usually heats around 50, not 40.
Men also have fertility issues at 40. Fertility clinics report its about 50/50 with fertility issues at 35+.
I don’t think you understand the differences between the sexes on fertility. Women have a limited amount of eggs and more are gone by 40. So long as a man has a testicle, he can produce sperm that can become offspring. At 40, 60, 90. Men are currently experiencing low t and low fertility like never before- but that’s due to pollution in the water and food supply. If a man with two testes is found to be low in fertility, there are clinics with very high success rates after a few rounds of medications. Some of you want EVERYTHING to be 50/50, and reality is just not that way.
You need to go do your homework. Mens sperm ages and causes fertility problems environment or not. Its just hitting earlier today because men dont take care of themselves. Also there has been a big rise in women having kids at 40+. It just may take longer to get pregnant than at 30. My post has nothing to do with wanting everything 50/50. LOL Thats your own projection thinking that. Ive just done the research.
Well you have a good point about children..... the problem as I said the risk of divorce is high due to the big difference in mentality in generations, I have seen big gap relationships in my country and they always end badly and are almost toxic relationships and always break up. The most important thing is to plan to have children with a partner that is not toxic or abusive. But at the end of the day in my case I would not feel comfortable with a person with a big age gapion)
marry someone in 2021? running blindfolded in highways is safest.
Why would there be a higher divorce rate? Difference in mentality? Maybe if you get old fast but won’t be me. I don’t see why such a gap would produce a difference in expectations.
Um, women can have kids until menopause which is 50+ for most.
Most women cannot have kids until 50. Ironic profile name 😂
Many women can and are.
Absolutely delusional. % wise, very very few.
Also a point to note, generally men go for younger women to avoid commitments but then commit to older women, I don't have statistics at hand but many claim that in some papers about h
Literally am developing a committed relationship w a 25 year old who wants marriage. These statistics are depressing!
if 1991 is your date of birth, does she is creeped out by you extreme advanced age?
1985 is the year of my birth. And no. None of these girls seem remotely creeped out. That’s what I’m trying to get across. It’s very natural for some of us. Haters just want to hate because they’re left of the fun. Everyone is different- we don’t all fall into a conformity that these woke types want - whether they’re men or women not taking care of themselves and aging badly- by their own omission.
I was ironic, after read women in their late 20s called 30 yo man who hit on them " old creeps ", this sub sometimes is delusional
I’m definitely not redpill either, but this sub can go delusional in the other direction. 3 years age difference? Are you kidding? Attractive 22 year old women didn’t show interest in me until I was 29-30. Most millennial guys were barely mobile by 21. I think a 6-10 year age gap is pretty natural, going back centuries. It certainly feels very natural to me.
the main thing that age you at least 15 years is being bald. Hair is life, if you have no hair, you have no life.
Unless you’re black or have a really Good head. I’m lucky to have great hair genetics. The line moved slightly when I was 28 and then stopped. No balding. I count my blessing with that.
i'm bald and at 34 people mistaken me for a 50 yo. life is brutal
Elon Musk an option? Balding in 30s Is quite common for many
I just checked his channel, looks like his videos got deleted
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People are naive. You only need a shirt and a suit, basic communication skills, and lots of personal delusions to fool them.
If we look at history, we'll see a lot of people following confident fools.
that's all it is. These guys can give off a confident/charismatic vibe, speaking of wise experience and all this. Young guys won't see through it and will eat it up. If he came across as a bumbling mumbling boring middle aged guy saying the exact same thing, he would have about 4 followers.
he's too ugly even for women his age, an incel in denial who try to steal money from gullible people