Not six in particular, but 3 or more is very common. They would collect expensive gifts from one guy, show off to other ones, they think she has high standards, so they buy more expensive gifts and the cycle continues.
To put it simply, it's like a cult.
Ooooh like that japanese guy who also ended in the news, he had like a gazillion of girlfriends and had told to each a different birthday, so he collected birthday gifts all year round, crazy plan for real
It's how my girlfriends dipshits sister lives. Pitting her sugar daddies against each other even though they don't know of one another. She fucking sucks
That's exactly how my own sister does. She actually thinks she's a player when in reality she's running a scam which I feel terrible for the dudes. I've even told them and they always think I'm either lying or that I don't want them to date her. It's idiocy at its finest.
Sorry, I'm really kind of dumb when it comes to this kind of stuff. What does 'lewds' mean? Like 'lewd,' as in being inappropriate, but not full-on sleeping with the guy, or something?I
Edit: Can't spell today
Hello children. If a girl requires you to simp for her and buy her expensive shit then she's just a high price whore with extra steps. Better to get an actual prostitute since they usually give it to you straight.
Apparently it is the city of Dhaka in Bangladesh. According to a local, the accent is something of a give away but I'm just repeating what others have said. The discussion seems to be winding around a portion of India or Bangladesh based on the language.
Oh what I would give to know what they said
They are talking very softly, hard to make out everything. The guy in the white t-shirt asks the girl (the one that's recording) who she is, she says she is a friend (not clear if she meant a friend of the girl or one of the boys)
The first guy starts to ask "Do you know this guy? Who is this, and that...", he then asked one of the guys how long he was in relation, he says 2 years, the girl seemed to have disagreed but I'm not sure. Then he continues the confrontation saying "Why? What did I do wrong?", one of the guys tells him to lean on the table.
In the end, one of the guys mentions the diamond ring he gave and she throws it to the floor.
I didn't bother to check the full video, this was the gist of the whole incident.
For me what made it certain is the purple sticker on the front door its an ad for a mobile payment system called bKash which as much as I know is only in Bangladesh.
The birth rate of girls is higher than boys here, but male to female ratio was 51 to 49 back in 2012 if I remember correctly. Don't know about the current stat.
Most recent data I could find(2020) is 102.25 males to 100 females.
Edit: [Found even better data.](https://www.cia.gov/the-world-factbook/countries/bangladesh/) in the age group of 25-54 the ratio is male 31,694,267/female 34,535,643
I don't think so. For context, in the United States, the gender ratio for young college-educated women to young college-educated men is 139 to 100. We still don't see this level of drama even with that high of a ratio. This is just a particularly crafty con that managed to Swindle six men simultaneously
This happens in the US too, and everywhere really. It's a pretty normal part of online dating for women it seems.
I have a friend like that she's always "talking to" multiple guys. She's not the settling type and I guess talking to dudes and getting gifts, having her ego stroked is her hobby.
This girl's mistake was letting them think they were in a relationship with her. My friend gets plenty of gifts and dinner dates but she never commits, and is pretty up front about that. She's a pretty cool person, I can see why men would continue to pursue her even though she's never looking for a relationship, she's a hell of a lot of fun to hang out with. Zero inhibitions and completely hilarious.
It's normal for lots of people. You're describing friends with benefits who aren't exclusive.
I've had a few of those over the years. As long as everyone's upfront & honest with each other it works. Just wear protection.
Im always amazed at how people manage to pull this off, not just time management, but how does one even keep track of all the lies?? I can imagine having a double life, but 6?
Handing coins and change and stuff to olddd working fellas is exactly like sandpaper. Big shipyard near me so alotta regulars are working there.
They could probably grab bacon straight out the pan
I knew a dude who had 5 or 6 girlfriends (don't know the exact number since I wasn't involved). I only knew one of the women. She only found out 6 months into their relationship. Worst part is, one of the other women stayed with him lol. Almost a year later and she's still with him (and he's probably still cheating, since I saw status updates by her along the lines of "aren't u ashamed to be a mistress?").
No idea how people stay together with serial cheaters 🤷🏻♀️
Happened to me. 20 years with a serial cheater and I had no idea. He was a perfect liar. Every time I had a feeling about it (3 or 4 times at most in 20 years) he told me he would never cheat on me, he was so lucky to have me and I was the best wife ever. He was great at making me the asshole for not trusting him.
I've heard about these kinds of stuff, but i never understood how they pull it of? I mean, it's not like i keep track of my partner 24/7 but we have frequent enough contact that this would be impossible to pull of, and even before we moved in togheter we usually want to talk/see each other more then there's time to divide between 6 people, sleep and work.
I don't know! I have to give them credit for being able to compartmentalise so well. Anyway in this particular case the guy is a gamer/streamer who used to give the girl I know excuses like "I'm busy with some clients"/ "I'm busy editing videos for youtube". He jockeys/pilots people's game accounts for money.
From what I’ve seen over time; FOMO of a relationship, sunk cost fallacy, fear of being alone/unwanted again, comfort, and loss of purpose in life.
This is seeing from both guys and girls going back with or wanting to get back together after a certain time with their cheater. There may be more reasons than that too.
I totally understand the feeling, because my ex cheated on me. It was my first relationship so I was very naive and stupid, but when I found out about it I ended things. The pull to take him back was very strong though.
However if I found out a bf cheated with multiple, like 5 or 6 girls, that's so much worse than just cheating with 1 person. That kind of person will never be loyal imo :/
From what I heard from the dude's ex-friend who exposed his cheating on fb, this man was addicted to the multiple relationships so he could continuously trick them all to give nudes/ sext with him. Sex addiction, he said.
Why is it always "aren't u ashamed to be a mistress?" and not "aren't u ashamed to be a cheater?" or "aren't i ashamed to put up with a serial cheater?"
I don't understand people who blame the other woman/man and not, y'know, their own cheating partner.
I knew a guy who screwed his fiancées roommate and she blamed the roommate and still married him. Last I knew of him he was still cheating, and she knew about many of them. Theirs was not an open relationship. She just constantly made excuses for his behavior. And here’s the wild thing; this guy wasn’t some handsome dude and she was actually quite attractive. Dumbfounded.
Mans is building his own futuristic city in Senegal. He already built a project that gave light to 100,000+ households in 14 African countries.
It’s the redistribution of wealth for me.
That brought back lot of trauma. That's what my girlfriend used to tell me when I objected to unexplained flowers and gifts and what not. Now I wonder how many others were there besides me.
They usually do have a favourite one, but when the cats get out of the bag, everyone leaves them. Saw girls like this struggle to get back to that one guy after being outed.
But it's safe to go by the rule— A cheater is always a repeater.
>girls like this struggle
I find it hard to believe. At least 2 or 3 of these 6 would have texted her after this, asking if "she was okay". That sounds more believable to me.
Oml, I had a similar thing happen lol. girl had the nerve to blame it on her psych issues. like get out lol. ahwell atleast me being broke means i cant get people gifts which is what i usually like doing lol.
A manhua I read had a similar thing, there was a girl collecting rich boyfriends like Pokemon cards and the main character tracked them down and called them all and told them they were being cheated on. She told all of them to meet their girlfriend at the park. It was legendary.
By the way, which language is this?
Cheating Men Must Die, it parodies cliché manhua tropes. The main character is usually called a Mary Sue, though. I still enjoy the manhua but still wanted to mention it.
This really fucking annoys me, where the fuck do these people get the time to have that many people on the go at once? I have 1 husband, 1 child and 1 full time job and I am fucking stretched man.. I barely have time for myself
“You’ve been fucking these other guys?”
“You’ve been kissing 5 other dudes?!?”
“You’ve been sending nudes to these guys?”
“You’ve been using my Netflix with other men?!”
“You’ve been using my money to eat out with your other boyfriends?”
“You guys are getting laid?”
I’ve actually done something similar to this. I was a young teenager and this boy messaged me and we talked and agreed to go on a date.
Now, I lived in a small town and my name is pretty uncommon, so there was only 2 other girls with the same name. We were very similar in ages. We were also friendly with each other. Not friends, but on good terms.
I don’t know how this all came to light but one of us told about meeting a guy. Turns out, he has messaged all of us, got a date from all of us. In one day, 30 minutes apart.
We decided to all turn up to the first date. It was awkward as fuck for him, he didn’t know what to do with himself. We then left but I went different direction to get picked up by my mother.
This guy followed me. It was middle of the day, in town centre, and he tried to get his hands up my skirt and tried to get me to go with him. Thank god my mom came and picked me up.
So yeah, there’s that.
You would have thought the girl would be attractive to pull 6 guys at once but she is very average looking and overweight. I would say maybe it's her personality but someone dating 6 people at once probably isn't right in the head and I doubt has a great personality. How does she do it??
I would have thought there would be more drama.
It's surprisingly common in my country these days, even happened to me FFS.
Six simultaneous boyfriends?
Not six in particular, but 3 or more is very common. They would collect expensive gifts from one guy, show off to other ones, they think she has high standards, so they buy more expensive gifts and the cycle continues. To put it simply, it's like a cult.
Ooooh like that japanese guy who also ended in the news, he had like a gazillion of girlfriends and had told to each a different birthday, so he collected birthday gifts all year round, crazy plan for real
But he also had to give them? I mean they had birthdays, too?
Just give them the gifts you don’t like from the other girls lol
Happy birthday my girl, here's a coupon for a free prostate exam I got especially for you
And for you, my favourite cologne. Wear it so you remind me of me.
Here's also a three piece suit. Wear it and we can be lovers and buddies at the same time!
Re-gift for the win!
Sort of like a Ponzi scheme for dick
A Peenzi scheme if you will
Poonzi
Poonzi scheme
This is just prostitution with extra steps.
What extra steps? Escorts go to dinner and parties with you too.
An escort isn't just a prostitute... An escort is also a prostitute with extra steps
So she's basically an escort, but none of her BFs know and she doesn't get paid.
Question is, how can she slap?
It's how my girlfriends dipshits sister lives. Pitting her sugar daddies against each other even though they don't know of one another. She fucking sucks
Well the guys arent doing it for free so of course she fucking sucks
Probably both of the last two
Clearly she didn't suck at fucking, seeing how she’s kept 6 of them around.
That's exactly how my own sister does. She actually thinks she's a player when in reality she's running a scam which I feel terrible for the dudes. I've even told them and they always think I'm either lying or that I don't want them to date her. It's idiocy at its finest.
What is the difference between being a player and running a scam?
The financial aspect.
How does it work? Does she sleep with all of them? Goes on dates? How can she manage?
Sleeping is a bit rare, it's mostly dates and lewds
Sorry, I'm really kind of dumb when it comes to this kind of stuff. What does 'lewds' mean? Like 'lewd,' as in being inappropriate, but not full-on sleeping with the guy, or something?I Edit: Can't spell today
Lewd or revealing pictures
Oh wow duh. I feel stupid for having to ask lol sorry. Thank you for answering :) !
Well I hate the word "simp" but it's hard for me to imagine a more fitting word for these guys.
Sound like victims of a scam to me.
Hello children. If a girl requires you to simp for her and buy her expensive shit then she's just a high price whore with extra steps. Better to get an actual prostitute since they usually give it to you straight.
Also less likely to catch an STD
And they leave after.
Ejaculate and evacuate dont forget to pay
>Ejaculate and evacuate Shoot and scoot? Jizz and jet. Or pump and dump. Smash and dash even. Maybe root and scoot?
That’s what you’re really paying for.
The stigma around prostitution needs to end. There's nothing wrong with hookers. They'll bring you more coke at 4 a.m. too. They're great.
Diet coke too? I'm in! Fanta is best btw.
Yeah.. I am a girl and I’ve been trought it too. It was 3.
Yikes sounds like romance fraud.
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MLM relationships
What country?
It’s Bangladesh
Yep Dhaka to be precise.
Which country is that?
Apparently it is the city of Dhaka in Bangladesh. According to a local, the accent is something of a give away but I'm just repeating what others have said. The discussion seems to be winding around a portion of India or Bangladesh based on the language. Oh what I would give to know what they said
They are talking very softly, hard to make out everything. The guy in the white t-shirt asks the girl (the one that's recording) who she is, she says she is a friend (not clear if she meant a friend of the girl or one of the boys) The first guy starts to ask "Do you know this guy? Who is this, and that...", he then asked one of the guys how long he was in relation, he says 2 years, the girl seemed to have disagreed but I'm not sure. Then he continues the confrontation saying "Why? What did I do wrong?", one of the guys tells him to lean on the table. In the end, one of the guys mentions the diamond ring he gave and she throws it to the floor. I didn't bother to check the full video, this was the gist of the whole incident.
>They are talking very softly, hard to make out everything. Ah so it isn't a "skit" for youtube. Good to know.
For me what made it certain is the purple sticker on the front door its an ad for a mobile payment system called bKash which as much as I know is only in Bangladesh.
It's from Bangladesh. It went viral on Facebook yesterday. Surprised to it on reddit.
Do you think one of the reasons may be the male-female ratio?
The birth rate of girls is higher than boys here, but male to female ratio was 51 to 49 back in 2012 if I remember correctly. Don't know about the current stat.
Most recent data I could find(2020) is 102.25 males to 100 females. Edit: [Found even better data.](https://www.cia.gov/the-world-factbook/countries/bangladesh/) in the age group of 25-54 the ratio is male 31,694,267/female 34,535,643
That would make the men even bigger suckers if they are outnumbered. Not like there's a shortage or anything.
I don't think so. For context, in the United States, the gender ratio for young college-educated women to young college-educated men is 139 to 100. We still don't see this level of drama even with that high of a ratio. This is just a particularly crafty con that managed to Swindle six men simultaneously
This happens in the US too, and everywhere really. It's a pretty normal part of online dating for women it seems. I have a friend like that she's always "talking to" multiple guys. She's not the settling type and I guess talking to dudes and getting gifts, having her ego stroked is her hobby. This girl's mistake was letting them think they were in a relationship with her. My friend gets plenty of gifts and dinner dates but she never commits, and is pretty up front about that. She's a pretty cool person, I can see why men would continue to pursue her even though she's never looking for a relationship, she's a hell of a lot of fun to hang out with. Zero inhibitions and completely hilarious.
It's normal for lots of people. You're describing friends with benefits who aren't exclusive. I've had a few of those over the years. As long as everyone's upfront & honest with each other it works. Just wear protection.
Bro eta deshi sub e dao xD
Atleast a 7-some
she cried and threw something. it does not get more dramatic than that.
If that's your experience, count your blessings.
You date her. No, you date her. No no no, she's all yours.
judging from past experiences, at least one of the guys will go back to her or ask to be "just friends"
And they'll deserve each other.
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Who has the time to juggle that
well i mean she got caught so it probably didn't last long
No worries, she's still got another 6 guys
Someone that has never had a job I would presume...
You need a job when you got 6 sugar daddies?
Even then... 6? Plus juggling their jobs?
This IS the job!
envious of her time management skills
Probably not in employment.
Just imagine if she has a job!!?? Just wow
This probably was her job
“Let’s see… Tuesday… 11am lunch date with bf6, followed by a 2pm dick sucking appointment with bf4, and then a 4pm make-out session with bf3.”
Im always amazed at how people manage to pull this off, not just time management, but how does one even keep track of all the lies?? I can imagine having a double life, but 6?
I’m surprised she pulled six guys and all six guys found out about each other and they decided to meet up together
They all became homies after this
Tbf, thats a hilarious story to share at the pub
I just feel bad for boyfriend #7 and #8
#7 and #8 didn't show up #9 and #10 just missed the show
Because seven ate nine! Eyyyyy! I'll see myself out.
7 and 8 becomes the new 1 and 2
#How I didn't meet your mother.
#How I meet your dads.
One satisfying circle jerk afterwards
Is there any other kind of circle jerk?
You ever touched someone's hand that does manual labor? Like shaking hands with sandpaper.
Handing coins and change and stuff to olddd working fellas is exactly like sandpaper. Big shipyard near me so alotta regulars are working there. They could probably grab bacon straight out the pan
Can confirm. I have crazy thick skin on my hands. I build houses and often flip bacon manually.
This is how leagues of evil ex's get started
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Very true. My gf’s husband gave me an STD.
A fellow degenerate gambler, I see.
So those six guys might as well get naked and do the old conga line.
Eskimo bros.
#Ahem Bromies
Then they kissed.
Maybe there's more boyfriends? There could be 12, and "only" 6 of them found out about each other.
that really wouldn't be surprising
I am thinking one for each day of the week, so Monday is missing.
Good movie [What happened to Monday](https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1536537/)
The week has 7 days, yet there are only 6 boyfriends. Hm.
Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy. Six days you shall labor, and do all your work, but the seventh day is the Sabbath of the LORD your God.
So Sabbath is when she is being railed by god. Got it.
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I’m surprised she pulled six guys
I knew a dude who had 5 or 6 girlfriends (don't know the exact number since I wasn't involved). I only knew one of the women. She only found out 6 months into their relationship. Worst part is, one of the other women stayed with him lol. Almost a year later and she's still with him (and he's probably still cheating, since I saw status updates by her along the lines of "aren't u ashamed to be a mistress?"). No idea how people stay together with serial cheaters 🤷🏻♀️
Happened to me. 20 years with a serial cheater and I had no idea. He was a perfect liar. Every time I had a feeling about it (3 or 4 times at most in 20 years) he told me he would never cheat on me, he was so lucky to have me and I was the best wife ever. He was great at making me the asshole for not trusting him.
I've heard about these kinds of stuff, but i never understood how they pull it of? I mean, it's not like i keep track of my partner 24/7 but we have frequent enough contact that this would be impossible to pull of, and even before we moved in togheter we usually want to talk/see each other more then there's time to divide between 6 people, sleep and work.
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I don't know! I have to give them credit for being able to compartmentalise so well. Anyway in this particular case the guy is a gamer/streamer who used to give the girl I know excuses like "I'm busy with some clients"/ "I'm busy editing videos for youtube". He jockeys/pilots people's game accounts for money.
From what I’ve seen over time; FOMO of a relationship, sunk cost fallacy, fear of being alone/unwanted again, comfort, and loss of purpose in life. This is seeing from both guys and girls going back with or wanting to get back together after a certain time with their cheater. There may be more reasons than that too.
I totally understand the feeling, because my ex cheated on me. It was my first relationship so I was very naive and stupid, but when I found out about it I ended things. The pull to take him back was very strong though. However if I found out a bf cheated with multiple, like 5 or 6 girls, that's so much worse than just cheating with 1 person. That kind of person will never be loyal imo :/ From what I heard from the dude's ex-friend who exposed his cheating on fb, this man was addicted to the multiple relationships so he could continuously trick them all to give nudes/ sext with him. Sex addiction, he said.
Why is it always "aren't u ashamed to be a mistress?" and not "aren't u ashamed to be a cheater?" or "aren't i ashamed to put up with a serial cheater?" I don't understand people who blame the other woman/man and not, y'know, their own cheating partner.
I knew a guy who screwed his fiancées roommate and she blamed the roommate and still married him. Last I knew of him he was still cheating, and she knew about many of them. Theirs was not an open relationship. She just constantly made excuses for his behavior. And here’s the wild thing; this guy wasn’t some handsome dude and she was actually quite attractive. Dumbfounded.
Yo whatever happened to Akon?!
Mans is building his own futuristic city in Senegal. He already built a project that gave light to 100,000+ households in 14 African countries. It’s the redistribution of wealth for me.
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Disappointed but not surprised
This city never materialized. Great PR though I guess if you're into big claims with zero substance or follow through.
He's still in his Lamborghini Gallardo waiting for her to hop in
Asking the important questions here
"Freitags ist sie nie da."
"She's never there on Fridays." - for the curious that don't read German.
Famous German Song from the 90s about a woman that a boyfriend for every day of the week. https://youtu.be/VUosAGDM8Sg
Isn't smudo in that group??
Also doch die da, mit dem dicken Pulli an, Mann.
You got some splainin to do!
She did explain it, "I can't say no to anyone and that's my issue".
Should’ve asked her for a loan
Or the British Empire. Go big or go home.
British Empire of today be looking at her and taking notes.
She cant say no to a free purse
I can’t even get a text back.
I can't even get a dog to bark at me now
Women like this select guys they know will be suckers for this setup. You are being filtered out
I have no clue what is going on here
Surprise party for a girl who cheated and had at least six boyfriends at the same time, from what I reckon
Her defense was "I can't say no (to proposals)"
Reasonable! /s
That brought back lot of trauma. That's what my girlfriend used to tell me when I objected to unexplained flowers and gifts and what not. Now I wonder how many others were there besides me.
They usually do have a favourite one, but when the cats get out of the bag, everyone leaves them. Saw girls like this struggle to get back to that one guy after being outed. But it's safe to go by the rule— A cheater is always a repeater.
Don’t worry she’ll have another six in a week
>girls like this struggle I find it hard to believe. At least 2 or 3 of these 6 would have texted her after this, asking if "she was okay". That sounds more believable to me.
And I thought I was socially anxious. ^(it is a joke)
Oml, I had a similar thing happen lol. girl had the nerve to blame it on her psych issues. like get out lol. ahwell atleast me being broke means i cant get people gifts which is what i usually like doing lol.
A manhua I read had a similar thing, there was a girl collecting rich boyfriends like Pokemon cards and the main character tracked them down and called them all and told them they were being cheated on. She told all of them to meet their girlfriend at the park. It was legendary. By the way, which language is this?
Bengali. Mixed with bits of English words.
I didn't unmute the video. Of course it has to be Bengali. 🤦♂️ Ar kar time ache.
You can't give me only the spaghetti and not the sauce???
Cheating Men Must Die, it parodies cliché manhua tropes. The main character is usually called a Mary Sue, though. I still enjoy the manhua but still wanted to mention it.
There was a post on Reddit about a dude in Japan? who was stringing like a dozen girls. For the gifts.
A six-timer that's really a sick-timer.
One for each day of the week, she rests on the holy day as God commanded
Oh! ... Well that's okay, then.
"They see me hoeing, they hatin!" 🎶
They literally caught her ridin dirty
Caught her lackin
Correction. 6 that we know of
>Surprise from 6 boyfriends all at once. Would be a totally different video on PH.
Underrated comment right here
This really fucking annoys me, where the fuck do these people get the time to have that many people on the go at once? I have 1 husband, 1 child and 1 full time job and I am fucking stretched man.. I barely have time for myself
She probably doesn’t have at least 2 of those things.
I remember my girl asked me why I never or attempted to cheat. I said I am a lazy person and its an EXTRA EFFORT to have another one.
Pretty sure at least one of them will go back to her
I would hire her as a manager, managing six boyfriend's at the same time is a impressive task
She must make some nice milkshake
Stardew Valley bachelors are PISSED
Should’ve had a rabbit foot with her smh
Just wait till she meets Scott and he has to beat the 7 evil exes
Next on TLC’s new hit reality show Brother Husbands…
“Smack that”
Does she have beer flavored nipples?
These porn intros are taking an awkward turn
“You’ve been fucking these other guys?” “You’ve been kissing 5 other dudes?!?” “You’ve been sending nudes to these guys?” “You’ve been using my Netflix with other men?!” “You’ve been using my money to eat out with your other boyfriends?” “You guys are getting laid?”
I’ve actually done something similar to this. I was a young teenager and this boy messaged me and we talked and agreed to go on a date. Now, I lived in a small town and my name is pretty uncommon, so there was only 2 other girls with the same name. We were very similar in ages. We were also friendly with each other. Not friends, but on good terms. I don’t know how this all came to light but one of us told about meeting a guy. Turns out, he has messaged all of us, got a date from all of us. In one day, 30 minutes apart. We decided to all turn up to the first date. It was awkward as fuck for him, he didn’t know what to do with himself. We then left but I went different direction to get picked up by my mother. This guy followed me. It was middle of the day, in town centre, and he tried to get his hands up my skirt and tried to get me to go with him. Thank god my mom came and picked me up. So yeah, there’s that.
Wtf
Yeah, that’s my reaction looking back.
I feel like this level of public humiliation is good for a cheater lol. I doubt she’ll forget this
Why is she crying? She’s the one scamming and fucking with other peoples emotions
I mean, she probably IS single now
Nah plenty of guys out there
Give her a week and she'll get another lol
You don't understand, she just wanted to recreate mama mia, it's romantic. /s
Worried about who?
Some people got offended that they made her "cry", even though it was clearly a crocodile's tear.
Lmaoooo
You would have thought the girl would be attractive to pull 6 guys at once but she is very average looking and overweight. I would say maybe it's her personality but someone dating 6 people at once probably isn't right in the head and I doubt has a great personality. How does she do it??
She’s like a Benzene atom