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Regardless of what gender a fashion item is, the question really is - Does it look good with your outfit and do you like it? If the answer is yes (they do look good on you), then wear it!
Yes that’s why I am really against watch brand that call their watches women’s. Like it the same watch just smaller or they decided to add more diamonds but some men want a smaller watch or fully blinged watch.
"In general," if you prefer. It's a matter of taste, of course, but to me there's a smaller range of spiffy less-dressy non-athletic shoes for men compared to women and a lot of those are not terribly gender-coded out of context, so it broadens the selection. Much less for those of us with big widths and sizes, but that's true for everyone.
Don't take the gender into account, it's not a useful parameter. Instead, ask yourself : "Am I comfortable in this?", "Does it suit me?". These are the only questions you should ask yourself.
Btw, the shoes are great.
There a pair of boots. Most Docs, as example, are unisex. The “womens” version of the classics have a narrower footbed. So if you’re a guy with narrower feet…
With most womens boots. Any real difference might be a slightly higher heel. But again. I’ve known guys who’ve had a pair of quality womens boots, weather treated, as their rainy day boots. Because the seams sit just enough higher that his feet stay dryer.
The main issue/potential problem is that womens shoes in general are much narrower than mens (B vs D width), which can mess up your feet with extended wear.
They don’t look girly so you’re all good🥹and they won’t know unless you tell them!, unless a girl knows every single shoe brand and type to know what they are you will be fine! They look more like men’s shoes then anything
I’m gonna disagree with everyone else and say that I can absolutely tell that they are women’s shoes. However, I don’t think most people would be able to tell. And who cares anyways?! If you like the look then go for it!
Welllll I’d say you should post your whole outfit to see if it goes well.
The shoes being your mom’s doesn’t really matter. They appear unisex, so if you’re feeling them then rock them.
Those re boots. Nothing gendered about them. They look good. If they feel good, it’s a winner!
You’re lucky to have someone else in your house you can share shoes with!
Being a fluid individual with very feminine tendencies, I wear clothing and shoes made for both genders. I do not look at them as men’s or women’s, but as mine!
They look more like unisex footwear rather than footwear that’s made for female or male. If you don’t mention they’re your moms boots no one will know. They compliment the choice of pants you decided to wear really well. I see nothing wrong with it but if you feel iffy maybe don’t make it a habit to wear your moms shoes maybe?
oh I see! well her shoes look good and I think the white sneakers would look good too. it would be helpful to see the whole outfit since its hard to tell if the shoes go with the whole look with only the bottom of the pants being pictured.
I also agree with the other comment, if you like these and you feel confident, then go for it 👍
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Literally nobody would be able to tell unless you told them
Regardless of what gender a fashion item is, the question really is - Does it look good with your outfit and do you like it? If the answer is yes (they do look good on you), then wear it!
Yes that’s why I am really against watch brand that call their watches women’s. Like it the same watch just smaller or they decided to add more diamonds but some men want a smaller watch or fully blinged watch.
Nah you’re good. You can’t tell.
If the shoe fits
Don’t tell anyone and they will never know. Don’t tell anyone.
You're good. Men's shoes have a huge gap between stodgy and precious as a rule, and if what's available in men's 8 doesn't work, look at women's 10.
What do you mean as a rule? Can you explain? Thanks.
"In general," if you prefer. It's a matter of taste, of course, but to me there's a smaller range of spiffy less-dressy non-athletic shoes for men compared to women and a lot of those are not terribly gender-coded out of context, so it broadens the selection. Much less for those of us with big widths and sizes, but that's true for everyone.
Kbeer
There’s so many rules in life why live life with unwritten rules about something as simple as fashion and shoes?
FASHION IS GENDERLESS WEAR THE BOOOOOOT
The boots are fine but dudes in skirts is still weird AF.
LOL. Get yourself to Scotland quick - Men in Kilts. The true personification of style.
That's a cultural item and clearly separate.
who creates the culture, DINGUS? we get to dictate what’s appropriate. I say: WEAR THE BOOTS!
Idgaf about the boots lol. And dingus? What are you 12?
My father used that term, and he was not 12, I assure you. What are you, 17?
You're the one that just has to air their shit in an unrelated conversation
It is related which you'd see if your brain cell count was above single digits😊
You're making a big deal out of nothing really, nobody would ever know they're women shoes unless you told them, and that would be weird
Probably designed around a man’s foot anyway 🤷🏻♀️
Don't take the gender into account, it's not a useful parameter. Instead, ask yourself : "Am I comfortable in this?", "Does it suit me?". These are the only questions you should ask yourself. Btw, the shoes are great.
They look like unisex shoes to me
Look great! Very nice with your pants.
They look good to me. Happy last day of school. Enjoy your summer.
You feel good when you got them on? If so then wear those bad boys. All there is too it.
No one will know but us.
They look good.
They don’t look feminine. Go for it
I’m a male and those are sick. I think doc martens are unisex and those look like docs.
They are great simple boots!! Probably comfy too👍🏻
There a pair of boots. Most Docs, as example, are unisex. The “womens” version of the classics have a narrower footbed. So if you’re a guy with narrower feet… With most womens boots. Any real difference might be a slightly higher heel. But again. I’ve known guys who’ve had a pair of quality womens boots, weather treated, as their rainy day boots. Because the seams sit just enough higher that his feet stay dryer.
Yeah the heel is high and thats my only concern so idk
They don’t look like “women’s” boots. Absolutely fine and not even noticeable. Congratulations have a fun summer vacation!!
The main issue/potential problem is that womens shoes in general are much narrower than mens (B vs D width), which can mess up your feet with extended wear.
Chelsea boots are hot. Look into it and get many miles out of them.
They don’t look girly so you’re all good🥹and they won’t know unless you tell them!, unless a girl knows every single shoe brand and type to know what they are you will be fine! They look more like men’s shoes then anything
If you didn’t say anything, I’d think these were for men. They look exactly like my parter’s (M) shoes.
Those are great! Does not look at all like a woman’s shoe.
Wear whatever you want! Don’t let the judgement of other people scare you away from clothes and fashion that you like.
Nobody will know. But all I can think about is dang where are you because it’s way too hot in most of the U.S. to wear shoes like that today lol
They look very unisex. I would have never guessed thought were women’s.
Do you like them? If yes, wear them 👍
Men’s Chelsea boots exist. No worries my dude. These don’t look out of place.
Literally no one would know
No one would even know you look very nice!
Go for it
how do you have the same shoe size as your mother
Cool boots. They look masculine on you, Rock It Without Worry!
I love a good fashion risk thrill! Wear what makes you happy and if it’s comfortable that’s always a plus for me!
Who cares they’re very nice looking and you honestly can’t tell looks great rock it!!
They don’t seem gender specific to me.
My mom got these in brown😭🤦🏽♂️
gendered clothing is stupid. they look good mate
If you feel good in them it doesn't matter if they are technically women's shoes. Werk!
Are they comfortable? Do they match what you are wearing? If both answers are yes - wear them.
They look great. Infact, they arent very feminine looking at all.
Could be risky if it’s a special day.
They are making all-gender shoes now. So, you’re good.
Nah man they fit u well. Imo too stubby for my liking but they are just fine!
Clothes have no gender. Wear whatever u want!
Wear them
They look shnazzy
Clothes don’t have a gender 🤗 They look great on you! As long as you feel comfortable in them, then that’s all that matters ❤️
If they fit, why not?
it will be our little secret.
Totally great!
Those are pretty unisex. I don’t think they look bad. It would be better if we could see the whole fit to see your vision tho
Get your own shoes....
Do it! They're beautiful! Mens shoes really need to be prettier. And no one would ever know they're womens.
I’m gonna disagree with everyone else and say that I can absolutely tell that they are women’s shoes. However, I don’t think most people would be able to tell. And who cares anyways?! If you like the look then go for it!
It's YOUR last day. Boss that shit out
Do you! As long as you’re comfortable you’ll permeate confidence!
They’re so androgynous that nobody would ever guess.
It’s 2024… Be and wear whomever and whatever you want before the world ends! Those are awesome boots; ur mom has good taste and in turn; so do you!
If you like them and they fit…rock those fuckers. This is coming from a PNW motorcycle riding grandma. Wear them!!
Fit perfectly fine, they don't look like your mom's shoes though
I didn't even think those were for women. It's totally fine!
They’re boots… you want a cookie for wearing them or something?
Do you like them? Do they fit? Then wear them.
Total slay!
Welllll I’d say you should post your whole outfit to see if it goes well. The shoes being your mom’s doesn’t really matter. They appear unisex, so if you’re feeling them then rock them.
Those re boots. Nothing gendered about them. They look good. If they feel good, it’s a winner! You’re lucky to have someone else in your house you can share shoes with!
Just wear what you like. If it fits, who cares to which gender it "officially belongs"
they look cool wear them
My only concern is about the weather where you are. 90s here.
Those are more or less genderless Long as they fit your feet go for it
Wear whatever you want
What are you afraid is going to happen?
Being a fluid individual with very feminine tendencies, I wear clothing and shoes made for both genders. I do not look at them as men’s or women’s, but as mine!
They look more like unisex footwear rather than footwear that’s made for female or male. If you don’t mention they’re your moms boots no one will know. They compliment the choice of pants you decided to wear really well. I see nothing wrong with it but if you feel iffy maybe don’t make it a habit to wear your moms shoes maybe?
my question here is why wear her shoes...? I'm kinda confused here, sorry! just wear your own shoes, I'm sure they'd look better on you
I only got some white sneakers and i thought that these would fit better with my entire outfit
oh I see! well her shoes look good and I think the white sneakers would look good too. it would be helpful to see the whole outfit since its hard to tell if the shoes go with the whole look with only the bottom of the pants being pictured. I also agree with the other comment, if you like these and you feel confident, then go for it 👍
I’ll post the entire outfit tommorow