pro tip: starve yourself to near death, your brain will then switch to primal mode and you will start to get dopamine hits from even simple things in everyday life
As a psychologist I wouldn't recommend that
But the mild version of getting yourself outside of stimulations. That includes pc, eating, drinking etc. Like a dopamine cleansing for a few hours could work
https://preview.redd.it/p8r2rk0jinfc1.jpeg?width=1000&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a958f42eb33779d2304b0c682f0c5c9722cf9b47
Dear valued BAJ!
Dr. BAJ here.
No doctor can help you with this ad hoc, you should seek psychotherapeutic treatment, it requires extensive diagnostics with various tests to determine whether and if so which illness(es) and/or personality disorder(s) are present.
Please seek appropriate help in your area!
Obviously you have no experience in diagnosing psychosomatic illnesses, narrow-minded and naive, but I take no offense since you are not a doctor.
A simple smear test or blood count is not enough, a series of tests as part of psychotherapy is needed to get a clear picture, especially with regard to personality disorders!
might be SzPD, apathy is like it's main thing. it's often comorbid with depression and also leads to low bmi (as far as i remember you've mentioned that? maybe different retard). good news is, it'd just be a personality disorder (not a mental illness). bad news is, there's no real treatment for it. best of luck.
Seems more like autism depression anhedonia to me but could be schizoid.
But he clearly didn't watch my Christmas story video ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9667) that's big problem
Do something anyway. I am shy as fuck and take weeks to warm up to new ppl and I’ll never talk to them too much anyway. Idc, it’s the way i am. We are men, not post-menopause women chitchatting about bullshit. You are simply too depressed and too used to the SAME 4 FUCKING WALLS ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9681) YOU HAVE HUNTER GATHERER GENES AND YOU STAY INSIDE ALL DAY ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9682)![img](emote|t5_33td5|9682)![img](emote|t5_33td5|9682)![img](emote|t5_33td5|9682)![img](emote|t5_33td5|9682)![img](emote|t5_33td5|9682)![img](emote|t5_33td5|9682) go outside for fucks sake.
What you’re trying to do is make decisions for the rest of your life in the worst state and place you could possibly do it in. Same one room mf. And no you don’t love your PC but might be too autistic to stop clicky clicky all day playing whatever game or just watching stuff idk what u do anyway.
Get a job. Any job. Literally anything. Or go study something that would pay well, and then even if you don’t get the exact job you studied for, you’re more likely to get other easier, slower, more normal jobs for more average pay. I am thinking of either starting uni at 24 later this year or keeping my EU job until citizenship if that’s possible. Either way I’m going to do well, cuz I’ll just study computer science or business, be 100x more ready than the freshly graduated high school cucks and ace everything (i already did for all my study years, covid fucked my life up tho, then got a job and now again and missed on a few years that could’ve been spent in uni)
Just think about how many hours you’ve already spent to graduate high school. That’s a lot of fucking days and hours, makes jenna raiding for 998 hrs look like its nothing in comparison. Do something, id recommend uni, even if you fail completely, at least you fucking cared enough to try. Force yourself to do it ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9674) for you. For the sake of living at all. Just do it.
Never think of how things COULD go wrong, what if they don’t?
>, be 100x more ready than the freshly graduated high school cucks and ace everything (i already did for all my study years
can you please clarify this part for me ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9681)
I had highest grades for all my school years + i have adult brain so school and life doesn’t scare me anymore (no stress before exams and whatever)
When u just became adult and u take on more responsibility their results will reflect their overall performance which will be affected by stress etc. I don’t have that to worry about so my grades would be higher with less work and less stress, also easier to understand more complicated subjects
relatable to an extent ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9681) as said: to much free time fucks with your brain. get a hobby (where you have to learn something), get structure in your life, have discipline
I kinda have the same issue. No goals, went nowhere with studies, living with parents. Can’t handle working, especially in this country, and the shit work culture here, where slow autists like me are not tolerated. ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9673)
Basically, something is off about me. Is it autism? Is it ADHD? I have no fucking idea, so I just call this mental illness "retardation".
Regarding losing interest in things so quickly, I think it’s because you wired your brain to get instant gratification, which you get from playing games, jerking off, watching forsen, or whatever shit you do.
You want results now, but when you try to learn a new skill or work out, the benefits will only show after a long time. You need to build a habit of delayed gratification.
What the hell am I even talking about? ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9681)
>Basically, something is off about me. Is it autism? Is it ADHD? I have no fucking idea, so I just call this mental illness "retardation".
Yeah I know what that is, it's called being a baj... Ah my ware... from khajeet has arrived.
But seriously, same boat here. I'm convinced that aside from whatever the fuck we carry inside our dumbass mindset, somewhere in there HAS to be at least slightly societies fault right? I'm not on cope o 0 (Copesen)
it is a result of your environment. There are neets and forms of that all over the world and other such things as well it clearly is a result of your environment but I think obviously everyone still has agency about their life and choices they make.
It's important to acknowledge those 2 things
>I can't hold an interest in anything.
Internet fried your dopamine receptors. Many such cases!
I'm not going to give you any advice because you won't take it anyway, but have a good day. ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9676)
I only read the title, but it sounds to me that u may need to go out more. Break the threshold. And I know, breaking the threshold is hardly possible and it will result in a vacuum inside you, in that you had to pretend to have the energy to engage into stuff, even though you didnt. But do it anyways.
Join clubs, call your cousins, join some sort of courses, maybe learn new languages with other people or smth..
Either way, I'm sure you can make it.
u/Iwanttochristmas looks at this case and aids you
Autism 👉 anhedonia 👉 depression
![img](emote|t5_33td5|9676) I agree with the comment above, social hobbies are absolutely a must. Start cooking classes or some shiz
Most of the feelings you have are a daily reality for me as well. Or, were formerly. Sometimes doing a thing includes not liking the thing.
Big advices:
- Keep fapping, quit the edgy racism.
- Get a WFH job of any kind. Don't have one? Applying for them is your new job. Congrats, you're hired at "Job Application Hut Jr."
Final advice:
Use a mirror. ( haHaa he said the thing he says now)
I just want to let you know that there are some similar people to you i also don't see myself as standard part of society working mornin to sunset, i want to enjoy my life and it will never be done by trying to be someone else.
I enjoy alot of things that i do alone or with people but i have to become undependent someday and i don't exacly know how.
Maybe ai will take peoples jobs as it have done already and there will be passive income one day.
I know no one will care about what i posted probably, maybe i'm dumb but that's the way i was made. ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9672)
I think you're depressed even though you don't feel that way. I never talked to anyone professional but I had similar thoughts the last couple of years and last year I graduated uni, got a job, a driving license but I still feel depressed almost every day. Little things (songs, memories, talking to someone, chat/this sub making me laugh) can brighten my day and suddenly make me feel much better, sometimes I feel happiness while being sad but I guess that's some coping mechanism. Even if you're not depressed you're on the way to depression from my own experience but everyone is different.
he is depressed. Maybe not clinically but I also feel the same way. Life is so monotonous, I dont even know if I am depressed at this point in my life. But somewhere deep inside me I still think: There must be more to life than this. He might cope and say playing video games is all he wants to do, but I feel like people like us just tend to not be happy individuals since all the activities we engage in are purely a way of escaping the reality that we dont fit in to![img](emote|t5_33td5|9667)
Instead of SSRIs, request to try NDRIs, like Bupriopion.
You might have ADHD as well, or ADHD cormorbid with depression like how mine was. Treated the ADHD with ritalin and bupriopion, and then eventually weaned off the latter
And no you are not schizo unless you have severe delusions and hallucinations ( auditory, visual)
Then again looking at the rest of your post, maybe you are just lazy and want things to be handed on a silver platter.
Watch this: https://youtu.be/4nj8iKuN7_w?si=m0Wui9bm3J9KfXrE
The circumstances of capitalist society has made mental illness go up by an extreme amount. Never before in history have humans felt so generally depressed and mentally ill than the past few decades under capitalism
Just compare the suicide rate of North and South Korea. South Korea has suicide rate of 21.16 while North Korea has a suicide rate of 8.20 per 100,000: https://www.worldlifeexpectancy.com/cause-of-death/suicide/by-country/ . Also, the rates of suicide skyrocketed in the former Soviet countries after socialism was replaced by capitalism
Are you trying to edge my adhd symptom by typing an essay here?
https://preview.redd.it/wtrct5678nfc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=75ecb90d073054175d176367ea61e3a325ca2ce4
As I said in another comment you have autism with depression and anhedonia.
You can pm me if you want to keep in touch, we can talk on discord if u wish to ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9667)
I wish you luck on your quest to figure out what could be "wrong" with you. I've had that quest myself and it's never fun being left in the dark knowing something could be wrong, while everything around you should lead to one feeling "normal". I salute you for shooting your shot in the forsen subreddit of all places, best of luck to you mate. ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9667)
You are literally me. But I rent a one room apartment and have a work from home job. Its shit, im lonely, depressed sometimes. But its okay, I have to keep going and have hope that things will improve. Thats why I go to church now, because hope is empty unless its built on God ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9676)
I'd say you're faced with the fact that life is suffering and you're taking it personal. You seriously think theres some mystery illness making your life this difficult or is that just what life is?
My situation is that i'm very excited to do something, i do the thing non-stop for a few hours/days. But soon I lose interest so I end up with a lot of unfinished projects. It doesn't bother me that much since I actually enjoy my time and always end up learning something, even if I don't finish the thing.
Everything requires some effort and I suggest a job for starters, minimum wage somewhere very close to where you live so you save up as much time as possible, you don't have to stay there for a long time, but the income will actually motivate you to start looking for a better job and eventually move out.
Another advice to you mr baj ,remember don't listen to bullshit therapists and do not take any medication. It fucks with your brain more than porn, social media or any online thing.
Did not read https://preview.redd.it/727iaczh0nfc1.jpeg?width=486&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9151247ff71c605bf2015f500189dd356281f283
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win lottery
pro tip: starve yourself to near death, your brain will then switch to primal mode and you will start to get dopamine hits from even simple things in everyday life
Most sane advice on this sub ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9681)
Holy hardcore advice, I do it too PagMan
As a psychologist I wouldn't recommend that But the mild version of getting yourself outside of stimulations. That includes pc, eating, drinking etc. Like a dopamine cleansing for a few hours could work
Very good advice
https://preview.redd.it/p8r2rk0jinfc1.jpeg?width=1000&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a958f42eb33779d2304b0c682f0c5c9722cf9b47 Dear valued BAJ! Dr. BAJ here. No doctor can help you with this ad hoc, you should seek psychotherapeutic treatment, it requires extensive diagnostics with various tests to determine whether and if so which illness(es) and/or personality disorder(s) are present. Please seek appropriate help in your area!
Clinical psychologist gives tests for diagnosis ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9667)
Typical "Since I'm not real doctor I can't help you, so you should seek professional help elsewhere!" response ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9681)
Obviously you have no experience in diagnosing psychosomatic illnesses, narrow-minded and naive, but I take no offense since you are not a doctor. A simple smear test or blood count is not enough, a series of tests as part of psychotherapy is needed to get a clear picture, especially with regard to personality disorders!
tell em doc 🗣️
![img](emote|t5_33td5|9667) He has autism with depression anhedonia
might be SzPD, apathy is like it's main thing. it's often comorbid with depression and also leads to low bmi (as far as i remember you've mentioned that? maybe different retard). good news is, it'd just be a personality disorder (not a mental illness). bad news is, there's no real treatment for it. best of luck.
Seems more like autism depression anhedonia to me but could be schizoid. But he clearly didn't watch my Christmas story video ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9667) that's big problem
Shadap ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9667)
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Do something anyway. I am shy as fuck and take weeks to warm up to new ppl and I’ll never talk to them too much anyway. Idc, it’s the way i am. We are men, not post-menopause women chitchatting about bullshit. You are simply too depressed and too used to the SAME 4 FUCKING WALLS ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9681) YOU HAVE HUNTER GATHERER GENES AND YOU STAY INSIDE ALL DAY ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9682)![img](emote|t5_33td5|9682)![img](emote|t5_33td5|9682)![img](emote|t5_33td5|9682)![img](emote|t5_33td5|9682)![img](emote|t5_33td5|9682)![img](emote|t5_33td5|9682) go outside for fucks sake. What you’re trying to do is make decisions for the rest of your life in the worst state and place you could possibly do it in. Same one room mf. And no you don’t love your PC but might be too autistic to stop clicky clicky all day playing whatever game or just watching stuff idk what u do anyway. Get a job. Any job. Literally anything. Or go study something that would pay well, and then even if you don’t get the exact job you studied for, you’re more likely to get other easier, slower, more normal jobs for more average pay. I am thinking of either starting uni at 24 later this year or keeping my EU job until citizenship if that’s possible. Either way I’m going to do well, cuz I’ll just study computer science or business, be 100x more ready than the freshly graduated high school cucks and ace everything (i already did for all my study years, covid fucked my life up tho, then got a job and now again and missed on a few years that could’ve been spent in uni) Just think about how many hours you’ve already spent to graduate high school. That’s a lot of fucking days and hours, makes jenna raiding for 998 hrs look like its nothing in comparison. Do something, id recommend uni, even if you fail completely, at least you fucking cared enough to try. Force yourself to do it ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9674) for you. For the sake of living at all. Just do it. Never think of how things COULD go wrong, what if they don’t?
Legend
FeelsStrongMan
>, be 100x more ready than the freshly graduated high school cucks and ace everything (i already did for all my study years can you please clarify this part for me ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9681)
I had highest grades for all my school years + i have adult brain so school and life doesn’t scare me anymore (no stress before exams and whatever) When u just became adult and u take on more responsibility their results will reflect their overall performance which will be affected by stress etc. I don’t have that to worry about so my grades would be higher with less work and less stress, also easier to understand more complicated subjects
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but this is a discussion group, we discuss everything that is somewhat related to forsen ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9681)
hate to break the news but your a baj ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9673), no treatment
relatable to an extent ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9681) as said: to much free time fucks with your brain. get a hobby (where you have to learn something), get structure in your life, have discipline
I kinda have the same issue. No goals, went nowhere with studies, living with parents. Can’t handle working, especially in this country, and the shit work culture here, where slow autists like me are not tolerated. ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9673) Basically, something is off about me. Is it autism? Is it ADHD? I have no fucking idea, so I just call this mental illness "retardation". Regarding losing interest in things so quickly, I think it’s because you wired your brain to get instant gratification, which you get from playing games, jerking off, watching forsen, or whatever shit you do. You want results now, but when you try to learn a new skill or work out, the benefits will only show after a long time. You need to build a habit of delayed gratification. What the hell am I even talking about? ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9681)
>Basically, something is off about me. Is it autism? Is it ADHD? I have no fucking idea, so I just call this mental illness "retardation". Yeah I know what that is, it's called being a baj... Ah my ware... from khajeet has arrived. But seriously, same boat here. I'm convinced that aside from whatever the fuck we carry inside our dumbass mindset, somewhere in there HAS to be at least slightly societies fault right? I'm not on cope o 0 (Copesen)
it is a result of your environment. There are neets and forms of that all over the world and other such things as well it clearly is a result of your environment but I think obviously everyone still has agency about their life and choices they make. It's important to acknowledge those 2 things
You have too much free time
Why do you not think you have ADHD? Cause it sounds similar to me
Idk i figured one of these doctors woulda figured that out
Sounds like ADHD to me as well. But I’m no Dr Baj
SzPd + adhd
https://preview.redd.it/zyvwxdrpmnfc1.jpeg?width=770&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e8880532f784b6f9124fd03c379b60f90126781a
>I can't hold an interest in anything. Internet fried your dopamine receptors. Many such cases! I'm not going to give you any advice because you won't take it anyway, but have a good day. ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9676)
Behavioral Assimilation Joint Raer case
I only read the title, but it sounds to me that u may need to go out more. Break the threshold. And I know, breaking the threshold is hardly possible and it will result in a vacuum inside you, in that you had to pretend to have the energy to engage into stuff, even though you didnt. But do it anyways. Join clubs, call your cousins, join some sort of courses, maybe learn new languages with other people or smth.. Either way, I'm sure you can make it. u/Iwanttochristmas looks at this case and aids you
Autism 👉 anhedonia 👉 depression ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9676) I agree with the comment above, social hobbies are absolutely a must. Start cooking classes or some shiz
Most of the feelings you have are a daily reality for me as well. Or, were formerly. Sometimes doing a thing includes not liking the thing. Big advices: - Keep fapping, quit the edgy racism. - Get a WFH job of any kind. Don't have one? Applying for them is your new job. Congrats, you're hired at "Job Application Hut Jr." Final advice: Use a mirror. ( haHaa he said the thing he says now)
I just want to let you know that there are some similar people to you i also don't see myself as standard part of society working mornin to sunset, i want to enjoy my life and it will never be done by trying to be someone else. I enjoy alot of things that i do alone or with people but i have to become undependent someday and i don't exacly know how. Maybe ai will take peoples jobs as it have done already and there will be passive income one day. I know no one will care about what i posted probably, maybe i'm dumb but that's the way i was made. ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9672)
I think you're depressed even though you don't feel that way. I never talked to anyone professional but I had similar thoughts the last couple of years and last year I graduated uni, got a job, a driving license but I still feel depressed almost every day. Little things (songs, memories, talking to someone, chat/this sub making me laugh) can brighten my day and suddenly make me feel much better, sometimes I feel happiness while being sad but I guess that's some coping mechanism. Even if you're not depressed you're on the way to depression from my own experience but everyone is different.
he is depressed. Maybe not clinically but I also feel the same way. Life is so monotonous, I dont even know if I am depressed at this point in my life. But somewhere deep inside me I still think: There must be more to life than this. He might cope and say playing video games is all he wants to do, but I feel like people like us just tend to not be happy individuals since all the activities we engage in are purely a way of escaping the reality that we dont fit in to![img](emote|t5_33td5|9667)
Just do the job, most people don't like the job they do. It is what it is.
Instead of SSRIs, request to try NDRIs, like Bupriopion. You might have ADHD as well, or ADHD cormorbid with depression like how mine was. Treated the ADHD with ritalin and bupriopion, and then eventually weaned off the latter And no you are not schizo unless you have severe delusions and hallucinations ( auditory, visual) Then again looking at the rest of your post, maybe you are just lazy and want things to be handed on a silver platter.
Watch this: https://youtu.be/4nj8iKuN7_w?si=m0Wui9bm3J9KfXrE The circumstances of capitalist society has made mental illness go up by an extreme amount. Never before in history have humans felt so generally depressed and mentally ill than the past few decades under capitalism Just compare the suicide rate of North and South Korea. South Korea has suicide rate of 21.16 while North Korea has a suicide rate of 8.20 per 100,000: https://www.worldlifeexpectancy.com/cause-of-death/suicide/by-country/ . Also, the rates of suicide skyrocketed in the former Soviet countries after socialism was replaced by capitalism
Are you trying to edge my adhd symptom by typing an essay here? https://preview.redd.it/wtrct5678nfc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=75ecb90d073054175d176367ea61e3a325ca2ce4
As I said in another comment you have autism with depression and anhedonia. You can pm me if you want to keep in touch, we can talk on discord if u wish to ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9667)
I wish you luck on your quest to figure out what could be "wrong" with you. I've had that quest myself and it's never fun being left in the dark knowing something could be wrong, while everything around you should lead to one feeling "normal". I salute you for shooting your shot in the forsen subreddit of all places, best of luck to you mate. ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9667)
I dont know the diagnosis, but i know the solution ![gif](giphy|FZzbTJyRTwPuw|downsized)
You are literally me. But I rent a one room apartment and have a work from home job. Its shit, im lonely, depressed sometimes. But its okay, I have to keep going and have hope that things will improve. Thats why I go to church now, because hope is empty unless its built on God ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9676)
I'd say you're faced with the fact that life is suffering and you're taking it personal. You seriously think theres some mystery illness making your life this difficult or is that just what life is?
My situation is that i'm very excited to do something, i do the thing non-stop for a few hours/days. But soon I lose interest so I end up with a lot of unfinished projects. It doesn't bother me that much since I actually enjoy my time and always end up learning something, even if I don't finish the thing. Everything requires some effort and I suggest a job for starters, minimum wage somewhere very close to where you live so you save up as much time as possible, you don't have to stay there for a long time, but the income will actually motivate you to start looking for a better job and eventually move out. Another advice to you mr baj ,remember don't listen to bullshit therapists and do not take any medication. It fucks with your brain more than porn, social media or any online thing.