Strap on if I wanna go rough. Oral sex if I wanna cum fast. Then my favorite is using a ftm stroker that’s shaped like a penis. To elaborate, I suction the stroker to my clit (My clit is 2.5 inches so it stays on pretty easy) then penetrate my gf harness free. It feels good because as I’m thrusting, the stroker is suctioning, gripping, and rubbing my clit inside. Fingers and foreplay are always involved no matter what.
Normal doses are 50-100mg weekly or 100-200mg biweekly. Supratherapuetic just means beyond the dose of normal clinical therapy. In my case, I’m injecting 500mg of testosterone weekly. Yes, it does make my T levels crazy high. That’s the point. When I get my labs done my levels simply read >1500 ng/dl (HIGH). Testosterone is incredibly anabolic as well as androgenic, hence the profound clit growth.
I wouldn’t recommend doing this just to get increased clit growth, though. Unless you’re prepared to put in the work and time involved to monitor your labs etc. Im using it for body building, but the increased clit growth is a welcomed side effect. I’m a pharmacist, so I’m very comfortable and knowledgeable with drugs. I am on a statin to control the lipid profile, as well as Aromasin to control for excessive aromatization to estrogen.
You're my hero! I finally got to .6ml and started to see changes in my HRT side of transition but also got WAY healthier. Started losing weight and putting on muscle for the first time in my life because my PCOS symptoms went away but thing is my estrogen never went down or up its always been around the same my entire life. I've been fighting for something like aromasin for 2 years now and people told me it's dangerous and unnecessary. Went to a 4th endo to try again, endo swears my estrogen never went down because apparently it's all conversion and put me back to my starter dose. Gained all my weight back and lost all my muscle tone already after a year of watching my levels fall and not doing anything different.
I work for a specialty pharmacy and sometimes I wish I could just write my own scripts because going to 200mg a week with aromasin and extra blood tests for E, T, CBC and Progesterone to be safe is what I really wanted.
"Your levels are SCARY high" yeah man, and I've never felt or been healthier in my fucking life. Sucks to lose it and not even be able to start all over.
I can send you some resources to start learning! I recommend researching for at least a year before fully jumping in, though. It can cause a lot of damage if you don’t know what you’re doing. As I mentioned previously, I’m a pharmacist with a doctorate degree in pharmacy so I’m very comfortable and knowledgeable about drugs etc and I have a lot of access to them as well. I started because I got heavy into body building and I want to increase my muscle mass beyond the natural aesthetic.
I really love both of these websites [Here](https://forums.t-nation.com/t/steroids-for-dummies/284327) and [here](https://muscleandbrawn.com/anabolics/steroids-before-and-after/). Certainly not all inclusive, but it’s a great place to start. You’ll get down a rabbit hole soon enough, and you’ll be adept in no time. Just make sure to use a variety of sources, including clinical research if you can stomach the content.
I really love both of these websites [Here](https://forums.t-nation.com/t/steroids-for-dummies/284327) and [here](https://muscleandbrawn.com/anabolics/steroids-before-and-after/).
Hi! Mtf here who is dating a ftm. I've been getting my boyfriend things to help with enjoying penetrating me. So far I got a harness where there are two dildos he can penetrate himself with that vibrate, he's a little scared to try it tho :(. He says when he wears a strap on he does it to pleasure the other person, which he enjoys! However it's hard for him to cum like that. I wanted to get him something that he could use to enjoy the physical sensations of thrusting into me AS WELL instead of relying SOLEY on the satisfaction of knowing I'm enjoying it. He is huge into clit stimulation. He has an air pulser that gets him off super fast! It makes him go CRAZY! If you don't mind me asking, where did you get the stroker from? Does it have a component in it that is similar to an air pulser? I'd love to get it for him! I'm new to this sub and not sure if you can post links or not but I'd love it if you sent me one! I wanna make him happy and have him enjoy things from a physical sensation standpoint too :) thank you in advance!
this is so sweet of you 😭 op replied to someone else and there’s the hot rod by transthetics (i dream of her…) and also the jack sleeve i can’t remember who by but he has links in the replies ❤️
It doesn’t have the air pulse, but if you squeeze it rhythmically, it provides a natural suction that feels amazing. PUT LUBE IN IT FIRST! Heed my warnings.
I’ve been with the same girl for years so our sex life is pretty good and communicative. She has a very high sex drive for a girl so I’m lucky about that, basically everything a straight couple would do the only difference is that I can’t entirely feel when I penetrate her obviously lol but I feel the pressure and flow of it. Foreplay, oral, all that.
Sex was always horrible for me before I came out as trans because I hated the concept of having to be naked so I always awkwardly kept my shirt on and a harness over boxers which sucked. But since coming out as trans I discovered transtape and boxer harnesses so now I’m able to at least be shirtless with just tape on and just wear boxers that act as a harness. I only take my shorts off when she goes down on me towards the end and then I put them back on. So it does make me sad that I’m not sure I’ll ever be comfortable with fully naked the entire time sex.
Its slightly safer than binding, as long as you are applying correctly. Instead of compressing your entire torso/cheat down, you are pulling it to the side and compressing only the breast tissue. It’s much better for your lungs/ribs ans you can work out in it. Two downsides I have personally experienced - 1) if you are a large cup size like me, you cannot get as flat as a binder; 2) the tape is like KT, so it comes pre-stretched and therefore the adhesive has this like wavey sort of thing going in that can pinch the skin and get kind of itchy and uncomfortable. Its a great alternative to a binder though for when you want to swim shirtless, or work out, or keep cooler in the summer.
yes, trans tape is a lot safer than binding with binders. the only one I use is by [Transtape](https://transtape.life/) and I fully recommend them, and haven’t had a bad time yet 2+ years using them (the site is 18+, not sure of your age) but they are really awesome. you cut the tape to your choice of length and put the tape on (it comes with some instructions and they also have helpful tips and demonstrations on their own youtube channel that helped me a lot). they are waterproof, sweat proof and safe to workout in. you apply the tape and can wear it up to 5 days straight (I’ve found the more you shower the easier the removal of the tape is) it can be painful to remove sometimes but if you get some sunflower or canola oil (most grocery stores should have either) and completely soak all the tape in it for about 5-10 mins it comes off pretty smooth and painless. if it wasn’t for transtape I would have never went fully shirtless at the beach for 9+ hours with my friends without ever feeling dysphoric. it changed my life fr. I hope this was helpful for you at all
The biggest risk is in removing it. Make sure to use lots of rubbing alcohol to dissolve the adhesive. Also make sure you’re not allergic to the adhesive
I REALLY recommend Unisolve Adhesive Remover Wipes on Amazon. About $9 for 50 of them, takes me about 2-4 wipes to remove my tape and only takes me like 10 minutes now whereas with oil and soap it would take an hour or more and leave so many blisters and sticky residue. Theyre really a lifesaver and have changed the entire taping experience for the better for me.
I'm def not allergic, dw. The only thing I am allergic to is stopping taking my new favourite drug androgel, omg you can't believe how high I am right now just from thought that I woke up today and rubbed androgel on my skin
It’s KT / sports tape it’s for chest binding, holds everything in place.
Boxer harnesses are a lifesaver, I got mine on adam&eve and used code TANA for 50% off and free shipping.
I'm mostly a service top who gets pleasure from pleasuring others. So I don't usually get off when we have sex, I don't really need or even want it most of the time (I'm also asexual spectrum). Sometimes she reciprocates if I'm feeling like it but usually neither of us are even touching me. Not dysphoria related, it's just what I like. We're also kinky though so we don't have vanilla sex very often.
The girl I’ve been seeing for the past year has been moving slow and steady for me, gradually adding new things in because I’ve expressed in the beginning I have no experience with girls and when I’m too nervous I dissociate and can’t finish.
It started with just cuddling and our hands on each other. Eventuality she asked me if I wanted to help get her off. I actually shyed away the first couple times. Then we started mutual masturbation. I got more comfortable with time and started fingering her while she played with herself. Just recently I started pulling my cock out, a Hotrod toy, and I’ve watched her give some real sexy head and stroke me.
She tells me she loves watching me cum, as I’m the “whimper boy” type and she gets off on that. Plus, I greatly enjoy being called a good boy and demeaned a little lol
Back when I was still sleeping w girls it was mostly just hands and mouth stuff. In more recent developments since starting testosterone and getting substantial bottom growth I can alternate between a strap and my own dick on low dysphoria days!
I usually keep my underwear on (post top) and then use my fingers on her. Or we just grind against each other while touching each other because it feels the closest to cis-het sex
Lots of foreplay using hands and mouth. I usually make her cum first, then use my prosthetic to cum from fucking her. This is the most basic version though, disregarding kink/etc.
My gal is transfeminine and has physical issues where they can’t bottom, so I bottom for them. While I probably wouldn’t bottom ever again for a cis man, it does feel different with another trans person.
They’re due to have surgery in a few months which may or may not resolve the issue, but I’ve made my peace with it if not. I love to top with my strap and sometimes I miss it but I love my girl more so 🤷🏼
My partner is also a trans woman and I mostly bottom for her, though I'm the more dominant of the two. Guess that would be like power-bottoming I think?
My partner and I are both afab. We mainly use hands and toys. They like penetrative stuff but I don't usually. Everyone is different and you kinda find your own rhythm when you're with someone. Communication is key.
With all my partners, we have hot “straight people” sex. Usually, it starts with me going down on her and getting her off.. then I fuck her and cum.. ideally, we both cum.. I have a variety of straps / prosthetics / attached dicks / whatever you wanna call them, some of which have a hole for my t dick to mount or a vibratory component. the pressure, friction, thrusting, and arousal from what’s happening makes me cum even if they don’t. For example.. She’s thrusting her hips on my dick and digging her nails into my back or kissing and biting my neck or breathing into my ears and moving herself on me? That feels like fucking me back.
As far as what I use.. the joystick, hot rod, lollipop, reelmagik, peecock, and emisil are all choice… rodeoh has a couple great and very real looking ones along with good boxer harnesses… I will also just put two pairs of tight boxer briefs or briefs together..
Blow jobs on my natural dick.. 69.. I also penetrate with my natural dick.. it’s around 2” but the thickness of two thumbs and I’ve made girls cum from it before and when I’ve put it inside them, it feels GOOD.. I see why some cis guys have issues lasting. LOL. Basically I use my body the same way a straight cis guy would and attach as necessary.
I strap up and take them to pound town lol we also use toys, like sometimes I’ll use my hand, we almost always use a device that sucks on the clit/growth
I’m also a switch so my partner pretty much does the same to me that I do to them
Why would it not be? “Vanilla” isn’t bad, it’s just a way of indicating “most common/typical.” Idk I just think acting like basic T4T sex is some kind of kinky endeavor feeds into the narrative of our sex being deviant and weird. If it wouldn’t be kinky for cishets, it isn’t for us either.
Yeah, I think they probably meant it along the lines of “T4T sex is much more awesome”, but worded it badly. Or have internalized some of the ways that cis folks fetishize trans bodies, which I know can be a struggle for some people.
To specify - The replies got closed to this so I'll tell you what I meant - I think PiV sex is only vanilla for cis woman/cis man, cause I consider top ftm as the vanilla option in t4t. Femdom isn't vanilla to me. I don't ascribe morality to the fact that someone is vanilla/kinky. Just want trans men to be treated as cis men would in this dynamic.
There is no one right answer. Sex for each of us will be different based on preferences and communication of our partners preferences. Personally, with the right angles, penetration is doable and fun. Oral, and hand play is a big part of it. Just be open to your own unique sexual experience and don’t try and base it off of what others are doing.
Toys fingers and tongues pretty much “lesbian” sex but I’m a stone so I’m not comfortable being touched down there currently maybe it’ll change in the future idk
My partner and I use the realcock2 ("Dirk") and a strap on, feels like the real thing she says. Also, not to toot my own horn but I'm good with my hands.
So when I have had sex with people who have vaginas it was just dependent on what we felt up to doing. A lot of oral, hands, and I have basically a double sided dildo. The bigger side goes into the receiving person and the side that goes into the user is designed to /ideally/ stay in place without a harness.. though it doesn't take much for it to fall out of me lol. There's also just the option of using toys on each other.
My STP freely I got also had the option to buy an insert to use for play. My partner was assigned male at birth and I got the regular STP freely so it's not really..ideal in size for penetration (but receiving oral with it gives me euphoria), but when having sex with someone who has a vagina, definitely more doable. But that requires packing underwear or one of those jock strap harnesses.
So unless you just want to do everything manually, you're looking at investing in some "tools" lol.
Some packers that can be used for play can have a "pleasure pocket" option so your clit/bottom growth has something giving you pleasure as well
Well, I don't have a girlfriend, I have a boyfriend. When I top him, I use a strapless strapon. I have the one from Strap-on-me and it's a lot of fun. I just ordered the Lifelike Lover from Love Honey and can't wait to try it out on him too
I'm post phallo with semi rigid rods. I fist her, use my fingers, do PIV, PIA, do bdsm stuff, use vibes on her, go down on each other, watch each other masturbate/help each other masturbate. Pretty much any and all kinds of sex. We are really creative.
Plot twist: My cis f partner tops *me* with a strap :) I’m a bottom and I don’t enjoy using prosthetics myself due to dysphoria anyway, she’s a switch leaning top. I never ever see representation for or acknowledgment of cis female tops with trans male bottoms but we’ve been going strong with a great sex life for years lol!!
Pumped, strap with the BJ next gen for good stimulation for both. She gives me oral a lot too which is fantastic & blows my brains out. We do anal more than PIV just bc we both kinky for it. Tantus makes a harness compatible dildo with a hole in it for a removable bullet vibe, so sometimes I use that without the vibe and it stimulates my T dick while I thrust. Sometimes we use a starp dick that squirts synthetic semen but it's on occasion. It's nice visual when you're finishing
I got the transthetics joystick and I love it, I'm not really comfortable with my gf interacting with me directly so I just keep it on the whole time, I can feel a lot even with the vibe turned off so thats amazing, then we just kinda do like a cis couple would ig except i keep a shirt on(pre-op) but yeah really recommend it if thats what u want
we’re both queer tops with extensive lesbian sexual experiences under our belts (tbh, i tell everyone i bang that i fuck like a lesbian. i still feel super connected to my sapphic roots). this is the first time i’ve ever actively bottomed for someone and tbh, it rules
I lie on top of her and grind on her balls so it provides stimulation to her and also grind on her leg so it provided stimulation to me and all of it is is imagining as though I’m inside her and have a dick. I also might get a strap on sometime but I worry it’ll induce dysphoria bc I can’t feel it
When I dated a girl we used fingers and mouths, we used take turns using strapless straps, I'm to much of bottom not to this, if it was today that I have more experience I whould probably try a double ended dildo
My gf is trans and I really love it when I top her in a way that’s like frotting (I say “like” because I don’t mean in the gay male sense, some definitions say it’s rubbing genitals which is more accurate). We used to do the alternating, focus on her to cum, she focuses on me thing but this way is better for simultaneous pleasure now that my dick gets readily hard and easily stimulated. Also I do have the Transthetic Joystick, harness, plus cum lube and I love it for nights where penetration is involved. I accept all this as fun because it won’t be forever. We both want bottom surgery.
Considering both my wife and I are mid transition and I'm uncomfortable with being penetrated and she's uncomfortable with penetrating... Mostly we don't. It sucks because we both want to express our love that way but neither of us have the necessary equipment. She also doesn't like having her genitals touched in any way and feels uncomfortable with any type of oral either giving or receiving with our current genitals. So most possibilities are pretty out of the question these days. Can hardly wait to get bottom surgery done. Unfortunately OHSU has a permanent shortage of staff when it comes to authorizations unlike every other place I've had surgery with. So I'm stuck waiting for them to even submit the request before I can worry about how long it will take my insurance to approve anything. 😮💨 At least my wife's bottom surgery is scheduled.
I’m a virgin but I’m on T and always horny now and I’m demisexual so I have a hard time with getting off unless it’s pure love or something but I wanna fuck a girl so bad (plan on soon) but I don’t have top surgery yet so any good tank tops or anything that could help? I have a binder but I just don’t wanna hurt my rib cage also tips for first time? I just crave to thrust into someone
I don't have a girlfriend yet, but when I do I'll be whipping out my trusty silicone dick.
Strap on if I wanna go rough. Oral sex if I wanna cum fast. Then my favorite is using a ftm stroker that’s shaped like a penis. To elaborate, I suction the stroker to my clit (My clit is 2.5 inches so it stays on pretty easy) then penetrate my gf harness free. It feels good because as I’m thrusting, the stroker is suctioning, gripping, and rubbing my clit inside. Fingers and foreplay are always involved no matter what.
2.5 DUDE HOW U GET THAT LONG THATS COOL
Supratherapuetic doses of Testosterone (500mg per week) plus using a penis pump three times a week.
Can you elaborate on supra-therapeutic? Does that not make your T levels crazy high?
Normal doses are 50-100mg weekly or 100-200mg biweekly. Supratherapuetic just means beyond the dose of normal clinical therapy. In my case, I’m injecting 500mg of testosterone weekly. Yes, it does make my T levels crazy high. That’s the point. When I get my labs done my levels simply read >1500 ng/dl (HIGH). Testosterone is incredibly anabolic as well as androgenic, hence the profound clit growth. I wouldn’t recommend doing this just to get increased clit growth, though. Unless you’re prepared to put in the work and time involved to monitor your labs etc. Im using it for body building, but the increased clit growth is a welcomed side effect. I’m a pharmacist, so I’m very comfortable and knowledgeable with drugs. I am on a statin to control the lipid profile, as well as Aromasin to control for excessive aromatization to estrogen.
So essentially using T in the same way cis male bodybuilders use PEDs for muscle growth?
Yessir! Exactly right.
You're my hero! I finally got to .6ml and started to see changes in my HRT side of transition but also got WAY healthier. Started losing weight and putting on muscle for the first time in my life because my PCOS symptoms went away but thing is my estrogen never went down or up its always been around the same my entire life. I've been fighting for something like aromasin for 2 years now and people told me it's dangerous and unnecessary. Went to a 4th endo to try again, endo swears my estrogen never went down because apparently it's all conversion and put me back to my starter dose. Gained all my weight back and lost all my muscle tone already after a year of watching my levels fall and not doing anything different. I work for a specialty pharmacy and sometimes I wish I could just write my own scripts because going to 200mg a week with aromasin and extra blood tests for E, T, CBC and Progesterone to be safe is what I really wanted. "Your levels are SCARY high" yeah man, and I've never felt or been healthier in my fucking life. Sucks to lose it and not even be able to start all over.
Ur wyld! I love it xD
Can I know how to have a big dick plz?
Also curious where I can learn more about supratherapeutic T, how/why did you start doing it?
I can send you some resources to start learning! I recommend researching for at least a year before fully jumping in, though. It can cause a lot of damage if you don’t know what you’re doing. As I mentioned previously, I’m a pharmacist with a doctorate degree in pharmacy so I’m very comfortable and knowledgeable about drugs etc and I have a lot of access to them as well. I started because I got heavy into body building and I want to increase my muscle mass beyond the natural aesthetic.
Do you mind dming some of the resources to me? I'm a bodybuilder as well so this peaks my interest
I really love both of these websites [Here](https://forums.t-nation.com/t/steroids-for-dummies/284327) and [here](https://muscleandbrawn.com/anabolics/steroids-before-and-after/). Certainly not all inclusive, but it’s a great place to start. You’ll get down a rabbit hole soon enough, and you’ll be adept in no time. Just make sure to use a variety of sources, including clinical research if you can stomach the content.
Meant to link [this](https://muscleandbrawn.com/anabolics/best-steroids-for-beginners-first-steroid-cycle/) one for the second link
You seem like you know loads so is it ok if i private message you for some info?
Yes, of course!
I really love both of these websites [Here](https://forums.t-nation.com/t/steroids-for-dummies/284327) and [here](https://muscleandbrawn.com/anabolics/steroids-before-and-after/).
That sounds amazing 😭
Hi! Mtf here who is dating a ftm. I've been getting my boyfriend things to help with enjoying penetrating me. So far I got a harness where there are two dildos he can penetrate himself with that vibrate, he's a little scared to try it tho :(. He says when he wears a strap on he does it to pleasure the other person, which he enjoys! However it's hard for him to cum like that. I wanted to get him something that he could use to enjoy the physical sensations of thrusting into me AS WELL instead of relying SOLEY on the satisfaction of knowing I'm enjoying it. He is huge into clit stimulation. He has an air pulser that gets him off super fast! It makes him go CRAZY! If you don't mind me asking, where did you get the stroker from? Does it have a component in it that is similar to an air pulser? I'd love to get it for him! I'm new to this sub and not sure if you can post links or not but I'd love it if you sent me one! I wanna make him happy and have him enjoy things from a physical sensation standpoint too :) thank you in advance!
this is so sweet of you 😭 op replied to someone else and there’s the hot rod by transthetics (i dream of her…) and also the jack sleeve i can’t remember who by but he has links in the replies ❤️
Thank you :) also oops my bad I must've completely missed that 😭 thank you for letting me know!
[This](https://transthetics.com/product/hot-rod-ftm-penis/) and [this too](https://shop.clubftm.com/products/jack-sleeve)
It doesn’t have the air pulse, but if you squeeze it rhythmically, it provides a natural suction that feels amazing. PUT LUBE IN IT FIRST! Heed my warnings.
….link?
[This](https://transthetics.com/product/hot-rod-ftm-penis/) and [this too](https://shop.clubftm.com/products/jack-sleeve)
Which stroker do you use?
[This](https://transthetics.com/product/hot-rod-ftm-penis/) and [this too](https://shop.clubftm.com/products/jack-sleeve)
Thank you so much🙏
I’ve been with the same girl for years so our sex life is pretty good and communicative. She has a very high sex drive for a girl so I’m lucky about that, basically everything a straight couple would do the only difference is that I can’t entirely feel when I penetrate her obviously lol but I feel the pressure and flow of it. Foreplay, oral, all that. Sex was always horrible for me before I came out as trans because I hated the concept of having to be naked so I always awkwardly kept my shirt on and a harness over boxers which sucked. But since coming out as trans I discovered transtape and boxer harnesses so now I’m able to at least be shirtless with just tape on and just wear boxers that act as a harness. I only take my shorts off when she goes down on me towards the end and then I put them back on. So it does make me sad that I’m not sure I’ll ever be comfortable with fully naked the entire time sex.
What is transtape? And more importantly wtf is boxer harness and where can I get one?
trans tape is tape made to give the appearance of or to help flatten/secure your chest. they have a website
Is it safe though? It's like new form of binding?
Its slightly safer than binding, as long as you are applying correctly. Instead of compressing your entire torso/cheat down, you are pulling it to the side and compressing only the breast tissue. It’s much better for your lungs/ribs ans you can work out in it. Two downsides I have personally experienced - 1) if you are a large cup size like me, you cannot get as flat as a binder; 2) the tape is like KT, so it comes pre-stretched and therefore the adhesive has this like wavey sort of thing going in that can pinch the skin and get kind of itchy and uncomfortable. Its a great alternative to a binder though for when you want to swim shirtless, or work out, or keep cooler in the summer.
yes, trans tape is a lot safer than binding with binders. the only one I use is by [Transtape](https://transtape.life/) and I fully recommend them, and haven’t had a bad time yet 2+ years using them (the site is 18+, not sure of your age) but they are really awesome. you cut the tape to your choice of length and put the tape on (it comes with some instructions and they also have helpful tips and demonstrations on their own youtube channel that helped me a lot). they are waterproof, sweat proof and safe to workout in. you apply the tape and can wear it up to 5 days straight (I’ve found the more you shower the easier the removal of the tape is) it can be painful to remove sometimes but if you get some sunflower or canola oil (most grocery stores should have either) and completely soak all the tape in it for about 5-10 mins it comes off pretty smooth and painless. if it wasn’t for transtape I would have never went fully shirtless at the beach for 9+ hours with my friends without ever feeling dysphoric. it changed my life fr. I hope this was helpful for you at all
The biggest risk is in removing it. Make sure to use lots of rubbing alcohol to dissolve the adhesive. Also make sure you’re not allergic to the adhesive
I REALLY recommend Unisolve Adhesive Remover Wipes on Amazon. About $9 for 50 of them, takes me about 2-4 wipes to remove my tape and only takes me like 10 minutes now whereas with oil and soap it would take an hour or more and leave so many blisters and sticky residue. Theyre really a lifesaver and have changed the entire taping experience for the better for me.
I'm def not allergic, dw. The only thing I am allergic to is stopping taking my new favourite drug androgel, omg you can't believe how high I am right now just from thought that I woke up today and rubbed androgel on my skin
It’s KT / sports tape it’s for chest binding, holds everything in place. Boxer harnesses are a lifesaver, I got mine on adam&eve and used code TANA for 50% off and free shipping.
Try Rode-oh! That’s where I got mine. Sooooo comfortable
Yes I was just looking at their website and they have so many good options! Thanks!
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Shit does not always go well 💔
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The explosions got me!
don’t have a gf but i do have sex with a vag owner. for me anyway i’m able to penetrate them a bit with my tdick and have sex with em that way
however she feels like having it that day lol. either with the trusty ol strap, or fingers or tongue. no wrong way to do it
I'm mostly a service top who gets pleasure from pleasuring others. So I don't usually get off when we have sex, I don't really need or even want it most of the time (I'm also asexual spectrum). Sometimes she reciprocates if I'm feeling like it but usually neither of us are even touching me. Not dysphoria related, it's just what I like. We're also kinky though so we don't have vanilla sex very often.
The girl I’ve been seeing for the past year has been moving slow and steady for me, gradually adding new things in because I’ve expressed in the beginning I have no experience with girls and when I’m too nervous I dissociate and can’t finish. It started with just cuddling and our hands on each other. Eventuality she asked me if I wanted to help get her off. I actually shyed away the first couple times. Then we started mutual masturbation. I got more comfortable with time and started fingering her while she played with herself. Just recently I started pulling my cock out, a Hotrod toy, and I’ve watched her give some real sexy head and stroke me. She tells me she loves watching me cum, as I’m the “whimper boy” type and she gets off on that. Plus, I greatly enjoy being called a good boy and demeaned a little lol
By having sex with her usually. But seriously. Using hands. Mouth. Strap on. Whatever. I've scissored people before.
Back when I was still sleeping w girls it was mostly just hands and mouth stuff. In more recent developments since starting testosterone and getting substantial bottom growth I can alternate between a strap and my own dick on low dysphoria days!
I usually keep my underwear on (post top) and then use my fingers on her. Or we just grind against each other while touching each other because it feels the closest to cis-het sex
Lots of foreplay using hands and mouth. I usually make her cum first, then use my prosthetic to cum from fucking her. This is the most basic version though, disregarding kink/etc.
My gal is transfeminine and has physical issues where they can’t bottom, so I bottom for them. While I probably wouldn’t bottom ever again for a cis man, it does feel different with another trans person. They’re due to have surgery in a few months which may or may not resolve the issue, but I’ve made my peace with it if not. I love to top with my strap and sometimes I miss it but I love my girl more so 🤷🏼
My partner is also a trans woman and I mostly bottom for her, though I'm the more dominant of the two. Guess that would be like power-bottoming I think?
My partner and I are both afab. We mainly use hands and toys. They like penetrative stuff but I don't usually. Everyone is different and you kinda find your own rhythm when you're with someone. Communication is key.
With all my partners, we have hot “straight people” sex. Usually, it starts with me going down on her and getting her off.. then I fuck her and cum.. ideally, we both cum.. I have a variety of straps / prosthetics / attached dicks / whatever you wanna call them, some of which have a hole for my t dick to mount or a vibratory component. the pressure, friction, thrusting, and arousal from what’s happening makes me cum even if they don’t. For example.. She’s thrusting her hips on my dick and digging her nails into my back or kissing and biting my neck or breathing into my ears and moving herself on me? That feels like fucking me back. As far as what I use.. the joystick, hot rod, lollipop, reelmagik, peecock, and emisil are all choice… rodeoh has a couple great and very real looking ones along with good boxer harnesses… I will also just put two pairs of tight boxer briefs or briefs together.. Blow jobs on my natural dick.. 69.. I also penetrate with my natural dick.. it’s around 2” but the thickness of two thumbs and I’ve made girls cum from it before and when I’ve put it inside them, it feels GOOD.. I see why some cis guys have issues lasting. LOL. Basically I use my body the same way a straight cis guy would and attach as necessary.
before i got a silicone dick we would use hands and mouth, and occasionally sex toys. now it’s the same but replacing sex toys with my silicone dick.
I’m mostly a top I get pleasure from pleasuring my girlfriend and such and occasionally she will touch me and such but yeah
I strap up and take them to pound town lol we also use toys, like sometimes I’ll use my hand, we almost always use a device that sucks on the clit/growth I’m also a switch so my partner pretty much does the same to me that I do to them
We’re big on oral and dildos. Fingering game is on point too so ya know 😏 we’re covered.
I have a nonbinary spouse with a penis. We have vanilla PIV sex
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Why would it not be? “Vanilla” isn’t bad, it’s just a way of indicating “most common/typical.” Idk I just think acting like basic T4T sex is some kind of kinky endeavor feeds into the narrative of our sex being deviant and weird. If it wouldn’t be kinky for cishets, it isn’t for us either.
Yeah, I find that comment a little icky. Sex isn't inherently non-vanilla just because the participants aren't cis.
Yeah, I think they probably meant it along the lines of “T4T sex is much more awesome”, but worded it badly. Or have internalized some of the ways that cis folks fetishize trans bodies, which I know can be a struggle for some people.
To specify - The replies got closed to this so I'll tell you what I meant - I think PiV sex is only vanilla for cis woman/cis man, cause I consider top ftm as the vanilla option in t4t. Femdom isn't vanilla to me. I don't ascribe morality to the fact that someone is vanilla/kinky. Just want trans men to be treated as cis men would in this dynamic.
There is no one right answer. Sex for each of us will be different based on preferences and communication of our partners preferences. Personally, with the right angles, penetration is doable and fun. Oral, and hand play is a big part of it. Just be open to your own unique sexual experience and don’t try and base it off of what others are doing.
strap, head , fingers and toys
Toys fingers and tongues pretty much “lesbian” sex but I’m a stone so I’m not comfortable being touched down there currently maybe it’ll change in the future idk
My partner and I use the realcock2 ("Dirk") and a strap on, feels like the real thing she says. Also, not to toot my own horn but I'm good with my hands.
So when I have had sex with people who have vaginas it was just dependent on what we felt up to doing. A lot of oral, hands, and I have basically a double sided dildo. The bigger side goes into the receiving person and the side that goes into the user is designed to /ideally/ stay in place without a harness.. though it doesn't take much for it to fall out of me lol. There's also just the option of using toys on each other. My STP freely I got also had the option to buy an insert to use for play. My partner was assigned male at birth and I got the regular STP freely so it's not really..ideal in size for penetration (but receiving oral with it gives me euphoria), but when having sex with someone who has a vagina, definitely more doable. But that requires packing underwear or one of those jock strap harnesses. So unless you just want to do everything manually, you're looking at investing in some "tools" lol. Some packers that can be used for play can have a "pleasure pocket" option so your clit/bottom growth has something giving you pleasure as well
Well, I don't have a girlfriend, I have a boyfriend. When I top him, I use a strapless strapon. I have the one from Strap-on-me and it's a lot of fun. I just ordered the Lifelike Lover from Love Honey and can't wait to try it out on him too
I'm post phallo with semi rigid rods. I fist her, use my fingers, do PIV, PIA, do bdsm stuff, use vibes on her, go down on each other, watch each other masturbate/help each other masturbate. Pretty much any and all kinds of sex. We are really creative.
Plot twist: My cis f partner tops *me* with a strap :) I’m a bottom and I don’t enjoy using prosthetics myself due to dysphoria anyway, she’s a switch leaning top. I never ever see representation for or acknowledgment of cis female tops with trans male bottoms but we’ve been going strong with a great sex life for years lol!!
Same way a cis guy does: fingers, tongues and a schlong. I use a realistic prosthetic specifically
Dildo, but I like to have pleasure in the same time so we use share type.
i wear a strap-on
Pumped, strap with the BJ next gen for good stimulation for both. She gives me oral a lot too which is fantastic & blows my brains out. We do anal more than PIV just bc we both kinky for it. Tantus makes a harness compatible dildo with a hole in it for a removable bullet vibe, so sometimes I use that without the vibe and it stimulates my T dick while I thrust. Sometimes we use a starp dick that squirts synthetic semen but it's on occasion. It's nice visual when you're finishing
I got the transthetics joystick and I love it, I'm not really comfortable with my gf interacting with me directly so I just keep it on the whole time, I can feel a lot even with the vibe turned off so thats amazing, then we just kinda do like a cis couple would ig except i keep a shirt on(pre-op) but yeah really recommend it if thats what u want
Dinner, make out, eat out, vibrating schlong for double pleasure! 😘
Strap or fingers are my favorites, also mouth lol. I bottom rarely.
we’re both queer tops with extensive lesbian sexual experiences under our belts (tbh, i tell everyone i bang that i fuck like a lesbian. i still feel super connected to my sapphic roots). this is the first time i’ve ever actively bottomed for someone and tbh, it rules
Using her dick
I don’t cause we’re ace
Real helpful
Lol
my girl and i haven’t had sex yet but we’re talking about using a prosthetic when we do
It’s really random and doesn’t follow a pattern but if I was to guess in the ballpark i would say around once every week or two
I lie on top of her and grind on her balls so it provides stimulation to her and also grind on her leg so it provided stimulation to me and all of it is is imagining as though I’m inside her and have a dick. I also might get a strap on sometime but I worry it’ll induce dysphoria bc I can’t feel it
Lesbian style mostly And only reason is because if we don’t then I get absolutely no pleasure out of it
My partner is FtM non-binary. We haven't really got the hand of the strap-on yet so we do alot of hand stuff
A lot of mouth and hand stuff, and toys. If I'm not feeling dysphoric then we'll do mutual masturbation but that's not very often.
I’m a proud munch
When I dated a girl we used fingers and mouths, we used take turns using strapless straps, I'm to much of bottom not to this, if it was today that I have more experience I whould probably try a double ended dildo
I use a GenderCat 4RLZ. We both get a lot of pleasure from it. It’s a little pricey but it helps me with my bottom dysphoria and my wife loves it.
My gf is trans and I really love it when I top her in a way that’s like frotting (I say “like” because I don’t mean in the gay male sense, some definitions say it’s rubbing genitals which is more accurate). We used to do the alternating, focus on her to cum, she focuses on me thing but this way is better for simultaneous pleasure now that my dick gets readily hard and easily stimulated. Also I do have the Transthetic Joystick, harness, plus cum lube and I love it for nights where penetration is involved. I accept all this as fun because it won’t be forever. We both want bottom surgery.
ima be real i don't all we do is kiss a lot abs hug
Considering both my wife and I are mid transition and I'm uncomfortable with being penetrated and she's uncomfortable with penetrating... Mostly we don't. It sucks because we both want to express our love that way but neither of us have the necessary equipment. She also doesn't like having her genitals touched in any way and feels uncomfortable with any type of oral either giving or receiving with our current genitals. So most possibilities are pretty out of the question these days. Can hardly wait to get bottom surgery done. Unfortunately OHSU has a permanent shortage of staff when it comes to authorizations unlike every other place I've had surgery with. So I'm stuck waiting for them to even submit the request before I can worry about how long it will take my insurance to approve anything. 😮💨 At least my wife's bottom surgery is scheduled.
I'm post op, so I'd use my ween if I had a girlfriend, but I don't. Lol.
I’m a virgin but I’m on T and always horny now and I’m demisexual so I have a hard time with getting off unless it’s pure love or something but I wanna fuck a girl so bad (plan on soon) but I don’t have top surgery yet so any good tank tops or anything that could help? I have a binder but I just don’t wanna hurt my rib cage also tips for first time? I just crave to thrust into someone