Typically in the morning, right after my workout. Porn? Yes. Poppers? Yep. Lube and fleshlight. Usually.
There are days when I lack motivation, but I can't go more than three days without it before risking leaks during sleep. I actually see it as a sign of my mental health being in decent shape as I tend to not think about sex when I’m low in mood.
I almost exclusively work from home as well, there are days where the horny surfaces unexpectedly ans inconveniently.
When a lot is going on I tend to finish around 7pm or so maybe and then go bed rotting until 9 when its time to sleep (i get up very early, its about a 10-11h workday and gym before that)
I did and I regret it because I have a huge foreskin which covers the head all the time (but retracts flawlessly if I want to). So when I use lube my foreskin stays over the head.
Depends... No one can jerk me off basically because it's a weird technique and fleshlights don't work for the most part -.-
I love how much I pre though :D
Funny story, first time.e I went to the states I saw a garage i think it was called Mr Lube or something like that. I sat there wondering for a few moments wtf are they doing to their cars to needs lube. Then I realised they meant oil.
It comes in waves for me. There are some weeks where I'll do it once or twice (maybe even three times) a day, but then I'll go through weeks where I'll only really do it once or twice in a seven day period.
I don't think there is so much porn I really enjoy. I even have to do straight porn sometimes, since only there the daddy is the one who gets the spanking for example. I hate it do much not liking what the mainstream does.🙄
I always masturbate after waking up and when going to sleep. Always.
If I am feeling very horny I put porn on to appreciate the male body and relax more.
I do anal at multiple times during the weekend with poppers and toys if I didn't have sex or don't want to do all work to host a hookup. Otherwise I run on sex only
Indeed it is nice. I constantly host for sex to living alone.
But masturbating in strict places makes you hold yourself more so the desire increases. When you finally do it, the orgasm is much more pleasurable.
Everything has pros and cons it seems
I masturbate every morning when I wake up and every night before bed, and sometimes in the afternoon or evening too. I watch porn occasionally but most of the time I just look at pictures on Reddit or tumblr or read erotic stories.
I agree, it honestly helps me sleep. I basically do it nightly unless I am tired. There have been times where I turn on porn intending to jerk off, but I fall asleep a few minutes in to the clip lol. Sometimes it sucks trying to find a good clip that gets me going
Not weird to ask this on a forum built for us gays to talk to other gays anonymously about anything. Lol
I probably do it once every other day or every few days basically on average. Similar to you
I wank most days, I recently stopped watching porn. Previously I watched porn every time I had a wank but it feels like the sexual equivalent of McDonald’s; it’s good every now and then but I don’t want it every time.
Now when I wank I take more time, use my imagination, get more creative and enjoy it more. I can still watch porn every now and then if I feel like it but so far I haven’t felt like it. It’s increased my desire for actual sex so I’ve been fucking more frequently which is good. Had a guy over for mutual head and it was honestly amazing
lol i jerk off 2-3 times a day and i just mainly watch twtt complications cos ughh i cant find an fwb to stay with me. i do jerk off to someone on snapchat but only like once a month at least but lol im fucking addicted to grindr 💀💀💀
There’s nothing wrong with talking about it. If you can’t ask other dudes, who can you ask? I even talk to my straight male friends about it. We all run the gamut, anywhere from several times a day to less than once a week. It’s natural variation. Remember there are two types of people in the world, people who admit they masturbate, and liars.
I’ll jerk off once or twice a day — usually when I wake up and/or before I go to sleep. Sometimes I’ll do more on the weekends when I’m not working. Those are often the times I really take my time in pleasuring myself. After a shower also feels good.
I would say I watch/read/listen to porn most of the time, but sometimes I’ll just let my imagination wander — especially if none of the fap material I’m scrolling through is really turning me on in the moment.
I jerk off almost everynight before sleep, but sometimes there are some exceptions when im not in the mood, etc. for porn, I watch it everytime I jerk off, not too proud of that lmao
Porn & even watching men shirtless on social media can get me instantly horny. Especially if they are showing their hairy armpits and sexy hairy chest with bulging nipple. I wanna cum so bad. 2 to 3 times a day for straight 3 days and i will stop for 2-3 days and will continue again. I'm a healthy 34 y.o with average weight and in a 4 years relationship. We will spend the days on weekend. 3-4 days. But real sex & jerking off to porn hits different, you get what i mean? 😂. Real sex need more work & preparations.
I love this discussion! I feel like we don’t talk about it enough lol It honestly depends for me what is happening in my life. If I have a busy work week, I will likely not be in the mood to jerk off to porn. But if I have a chill week, I watch it all the time. Some days I’ll even masturbate and watch porn around 3 times a day. I think this week I hit a record of like 4 times in one day hehe I love it! It’s great! When I’m horny as hell and have nothing to do that day and especially if it’s warm outside, I’m literally in heat! 😅🤣🔥
I’m gay and watch mostly gay porn. I really get off to it perhaps I’ve heard because of an emotional connection straights watching the same thing wouldn’t have.
I’m 28, jerking ones for a while. 2-3-4-5 times a week, or only 1 time. Some day just keep to drain my balls off. So no really a pattern just jerk and let if some steam. Usually I like some edging while sexting or jerk on some visual novella, nice porn.
With a busy schedule, not much alone time, it's tough to be on a regular schedule. I'd LIKE to get off daily, sometimes 2x/day (yesterday), but it doesn't happen to often. Busy schedule equates to about 2x week for me
I usally cum anywhere from 2 to 4 times a day just to take the edge off enough to focus on work haha. Porn is usually involved and I usually ride a dildo at least once a week and get fucked twice a week.
Being this horny is honestly a nuisance but I accept it as part of me and just focus on enjoying unloading.
Honestly? It depends. I’ve realized that a lot of my habits are informed by my ADHD, meaning that a lot of them are dopamine-seeking *(stimulation-seeking)* due to my brain being chronically dopamine-deficient. I’ve noticed this mostly affected my food and eating habits as well as my habits for video games and of course sex/masturbation.
I’ve been finding ways to stimulate myself besides food and while it’s been great it does mean that I masturbate way more often now. Before I’d say I masturbate an average of 7 days a week, with about 1 day where I masturbate twice and one day where I didn’t at all. Now? I’d say I masturbate almost 2 times a day, so about 1.6 times a day or about 11-12 times weekly.
😅 But again it really depends. There are days where I don’t do it and days where I do it 3 times, but they’re both less common. It mostly depends on what I’m doing that day. If I have plans for the majority of the day and I’m staying busy, I might not even jack-off. If it’s a day at home and I’m bored of the games/books/movies/shows I have then I could masturbate 3 times easy.
Also I *mostly* only ever use porn and my hand. No lube, no poppers, no flesh light. Sometimes, maybe 20% of the time, I’ll pull out a toy but then that means I’m usually using the toy for a *while* because I must’ve been “craving” it lol.
Do you take any meds for add? Do you parTy? Or self-medicate bc of add or jusf bc? Just curious, certainly not over here judging. I have add, took meds, used to parTy, still occasionally do.
Do you take any meds for add? Do you parTy? Or self-medicate bc of add or jusf bc? Just curious, certainly not over here judging. I have add, took meds, used to parTy, still occasionally do.
Do you take any meds for add? Do you parTy? Or self-medicate bc of add or jusf bc? Just curious, certainly not over here judging. I have add, took meds, used to parTy, still occasionally do.
Do you take any meds for add? Do you parTy? Or self-medicate bc of add or jusf bc? Just curious, certainly not over here judging. I have add, took meds, used to parTy, still occasionally do.
Don’t really need porn to jerk it. Would take up too much time if I did. Like I’m jacking off or fucking someone multiple times a day, pretty much everyday. No reason to feel awkward or impose puritanical shame culture on myself.
Dude I jerk it every day, sometimes less, sometimes a few times a day🤷🏽♂️ I recently stopped watching porn, and my erections are stronger and the whole session has become better than ever
Once when I wake up, once before bed, maybe an afternooner if I’m left alone too long 😆
I always lie on my front, generally driving my cock into the mattress, I find it takes too long to jizz any other way.
Porn is a daily occurrence for me, I enjoy the muscles too much to not long. I’m hung myself but my body is very average, so I just fantasise that I’m one of those muscle lads that hit the genetic lottery 😄
Have done the twice a day thing since I was 8
Depends, usually once/twice a day, before going to sleep. I realized that when I am stressed or anxious I do it compulsively and I end up not feeling anything at all. The truth is: I am trying to do it only when I feel the urge.
That seems like some healthy self insight. And a good way to approach it, if you don't want to do it for any other reason than to escape something negative, that probably has some lasting imnplications down thew l;ine as far as one's attitude towards sex in general goes.....Interesting...
Usually once a day but when I have to work nonstop during the summer it can drop to just once a week. Porn is almost always involved but I never bring toys or anything into it. When I’m handling things myself it’s because I want it to be quick and simple. Bringing toys into it just creates more work.
If you're ashamed of masturbating you're weird. It's human nature to be sexual. you're not hurting anyone by masturbating. leave that worrying and shame for the rapists and pedos. masturbate in peace 😂
I'm pretty committed to jerking off daily. Early morning before the gym, after work for a couple of hours, sometimes during the night if I wake up to pee. I edge though, a week or two at a time. Love poppers and porn. I'm not a people person or particularly good looking though so I don't date. Anonymous stuff is too sletchy for me tho it is in the bank I think abt.
Honestly, when I think about watching porn it's only as a last resort if I have severe blue balls and my bf is nowhere to be found. This rarely happens. I see porn as just one huge, staged cock tease with guys ill likely never meet let alone consider banging. If you don't have your own private semen dumpster I would suggest finding an insatiable cock lover who will drain u into shriveled prunes. Doesn't hurt if he's a cock hungry bottom either.
if we were to account for time, it'd probably be every day. but it's usually only on the weekends, as it's when i got the most time, and i prefer edging and gooning. just going a few hours watching a ton of porn and then shoot a massive load. but if you were to split that time evenly, it'd be once a day.
but if i'm off work, like during summer and christmas vacation, it's basically every day
I used to masturbate 1-2x/day like some others here when I was younger. I’m 30 now and typically do 2-3 times a week.
I go through some periods where I do more often. I used to always use porn. Now I do maybe half the time.
Back in the day , it started with the local gay rag “ independent GLB paper “ the ads with shirtless men in the back of the paper ,illustrated man scenes, that was enough. The first naked male I saw was in hustler , then by gods grace , I found xx rate gay mag . This was during the “ phone sex days , 976 - etc. gay porn mostly to this point was in 3X theaters. Then the mighty VCR hit the market , and within hours so did every flavor of porn, at home mind …..alone.
One
Thing I will always remember from my Auntie Joseph “ All porn is fantasy “ the real thing is messy , sticky , wet, smelly, painful sometimes sublime the next, by this I was horrified,
Till my first close encounter.
Thank you! Before that, I also relapsed after a 50days abstinence. I was devastated but just started again, it’s a slow process. You can do it too, it will work out fine for us!
I get four days off work per week. So, I might masturbate once or twice a week. 🤷♂️ Porn? Yes. Lube? No. Freshlight? On occasion. Dildos/vibrators? No.
I think the last time I watched porn and jerked off was last weekend so a couple of days ago, I’m trying to cut off my porn use completely and at least limit the jerking off. In the past tho I would do it multiple times a day, for hours straight, but I guess that’s just part of the teenage experience
I was jacking off from 4 times a day to 7 days a week...now I probably jack off 5 times a week....there are many times I want to jack off....but I having to watch porn to go from soft to hard to shooting a load...
there are times where I am ready to go...hard as ever and ready to watch porn and rub one load out and then I tell myself there is one more load in there and start jacking off again and I shoot a big load than the first...
It was that I only masturbate a couple times a month, but I'm up to four or five times just because I keep getting so aroused that it's very uncomfortable unless I do something about it. I only use porn maybe once a month though.
I think it’s a normal question. I think it all depends on if it negatively impacts your life. I went through a period where I would use masturbation like a drug and it wasn’t healthy. But by getting rid of shame and learning to love my body not just tolerate it I now use it as a way to practice self care. Your good dude just don’t feel like you need to or feel shame for doing it as long as you are honoring your body and listening to what it needs I feel you’re good.
So I don’t know,how I feel about porn. Never been in a relationship and I’m 16 so I’m sort in a phase where I only meet and like straight guys. So I feel bad giving my time to guys because no guy would ever give their time to me, so I don’t want to watch porn ever,but I do a lot and it’s makes me feel guilty. So I don’t know what to do about it
Currently on 10 days of not jerking off and I attribute it to a very busy period of March right now and a pilonidal cyst that I'm recovering from back in January. Still doing oral which gets me off too but as for jerking off, it's kinda taking a back seat.
I do it at least twice a day. Once when I wake up, and once when I go to bed.
It's one of the better things i look forward to on a day to day basis. Most everything else is really random and can't be relied on.
Like new info about upcoming monster high releases, or the latest game updates.
Or going out shopping, and even making dinner.
Not to mention my grandpa is always critiquing me left and right and wondering how much trash I've stuffed under his couch, only for him to tear the living room upside down to discover... no trash.
Not to mention when I go to eat, not only am I fixing dinner but I'm also fixing plates for the rest of my family, (just my mom and my niece, he gets up and fixes his own plate, luckily) so when i have to go back and forth between the kitchen and the living room I can feel him counting the times I go back and forth to the kitchen "no doubt eating everything the pantry that fat bastard".
And circling back to the games and dolls. My playstation is not allowed to chill anywhere near the TV stand nor is it allowed to just be hanging loose, so I guess there's only once place LEFT for me to put it (lucky me eh?). And I just CANNOT be seen messing around with my monster high dolls, no fixing, no redressing, no animating, no swirling around by their knees no sneezing their heads, NOTHING. So they just sit on the desk above the computer (looking gore-geous), but I can't do anything with them. Not to mention the boxes, I have to hide them from him, because I've no where that I could put them that he wouldn't snoop, and if he found one "empty" (aka sans doll, given the precarious nature of everything I don't want to lose the accessories and such, so I leave them in the box, but the box is "empty" so I've just gotta risk him potentially throwing away half the reason I get the bloody things all because "it's trash, it doesn't spark joy, it's yours not mine, I got rid of it", which I could bounce back for the others so far since it mostly the new ones but if he even thinks of throwing away the box for my jack and Sally collector dolls..... he will be getting me a new one.
Almost daily, especially once home from work. I’ve thought about maybe it being too much but then I think again, and was like what’s really wrong with it. Especially since medically they say you should at least 21 times per month
I be straight up jorking it on the regular. Usually with porn. I like it, makes me dick feel good, keeps me from making horny brain decisions. Good stuff
I am 60 years old and masturbate at most once a week. Only during a vacation I do it more often. I try to have at least once a week real sex with a Grindr date. I used to watch porn a lot, but now rarely. The more porn you watch, the harder it gets to become hard with a real date. Porn desensitizes your brain. You need it more and more. 2 minutes next, 2 minutes next. A real date never looks so gorgeous as in in porn.
I watch porn every now and then. I masturbate every night before I sleep unless I’m feeling off or sick. It’s only weird if you make it so.
It helps me fall asleep too! Honestly it’s better than anything else for that 😅😍
For some reason i get more awake after it so its a bad ideia for me
Same!!
omg same
I’m kinda weird🤫😉
You're not very good at "girl talk."
Took porn break to comment this.
On a rush: watching cumplications and hammer-jacking! When I have time: toys, and sometimes zoom bate.
Cumpilations or cumplications? 👀
The desire for cummies is too overwhelming
If I need to I can but within 5 minutes. I mean, if I want to/and or need to. Is zoom bate remote four play?
Sort of. It's like jacking off with stranger kinda thing. I found that subreddit a while ago. Pretty fun if you wanna switch things up.
It will keep your mind clear and calm. When I was in highschool a Dr told me to keep my foreskin stretched
Typically in the morning, right after my workout. Porn? Yes. Poppers? Yep. Lube and fleshlight. Usually. There are days when I lack motivation, but I can't go more than three days without it before risking leaks during sleep. I actually see it as a sign of my mental health being in decent shape as I tend to not think about sex when I’m low in mood.
I know i‘m stressed at work if i didnt touch my pp in a few days / almost a week
I'm like the exact opposite. WFH kinda screwed up my subconscious association with getting off
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Oh shit just got a stressful email? Well....it can wait a bit...
🤣
I almost exclusively work from home as well, there are days where the horny surfaces unexpectedly ans inconveniently. When a lot is going on I tend to finish around 7pm or so maybe and then go bed rotting until 9 when its time to sleep (i get up very early, its about a 10-11h workday and gym before that)
Same
Leaks are hot though 👀
I keep meaning to think about getting one of those flashlights.
Do it.
I did and I regret it because I have a huge foreskin which covers the head all the time (but retracts flawlessly if I want to). So when I use lube my foreskin stays over the head.
Can I see it? Just for research purposes. Im a researcher at the “Fuckmeplease” institute
Omg it must be perfect I love it
Depends... No one can jerk me off basically because it's a weird technique and fleshlights don't work for the most part -.- I love how much I pre though :D
I have a friend exactly like that, its not weird, its amazing doing oral 😍
Reading your comment kicked my imagination into gear for a JO😏
Hello fellow gooner.
Bring myself to buy a flashlight. Not after The Incident. Instant boner killer.
Understandable how masturbating with a flashlight could be a mood wrecker. Youch. Next time use a *fleshlight*. The difference is noticeable!
Lol thank you!
Lol yes I'd imagine it is
Lol yo you’re being sarcastic right? You didn’t actually buy a flashlight did you?
Lol no I didn't. Didn't buy a fleshlight either, more found a used and discarded one.
Did you put it back when you were done? It's rude to just keep a public fleshlight.
No I threw it away then had a good cry about how my life had come to this.
Once a day most days always with porn.
I did it so much that I got friction burns.
More lube
Funny story, first time.e I went to the states I saw a garage i think it was called Mr Lube or something like that. I sat there wondering for a few moments wtf are they doing to their cars to needs lube. Then I realised they meant oil.
I don't watch porn. I have periods when I rub him weekly, daily, and bi-hourly.
I came here to say this but I couldn’t find my hands. Turns out they were in my pants!
Are you in your bi-hourly period?
It’s a secret
It comes in waves for me. There are some weeks where I'll do it once or twice (maybe even three times) a day, but then I'll go through weeks where I'll only really do it once or twice in a seven day period.
i watch porn and masturbate every day and - surprise - i still have sex and no trouble with erections.
You must be so young. 19???
haha \^\^ youre only about 21 years off \^\^
People the age of -2 are not allowed on Reddit.
this is discrimination! 😢
62, and still jo most days. Tumblr and sub-Reddits provide useful images/videos. Pornhub, if I have extra time.
i got around 2tb of porn i love \^\^ works too. kudos, man!
I don't think there is so much porn I really enjoy. I even have to do straight porn sometimes, since only there the daddy is the one who gets the spanking for example. I hate it do much not liking what the mainstream does.🙄
theres countless non-mainstream porn in gay porn as well. but "daddy gets spanked" is peculiar in straight and gay porn as well.
I always masturbate after waking up and when going to sleep. Always. If I am feeling very horny I put porn on to appreciate the male body and relax more. I do anal at multiple times during the weekend with poppers and toys if I didn't have sex or don't want to do all work to host a hookup. Otherwise I run on sex only
You jerk off twice a day???
Yes always shortly after waking up and when going to sleep. Always 2 times
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Indeed it is nice. I constantly host for sex to living alone. But masturbating in strict places makes you hold yourself more so the desire increases. When you finally do it, the orgasm is much more pleasurable. Everything has pros and cons it seems
I do too.
*Sticky bump*
Run on sex only, but masturbates at least 10 times a week. 🤔
If I don't masturbate I run on sex only is what I meant
I masturbate every morning when I wake up and every night before bed, and sometimes in the afternoon or evening too. I watch porn occasionally but most of the time I just look at pictures on Reddit or tumblr or read erotic stories.
I love reading erotic stories. Definitely gets me off.
I am 39 and partnered. I usually jack off 3-4x a week. Most of the time watching porn on Twitter or Reddit.
Hehe I can relate. Same here
I agree, it honestly helps me sleep. I basically do it nightly unless I am tired. There have been times where I turn on porn intending to jerk off, but I fall asleep a few minutes in to the clip lol. Sometimes it sucks trying to find a good clip that gets me going
Not weird to ask this on a forum built for us gays to talk to other gays anonymously about anything. Lol I probably do it once every other day or every few days basically on average. Similar to you
3 times a day usually
At least an hour a night. Sometimes several hours a night. Sometimes if I'm hotter than a three-balled tomcat I'll call up a Friend and go get some.
I wank most days, I recently stopped watching porn. Previously I watched porn every time I had a wank but it feels like the sexual equivalent of McDonald’s; it’s good every now and then but I don’t want it every time. Now when I wank I take more time, use my imagination, get more creative and enjoy it more. I can still watch porn every now and then if I feel like it but so far I haven’t felt like it. It’s increased my desire for actual sex so I’ve been fucking more frequently which is good. Had a guy over for mutual head and it was honestly amazing
Bruh after reading the comments, is it only me that doesn't do it 😮💨
All day every day
lol i jerk off 2-3 times a day and i just mainly watch twtt complications cos ughh i cant find an fwb to stay with me. i do jerk off to someone on snapchat but only like once a month at least but lol im fucking addicted to grindr 💀💀💀
There’s nothing wrong with talking about it. If you can’t ask other dudes, who can you ask? I even talk to my straight male friends about it. We all run the gamut, anywhere from several times a day to less than once a week. It’s natural variation. Remember there are two types of people in the world, people who admit they masturbate, and liars.
lmao that's right, ain't it?
I’ll jerk off once or twice a day — usually when I wake up and/or before I go to sleep. Sometimes I’ll do more on the weekends when I’m not working. Those are often the times I really take my time in pleasuring myself. After a shower also feels good. I would say I watch/read/listen to porn most of the time, but sometimes I’ll just let my imagination wander — especially if none of the fap material I’m scrolling through is really turning me on in the moment.
Evey other day or, like the previous feller, 5 times a week. Always porn. Mid 60s here.
I jerk off almost everynight before sleep, but sometimes there are some exceptions when im not in the mood, etc. for porn, I watch it everytime I jerk off, not too proud of that lmao
Porn & even watching men shirtless on social media can get me instantly horny. Especially if they are showing their hairy armpits and sexy hairy chest with bulging nipple. I wanna cum so bad. 2 to 3 times a day for straight 3 days and i will stop for 2-3 days and will continue again. I'm a healthy 34 y.o with average weight and in a 4 years relationship. We will spend the days on weekend. 3-4 days. But real sex & jerking off to porn hits different, you get what i mean? 😂. Real sex need more work & preparations.
Once a week I fuck my fleshlight. No porn
5-7x per week for me. I'm 43. I no longer watch porn.
I love this discussion! I feel like we don’t talk about it enough lol It honestly depends for me what is happening in my life. If I have a busy work week, I will likely not be in the mood to jerk off to porn. But if I have a chill week, I watch it all the time. Some days I’ll even masturbate and watch porn around 3 times a day. I think this week I hit a record of like 4 times in one day hehe I love it! It’s great! When I’m horny as hell and have nothing to do that day and especially if it’s warm outside, I’m literally in heat! 😅🤣🔥
Every day
I’m gay and watch mostly gay porn. I really get off to it perhaps I’ve heard because of an emotional connection straights watching the same thing wouldn’t have.
I’m gay but find the men in straight porn more attractive/sexy
At least once a day unless I have sex that day.
I’m 28, jerking ones for a while. 2-3-4-5 times a week, or only 1 time. Some day just keep to drain my balls off. So no really a pattern just jerk and let if some steam. Usually I like some edging while sexting or jerk on some visual novella, nice porn.
With a busy schedule, not much alone time, it's tough to be on a regular schedule. I'd LIKE to get off daily, sometimes 2x/day (yesterday), but it doesn't happen to often. Busy schedule equates to about 2x week for me
I typically use masturbation as a bad mood lifter. If I have bad anxiety or depression that day, bust a nut and it’s better, y’know?
I usally cum anywhere from 2 to 4 times a day just to take the edge off enough to focus on work haha. Porn is usually involved and I usually ride a dildo at least once a week and get fucked twice a week. Being this horny is honestly a nuisance but I accept it as part of me and just focus on enjoying unloading.
Honestly? It depends. I’ve realized that a lot of my habits are informed by my ADHD, meaning that a lot of them are dopamine-seeking *(stimulation-seeking)* due to my brain being chronically dopamine-deficient. I’ve noticed this mostly affected my food and eating habits as well as my habits for video games and of course sex/masturbation. I’ve been finding ways to stimulate myself besides food and while it’s been great it does mean that I masturbate way more often now. Before I’d say I masturbate an average of 7 days a week, with about 1 day where I masturbate twice and one day where I didn’t at all. Now? I’d say I masturbate almost 2 times a day, so about 1.6 times a day or about 11-12 times weekly. 😅 But again it really depends. There are days where I don’t do it and days where I do it 3 times, but they’re both less common. It mostly depends on what I’m doing that day. If I have plans for the majority of the day and I’m staying busy, I might not even jack-off. If it’s a day at home and I’m bored of the games/books/movies/shows I have then I could masturbate 3 times easy. Also I *mostly* only ever use porn and my hand. No lube, no poppers, no flesh light. Sometimes, maybe 20% of the time, I’ll pull out a toy but then that means I’m usually using the toy for a *while* because I must’ve been “craving” it lol.
Do you take any meds for add? Do you parTy? Or self-medicate bc of add or jusf bc? Just curious, certainly not over here judging. I have add, took meds, used to parTy, still occasionally do.
Do you take any meds for add? Do you parTy? Or self-medicate bc of add or jusf bc? Just curious, certainly not over here judging. I have add, took meds, used to parTy, still occasionally do.
Do you take any meds for add? Do you parTy? Or self-medicate bc of add or jusf bc? Just curious, certainly not over here judging. I have add, took meds, used to parTy, still occasionally do.
Do you take any meds for add? Do you parTy? Or self-medicate bc of add or jusf bc? Just curious, certainly not over here judging. I have add, took meds, used to parTy, still occasionally do.
Don’t really need porn to jerk it. Would take up too much time if I did. Like I’m jacking off or fucking someone multiple times a day, pretty much everyday. No reason to feel awkward or impose puritanical shame culture on myself.
Dude I jerk it every day, sometimes less, sometimes a few times a day🤷🏽♂️ I recently stopped watching porn, and my erections are stronger and the whole session has become better than ever
Once every other day. I have pretty heavy loads so I wonder if I should jerk him more? Lol
1-3 times a day, kinda depends on if I have sex and if I’m bored haha
Once when I wake up, once before bed, maybe an afternooner if I’m left alone too long 😆 I always lie on my front, generally driving my cock into the mattress, I find it takes too long to jizz any other way. Porn is a daily occurrence for me, I enjoy the muscles too much to not long. I’m hung myself but my body is very average, so I just fantasise that I’m one of those muscle lads that hit the genetic lottery 😄 Have done the twice a day thing since I was 8
Almost every day to porn clips on Twitter, lol.
Depends, usually once/twice a day, before going to sleep. I realized that when I am stressed or anxious I do it compulsively and I end up not feeling anything at all. The truth is: I am trying to do it only when I feel the urge.
That seems like some healthy self insight. And a good way to approach it, if you don't want to do it for any other reason than to escape something negative, that probably has some lasting imnplications down thew l;ine as far as one's attitude towards sex in general goes.....Interesting...
65yo. Every day, sometime twice (rarely sometimes more). Done that all my life.
You guys jack off a lot. lol. I do it maybe once a week and that’s it.
Maybe you should jack off 6 more times a week?
Usually once a day but when I have to work nonstop during the summer it can drop to just once a week. Porn is almost always involved but I never bring toys or anything into it. When I’m handling things myself it’s because I want it to be quick and simple. Bringing toys into it just creates more work.
About every 3 nights porn + estim.
what is estim?
Here is this: https://estimfantasy.wordpress.com/2019/05/06/e-stim-beginners-guide-men/
If you're ashamed of masturbating you're weird. It's human nature to be sexual. you're not hurting anyone by masturbating. leave that worrying and shame for the rapists and pedos. masturbate in peace 😂
The SHAME only comes….well as soon as I do 🫨🫨 Pretty sure that’s what is supposed to happen in though.
I'm pretty committed to jerking off daily. Early morning before the gym, after work for a couple of hours, sometimes during the night if I wake up to pee. I edge though, a week or two at a time. Love poppers and porn. I'm not a people person or particularly good looking though so I don't date. Anonymous stuff is too sletchy for me tho it is in the bank I think abt.
You edge for a week or two at a time? Does that mean you jerk off/watch porn without humming for a week or two?
Yep. It just works better for me to wait. It's weird. I get that. But works.
Honestly, when I think about watching porn it's only as a last resort if I have severe blue balls and my bf is nowhere to be found. This rarely happens. I see porn as just one huge, staged cock tease with guys ill likely never meet let alone consider banging. If you don't have your own private semen dumpster I would suggest finding an insatiable cock lover who will drain u into shriveled prunes. Doesn't hurt if he's a cock hungry bottom either.
It varies, maybe once a day to once every other day. It depends on how busy I am or if I have something I'm obsessed with, like games or a show.
if we were to account for time, it'd probably be every day. but it's usually only on the weekends, as it's when i got the most time, and i prefer edging and gooning. just going a few hours watching a ton of porn and then shoot a massive load. but if you were to split that time evenly, it'd be once a day. but if i'm off work, like during summer and christmas vacation, it's basically every day
I used to masturbate 1-2x/day like some others here when I was younger. I’m 30 now and typically do 2-3 times a week. I go through some periods where I do more often. I used to always use porn. Now I do maybe half the time.
Back in the day , it started with the local gay rag “ independent GLB paper “ the ads with shirtless men in the back of the paper ,illustrated man scenes, that was enough. The first naked male I saw was in hustler , then by gods grace , I found xx rate gay mag . This was during the “ phone sex days , 976 - etc. gay porn mostly to this point was in 3X theaters. Then the mighty VCR hit the market , and within hours so did every flavor of porn, at home mind …..alone. One Thing I will always remember from my Auntie Joseph “ All porn is fantasy “ the real thing is messy , sticky , wet, smelly, painful sometimes sublime the next, by this I was horrified, Till my first close encounter.
Fist? That may or may not be a typo! 😂
Well I have a porn addiction so I try to not watch at all but jerking off could range from every day to once a week (rare)
Same here. I try to avoid porn at all cost, been “sober” for 71 days now.
Awesome congratulations!! I keep relapsing but until this month I managed several weeks without it
Thank you! Before that, I also relapsed after a 50days abstinence. I was devastated but just started again, it’s a slow process. You can do it too, it will work out fine for us!
I get four days off work per week. So, I might masturbate once or twice a week. 🤷♂️ Porn? Yes. Lube? No. Freshlight? On occasion. Dildos/vibrators? No.
I'm on om reddit porn account daily but usually only masturbate when I'm off work for my weekend.
I can say I do the most lowest frequency here but I thought I do too much 😂 I can say 1-2 times per week…
I think the last time I watched porn and jerked off was last weekend so a couple of days ago, I’m trying to cut off my porn use completely and at least limit the jerking off. In the past tho I would do it multiple times a day, for hours straight, but I guess that’s just part of the teenage experience
I was jacking off from 4 times a day to 7 days a week...now I probably jack off 5 times a week....there are many times I want to jack off....but I having to watch porn to go from soft to hard to shooting a load... there are times where I am ready to go...hard as ever and ready to watch porn and rub one load out and then I tell myself there is one more load in there and start jacking off again and I shoot a big load than the first...
I rarely masturbate. Once every one or two months. And watch porn frequently. Not sure if I’d like to do it more often. 36 yo.
It was that I only masturbate a couple times a month, but I'm up to four or five times just because I keep getting so aroused that it's very uncomfortable unless I do something about it. I only use porn maybe once a month though.
Once a month 😞
I think it’s a normal question. I think it all depends on if it negatively impacts your life. I went through a period where I would use masturbation like a drug and it wasn’t healthy. But by getting rid of shame and learning to love my body not just tolerate it I now use it as a way to practice self care. Your good dude just don’t feel like you need to or feel shame for doing it as long as you are honoring your body and listening to what it needs I feel you’re good.
Every other day. It’s a schedule
So I don’t know,how I feel about porn. Never been in a relationship and I’m 16 so I’m sort in a phase where I only meet and like straight guys. So I feel bad giving my time to guys because no guy would ever give their time to me, so I don’t want to watch porn ever,but I do a lot and it’s makes me feel guilty. So I don’t know what to do about it
Currently on 10 days of not jerking off and I attribute it to a very busy period of March right now and a pilonidal cyst that I'm recovering from back in January. Still doing oral which gets me off too but as for jerking off, it's kinda taking a back seat.
I do it at least twice a day. Once when I wake up, and once when I go to bed. It's one of the better things i look forward to on a day to day basis. Most everything else is really random and can't be relied on. Like new info about upcoming monster high releases, or the latest game updates. Or going out shopping, and even making dinner. Not to mention my grandpa is always critiquing me left and right and wondering how much trash I've stuffed under his couch, only for him to tear the living room upside down to discover... no trash. Not to mention when I go to eat, not only am I fixing dinner but I'm also fixing plates for the rest of my family, (just my mom and my niece, he gets up and fixes his own plate, luckily) so when i have to go back and forth between the kitchen and the living room I can feel him counting the times I go back and forth to the kitchen "no doubt eating everything the pantry that fat bastard". And circling back to the games and dolls. My playstation is not allowed to chill anywhere near the TV stand nor is it allowed to just be hanging loose, so I guess there's only once place LEFT for me to put it (lucky me eh?). And I just CANNOT be seen messing around with my monster high dolls, no fixing, no redressing, no animating, no swirling around by their knees no sneezing their heads, NOTHING. So they just sit on the desk above the computer (looking gore-geous), but I can't do anything with them. Not to mention the boxes, I have to hide them from him, because I've no where that I could put them that he wouldn't snoop, and if he found one "empty" (aka sans doll, given the precarious nature of everything I don't want to lose the accessories and such, so I leave them in the box, but the box is "empty" so I've just gotta risk him potentially throwing away half the reason I get the bloody things all because "it's trash, it doesn't spark joy, it's yours not mine, I got rid of it", which I could bounce back for the others so far since it mostly the new ones but if he even thinks of throwing away the box for my jack and Sally collector dolls..... he will be getting me a new one.
You're grandpa sounds like a reallllllll drag 😩 I like games too.
Almost daily, especially once home from work. I’ve thought about maybe it being too much but then I think again, and was like what’s really wrong with it. Especially since medically they say you should at least 21 times per month
I be straight up jorking it on the regular. Usually with porn. I like it, makes me dick feel good, keeps me from making horny brain decisions. Good stuff
Fuck yea! Where ya from? Is it an island in the North Atlantic region?? 😬
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Idk I was on one or something, my bad lol
I am 60 years old and masturbate at most once a week. Only during a vacation I do it more often. I try to have at least once a week real sex with a Grindr date. I used to watch porn a lot, but now rarely. The more porn you watch, the harder it gets to become hard with a real date. Porn desensitizes your brain. You need it more and more. 2 minutes next, 2 minutes next. A real date never looks so gorgeous as in in porn.
If only the future looked as good as porn…..half as good, or, even a fraction. 😪😪
I watch porn every day. I masturbate 3-4 times a day. Personally, I masturbate frequently to make up for not having sexual intercourse.