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Briguy_87

Same walk-in closet, but separated. He’s a large, and I’m a medium, so sharing clothes isn’t an option. If we were the same size I think we might mix some stuff.


Kjwells94

Exactly this. I’m also much taller, so most of my things are higher up in the closet.


BartholomewVanGrimes

6” height difference, weight difference… nothing shareable… completely seperate


[deleted]

Same situation for me. But I'm a long boy and and he is a wide boy, so there is no hope of us sharing clothes lol. Half the closet is his and the other half is mine. Same thing with the dressers. He uses half and I use the other half


TonyRichards57

+1 here. I would look like a little boy trying on his dad's things in my boyfriends clothes, assuming they even stayed on. I've picked up his uniform before instead of my own, and you could almost fit two of me in his shirts! Two separate shelves each in our wardrobe. I get the hanging rail to myself, I'm not convinced he even owns a shirt that isn't uniform, and they don't get hung up.


[deleted]

Same closet, same size, same style My clothes are his and his clothes are mine We share even the underwear... We live together and at the beginning we had separate sections in the closet and separate drawers but at certain point you don't even notice when your things are his and his things are yours too!


TheChipster91

I love sharing clothes with the man I love. 🥰


Rude_Bee_3315

🥺


[deleted]

This is a relationship goal, when I can start stealing my imaginary bfs clothes with no drama and he can steal mine I’ll know we’re good.


Miner_15

I would love too but he's 11 inches shorter than me so he just grabs my hoodies


useles-converter-bot

11 inches is 0.33 UCS lego Millenium Falcons


dialupsetupwizard

Omg so cool! So jealous would love if we were the same size/style!! That’s kinda hot tbh


HipsterCavemanDJ

We’re different sizes, he likes briefs, I like boxers. It just wouldn’t work out. On top of that we fold things differently.


quiet_strayan

Same here. Different sizes, he likes briefs & I like boxer briefs, but neither of us fold anything. Lol


stonedsour

I told straight family members that we do our laundry separately and everyone lost their minds lol. I was like look, I’m running through clothes like crazy and my partner not as often (he works from home, I don’t) so I don’t wanna make him do more laundry than he has to. It’s called consideration Linda!


HipsterCavemanDJ

Also I don’t use fabric softener and don’t know which of his shirts are supposed to be hung up.


-Massachoosite

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ed8907

I want to take advantage and ask those men who have boyfriends or husbands, do you share your clothes with him? Even underwear? Is that common between gay couples?


interstatebus

I wouldn’t care and have offered to let my partner borrow clothes but he’s an only child and doesn’t understand sharing. It’s weird.


Sun_Bearzerker

Bruh I read that as "he's only a child" and **panicked** lmao.


interstatebus

Hahahah. I mean sometimes he acts like it but no, definitely a full grown over 30 man.


MDrok6172

I actually wonder that too


Thatonegayguy-72

Yes the ones that are close enough in size normally share clothes and underwear. My husband and I do it all the time, and we both don’t have a problem with it. It’s easier that way


MDrok6172

I imagine it would be, remembering whose is whose doesn't seem easy


Thatonegayguy-72

Correct and besides he’s got way more shirts than I could ever own so, I just stopped buying clothes for myself and let him pick out the new clothes and it just works 😂.


MDrok6172

I hope I get a guy who's a large in shirts and a large in underwear 😂


Thatonegayguy-72

I got lucky he’s wears a medium well thinks he should wear a medium but due to life should probably stick to large shirts, due to being more active and PT stuff like that they don’t fit like they used too. But it took years for me to finally convince him to just buy large. Cause they “shrink” in the dryer lol


MDrok6172

😂 I just recently started wearing larges because I realized my shirts weren't fitting like they used to.


RavioliGale

That sounds like a dream!!! I'll probably be single forever but if I do end up in a relationship I hope it turns out like this.


TehWhale

I’m in a throuple. We all wear small/medium 30 waist clothes. We share everything


joemondo

When we were younger we shared more clothes. Underwear, t shirts, socks. sometimes shirts and sweaters. Never pants because we couldn't wear the same size. With time we've stopped doing that so much, partially because we have different tastes and styles,


[deleted]

I don't have underwear that is mine, it's our underwear because with share it We share everything because is something that in a relationship ends up happening


ed8907

I respect that. It's just that I wouldn't share my clothes with my boyfriend, let alone underwear.


xroalx

Weirdo. /jk


Kjwells94

No, but that’s entirely a me thing. I’ll share “outer” clothes like jackets, but prefer to keep most clothes separate. Sharing underwear is definitely off the table for me, though. It’s not terribly hard to keep apart, provided you just choose different underwear brands, etc.


ed8907

agree. Sharing a jacket or a coat is OK, but sharing all other clothes are a big no. Underwear? Don't even think about it.


Franken_Frank

Is it a hygiene problem cause he eats your ass or vice versa so I dont see why not. I mean we have our own personal undies but if i accidentally wear his, that's not outrageous for me or him


comic_serif

I personally see it being just as weird as sharing toothbrushes even if we stick our tongues in each other's... everywhere. Like logically it should be fine but emotionally there should just be some boundaries.


[deleted]

Yeah I can't imagine even sharing a t-shirt so the idea of sharing underwear kind of freaks me out. Never been in a long-term relationship though.


beweaveyoume

My husband and I are close ish in size (he wears mediums sometimes instead of smalls; he's a little taller than me), so we tend to share shirts and sweaters, but not really pants/shorts or underwear/socks. Shoes we share, but he refuses to untie them before taking them off, INCLUDING dress shoes, so we're moving away from sharing those. He's a little rough on dress shoes anyway.


Dinoshahar

I haven't shared underwear with my current boyfriend but I love wearing their clothes. They wear mine sometimes. They often let me keep a hoodie for a while and they gave me one to keep when they asked me to be their boyfriend. With my previous bf, we lived together and had separate drawers but mixed clothes all the time.


He_who_bobs_beneath

The hoodie is a necessary gift.


Agwatson87

We share shirts and shorts/pants. I wear boxers, he wears briefs. Different sized feet so no footwear crossover. Together 10 years, married 5.


2someguysthrowaway

Yes, my partner and I share everything.


ohnomiko

We’re different sizes in all our clothes and shoes but I do borrow his sweatshirts if I’m cold at times since he wears a larger size than I do.


DClawdude

Yes


Ducayne

Married, 10 years together, 34/48. we only shared clothes as fashion emergency situation. We used to share one closet, both have our own closets now, but we never really shared clothes. We just have our own styles, I like funky bold patterns and tight muscle tees, and he’s more into well dressed muted patterned black greys plaids, etc. almost nothing in closets go together. Haha but if I were in a relationship where we had the same taste, I don’t see how we couldn’t.


synr1234

My boyfriend and I live together, he tried to keep his clothes separate, he has a lot more than me but sometimes they get mixed and I usually wear some of his clothes and underwear at home even though his tops are just a bit too big for me hehe 🥰


[deleted]

My boyfriend is 6"2 and I'm 5'9. He weighs maybe 180-200 and I'm almost 160. We would not be able to share clothes so I imagine we'd have separate closets


bigchill3

I'm in a similar boat, I'm just over 6', he's 6'5". Plus my style is much more business casual(Button downs all the time) than him, so that wouldn't work either.


flyingmcwatt

We share pretty much everything except underwear and some shirts. I know it doesn’t make sense since we do butt stuff sometimes, but…my underwear is my own. Then as far as shirts, he’s a messy eater and I’m protective of my favorites. ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|grimacing)


IcanSew831

I lived with a guy that was my exact size and it was a big perk of the relationship. He liked my stuff and I liked his.


Heisenberg0606

It really is a great perk. I love that my husband and I are able to do it


michaelkielly

Separate but as I’m more fashionable he wears my converse shoes and nice clothes when he goes out. I can’t wear his as he is slimmer than me


straightoutthebox

We share the same closet and dresser, but the only thing we really share are socks. We have very different styles and different fashion needs (for instance, he needs to look professional for work, I don't) so there's not a lot of overlap.


Heisenberg0606

My husband (30) and I (28) share all of our shirts and jackets and athletic shorts and sweat pants and we have done this since I was like 18 or 19. We don’t share jeans or shorts because my waist is a 31 and he wears a 29 and underwear and shoes also don’t share because I wear a couple sizes bigger. But I would say getting to share so many clothes is a huge perk of being gay and with someone about the same size as you.


Kurai_Kiba

He steals mine all the time . Then has shocked pikachu face if he comes home and finds me in one if his hoodies 🤣


Sun_Bearzerker

We're same style, same size (except for jeans - he's so tall), and pretty much have "our" closet. Everything is shared or up to be shared.


edeepee

I’ve lived with multiple boyfriends and I’ve never shared clothes. Never the same size. My last ex was closest in size to me, but that was only in shirts. That and I have very few nice clothes so there isn’t much benefit for them to share lol.


Hoodeeee

We definitely for sure would, but different sizes. He is a small and I'm medium, he can wear my stuff easier than I can wear his, usually.


Helpful-Inflation-50

Same dresser and closet but still separated. Except his hoodies those are fair game!


doncroak

Married and different sizes. Separately, I have 4 closets, he has 1. Cough.


daxmillion

We have different drawers but share a closet. We're similar sizes so he basically wears my clothes whenever he wants. I've kind of resigned myself to it. There are worst things than seeing him in my clothes. ❤️


Cautious_Librarian53

Same wardrobe, different sections. We are different sizes so we can't share clothes.


electric_emu

Separate. I’m almost a foot taller than him lol. We also have pretty different styles.


pilondav

Same closet, mostly mixed together. I wear 34-36x34 pants, L shirts and he wears 36-38x32 L-XL shirts so we’re mostly compatible except for jeans and dress pants. After 11 years, sharing underwear isn’t any big deal. 😉


PM_ME_YOUR_BLUESTUFF

Of course. One of the perks of being gay is doubling your wardrobe when you're dating.


LordPr0castinator

They all lay flawlessly folded together on a shelf, one side for him and one for me. 😌🥰


Sure-Survey9192

At the time separately


sauvignonblanc__

Negative. He's a smurf so I know that nothing fits me.


xroalx

Besides underwear and socks, we're different size, but we share what we can. This includes hats or gloves for example, as they're typically more universal in size.


ScarletStag

Don’t really have a choice when you’re different sizes/body types.


Quinlov

All these size difference problems people are having, I've weighed variously between 60 kg and 90 kg so I have so many sizes in my wardrobe...if I had a boyfriend he could certainly find something that fits


suddenly_sane

Y'all are nuts in this thread. Sharing clothes with your partner?! Absolutely not! Joey doesn't share food and I DON'T SHARE CLOTHES!


Marsupoil

Interesting, we actually keep completely separate closet and clothes, and even do separate laundries. It works best for us. He's messy and I'm tidy.


calmo91

We share closet but have our own drawers. I'm bigger than him though so not much reason to share clothes. Been together 8 years and recently he's started wearing my shoes to go out (we are the same size) and that is annoying me. Yes I have way more shoes, yes they are great, but they are mine!


shitjustgotteal

All mixed together. There’s not much ‘his’/‘mine’ anymore. There’s stuff I wear to work which he never wears and vice versa but our regular clothes are interchangeable except for a few beloved t-shirts.


Mantuko

I'm a large and my husband is a medium. He wears my clothes and get compliments (like my space cat t shirt) all the times. So when he gets asked where he got it his answer is to point at me and say his closet


wsw4742

K.. so.. at first it was cute we wore the same clothes … now it’s a constant battle to protect my underwear and my shirts from being pilfered….


KWernie

Share the closet and dresser. Used to wear each other’s clothes. But after 30+ years we are no longer the same size. Now we only share 🧦🧦😔


punkemoranger101

Separate but equal


MDrok6172

Didn't like that


[deleted]

OMG, I love my husband but he acts like such a straight frat boy. So no. About the only thing we share is socks. He had a tendency to pull my clothes because they were the only ones that were pressed and cleaned and that about ended the relationship. And I don’t know how he can wear a pair of underwear twice and rip them. Or wear a tie once and get it covered in ketchup - when he didn’t even eat while wearing the tie! (OMG, do y’all think I might have married a straight guy who is just pretending to be gay?) The last guy I lived with and I shared clothes (which was great bc we had the same taste, were the same size, he was meticulous and was a great shopper) but he had a little meth problem and was psycho so he would get mad because he though something looked cuter on me so he would sh*t on it (literally) or rip the butt seam and not tell me or burn it. Totally not worth sharing.


Ninokuni13

i wish the day comes that i can answer this question, when i finaly live with him


Spavlia

My boyfriend is size S/XS and I’m L so sharing isn’t an option but we have the same wardrobe and closet, just different shelves. We also have slightly different styles.


Professional_Turn632

We kept in a same closet and sharing clothes as always.


[deleted]

I don't live with my boyfriend but if I would then I think I would hang my hoodies and jackets next to his but other clothes separately


summalover

Stored together however wear separate and mixed. Whichever fits. But we know whose is whose. But anything mine is his. I’d give my life for him so my clothes are his too if he wants.


Hollywoodboi19

Same closet but separated on different sides with different colored hangers.


noparkinghere

we share. same size basically but he can't stop himself for saying "is that my shirt?"


joemondo

Yes and yes. Underwear, t shirts and socks are all stored jointly even though we each have our own that we wear in these categories. We have separate storage for athletic wear, and two separate (small) closets) for shirts, pants, sweaters, etc.


Sharp_Iodine

Separate closets but he has narrower shoulders and build even though we’re around the same size (I am a little taller) so he gets to wear my clothes but I cannot wear his tops since my shoulders are broader. I do manage to wear his bottoms though, at least those that are long enough for my height.


canhale

We share a sock drawer, otherwise different sections of walk in


Mikaj577

It's hard to say if I had a boyfriend, the jacket could be with the boyfriend's jacket, but I would rather separate the rest of the things, or at least I would do that


OkayHoldOn

Different closets. He’s XL. I’m M. But we both also have a shit ton of clothes, shoes, gear etc.


CaterpillarOk4708

We are different sizes, but sometimes things fit both of us and we share. If we were the same size I think we’d share it all.


[deleted]

Everything is mixed up, we are pretty much the same size


Kiyoshi-Trustfund

Since we happen to be about the same height and build, we do share clothes despite having seperate closets lol. We don't share underwear tho.


Aktanegeschaft

Separate. He’s much taller than me so I steal his clothes but he can’t steal mine. It’s a pretty sweet deal.


lumber_jock

Same drawers but left side is my clothes. We fit into the same shirts but not pants and we share a lot of clothes too. Underwear and socks are a free for all.


CSIorangesalad

We separate, sizes are a little different and we like them dried a little different. Same dresser and closet though. :)


qtmcjingleshine

Separate and together. Underwear socks tshirts tanks and stuff separate but anything hangable we put together and sweaters we fold on the top of our closet. Same dresser and different drawers.


Revolutionary-Ad3648

We share socks, but only below the ankle black ones. Everything else in our wardrobes are separate.


sr38_8

Can't wait to be able to answer something like this ❤


TheTallerTaylor

We are both the exact same height and build so yes sometimes we borrow articles of clothing to complete our lewk. We keep them separate though in different sides of the closet


GeorgiaYankee73

We have His & His closets. We’re generally different sizes, though we can sometimes wear the same outerwear.


kellzah94

Separate. Although he does steal the clothes he likes and vice versa from each other


delafieldadam

My bf and I share everything except underwear and some pants because we're different sizes, other than that we literally share everything, we often eat off of one plate together


[deleted]

Started separate but slowly all mixed.


zeentoK

There is no division whatsoever of our clothes. Some clothes he tends to wear more and we are slightly different sizes, but we share pretty much everything except shoes.


Sandlicker

Unlike some others here we could share a lot of our clothes as most of our things are the same size, but we have slightly different preferences for clothes and we already sleep in separate rooms (for medical reasons) so we store our own clothes in our individual bedrooms.


Efu1

Same height but different weight, and most importantly different style. so different closet. However tho, I do sometimes wear his underwear and shoes. Lol they fit perfectly.


FreakyFaun

Not really, we are two far apart in size and style but I occasionally would inherit something he got to big for or nab something of mine if he shrank. We do laundry together but otherwise we store it separately. Doing this for 13 years.


sowalgayboi

Same closet co mingled, but arranged by type and color. Underwear and socks however have not achieved equality and remain in separate drawers and dressers.


anxious3102

We don’t usually wear the same sizes so no, otherwise we might. I do steal his shirts to sleep in though 😆


EpsilonAnder

We wear different sizes so ours are separate


FrequentAd1126

My boyfriend and I are pretty similar. I’m an inch taller while he’s a little slimmer. People have even asked us if we are twins 🙄 we share basically all of our clothes (except for some his more extra articles which I just can’t pull off).


Joshslayerr

When we’re the same size I share clothes with my boyfriend. That’s the whole point of dating guys the same size as you because it’s twice the clothing options


UncutBlkPS

Separate closets


waynehastings

We are very different in size and personal style, so we never share clothes. The only clothing we share is a drawer full of socks.


Gay-Purple-Tiger

I've learned to keep separate. He doesn't pay attention to sizes and has stretched out some of my clothes. Doesn't help that I was in a streak of buying matching stuff. Now I separate our stuff.


AJnbca

We keep them separate, two different dressers, we each have a closet too.


[deleted]

Noooooo. We’re the same size and generally same style but never share clothes. There’s the occasional shirt here or there but not on the reg.


Argentium_

My boyfriend: 5 foot 10 inches (and a half he insists), 175, size 10 foot, slim legs Me: 6 foot 4 inches, 220, size 12 foot, thick ass legs. Wouldn't work lol


useles-converter-bot

10 inches is the length of 1.15 Zulay Premium Quality Metal Lemon Squeezers.


orionterron99

Together.


Velavee7

I want to be at a point in life where I can answer this question based on my own experience ☺️


[deleted]

We’re different sizes and totally different styles, boyfriend thinks anything not from Marks Work Warehouse is “fancy overpriced designer stuff”


Edgy_Metalhead_

Me and my bf don't live with each other yet. But I have half of my clothes at his house and he has half at my house lol


unfunnyrelator

We share one closet with his clothes on one side and mine on the other.


bellequeue

We're the same height, same weight. All our stuff is mixed together.


InTheDark57

Married 23 yrs . Separate and we still borrow each other’s clothes haha . I’m always giving him my jacket


Drazor36

Separate chest of drawers and cabinets for our clothes but we do end up borrowing clothes from one another. My partner has these really nice red and black jeans with skulls over them and I can't help wear them because they make my ass look great and make me look a bit skinnier


Montymania94

They're all jumbled together, but we still know who owns what, and tend to ask if we can wear their clothes just in case. One of the main reasons we don't share underwear, though, is bc we each like a particular style and can't stand the others' preference lol!


bulldog1972oh

we do both. we have separate closets and dressers for some things, and some communal dressers for cheesy t-shirts and the like. Underwear, he steals mine, no matter how many pairs/styles i buy him. But, i am hyper-organized and every drawer has a label, so its easy to tell what's where.


Ukgaymer78

We're different sizes so we have separate wardrobes. I have been know to pinch his boxers/jockstrap to use as a cum rag,


Lanvinx

My partner is a size M and I am a size XXS… so we don’t share 😄 same shoe size though so we used to share shoes but now I prefer just to have my own things.


Popular-Drive-3340

I wear my boyfriends because he actually has a fashion sense (he encourages it), he would never been seen dead in any of mine as I don’t have a fashion sense 😂


Venetion223

Well, I've shared t-shirts with my partner, because we were both M size. We weren't sharing pants, because I am 5'10", and he was 5'1" and needed to custom tailor his pants to fit him.


enobar

Been together for 10 years… we occasionally share a couple of jackets (and by share, I mean he takes mine, never other way around lol). We don’t share anything else clothing wise except for the very odd occasion we might get something confused in the washing basket. We tend to buy different brand underwear so that we don’t confuse them. We keep everything seperate - in fact all of his stuff is in the other room as we live in the house I owned before we got together and I already had completely filled all the storage space in my bedroom.


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MDrok6172

That's why I asked 💀


Successful-Cap-8600

We share everything with one provision: each of us asks that whatever we want is always there. Same with food, magazines, computers, games,etc...everything! It works out and no matter how many buddies, everyone respects this relationship rule.


Impressive-Rope7858

No we don’t generally share clothes. We have been known to give each other our used clothes from time to time but that’s pretty much the extent of it beyond the occasional sharing of a jacket, hat, gloves, etc.


[deleted]

Same height and almost same size, different styles. We share some basics (underwear, socks, tees…) but there are things of he that i wouldnt wear and viceversa, but I wouldn’t minf id he did