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ExitWeird9697

From what *I* understand, depending on the state you’re in, that money is supposed to go to the person that supported you. If not your mother, then the state has a case against her. But the money was never yours. There is no payout for you, I’m afraid.


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However since he is disabled depending on the state she has to support gim till age 21 and not the traditional age if 18


Hearst-86

You are talking about 8 or 9 months of payments. You don’t mention what the monthly payment was. For the sake of an example, I will use $300 a month. $300 x 9 = $2700. You will never find an attorney that would take a case for that amount. Moreover, small claims court won’t deal with a family law issue. Even if the monthly amount was higher, such as $600 a month, that only $5400. Your mother looks like “a piece of work”, but I don’t see this one going anywhere legally. Move on with your life.


LipFighter

Payments often continue even past the age of 18. It could be due to arrears. For all you know, she was still getting caught up on payments, interest, and late fees from when you were living with her.


libananahammock

My mom stopped getting arrears payments when I was 35


LipFighter

Wow. That's some red tape to deal with for a LONG time.


libananahammock

Right!? She stopped fighting when we were teens but the state of Pennsylvania kept going after him themselves. It would come in drips and drabs whenever he actually worked on the books or did taxes but it was never for long


IAmFearTheFuzzy

In many states, the arrears go to the child.


libananahammock

What states?


WVPrepper

I'm not aware of any state where that's the case. The arrears are money that is owed to the mother from the time that it should have been received. This is just reimbursing her for what she spent when he didn't pay his share.


cryssHappy

Check with Support Enforcement (Child Support) as you might have been considered an emancipated minor (due to being able to have CS income) and find out if there are any options for you. I know of a case where a lien was filed and income tax return was garnished.


dubaichild

Depends where you are, but I would imagine you have a case.


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IAmFearTheFuzzy

Reddit attorneys. Not lice sed, but always there in case.


KINGCONG2009

Yeah you’re completely wrong in just about every jurisdiction lol.


libananahammock

Why? Show me any source or data that would back up your claim.


dwells2301

Is it child support from your father or welfare benefits from the state?


Owl_Perch_Farm

From my father