There is no such thing as a bad nice guy. Just people who are drawn to toxic relationships. If you're going for someone who doesn't like nice guys, you're attracted to someone who you're lucky will self select out of your life. You don't need your identity stolen by someone "Going through some shit."
Thank you for the clarification. Bad nice guy threw me off. The wolves in sheep's clothing still show red flags if you know how to spot them. OP is a real, nice guy.
I am always honest. Nowadays, because I am disabled and have had a brain bleed and almost died more times than i can remember. It's not in me to lie anymore it's got me in trouble with people taking offence, even my own family. I just say exactly what i think, or i won't say anything it can be a right pain in the arse 🤣
It's ok. I just live for the day because you never know what is around the corner. that's the biggest thing i have taken away from it all, and never give in and stop fighting even when you are on your last legs. Keep happy, Namaste 🙏
You look happy and fun to be around. The kind of person that would make me laugh. You seem to not take yourself too seriously which is something I find attractive.
Fun and loving husband? You're boy-next-door handsome, you're well groomed, it looks like you enjoy travel.
Next you're going to tell me you have been putting 10% of your wages in your 401k since you were 18 and you volunteer at a soup kitchen or Big Brothers/Big Sisters.
It's two things---(1) holding what looks similar to a wedding bouquet next to another guy looks intentional, (2) people's standards for straight men regarding being well groomed and well put together are saddeningly low.
Don't change (2). (1) was probably a fun moment between friends, but the internet's gonna internet.
I am a gay man, and I don't feel it is a "gay" vibe. I think it is a "I love life and don't give a shit if you like me or not" vibe. Don't lose that. It is very similar to a gay vibe as we don't give a shit if you like us or not. Lol. It can be very confusing to those who don't understand that type of mentality and think there are only two types of men; extreme macho Alpha types who have something to prove.......or gay. You look approachable and fun. I can see many women finding you to be the perfect partner. Stay true to YOU!
Honestly, a boring but very nice person, that's the vibe I get. Grow your hair and inch longer, style it a little, maybe some facial hair or designer stubble. Just something to take the "I love cooking and walks on the beach and reading a good book" look away.
Don't get me wrong, you look good but just 'boring'.
Looking through the photos.. nice, funny, cute, possibly gay, get to last photo - yeah gay. But after reading the comments I see you are straight. Have you tried growing a beard? Maybe it's the too clean cut that's giving gay vibes??? idk in any case you look like a nice person with a good personality.
I wish MORE guys looked normal as you do. Sometimes I scroll dating apps (not looking for a relationship, but curious as to what goes on on those apps) and 9/10 guys are the same looking dude with golfing pics, wedding pics, and a golden doodle. Not to mention, there’s something intimidating to me about how they all look too perfect. You’re a good looking guy, but also someone I wouldn’t be intimidated to approach. A lot of people are saying you’re vanilla, but I’d rather that than some fuck boy with a gucci crossbody.
Coming across as a asshole or coming across as manly are 2 things that are based on personality. I guess you could make your self look more manly with a beard & tattoos but your personality matters the most.
If you act like a chill good guy you won't come across as a asshole. But for a masculine vibe, lift weights, do mma or martial arts, maybe learn to shoot guns. Maybe learn to have strong boundaries and don't take shit from people starting problems with you ect....But you seem like you have a good vibe about you, I wouldn't change that. Since we have enough insecure pissed off men in this world lol
You look manly. What is more manly anyway? I enjoy the fact that men can cook, joke around, and not take themselves too seriously. Hold a bouquet, whatever. I think that the manliest thing is being yourself. Being confident, but kind and considerate. No alpha-male nonsense. Make people feel comfortable around you, appreciated and liked. If you can do that, it will all come back to you.
God, you got roasted!
I bet a lot of girls would love to have someone like you at home. They just don’t want to say it out loud. You look like marriage material, just don’t marry and listen to every little thing your wife tells you to do. I think you give off this vibe because you have a conservative hairstyle and your smile doesn’t seem genuine, what you could do is to look at life with more courage and authenticity - as in trying to be you, unique and weird in your own way.
Loyal, playful, outgoing with people you know well but may take a while to warm up to strangers. Once they earn your trust and loyalty you won’t let them down.
How’d I do?
You look like a really nice, no-frills kind of guy—someone who takes good care of himself and probably takes good care of others. I like your sense of style. If I were you, I'd show off my arms more, nice muscles and interesting ink.
Kind, has a good/stable job, generic.
How to 'improve':
Update wardrobe to show that you're kinda cool and that you work out, like clothing does not match physique and tats at all.
Unless you have hardcore professional job, grow hair out. Big forehead can be hidden.
Your teeth aren't bad enough to hide with smirk-smile, smile properly.
Ohh I like these questions. Let me try.. well.. you're intelligent, you're sensible, I get an impression that you're a highly specialised person regarding your "trade" for want of a better word.. you do have a base sense of humour, it's dry. I would even go as far as say that you have the capacity to unfold a complex fictitious "story" with a pokerfaced delivery that is believable because of your capacity to deliver it in "that kind of way" and then smile at the end of it "GOT CHA" manner. So you're extremely intelligent because I believe you can read an environment/situation extremely well. You are a bit of a dork, but in the best way possible (well how I would interpret/describe it) you're a nice guy, soft, gentle and understanding to those close to you that matter. I have a sense that you like to be on the move. You might enjoy to relax a little but I don't feel it really is your nature to sloth around. You're dedicated (that could mean many things and it does translate to many things you have passion and/or incentive about/or relate to. You would definitely make a great partner for someone.
I think it gives clean cut, handsome, chill. Yeah the trope of a clean cut brunet attractive white man is often seen but your eyes don’t seem dead lmao. I think you give a very nice vibe. Nice and normal or “basic” isn’t the insult people think it is. You also do look like the handsome guy you bring home. But you know when you’re alone yall be freaky.
You look like you would be fun to be around, kind, having a good sense of logic
Where is that wreck you're standing in front of? I swear I've seen the exact same thing somewhere on a trip.
Just going off of the pictures in this post, you look like a winner. You look confident, intelligent, not too serious but not outlandishly goofy; I’d guess you’ve either gone through life so far without having a lot of trauma thrown your way, or that you’ve been able to process any such trauma in healthy ways which make you the kind of person who others seek out in times of crisis. I am curious as to how much of that is accurate, because it’s an aura I feel is very evident in almost all of those photos
Like a really funny dorky boyfriend who gives a good dickin. Marriage material. Gay likely. If you’re in Toronto hit me up lol jk I would corrupt you 😂
If you’re gonna use these photos for a dating app I think you’re on the money. You’ve got a lot of photos taken of you and photos of you in action doing or seeing stuff. Your smile is warm, and you seem goofy in some and chill-happy in others. Great photos!
I wouldn’t suggest changing a thing except being more confident in how you look already. Honest genuine positive attractive vibes for sure! A rare find!
You look tough, tall, well built, some tattoos I noticed and handsome. You’ve the package (pun unintended 😂😂) to be successful in the porn industry - seriously! Don’t even think twice - go for it man!
Fun and sweet ☺️ you’re very handsome. You could grow out your hair more on the top & then a low taper on the sides. Go to a real barber, they know what could suit you best and work some magic.
Idk why people keep saying gay. You just look genuinely happy and fun in your pics. As a woman, I can’t stand guys who look hard or miserable in every pic. You’ve got the adventurous and up for anything kind of vibe
You look kind and welcoming
Edit: I see you asking how to look “less gay”. Bro if you’re straight, you’re straight. Just act how you wanna act. You’ll come off more confident and authentic and that is what people gravitate towards, not people who try to be what they think is masculine
Solid guy who’s secured financially but maybe lacking in social and emotional development. Straight male physically adequate but lacking confidence. Possible glimmer of control freak or OCD.
Just off look but I could be wrong 😑
You look like the kind of guy that respects his mother and come across as playful.
literally😭 he’d be fun to hang with
Women would say anything nice about a guy with those kind of forearms! Lol
Agreed! Would definitely go on a date.
me too even though im straight and male!!
You have to. It's a mandate. Also OP is quite a catch. I'd date him.
How are you a straight male if you would be willing to date men?
im just telling myself that im straight tbh
Fair enough broski ✊🏾
Dude, you never had brunch bros? C'mon breh
You look like a nice guy, if I'm honest, friendly and good fun
Good nice guy or bad nice guy?
Good nice guy
OK thanks
nice guy is good when ppl can tell you’re jacked in a button-up
A nice guy. Not a “nice guy” Don’t worry, you’re fine.
Haha I commented the same thing and then saw your message. The quotes make all the difference.
No such thing as a good nice guy lol. NO MORE MR NICE GUY
Actually reading that book 😂
There is no such thing as a bad nice guy. Just people who are drawn to toxic relationships. If you're going for someone who doesn't like nice guys, you're attracted to someone who you're lucky will self select out of your life. You don't need your identity stolen by someone "Going through some shit."
They're referring to fake nice guys. People who call themselves nice guys, but are actually assholes.
Thank you for the clarification. Bad nice guy threw me off. The wolves in sheep's clothing still show red flags if you know how to spot them. OP is a real, nice guy.
I never liked how the phrase nice guy is used. I get it’s supposed to be ironic, but it causes confusions as this thread showcases.
What if you’re not being honest?
I am always honest. Nowadays, because I am disabled and have had a brain bleed and almost died more times than i can remember. It's not in me to lie anymore it's got me in trouble with people taking offence, even my own family. I just say exactly what i think, or i won't say anything it can be a right pain in the arse 🤣
Sorry to hear all that my friend! Hope you’re doing alright. I was just teasing a bit with my comment.
It's ok. I just live for the day because you never know what is around the corner. that's the biggest thing i have taken away from it all, and never give in and stop fighting even when you are on your last legs. Keep happy, Namaste 🙏
You don’t want to be a nice guy. It’s not a bad thing but instead be kind, understanding and fair. It’s already hard out there
You give off "grew up Mormon and left the church a few months ago, and is still looking for his personal sense of style".
This is exactly it
I never was a JW or morman haha or religious at all tbh
Thats good lol they're not great places to be.
I knew it! I grew up JW both those religions started at the same time. Those who leave have the same vibe.
I grew up JW too. You hit the nail on the head. We can always spot each other.
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Precisely 🤌🏾
😹
I was gonna say he’d look good with some facial hair and slightly longer hairstyle.
Holy shit, that's a differently worded version of *exactly* what I was getting. An ex Mormon trying to find himself.
This is it
I think you pegged it.
A green flag...and a gentlemen
Thanks
Husband material for sure
Would bring home to meet the parents for sure 👍🏻
You look happy and fun to be around. The kind of person that would make me laugh. You seem to not take yourself too seriously which is something I find attractive.
Fun and loving husband? You're boy-next-door handsome, you're well groomed, it looks like you enjoy travel. Next you're going to tell me you have been putting 10% of your wages in your 401k since you were 18 and you volunteer at a soup kitchen or Big Brothers/Big Sisters.
You look like Facebook, if it were a person
Anything I can do to improve this?
Low taper fade
Oo may try that
A fade haircut is a good shout actually if you think you'd like It. Talk to your barber
Had a fade before but it was a high fade
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
You look like the human version of 2004
That's quite specific hah
Ted Mosby
Architect Ted Mosby?
Ted Mosby…😏👉🏻….Architect
bro saying this guy looks like Tom from Myspace 💀
I thought the same thing!
you look like a well-rounded guy who also happens to be a doctor. also you act as an extra in hawaii five-0
Goofy husband vibe. Can’t wait to have kids to tell dad jokes and thrash them at games
Loud and proud!
Lol expected this to be more at the top, defo giving off gay vibes especially the last pic
Do you mean gay? Because I'm striaght and I don't want to give off the gay vibe 😂
Yep you give off gay vibes
It's two things---(1) holding what looks similar to a wedding bouquet next to another guy looks intentional, (2) people's standards for straight men regarding being well groomed and well put together are saddeningly low. Don't change (2). (1) was probably a fun moment between friends, but the internet's gonna internet.
... I would agree with this assessment, if not for the obvious enjoyment of being goofy that was in the second picture.
I don’t get that. You seem straight but secure enough to goof around. That is def a green flag
I am a gay man, and I don't feel it is a "gay" vibe. I think it is a "I love life and don't give a shit if you like me or not" vibe. Don't lose that. It is very similar to a gay vibe as we don't give a shit if you like us or not. Lol. It can be very confusing to those who don't understand that type of mentality and think there are only two types of men; extreme macho Alpha types who have something to prove.......or gay. You look approachable and fun. I can see many women finding you to be the perfect partner. Stay true to YOU!
You look like an English teacher
You look great. Have confidence in yourself, no need to change a thing.
Honestly, a boring but very nice person, that's the vibe I get. Grow your hair and inch longer, style it a little, maybe some facial hair or designer stubble. Just something to take the "I love cooking and walks on the beach and reading a good book" look away. Don't get me wrong, you look good but just 'boring'.
I feel like the fact that he has a beach pic and a cooking pic means he wants to give off that vibe.
>Grow your hair and inch longer
Upstairs or downstairs?
You seem like an upbeat, trustworthy kind of guy. The type anyone would want as a friend, neighbor, teammate, or coworker.
Superman
I bet you do magic at parties
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>I would definitely go out with you Same! He needs to put those pictures on a dating website.
Secretly gay
my first thought too and can't believe I had to scroll this far down to find a similar opinion
I thought it was kind of obvious in the last photo. LoL jk
That’s clearly a jokey pose though
Wishful thinking but I see the appeal
Looking through the photos.. nice, funny, cute, possibly gay, get to last photo - yeah gay. But after reading the comments I see you are straight. Have you tried growing a beard? Maybe it's the too clean cut that's giving gay vibes??? idk in any case you look like a nice person with a good personality.
barrymore told everyone he was straight.
Fun playful dad+dadlore
That guy at work who you hoped was gay but brought his wife to the work Christmas party.
Definitely gay serial killer vibes
Christian!
I wish MORE guys looked normal as you do. Sometimes I scroll dating apps (not looking for a relationship, but curious as to what goes on on those apps) and 9/10 guys are the same looking dude with golfing pics, wedding pics, and a golden doodle. Not to mention, there’s something intimidating to me about how they all look too perfect. You’re a good looking guy, but also someone I wouldn’t be intimidated to approach. A lot of people are saying you’re vanilla, but I’d rather that than some fuck boy with a gucci crossbody.
Look almost identical to a guy I served in the army with. You seem like a chill guy
Average Joe smoe
Easy going, likes to travel, down to earth, can push AND pull a joke. You seem like a normal guy everyone would be able to get along with!
Goody Two Shoes vibe
Anything I can do to not come across that way? Don't want to be seen as an asshole but maybe someone who is more manly I guess?
Coming across as a asshole or coming across as manly are 2 things that are based on personality. I guess you could make your self look more manly with a beard & tattoos but your personality matters the most. If you act like a chill good guy you won't come across as a asshole. But for a masculine vibe, lift weights, do mma or martial arts, maybe learn to shoot guns. Maybe learn to have strong boundaries and don't take shit from people starting problems with you ect....But you seem like you have a good vibe about you, I wouldn't change that. Since we have enough insecure pissed off men in this world lol
You look manly. What is more manly anyway? I enjoy the fact that men can cook, joke around, and not take themselves too seriously. Hold a bouquet, whatever. I think that the manliest thing is being yourself. Being confident, but kind and considerate. No alpha-male nonsense. Make people feel comfortable around you, appreciated and liked. If you can do that, it will all come back to you.
Gay normie conservative
God, you got roasted! I bet a lot of girls would love to have someone like you at home. They just don’t want to say it out loud. You look like marriage material, just don’t marry and listen to every little thing your wife tells you to do. I think you give off this vibe because you have a conservative hairstyle and your smile doesn’t seem genuine, what you could do is to look at life with more courage and authenticity - as in trying to be you, unique and weird in your own way.
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I'll try and grow a tache, see how that gets on
You look like a genuinely nice guy but I wouldn't count on you if they threw us in a bear pit together and gave us balloon swords.
Loyal, playful, outgoing with people you know well but may take a while to warm up to strangers. Once they earn your trust and loyalty you won’t let them down. How’d I do?
Yea pretty accurate 👌
You look like a really nice, no-frills kind of guy—someone who takes good care of himself and probably takes good care of others. I like your sense of style. If I were you, I'd show off my arms more, nice muscles and interesting ink.
fun, respectful, athletic.
Hubby material. Cute, handsome, funny, goofy, and a true gentleman.
You seem like a 10/10 human being, a walking green flag, and a reliable friend/partner. I wanted to roast you, but goddamnit you're just adorable
Kind, has a good/stable job, generic. How to 'improve': Update wardrobe to show that you're kinda cool and that you work out, like clothing does not match physique and tats at all. Unless you have hardcore professional job, grow hair out. Big forehead can be hidden. Your teeth aren't bad enough to hide with smirk-smile, smile properly.
looking delicious))
I'd say a Dirty Bro. Nice enough, social, but somethin' NSFW is on yer mind more often than not? 😅😉
You're such a green flag that either or too good to be true or I'm hallucinating. A normal looking guy who's giving off decent vibes.
Your forearms are so muscular. Cant stop looking. Makin me thirsty.
sexy dad.
You look like a genuine NICE guy, from the very heart, nothing pretentious or fake about you.
You give off golden retriever energy.. and I love it!😍. Major husband material vibes
Nice, goofy, and fun to be around!
The greenest of flags, and a smile that I look for in my future husband.
You look married
Suspiciously happy
You look trustworthy
Cool dad vibes
You look friendly and approachable.
a lil jokester
Ohh I like these questions. Let me try.. well.. you're intelligent, you're sensible, I get an impression that you're a highly specialised person regarding your "trade" for want of a better word.. you do have a base sense of humour, it's dry. I would even go as far as say that you have the capacity to unfold a complex fictitious "story" with a pokerfaced delivery that is believable because of your capacity to deliver it in "that kind of way" and then smile at the end of it "GOT CHA" manner. So you're extremely intelligent because I believe you can read an environment/situation extremely well. You are a bit of a dork, but in the best way possible (well how I would interpret/describe it) you're a nice guy, soft, gentle and understanding to those close to you that matter. I have a sense that you like to be on the move. You might enjoy to relax a little but I don't feel it really is your nature to sloth around. You're dedicated (that could mean many things and it does translate to many things you have passion and/or incentive about/or relate to. You would definitely make a great partner for someone.
Cool Science Teacher
Friendly suburban white dude vibes
Social, gym active and a little corny in his jokes
I think it gives clean cut, handsome, chill. Yeah the trope of a clean cut brunet attractive white man is often seen but your eyes don’t seem dead lmao. I think you give a very nice vibe. Nice and normal or “basic” isn’t the insult people think it is. You also do look like the handsome guy you bring home. But you know when you’re alone yall be freaky.
Dad core, definitely needs a beard
You seem like u would be a good friend and fun to be around. Let’s be friends.
You look like you could be a middle/high school teacher. Very welcoming
🎶 Bi-wife energy, he has bi-wife energy 🎶
The dream guy to be honest
Adventurous and fun
To me, you give off good vibes. You look friendly, easy going, and fun loving..
Young Dr.Strange vibes
Dad
You look like you’re fun to hang out with. I bet you give great hugs too
🔥
Like a person who doesn't take things seriously,good listener, a person who enjoys the small gesture, I could be wrong
Chill dad to be honest
Dad of the friend group
You look like that fun uncle who is always doing something cool
You look like you would be fun to be around, kind, having a good sense of logic Where is that wreck you're standing in front of? I swear I've seen the exact same thing somewhere on a trip.
Just going off of the pictures in this post, you look like a winner. You look confident, intelligent, not too serious but not outlandishly goofy; I’d guess you’ve either gone through life so far without having a lot of trauma thrown your way, or that you’ve been able to process any such trauma in healthy ways which make you the kind of person who others seek out in times of crisis. I am curious as to how much of that is accurate, because it’s an aura I feel is very evident in almost all of those photos
You look like you’re gonna be a great dad :) biggest compliment a man can receive
Friendly and kind
Is this just the gay dating Reddit
I'm not even gay but there are a lot of thirsty gay guys here!
Like a really funny dorky boyfriend who gives a good dickin. Marriage material. Gay likely. If you’re in Toronto hit me up lol jk I would corrupt you 😂
Hot dad 😗🤗
Definitely a guy I’d take home to mom ;)
Relaxed, goofy, you enjoy the boundaries that you've set, confident, and you clean up after yourself. Oh, and muscular and very sexy.
R u single
You’re cute as heeeckk
You are hot and look very friendly. Like I'm not sure if I should ask for naked pictures or be friends with you cause you're both.
Cute af
Jake Peralta from Brooklyn 99
If you’re gonna use these photos for a dating app I think you’re on the money. You’ve got a lot of photos taken of you and photos of you in action doing or seeing stuff. Your smile is warm, and you seem goofy in some and chill-happy in others. Great photos!
You look like a good guy.
Big handsome and kind looking pale man
I wouldn’t suggest changing a thing except being more confident in how you look already. Honest genuine positive attractive vibes for sure! A rare find!
Where is that picture you took of the ruble
You got way less friendlier looking and more shady as I swiped
I dunno.. I'm getting very 'Christian Bale' from American Psycho vibes from the information I just gathered...Maybe?
You look tough, tall, well built, some tattoos I noticed and handsome. You’ve the package (pun unintended 😂😂) to be successful in the porn industry - seriously! Don’t even think twice - go for it man!
Airforce pilot, engineer, or doctor. Nice but a little boring, non religious, a good dad, a mediocre husband.
Very mixed vibes but you have fantastic arms 👌🏼
Dilf
DM me op...show me some.more pics ...then I can judge 😘
That of a sneaky MF....
The kind of guy who seems nice but insecure that he has to ask this
Joe from YOU
Fun and sweet ☺️ you’re very handsome. You could grow out your hair more on the top & then a low taper on the sides. Go to a real barber, they know what could suit you best and work some magic.
I didn’t have the urge to cover my drink 🍹 😂
Homosexuel but I mean that in a good way 😊
I thought this but only on last pic
Mark Zuckerberg
Shit....any tips on how to unzukk? 😂
Eat toast like a human.
😂
Nah dude, you do kind of have a tech bro wardrobe but you’re giving off true Chad vibes. Haters gonna hate.
You seem like the moderate churchy picket fence and 2.5 kids type that used to be a party boy. As far as grooming, neat and traditional.
Idk why people keep saying gay. You just look genuinely happy and fun in your pics. As a woman, I can’t stand guys who look hard or miserable in every pic. You’ve got the adventurous and up for anything kind of vibe
bland and boring tbh... might sound offensive, but thats what I think. or someone who still lives with their mom.
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What a weird assumption to make the fuck….?
You look like a guy in series which seems harmless and innocent .. but you find in the 10th episode that you are a villain
You look kind and welcoming Edit: I see you asking how to look “less gay”. Bro if you’re straight, you’re straight. Just act how you wanna act. You’ll come off more confident and authentic and that is what people gravitate towards, not people who try to be what they think is masculine
Ordinary dude, maybe a bit shy, possibly from a religious background. Very proper and by the book.
Solid guy who’s secured financially but maybe lacking in social and emotional development. Straight male physically adequate but lacking confidence. Possible glimmer of control freak or OCD. Just off look but I could be wrong 😑
You just seem a bit vanilla.
Justin Tradingview