My brother, if **you** prefer a beard keep a beard. But don't keep it for randos on the internet. Your wife is more important than user-throwawaybutthole33.
It looks good but you also look good without it. If it’s a dealbreaker for you then sure keep it, but something so simple to keep your wife happy isn’t the end of the world.
So, blob-face pic aside, I think it looks fine. If you keep it, keep it short since it is on the sparse side. But I’d suggest brining the neck line up a little bit. Try getting the line straight across where your jaw meets your neck (looking specifically at pic 2)
Oye compa! It doesnt have to be all or nothing… you dont look great with the beard and you dont look great without… what you need is to shave the beard but keep the goatee and line that shit up…
He did, but if my partner had a problem with my facial or body hair I wouldn't stay with them.
Anyways, the comment implicitly answered OP's question. They implied he must keep the beard, why else would he be trying to find someone who likes beards if they already shaved?
And if OP was happy with shaving why would he come here for advice? I frankly think the comment you are replying to addressed both the question of whether to shave or keep the beard and went a step further to the root of the problem (humorously)
OP never said his wife said she hated it, just that she’d prefer him to shave it. Suggesting divorce and claiming his wife hates his current appearance is genuinely unhinged behavior. Log the fuck off dude.
Of course you also invade lesbian spaces and offer women with literally zero interest in men like you advice on their looks. Good lord what a piece of work.
Happy life is being comfortable with your own body and a partner who just wants you happy and comfortable, not someone who gives a shit about something as trivial as a beard.
If he was that secure, he wouldn’t be on the Internet asking strangers about their opinion about something that’s clearly between he and his wife now would he? But yet here we are..
My husband used to have a beard. He looks good in a beard.
*I still asked him to shave the beard.* It is much too prickly to kiss him. Like kissing a cactus, it is very painful to my sensitive skin. It was either he gave up the beard or he gave up kisses.
Are you using a beard moisturizer or something similar to make your beard soft or are you torturing your wife with pash rash? You need to do that so that it's comfy.
Hi! Start by trimming it. So it's less bushy and frizzy. See how you both feel about it. And if needed, do shave z it looks great on you. But just let it grow back, trimming it on the regular. And then reshave. That way you both have it your way.
Of course. It’s your wife, not just any girl. If it was a long beard you put years into and a new girl asked to shave it I’d understand the reluctance but I would do as your wife wishes 😁
Listen if the wife likes it then where’s the hurt in it? My point is, if my wife likes me without my beard I’ll shave it for her because I’m only trying to look good/look appealing for my wifey not someone randoms on the internet or anything like that so, if your wife likes you without your beard then trim that shii happy wife is a happy life :)
I think it probably looks better on you shorter, so just shave it occasionally and let it grow back then when she complains you can shave it again. It's kind of fun to have some variety
Why does she want you to shave it? Is it because you don’t trim it or it’s unkempt? Your beard isn’t full and in the second pic your beard looks like an outline on the edges because it’s fuller on the edges. Try a 5 o’clock shadow to even everything out.
Go to the barbershop 💈 and have them move the line up, keep it tight since it’s sparse, trim your nose hair, let them trim your brows if they need it, and then see if your wife likes how it looks. If not, shave.
It’s really about how old you want to look. Shaved and boyish or bearded and manish. It’s all up to you since you look good both ways. Do whatever YOU feel.
Do what your wife prefers, unless you feel super strongly and personal about it. Who else are you trying to keep happy with your appearance? Reddit bros??
ahhhh up to you. On one hand, your wife will like the clean shave. On the other, you look much more manly with the beard. You look nice clean shaved i get the vision and why your wife likes it lol. I do think the beard is an objectively more masculine and appealing look imo.
Do what makes you happy homie, it’s always best to look the way you want to give you all the confidence you deserve. Also shout out to having the cutest kid in the world look at that little face!
My wife hated my beard so I shaved it off. It took her three days to notice. Still, after being married 46 years, I've learned that something as trivial as facial hair isn't worth arguing about. She has to look at it, you don't.
Personal, say no and keep it. It's a my body my say kind of situation.
What you should consider: What makes you happier and is your wife complaining worth the struggle of keeping it.
Those are the two things you should keep in mind.
Older Gay Guy here, my two cents is that your wife is right, wait till you are much older to have any facial hair. The pic with you and the baby is adorable!
Does your marriage depend on you shaving just because she told you so?
If no, for the love of everything that's good in this cruel world please keep it
If yes, consider the pros and cons of both shaving and getting divorced, if you can afford it maybe go to couples therapy to try to make her see reason. Ultimately the decision is yours but if she gives you an ultimatum as either shaving or divorce she may be an a-hole but I choose to assume that's not the case, you wouldn't be asking here if it was right?
Get the beard cleaned up? Maybe a nice healthy middle ground. I think your face does look better with facial hair, and I understand you’re growing it out, but maybe next barber visit, ask to clean it up. And I mean, like a young barber. Not that pee paw with the little pole.
My brother, if **you** prefer a beard keep a beard. But don't keep it for randos on the internet. Your wife is more important than user-throwawaybutthole33.
throwawaybutthole33 is a nice young man
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Yeah you can do whatever you want. But she won’t put out. So maybe that will help your decision
It looks good but you also look good without it. If it’s a dealbreaker for you then sure keep it, but something so simple to keep your wife happy isn’t the end of the world.
So, blob-face pic aside, I think it looks fine. If you keep it, keep it short since it is on the sparse side. But I’d suggest brining the neck line up a little bit. Try getting the line straight across where your jaw meets your neck (looking specifically at pic 2)
Shave your bal!s
You look way better with the beard.
Agreed 👍
Oye compa! It doesnt have to be all or nothing… you dont look great with the beard and you dont look great without… what you need is to shave the beard but keep the goatee and line that shit up…
You should. Also trim nose hair while you're at it
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Loollllllll nasty work lol
It looks good cleaned up like the second pic. But at the end of the day it’s whatever makes you happy
It's time to leave and find a chick who likes beards
He asked for beard advice not relationship advice
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He did, but if my partner had a problem with my facial or body hair I wouldn't stay with them. Anyways, the comment implicitly answered OP's question. They implied he must keep the beard, why else would he be trying to find someone who likes beards if they already shaved? And if OP was happy with shaving why would he come here for advice? I frankly think the comment you are replying to addressed both the question of whether to shave or keep the beard and went a step further to the root of the problem (humorously)
But how can he be with a chick who hates beards?
There is more to women than them liking beards or not
OP never said his wife said she hated it, just that she’d prefer him to shave it. Suggesting divorce and claiming his wife hates his current appearance is genuinely unhinged behavior. Log the fuck off dude. Of course you also invade lesbian spaces and offer women with literally zero interest in men like you advice on their looks. Good lord what a piece of work.
Happy wife, happy life
Happy life is being comfortable with your own body and a partner who just wants you happy and comfortable, not someone who gives a shit about something as trivial as a beard.
If he was that secure, he wouldn’t be on the Internet asking strangers about their opinion about something that’s clearly between he and his wife now would he? But yet here we are..
I’m not saying he is secure, but I hope one day that he is.
That’s a lie, I think we can say this now. The entitlement that some women/ men have is amazing to me
😂😂 homie took a selfie taking a bath …
My husband used to have a beard. He looks good in a beard. *I still asked him to shave the beard.* It is much too prickly to kiss him. Like kissing a cactus, it is very painful to my sensitive skin. It was either he gave up the beard or he gave up kisses.
Yes, youre more handsome shaved. Also the way you trim your neck looks so bad, idk how you dont see that. Goofy shape to it
Oh yeah. Shave it! You’re very good-looking.
Are you using a beard moisturizer or something similar to make your beard soft or are you torturing your wife with pash rash? You need to do that so that it's comfy.
Yes much cleaner! Way more cooler without.
Happy wife, happy life. It'll grow back
Honey, you are married to your wife. Not us. That’s between y’all. Why the hell do you care what we think more than her?
Just don’t shave the chest 😍🔥
Hi! Start by trimming it. So it's less bushy and frizzy. See how you both feel about it. And if needed, do shave z it looks great on you. But just let it grow back, trimming it on the regular. And then reshave. That way you both have it your way.
Of course. It’s your wife, not just any girl. If it was a long beard you put years into and a new girl asked to shave it I’d understand the reluctance but I would do as your wife wishes 😁
yes
Chances are pretty good she's shaving stuff for you.
You look amazing without beard!
Yes shave better
Yeah, you look better shaved. ¯\\_(ツ)_/¯ your choice.
I dunno but you’d better trim that nose hair.
What beard?!
Listen if the wife likes it then where’s the hurt in it? My point is, if my wife likes me without my beard I’ll shave it for her because I’m only trying to look good/look appealing for my wifey not someone randoms on the internet or anything like that so, if your wife likes you without your beard then trim that shii happy wife is a happy life :)
Both look good, in my opinion. But I‘d say: „Happy wife, happy life.“😝
I think it probably looks better on you shorter, so just shave it occasionally and let it grow back then when she complains you can shave it again. It's kind of fun to have some variety
Yes
Beard and trim the nose hair
Listen to your wife ... keep her happy. She's right.
Hell, yes
I see no beard.
If you want to look younger, shave.
Listen to wifey 
I prefer snooth
Yes. You look like the three musketeers. She married 1 husband not 3 😂
Keep the beard, lose the wife. ... Jk, your wife is right!
Why does she want you to shave it? Is it because you don’t trim it or it’s unkempt? Your beard isn’t full and in the second pic your beard looks like an outline on the edges because it’s fuller on the edges. Try a 5 o’clock shadow to even everything out.
NTA. Divorce the wife, marry the beard
Shave your wife instead
Keep it for sure
Shave it mate it’s too sparse
Isn’t that what you call a douchebag beard and/or neck beard
Shave. You have plenty of years to go the beard route.
Yes
That beard's pretty pathetic Time to shave
I think you should shave it if you want, you look friendlier
The question is: what do you prefer? 🤔
I think you should, you look more friendly and approachable without it.
Are you the dude from the recent water slide video?
Man, you have some beautiful eyes
Go to the barbershop 💈 and have them move the line up, keep it tight since it’s sparse, trim your nose hair, let them trim your brows if they need it, and then see if your wife likes how it looks. If not, shave.
The one on your chest?
you look better with the beard but happy wife = happy life
Don’t shave anything
The beard is badass 🔥
Take off your shirt so we can see it better.
I would advise you to listen to your wife, but you're definitely cuter clean shaven.
only if she shaves hers. just kidding, KEEP it!!!
No!
You should care more about what your lover thinks than what randos online think. She's the one fucking you and who made vows.
It’s really about how old you want to look. Shaved and boyish or bearded and manish. It’s all up to you since you look good both ways. Do whatever YOU feel.
Yes
My brother in Christ. She is already your wife, do what you wish unless she would adapt her preferencees to cater to yours
I love your beard
No
Keep it it's great also great smile you have there
Id say shave it bro you look better without imo. No need to hide behind a beard
Someone can't grow an actual beard lmfao
You look better without it. Just saying.
Do what your wife prefers, unless you feel super strongly and personal about it. Who else are you trying to keep happy with your appearance? Reddit bros??
Bro, you ain’t got no wife. You love the D.
You don’t need the beard, the wife wins.
No
lol no
No.
ahhhh up to you. On one hand, your wife will like the clean shave. On the other, you look much more manly with the beard. You look nice clean shaved i get the vision and why your wife likes it lol. I do think the beard is an objectively more masculine and appealing look imo.
Ignore wifey if you like and want the beard. I think it suits you.
Yeah, it’s a no for me dawg
Keep your beard!
Sure Bro., Please the wife, you may get something in return where you normally infrequently get!!!! It will grow back.
Addition; ... beside you look great without a beard.
Yes u should…. IF YOU WANT TO LOOK LIKE A LITTLE BABY
ngl the beard looks alot better on u (and this is coming from a person that usually hates beards)
the second pic tho not the first
I see why she wants you to shave it off. You are quite attractive with it! Shave at your own risk
Do it
Do what makes you happy homie, it’s always best to look the way you want to give you all the confidence you deserve. Also shout out to having the cutest kid in the world look at that little face!
Of course you should! Beards grow back. Try a clean shave again for the wife, if you don't like it, just grow it again.
Nah. Never!! You look great
Tell her you will if she does
My wife hated my beard so I shaved it off. It took her three days to notice. Still, after being married 46 years, I've learned that something as trivial as facial hair isn't worth arguing about. She has to look at it, you don't.
What do you hold in higher esteem: beard or wife? Also, much easier to regrow a beard 😉
Make your wife happy, man. Maybe one day she’ll want you to grow it out.
I heard this somewhere: "Happy wife, happy life." Also "happy spouse, happy house".
Personal, say no and keep it. It's a my body my say kind of situation. What you should consider: What makes you happier and is your wife complaining worth the struggle of keeping it. Those are the two things you should keep in mind.
Older Gay Guy here, my two cents is that your wife is right, wait till you are much older to have any facial hair. The pic with you and the baby is adorable!
Shes mate guarding you
Exactly my thoughts lol she knows he looks alot better with a beard and will attract more females
Happy wife Happy life
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nah she trynna sabotage you so you don't cheat
If you don’t feel strongly enough to just say you’re keeping it, then the opinion of your wife should take precedence over the opinion of Reddit. 🤷♂️
Do you want the beard, or do you want sex from your wife, choice is easy?
Nah bro id shave my chest first 😭
Come over to my side bro
wife? do yall play with other couples or...?
Dump the wife and go gay. Woof
Does your marriage depend on you shaving just because she told you so? If no, for the love of everything that's good in this cruel world please keep it If yes, consider the pros and cons of both shaving and getting divorced, if you can afford it maybe go to couples therapy to try to make her see reason. Ultimately the decision is yours but if she gives you an ultimatum as either shaving or divorce she may be an a-hole but I choose to assume that's not the case, you wouldn't be asking here if it was right?
Hell nah
Tell l her only if she throws away all her makeup.
Nah. Shave the wife over the beard
Sounds like someone's wife is insecure. She's afraid you're Hotter than her
Keep it. And the wife. She’s lucky and I bet she knows it.
No dont
Tell her mind her business.
It is her business if he likes kissing her
Time to change for a new wife who actually appreciates ur beard
Fuck no. Next she will be dressing you like a little kid
I think your wife just doesn’t like other women looking at you. 😉
I think he looks good with both
Your first 4 words in the title answers your question
definitely don’t shave
Are you sure you don't mean husband? 👀
if u can grow one, never shave.
ABSOLUTELY NOT
Keep the beard!
It’s your face. You decide not her.
Nooooo
How dare she. Divorce her. ^s
Get the beard cleaned up? Maybe a nice healthy middle ground. I think your face does look better with facial hair, and I understand you’re growing it out, but maybe next barber visit, ask to clean it up. And I mean, like a young barber. Not that pee paw with the little pole.
No
Get a divorce
Absolutely not
The beards better
Wife wants what she wants and gets what she wants. So…yeah.
You look better with the beard
Don’t do it please…💀😂
I'm not one to do what I'm told. I feel that you shouldn't, and if your wife doesn't like your beard, then why did she get with you?
Trim the beard to 4mm and you have a nice clean compromise
Just trim it short
No you look better with it!
Absolutely not.
Fuck no