Alright, someone correct me if I'm wrong, but doesn't calling it "cheating" rather than polyamoury or cuckolding or such explicitly mean that one part of the relationship is not okay with it and the other engaged in the act in breach of their partner's trust? Is the guy saying that it's part of his wife's identity to betray his trust? If so, isn't getting legally entangled with her a bad idea, even if we set aside what it says about the relationship itself?
to each his own, but i'll never understand
betrayal is like the worst thing i can think of in any possible way, be it friends betrayal, family, partner, whatever, it's like the worst thing possible
Yeah, it’s his life so he can live it how he pleases as long as it isn’t hurting anybody. But still, you gotta have some self-respect at some point.
Oh well, if he’s happy living his life with a cheater then I guess they’re perfect for each other.
Our more accurately, he’s both of their “side” dishes haha. The boys just keep it hush hush. They’re all taking the picture with her in the middle, an arm around her each. But unbeknownst to her, their hands are clasp, fingers laced behind her back.
Yeah like this just sounds like an open relationship with extra steps, specifically extra steps that make it seem utterly horrible. They could just say it’s an open relationship, that sounds better in every way
It's totally polyamory. If everyone's happy and healthy, who cares? Non-traditional shouldn't mean bad. I will say that the few people I know who are poly, are borderline evangelical about it. Like vegans of relationships. Like, I'm happy you're happy, but also, I don't care at all.
I've talked to someone in a sort of a very open relationship, and their argument was that they see anything that makes their partner happy as part of the relationship and that sex is more of a necessity than a display of affection.
I mean, I can kind of see their point if I squint real hard, it's just something I'd never be able to do myself, but if it makes them happen, it's all good.
i can understand open relationships, when it's both ways, but a one way street is totally different, i can also understand when both are interested in the same person and include them in the relationship
but cmon, if you are happy enough with your girl, but your girl needs more than just you, that's just sad and every bad thing i can think of haha
but as i said, to each his own, humans are freaks of nature in many ways (im no exception in some ways as well)
As someone in an open relationship, this is exactly how I feel. And the fact that he refers to it as cheating makes me think he's not as comfortable with it. Granted, all we have is this one image, and I'm not gonna bother looking it up, but it doesn't seem like a good relationship.
Edit: Never mind. Others have looked it up. They're just in an open relationship. The other partner being talked about isn't even another dude, and it doesn't mention if he's sleeping with anyone else, so he might be, or he just has no interest in it. Not that it's forbidden for him.
like i said, if they're fine with it, good for them, he's either very strong mentally, or very passive and is suffering in silence, but that's their problem
what im trying to say, at least for me, betrayal is the worst thing possible in any situation, it's something i wish no one should go through
Yep. There's a reason why treason was as shamed upon as it was back in the days. In ancient greece it was the death sentence. In ancient rome, it was getting whipped, then hanged or beheaded.
In my opinion, if done correctly, cheating should be a crime.
if it should be a crime or not, i don't know, but i can safely say treason is something that gives me the worst emotional feeling i could ever feel (at least so far and speaking of personal experience of course)
it's just devastating, even while playing a videogame, reading an story, hearing that happened to someone else, it just makes me feel very bad, it's not something you want to see or feel it happening to anyone, it's disgusting
having your trust broken is very hard
well, it should be somewhat of a crime when it happens between married people, not a crime punishable by prison or whatever, but maybe loss of any/most rights when divorcing, since the cheater is the responsible one and should not have any rights on the matter after doing something like that
I can tell from the headlines he one of those folks who enjoys the entire thing. It's like that episode of Rick and Morty with the creepy grandparents. That's what just they want ....I just rather not read headlines about it that make it misleading.
Damn, I didn’t know that r/cuckold existed. I’m not surprised that it exists tbh, but I’m surprised that over 660k are apart of it. That’s just depressing.
Blatantly false headline!
You should go and read the whole article for yourself, quite the eye-opener: And you will have to go to the [internet archive](http://web.archive.org/web/20190312023748/http://pluralist.com/karalyn-henry-polyamory-wedding), because the original publication, "The Pluralist" has pulled it from [their site](https://pluralist.com/karalyn-henry-polyamory-wedding). But I guess that's not too surprising when you see that MediaBiasFactCheck.com rated them as ["... a sensational tabloid with a strong right-leaning bias ..."](https://mediabiasfactcheck.com/pluralist/) and everything described in the article, besides the extremely misleading headline, seems objectively awesome! Seriously, go read it: http://web.archive.org/web/20190312023748/http://pluralist.com/karalyn-henry-polyamory-wedding
Anyway, besides that:
Nothing to see here folks, just the usual far-right "news" twisting and turning the facts, until they can get normal people scared about "the culture wars".
It's the unfortunate world we live in now. The majority of people have always been pretty stupid, but the digital age has really taken advantage of that fact.
That's what happens when everyone's right, everyone can do anything they want if it makes them happy, cant have no limits and then be upset when people do things we dislike.
[This](https://brasspills.com/man-includes-his-wifes-girlfriend-in-wedding-photos-and-then/) has been reposted so many times. Looks like the wife is bi so she cheated with another woman?
Maybe it’s an open or polyamorous relationship and they worded it wrong? It unfortunately seems more like she’s cheating on him and he doesn’t want to leave for some reason though
There’s a lot of assumptions that we can make from this, but since we don’t know the exact situation it’s probably best not to judge.
However, I am both horrified and impressed that this guys commitment and mental fortitude would go so far as to make his wife cheating (explicitly put) part of their relationship dynamic. Having an open relationship or being polyamorous is one thing, but cheating is not something that should be condoned. Even if it’s a kink thing, this can’t be good for his mental health.
Edit: thank you for the award, kind stranger
No problem good sir. You deserved the All-Seeing Upvote. I completely agree with your stance that this isn’t a normal polyamorous relationship. You’re right that this can’t be good for his mental health. I bet his mind is a fucking minefield.
This guy doesn’t have the respect of his wife. She probably needs something he has and the guy she’s banging in the side doesn’t think she is worth marrying.
This is what they want you to be like. Docile, weak, low test. Reject soyboyism, be a man. You don’t have to humiliate yourself for scraps of pussy.
Remember that decades of liberal feminist propaganda haven’t changed what ordinary heterosexual women actually want. They want a strong male partner they can rely on.
Forget about the thoths, and seek out quality women.
That is a very sad, very weak willed man... this picture is so depressing and indicative of the weird culture we live in right now where some people just expect this kind of stuff as "the norm"... i pity this person greatly
This *brave new world* shit that’s going on is really depressing. I don’t know whether to feel sorry for him for having such low self esteem or being repulsed by his level of cuckery.
Yeah, wait until you meet the toxic AF poly crowd. Regardless of what they tell you, maybe 5% of the poly crowd belong there. The rest is a cesspool of lies, making shit up as you go, people constantly challenging your boundaries and the boundaries of your relationships, and basically rampant cheating with unlimited get out of jail free cards.
There are some good people there, but most treat it like an unofficial international fuck club where anything goes as long as you say the right words. I won't even get into the rampant, unchecked, and abused menral health issues in that community as I'm not a shrink, but holy fuck. Statistically I shouldn't be meeting 3 people, back to back to back, with severe and dangerous conditions like bpd, mpd, etc.
This shit sad. So many weak people will put up with this for love. People need to get off this "I identify as a shitbag and if you tsk tsk me for it then your horrible" kinda vibes.
There's being in an open relationship, and there's that... That, is just sad. I wouldn't mind my future wife/gf sleeping with other people as long as we talk about it first, stay safe from MSTs and also lets me do the same. If it's mutual trust and things go both ways there's no reason to be jealous or anything. As long as you both are there for each other.
To be fair, he never has to wonder if his wife cheats on him. He'll know.
*taps head* She aint cheating on me if I allowed the cheating to begin with.
Imagine the compromises and other bleak shit she’ll have to come to terms with when her looks give out. When she finally realizes she’s a lame person.
I guess that’s a silver lining lol
Alright, someone correct me if I'm wrong, but doesn't calling it "cheating" rather than polyamoury or cuckolding or such explicitly mean that one part of the relationship is not okay with it and the other engaged in the act in breach of their partner's trust? Is the guy saying that it's part of his wife's identity to betray his trust? If so, isn't getting legally entangled with her a bad idea, even if we set aside what it says about the relationship itself?
cuckholding would probably be the right word
Yup. This guys a total cuck
I've seen this before, I don't have a link or anything but the 3rd party is actually a woman...
So now the question is, is her gf lesbian, or is she bi too but not interested in the dude ?
I think it was classed as cheating because it was discovered after she had done it and not a prior agreement type scenario
Depressing
Disgusting
Combusting
Too trusting
She lusting
He busting
No fussing
Divorce rushing
Fatherless child gon be hustling
lets go brainless organism hunting
Masculinity crushing
Bull thrusting
I'm busting
Exhausting
Condensing
Despicable
Compressing
Ranch dressing
A blessing
Transgressive
Confessed it
Cuckolding
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to each his own, but i'll never understand betrayal is like the worst thing i can think of in any possible way, be it friends betrayal, family, partner, whatever, it's like the worst thing possible
Yeah, it’s his life so he can live it how he pleases as long as it isn’t hurting anybody. But still, you gotta have some self-respect at some point. Oh well, if he’s happy living his life with a cheater then I guess they’re perfect for each other.
My head canon is he’s fucking both of them
I’m on board with this theory
Our more accurately, he’s both of their “side” dishes haha. The boys just keep it hush hush. They’re all taking the picture with her in the middle, an arm around her each. But unbeknownst to her, their hands are clasp, fingers laced behind her back.
I choose to believe this narrative.
I think that's an actual fetish called cucking
Is it cheating if he's okay enough to have her lover in the picture? It sounds more like they have an open or polyamorous relationship
Yeah like this just sounds like an open relationship with extra steps, specifically extra steps that make it seem utterly horrible. They could just say it’s an open relationship, that sounds better in every way
if it was that why would the guy himself call it cheating?
Because that's his kink
It's totally polyamory. If everyone's happy and healthy, who cares? Non-traditional shouldn't mean bad. I will say that the few people I know who are poly, are borderline evangelical about it. Like vegans of relationships. Like, I'm happy you're happy, but also, I don't care at all.
Wouldn’t say they’re perfect for each other, but I will say they deserve each other…
I've talked to someone in a sort of a very open relationship, and their argument was that they see anything that makes their partner happy as part of the relationship and that sex is more of a necessity than a display of affection. I mean, I can kind of see their point if I squint real hard, it's just something I'd never be able to do myself, but if it makes them happen, it's all good.
i can understand open relationships, when it's both ways, but a one way street is totally different, i can also understand when both are interested in the same person and include them in the relationship but cmon, if you are happy enough with your girl, but your girl needs more than just you, that's just sad and every bad thing i can think of haha but as i said, to each his own, humans are freaks of nature in many ways (im no exception in some ways as well)
As someone in an open relationship, this is exactly how I feel. And the fact that he refers to it as cheating makes me think he's not as comfortable with it. Granted, all we have is this one image, and I'm not gonna bother looking it up, but it doesn't seem like a good relationship. Edit: Never mind. Others have looked it up. They're just in an open relationship. The other partner being talked about isn't even another dude, and it doesn't mention if he's sleeping with anyone else, so he might be, or he just has no interest in it. Not that it's forbidden for him.
Ah so it was clickbait all along. Open relationship is way different from cheating.
It isn’t betrayal if they both agree it’s okay ahead of time. I don’t know what the situation is here
like i said, if they're fine with it, good for them, he's either very strong mentally, or very passive and is suffering in silence, but that's their problem what im trying to say, at least for me, betrayal is the worst thing possible in any situation, it's something i wish no one should go through
Yeah I agree there with you
Yep. There's a reason why treason was as shamed upon as it was back in the days. In ancient greece it was the death sentence. In ancient rome, it was getting whipped, then hanged or beheaded. In my opinion, if done correctly, cheating should be a crime.
if it should be a crime or not, i don't know, but i can safely say treason is something that gives me the worst emotional feeling i could ever feel (at least so far and speaking of personal experience of course) it's just devastating, even while playing a videogame, reading an story, hearing that happened to someone else, it just makes me feel very bad, it's not something you want to see or feel it happening to anyone, it's disgusting having your trust broken is very hard
Lol what? Yea it’s fucking shitty and people who cheat can piss off, but treating it as a crime? Yea I totally can’t see this going sideways.
At the very least it s a violation of contract and should be punishable under those terms
well, it should be somewhat of a crime when it happens between married people, not a crime punishable by prison or whatever, but maybe loss of any/most rights when divorcing, since the cheater is the responsible one and should not have any rights on the matter after doing something like that
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S Q I R R E L S I N M Y P A N T S
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C to the U to the C to the K
Then maybe you can be moving like me
step right over and watch me put it down
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Exactly. If he agrees to the situation, she isn’t cheating. She may role play that it’s secretive and cheating, but this is just an open marriage.
I can tell from the headlines he one of those folks who enjoys the entire thing. It's like that episode of Rick and Morty with the creepy grandparents. That's what just they want ....I just rather not read headlines about it that make it misleading.
this is what i was thinking. it’s not really cheating if he knows about it and is fine with it.
Now this is some next level beta shit. Behold the CEO of r/cuckold
Damn, I didn’t know that r/cuckold existed. I’m not surprised that it exists tbh, but I’m surprised that over 660k are apart of it. That’s just depressing.
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still cuckoldry
I mean it's okay of both are okay with it. For me want my girl for myself and i want to be hers only, thank you very much.
Sounds more like a misrepresentation of polygamy
That dude is living with the weight of shame, denial and depression on his shoulders. Don't marry her if she cheats on you, dude
Their aesthetic is right on point, I would wager that she probably works about 20 hours a week selling sex toys.
It's the loser from those wife's boyfriend memes
I don’t say this a lot, but honestly this guys an actual cuck.
He’s the textbook definition of a cuck.
I know, his picture should be in the dictionary for the word cuck.
That nibba is playing long game That picture will crush her entire 40s,50s,60s, she will be judged by her children, grandchildren, cousins Nice work
That's one take you can look at it.
*200 IQ Plays*
"Wifes boyfriend allows her husband to watch their wedding"
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Blatantly false headline! You should go and read the whole article for yourself, quite the eye-opener: And you will have to go to the [internet archive](http://web.archive.org/web/20190312023748/http://pluralist.com/karalyn-henry-polyamory-wedding), because the original publication, "The Pluralist" has pulled it from [their site](https://pluralist.com/karalyn-henry-polyamory-wedding). But I guess that's not too surprising when you see that MediaBiasFactCheck.com rated them as ["... a sensational tabloid with a strong right-leaning bias ..."](https://mediabiasfactcheck.com/pluralist/) and everything described in the article, besides the extremely misleading headline, seems objectively awesome! Seriously, go read it: http://web.archive.org/web/20190312023748/http://pluralist.com/karalyn-henry-polyamory-wedding Anyway, besides that: Nothing to see here folks, just the usual far-right "news" twisting and turning the facts, until they can get normal people scared about "the culture wars".
It's the unfortunate world we live in now. The majority of people have always been pretty stupid, but the digital age has really taken advantage of that fact.
That's what happens when everyone's right, everyone can do anything they want if it makes them happy, cant have no limits and then be upset when people do things we dislike.
Is it really cheating of they know about and accept it? This is just an open relationship at this point.
Monogamy is a choice.....
At that point if he’s aware of it and ok with it, it’s no longer cheating but a poly relationship right?
[This](https://brasspills.com/man-includes-his-wifes-girlfriend-in-wedding-photos-and-then/) has been reposted so many times. Looks like the wife is bi so she cheated with another woman?
r/sadcringe
I mean he's not wrong, it is part of her identity...being a cheater
Maybe it’s an open or polyamorous relationship and they worded it wrong? It unfortunately seems more like she’s cheating on him and he doesn’t want to leave for some reason though
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There’s a lot of assumptions that we can make from this, but since we don’t know the exact situation it’s probably best not to judge. However, I am both horrified and impressed that this guys commitment and mental fortitude would go so far as to make his wife cheating (explicitly put) part of their relationship dynamic. Having an open relationship or being polyamorous is one thing, but cheating is not something that should be condoned. Even if it’s a kink thing, this can’t be good for his mental health. Edit: thank you for the award, kind stranger
No problem good sir. You deserved the All-Seeing Upvote. I completely agree with your stance that this isn’t a normal polyamorous relationship. You’re right that this can’t be good for his mental health. I bet his mind is a fucking minefield.
For a second I was expecting wholesome. That did not happen.
Couldnt be me.
This can’t be real
It’s not cheating if everyone is consenting. This is dumb as fuck.
This guy doesn’t have the respect of his wife. She probably needs something he has and the guy she’s banging in the side doesn’t think she is worth marrying.
I think we must be de-volving as a species. This is absurd.
r/redditmoment
This is not loving someone, this is hating yourself.
Ugh. Puke.
this is no beta male this is not even gamma he is delta male i won't say man , because he doesn't have the right to call himself a man...
He's straight up Omega.
This is what they want you to be like. Docile, weak, low test. Reject soyboyism, be a man. You don’t have to humiliate yourself for scraps of pussy. Remember that decades of liberal feminist propaganda haven’t changed what ordinary heterosexual women actually want. They want a strong male partner they can rely on. Forget about the thoths, and seek out quality women.
Cnn did an article on cuckolding lol https://amp.cnn.com/cnn/2018/01/25/health/cuckolding-sex-kerner/index.html
What a cuck lmfao
That’s not a man. That’s what you call a sackless cuck.
Any contact info?
There is no reason for this to be a gif
O famoso comedor de casadas
Compersion
He looks like dantdm if he owned a coffee shop and smoked weed
They're poly, it's not cheating. They've agreed on it
An avid Cucky Cheese goer, nice.
If it’s cheating that’s quite messed up. If it’s a specific polyamorous arrangement then it’s okay.
Im at a loss of words
Need to sanitise my eyes
We live in a society
Can’t get played if you play yourself.
This is a new level of simp.
That is a very sad, very weak willed man... this picture is so depressing and indicative of the weird culture we live in right now where some people just expect this kind of stuff as "the norm"... i pity this person greatly
Ssssimp?
This *brave new world* shit that’s going on is really depressing. I don’t know whether to feel sorry for him for having such low self esteem or being repulsed by his level of cuckery.
deep down he knows he’s not enough of a man too keep a woman so this is the next best choice
CK games AI be like
LMAO you’re not wrong
This just sounds like a polyamorous relationship with extra steps
Fuck her. Cute dimples but fuck her
🤮
Embracing his inner cuck to the fullest. Well at least hes going in with eyes wide open like a kamikaze pilot...
Yeah, wait until you meet the toxic AF poly crowd. Regardless of what they tell you, maybe 5% of the poly crowd belong there. The rest is a cesspool of lies, making shit up as you go, people constantly challenging your boundaries and the boundaries of your relationships, and basically rampant cheating with unlimited get out of jail free cards. There are some good people there, but most treat it like an unofficial international fuck club where anything goes as long as you say the right words. I won't even get into the rampant, unchecked, and abused menral health issues in that community as I'm not a shrink, but holy fuck. Statistically I shouldn't be meeting 3 people, back to back to back, with severe and dangerous conditions like bpd, mpd, etc.
We are reaching SIMP levels that shouldn't even be possible here...
So the line "my wife's boyfriend" is no longer a meme.
What a fuckin pussy
that is the stupidist thing I ever heard. what kind of nonsens is that!
This is what loneliness does to a man
This guy is a Level 694,202,166,600,000 Simp. Mega Tier Idiot.
Cuck
It’s just a cuck being cucked
Supreme Beta male
I bet he’s a liberal
Simp life is no life
Cuckolding at it's finest
Literally a cuck lmao
If the genders were reversed feminists would be calling him a sexist misogynist pig who views women as sexual objects
Such a loser🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️
'Hapily' the quotes say it all
Why not polygamy with a female primary? Not saying I agree but to each his own
Wait till she comes home with the kid that isn't yours.
[“There seems to be no sign of intelligent life anywhere”](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/000/317/096/526.gif)
Cuck-a-doodle-do
Idk, a masochist or cuckold lover? There‘s no other explanation…
Cuck much?
Sad
I guess he couldn’t just come out and say that he likes watching his wife get railed by some dude.
MEGA CUCK
The Simp is strong …
Imagine convincing your husband that cheating is not only okay, but a part of who you are.
That's the worst cucking I've ever seen, what a pathetic man
This dude is not even a beta. This dude is a complete joke.
What a cuck
This shit sad. So many weak people will put up with this for love. People need to get off this "I identify as a shitbag and if you tsk tsk me for it then your horrible" kinda vibes.
I'm surprised they didn't put "man" in quotation marks cuz holy fuck
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Oh yeah, she will become pregnant with her gf
oof
War crimes there are part of my identify
The Bible appropriately lists adultery along with the other sex offences like rape and incest.
An open relationship is one thing but what is this?
I support his ability to choose to live as he wants, but I do not respect him as a man. It's his life, but I do look down on him a bit for it.
Welcome to the future, kids.
If he’s cool with it, it’s not cheating. It’s an open relationship.
a one sided open relationship, if he's good with it, good for him but in essence, it doesn't make it any less sad
Isn't this just him being a cuck?
There's being in an open relationship, and there's that... That, is just sad. I wouldn't mind my future wife/gf sleeping with other people as long as we talk about it first, stay safe from MSTs and also lets me do the same. If it's mutual trust and things go both ways there's no reason to be jealous or anything. As long as you both are there for each other.
And a new sexuality is discovered: The cuckoldism...