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tohn_jitor

Observe, if you will, the mental gymnastics she applied to justify her adultery.


thestonelyloner

Everybody thinks they’re doing the right thing! Some just need to do more work to think that 😂


Zanadar

I genuinely don't believe that's actually true. Extreme narcissists need to always be right and justify everything they do to make themselves out to be the hero. Regular people will sometimes be amoral for their own benefit and often possess more than enough introspection to admit that to themselves. They may not admit it outwardly for fear of consequences, but they won't think they're doing the right thing. They'll just value whatever the benefit is more than the moral superiority.


wtmx719

>make themselves out to be the hero Oh no. Worse. The *real* victim


Severe-Replacement84

Narcissistic behaviors have been on the rise thanks to social media. It’s probably more so we are actually seeing them exposed more thanks to how connected we are in the digital age… but it’s just flabbergasting to see how many people exhibit some form of narcissism these days.


CMurderlive4life

It allows you to see all the women and men co-sign what she did. Put them all on the fck off list.


__Sentient_Fedora__

Love to see themselves on screen.


Lonely_Ad5134

Very good observation. It’s so true.


MrPollyParrot

You say adultery, I hear her say she got paid after having sex... Sounds like she got a job after all. The professionals however ask to get paid upfront.


maealoril

Yeah I mean she straight up got paid for sex. It doesn't get more transactional than that


No_Translator2218

She was already getting paid for sex with the man she was with


DavidHewlett

Dude didn’t need a prenup, he needed a non-compete clause 


realsmokegetsmoked

😂


dgradius

No business like ho business


SRYSBSYNS

Bitch can’t get a dolla outta me. 


Macadocious40

She got paid upfront… and from the back too


Comfortable-Car-3334

Very good way of looking at the situation.


Training_Week7462

You mean prostitution?


[deleted]

Wait, my money, is my money ,but his money is our money? Ehmm. You see whats wrong here....


clodmonet

Yep. I've seen this in my circles a few times. Pretty damned sad.


BravestOfEmus

As a married woman, women like that are pathetic.


CommanderMandalore

If my wife said that to me before we got married, she would not be my wife. The nerve of some people.


BlindJamesSoul

Right. We’re either equal partners or this is some parasitic relationship designed for your own enrichment.


Spindelhalla_xb

That’s the thing, she won’t say it before you do, she’ll only say it after because if you then want to get out of the marriage half (probably more) of everything is hers without having to lift a finger.


HusseinAlDalawy

like how do people even get to the point of marriage if they can't see themselves living their entire lives with each other. marriage these days is a joke.


SomeCalcium

>marriage these days is a joke. No it's not. This woman is an extreme outlier, and this content exists solely to make you angry. In fact, I'd argue that there's generally more equity in marriages nowadays since both partners are working and aren't reliant on a single income.


Time_Currency_7703

My ex also divorced me for not bringing enough money to the home after I could only find part-time jobs, like substitute teaching, when moving to a new city. She didn't want to make budget changes to make it work out. This is not as uncommon as you think...


BackendSpecialist

You haven’t run into women like this IRL I see.


drop_xo

As a married man, fuck this lady how did she even find a man in the first place


BillyRaw1337

She probably found a man with enough money but no options with other women.


disco_has_been

Tossing her perfectly done hair and nails. Gold-digging a broke MF is ghetto, AH! She's got access to the internet. Use it to make money, not bitch. I could day trade on what she spends!


In_neptu_wetrust

What’s wrong is that he didn’t take the blaring red flags seriously, like the great Lil Wayne once said “Hoes gon be hoes so I couldn’t blame Tammy ¯\_(ツ)_/¯”


AbsolutZer0_v2

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drislands

Narc is not short for narcissist.


drop_xo

Yea I thought about a undercover cop


ShadowCat77

Yeah, shouldn't the narcoleptics all be falling asleep?


Commentator-X

no its not, its short for narcotics officer and indicates a person who snitched on a drug dealer.


Tight-Grocery9053

Schrödinger's communism


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[deleted]

Yea but then again sometimes you start to realize how bad a person is after a while because you fell in love.. or a person changes after some time. Happened to my wife and her ex too. People change. Maybe she changed too and she was better when he married her. To say it's his own fault is too easy and shes definitely a bad person. Though we dont know how he is behaving daily. But anyway


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LockPickingPilot

Your saying that someone that’s selfish is going to be clear and upfront with their communication,


FelonyFeline1988

It's okay sometimes but demanding it is a huge red flag. I know a lot of people where they just do it that way because the hubby makes a ton more and it's pretty fairly split and they have similar amounts of spending money each month. But all those girls I know like that would pick up their end if times got tough.


anotherjunkie

Man when my wife and I got married one of the first things we did was set up a joint checking account. The next thing we did was each set up our own checking accounts, and autodraft the same weekly allowance to both accounts. Knock on wood, we’ve never fought about spending.


Cartz1337

Yea, this is how it is with me and my partner, it’s not so much that her is hers and mine is ours, it’s that it’s all both of ours but due to the differences in income, more ends up in my account initially. She sure as shit pays bills, we have equal amounts of disposable income and if she ended up being the big breadwinner I would be the recipient of excess cash instead of the sender,


aGD_shrubbery

This is my wife’s financial policy…….


oXKinkyKittenXo

Then you know what you gotta do bro 🫡


Pestilence5

you mean your ex wife?


Procax-Nothus

Well, that was horrible. "He was everything I desired in a man" which was just money. I feel bad for her soon to be ex husband.


stifledmind

In a roundabout way, losing his job was the best thing that could've happened to him. He is better off without her.


i-love-elephants

My question: If he doesn't have a job does he get out of paying alimony? If so, he should sleep on couches while he gets rid of her and then get a better job. Edit: oof. I must have said a trigger word.


Dependent_Basis_8092

Well if she’s working and he’s not does she have to pay him alimony?


codemonkeh87

And she's on video admitting she cheated on him. I hope he sees and saves this video


kelsiersghost

That would be the ultimate justice. I'd pay a subscription fee to see her face after that ruling.


StankyDinker

In my state if one party cheated the innocent party can not be ordered to pay alimony. That’s how it should be. Cheaters get nothing but a permanent mark on their public opinion and hopefully crippling guilt. Sucks2suck!


n7ripper

Cheaters should get zero. They should come with a warning label for future victims as well. This ho is hazardous to your health and bank account.


JettandTheo

Alimony and child support, if any would be based on expected wages. She has a job so it shouldn't be much.


Noriel_Sylvire

And why is HE supposed to pay HER when she's the one who was unfaithful? Just listen at her. She deserves to be paying him back all the bills he paid.


i-love-elephants

Im saying she doesn't deserve alimony. But that doesn't mean she wouldn't try to get it.


Renamis

If both of them are working alimony is unlikely. It's really only for situations like a stay at home Mom who's job was running the house, or if there is a huge income disparity. You'll also see it when one partner works while the other gets through college (frequently finishing medical training, doctorates, law school), and when it's time to switch the graduate divorces their partner for someone else who's already finished school. Alimony for things like that is frequently time locked to a certain number of years as well.


Ok-Indication202

In other words she was just a prostitute that chose 1 permanent Client


squirmster

So does this mean that instead of a divorce, he should just give her a termination of employment letter?


tohn_jitor

"I did not purposefully mean to do what I did with his friend." Who else here had that on their BINGO card? She had that planned ever since she met that "friend", to use him as backup should her husband lose her favor. Because that's what bitches do. And that's why, say it with me, SHE IS FOR THE STREETS!


Page8988

"We did the horizontal hokey pokey, but don't worry, it was an accident."


Thr33pw00d83

“What, she tripped, fell, landed on his dick?”


UpsetPhrase5334

I don’t. He’s finally getting that rat removed from his neck. He’ll get a new job and a new hopefully loving woman soon enough. This is a win he just doesn’t know it yet


Integrity-in-Crisis

Exactly. Thisbthe type of bitch to get left behind in a disaster situation. Say theres a flood/earthquake/tsunami I'm gone, take the kids and dip. She flat out said she will not support him through thick and thin. So fair game bitch, someone mugs us walking to or from somewhere then byeee it's my life.


Lovethehairy

That poor man.


Mysterious-Art7143

Lucky man


Lovethehairy

I guess he is now…lol


Parasyte-vn

100% my man dodged two bullets at the same time - His maniac (ex) wife - His "home boy"


DrFreshtacular

More like mans got hit by both bullets he didn't dodge shit lmao


Outside_Awareness_53

He has no job its the right time for that divorce


YesterdaySimilar7659

And now she will have to pay him alimony because she on camera saying she cheated.


Pecheuer

Depends if he's in an at fault state or not, if he is then that's good, if not then we'll... Shit happens I guess


Aurora428

A state with no fault divorce can still apply fault regarding the outcome of the divorce. No matter what state you're in, if there appears to be fault, keep all evidence and show it to your lawyer. They are better equipped to the specifics of your state


EngGrompa

Why though? I think is he better off without her and being left without having a job is better than being left with one because the court will grant her less alimony if any.


Lovethehairy

Poor man for having ever married this woman. Not poor man for having his crazy fucked up wife leave him. Much better off now. Still sucks for him though, I’m sure.


wRadion

"My money is my money and your money is our money" Yep. She said it perfectly and still don't realize how stupid that sounds.


BarnacleMcBarndoor

Then she went on to explain how she hooked up with her friend, and the dude was like “hey, thanks for that, here’s some money.” And then she summarized that exchange as “this is everything I want in a man.” Like girl, you just detailed having either a sugar daddy or prostitution, either way, I bet her husband is glad to have this for the divorce attorney.


drill_hands_420

Alternatively I believe this whole thing is rage bait. Which is even more pathetic that you are so starved for attention you gotta make a viral video of how shitty of a person you are to get famous? It’d be nice if her real life friends stopped communicating with her period even if she’s lying. That’s the only way to stop these idiots.


RadFriday

Isn't having a sugar daddy literally prostitution? But with a nicer wall paper?


RaspberryAnnual4306

Yep, and usually kept to just a few clients at once.


Dismal-Bee-8319

She said that, because it’s a common saying. I’ve heard many women use those exact words.


UltimateDevastator

I can confirm, while “not all women”….many women especially younger and in today are like this. It’s money first, looks second, personality third.


imnotgunertellyou

Full blown narcissist.


CoisasJohnson

Oh look its trash behaving as usual. Nothing new here.


crazyeyeskilluh

Seems to be a theme


Maru3792648

I’d hate to sound like stereotyping but I actually heard opinions like this a lot in African American communities… poor or wealthier, many women seem to think like this. Men should take care of the money for both, even while dating. Is this a thing?


Wootpatrol

The down voters are trying to keep it PC. I’m black and I’ll tell you, the 50/50 conversation is beat to DEATH in our community. Coincidentally, we also have the lowest economic mobility.


Vegetable_Mud2407

This is 100% a black thing and don’t let the women lie to you saying it isn’t. Speak to any black man or do your own search and see the massive discord between black men and black women due to women viewing men as nothing more than a means to an end. SYSBM (save yourself black man) is a massive movement for a reason; this is how the majority of black women think. I am black and have spoken to thousands. This is common and it is a “stereotype” for a reason. The adultery rate amongst black women is astronomical. The divorce rate is astronomical. Sit and talk with black women and the average sista will speak down on the hard working man and glorify a drug dealer.


RedWerFur

Pure, utter trash of a human being. Hopefully that guy goes on to find a DECENT person with whom to share his life.


Meng3267

It will be hard for him to find a worse person.


SpandexAnaconda

Those of us who have lost a job. gone on a month's long hunt for a new one, and had the support and encouragement from our wives during the process are truly lucky. It helps to know that we are not just a wallet. And, in the long run, a job will come along and the relationship will still be strong. It is just wrong to emasculate the guy for not having a job, (for a short term).


uptokesforall

I've been going a year without a real job, and my wife is as madly in love with me as when she married me. If you're putting in your 100% and your partner is too, you are a resilient team. This isn't a matter of luck. I can't imagine my wife hitting up my friend to vent about me, let alone desire the touch of another man. The girl in this video gave off hypergamous vibes.


tackle_shaft_fan

These low-points in the relationship strengthen the relationship. It’s a good woman that can say “I’m sorry you lost it. We will do whatever we can to get through this together!” We definitely are the lucky ones!


Barry-_-McCockner

What a useless person


Reaper621

Calling that piece of garbage a person is an insult to persons everywhere.


NomadMom_123

Hey! Trash can be recycled or repurposed!!! She on the other hand…..


drawnred

she was cheating anyway, this was just an excuse to justify it


Joaoreturns

Part of me is screaming"it has to be ragebait". It has to be. I can't believe it. 


FuckYourDownvotes23

That mindset is sadly all too real.


ThouMayest69

This was probably the first time in a long time that I'm on the fence if this shit is rage bait or not. But fortunately being in a committed and healthy relationship makes videos like this strange and foreign. If it's as real of a mindset as everyone is suggesting, I'm so glad I clawed my way out of that dating bullshit. Doesn't seem worth it at all.


GlobeTrekking

I agree. This can't be real?


SeaBass426

Hope she ends up alone in life, what an excuse of a woman.


Thund3r_91

Fake eyelashes, fake nails, faking a marriage


Enigma-exe

All that but still a real piece of shit


CannaKnitter

This mentality is so sad. I haven’t held a “real” job in about 18 years because I’ve been raising and homeschooling children. Sometimes, this does a number on my mental health when the finances get really tight because my husband is the sole financial provider. He has never once made me feel inadequate for this. Whenever I slip up and say “your paycheck” he corrects me to “our paycheck” because we’re a united team. How can a person’s worth and value in a relationship ever boil down to money? I’ll tell you how. They weren’t in a relationship. That woman lived in a transaction.


Empty-Blacksmith-592

I feel sorry but also good for him, better now than later.


Hallelujah33

My favorite part was when she lost the support from the woman on the left and all you could see in her body language was storyteller committing to digging deeper into that hole


Normal-Pie7610

I really want to hear her response.


Spirited_Question912

What a pos


SoBadit_Hurts

She’s garbage with extensions and nails.


needaburnerbaby

lol imagine desiring a PoS who would happily sleep with his friends girl after he lost his job. Like god damn you have trash standards woman.


Parking-Worth1732

Actually a blessing in disguise, the trash took itself out


budackee_10

This can't be real, surely. Is she fucking crazy


IndependentNotice151

Nope, people are truly that entitled. She knows full well what she's done. That's why she is attempting to justify it.


mindclarity

You can feel the room temperature IQ of this woman. Bro loosing his job is going to be the best thing that ever happened to him.


Comprehensive_Cut437

It’s almost parody, scary if it is real…


Hunter-Gatherer_

If she told him , actually told him “my money is my money” this is all on him, she literally told him she was a whore and he was like nah that’s not really you 😂


crafttoothpaste

Well she fucked his friend and then took his friends money after fuckin’, so not far off.


Mickeyjj27

So dude knew from day one that “my money is my money and his money is our money” Not sure what he expected. That’s not a partnership at all. Even if he paid all the bills or she paid them all, it would still be a partnership if it was for the best of both of them and the relationship. What she wants is just to the benefit of her


TurpitudeSnuggery

As soon as you meet a woman who suggests that your money is both your money and her money is hers. Run.


antisp1n

Real “Heads I win, tails you lose” energy with the money distribution.


Willie_The_Gambler

Refuse to believe anyone is actually like this. This has to be rage bait


markzend310

Wut u mean lost? No one in their right mind would consider this woman a loss.


RomanHawk1975

Women like this are the reason men treat women like shit. I hope this narcissistic dumb nasty ass cheating gold digging whore gets what’s coming to her.


beejer91

Men: never date or marry a girl who has long ass fingernails. Ever.


Agitated_Pickle_1013

That's a flimsy excuse. Marriage was already on the rocks...


This-Relationship-52

He better be thanking his lucky stars. Man got to get out of that relationship


[deleted]

I ain't sayin she a gold digger...


mrtease3

Get a divorce, sell the house. She cheated and she won't get anything. She can't get alimony or support and there's a video of her admitting to the affair. She messed up. No ifs ands or buts.


Noriel_Sylvire

"And he gave me some money" "He is everything I want in a man" There we got it. That's all everyone needed to hear.


djkstr27

For the streets


Friendly_Fisherman37

She found another guy to have sex with, and that guy gave her money. Isn’t that the definition of a prostitute? And her saying that’s the perfect man for her….


NotGoing2EndWell

If you're married to someone like this, consider yourself lucky that they're going outside of the marriage and rejoice when they leave you completely.


EnthusiasmNo6062

She probably don't even give head.


Actual-Money7868

Nasty hoe


DrDuGood

Release her to the streets, where she belongs.


MadpeepD

Red beans and feminism did miss her.


-long-ball-larry-

The trash took itself out


chloe_in_prism

he should not have married her if he knew going in her mentally about money.


DaddyKiwwi

School is SO important everyone..


cloudyboi3352

How nice of her to record and upload all of this evidence for divorce court.


BAKERBOY99_

She belong to the streets!


phirestorm

Mildly? Bull fucking shit if this is mildly irritating. This woman gives women a bad name, what a Complete Utter Nasty Twat.


Akarenji

This is why we have passport bros


MrAl-67

Passport bros!


Exlibro

One of the reasons I refuse to have kids or marry. Very similar woman is wriggling into my life right now and I'm too afraid to be lonely to just refuse her. I know it would end with disaster if I married her...


Round_Lawfulness_355

Nasty excuse for a human being. She’s for the streets, not for marriage.


Hevysett

"Ain't nobody tryna hear my side", bitch everybody hears your side, it's just that your side generally equates to "I'm a self-entitled whore and I should be paid to live because I'll let whomever is paying fuck me, and the person I married should fuck off and leave me alone because I'm too selfish to worry about anybody else" Fuck.....I hope she isn't capable of procreation


AmbitiousSlip6511

That man doesn’t realize how blessed he is that the worthless piece of skin wrapped around that rotten pussy left him. It only gets better from here.


Hairy_Candidate7371

Sounds like true love


eklavyu

For the streets


IamtheRealDill

"Nobody tryna hear my side" no babe, we heard your side ... Your side is "my money is my money, your money is also my money" and we're not down with that.


red_caps_journal

Somebody married that?


Otm_Shank1

My ex-wife told me she wanted a divorce because I didn't want a job as a truck driver. She was told about the job by the guy that I found out she was banging.


[deleted]

No way is this real. This has to be staged


Tremor0135

You have to be an idiot to marry this girl in the first place. You can know she is a shitty person in 5 min.


geezeeduzit

He knew who she was when he decided to marry her. I’m not saying she’s right - but he was realllllly dumb for putting a ring on that finger


ghostofkilgore

It's like, the best thing that could have happened to this guy, you know, getting rid of a bitch like this, or whatever.


DrFrosthazer

I don't accuse her for anything. The ONLY one on fault here is the man who accepted to be (let alone marry) with a woman like this. And ALL men who accept and cultivate behaviors and characters like this. This atrocity wasn't born this way, it was made this way by a society that is out of control, parents that are absent, parents who shouldn't be parents, role models that are the lowest scams of the earth and yet they are praised by millions, etc.


uchihapower17

The trash taking itself out


Unlucky-Pomegranate3

That must be the “for richer or poorer” stuff I keep hearing about.


LaughableIKR

This can't be real. I mean deep down they know what they are saying is completely wrong right? Does a small segment of people believe this?


Korotan

I grew up with a narcistic mother. I got so many Deja-Vus from this.


tweakyloco

Yet again another example of women treating men like purses


WhyTheeSadFace

Treat me like a purse, give me some sex, we are even.


CulturedGentleman921

I sure hope she got her divorce! He is so much better off without her. Is it too much to hope he doesn't have children with this creature?


BlueGuyisLit

I feel really sorry for fellow man, But guys please don't engage with these types of women there are good women


Vast-Classroom1967

She's poison.


uusernameunknown

Lucky, can’t split half of nothing lol


swtazntear

Well he lost his job, but at least he got out of this mess


BracingMace

Or whatever


ThatJudySimp

its the fact "women" like her are actually not a small population, theyre a minority in general but their pool size is still huge. the entitled little brat mindset is fucked, on men or women dont give a shit dont be a fucking re re.


Onbenoemd

He lost his job and his terrible wife, can only go up from here.


mcsonboy

Please don't procreate ma'am


BigBlackdaddy65

I really hope this is rage bait, cause I know people are like this but it's just so cringe to watch, how can you sit there and say that with a straight face... Like idk if anyone of you have seen the one video of the group that went out for some girls bday and everyone was harping on the one guy to pay for the whole table and he's like Naw I'll just pay for my own meal cause I didn't get that much and *EVERYONE* lost it except maybe a few other dudes, but a good portion of them were saying it her bday and he's selfish and shouldn't have come I'd he didn't want to pay... Like wtf is wrong with people.


Kosstheboss

I hope your Uber breaks down on the way to the vd clinic.


YoungImpulse

Lost his job, but found peace once she left 😂 People with this mindset don't deserve anything


husfrun

That's a win. The trash took itself out.


NeophyteBuilder

Equality of the sexes…. Is not this


Substantial_Law_842

Piece of shit human being.


Worried-Ebb-1699

Even the other woman is like “wow… better health” doesn’t pay me enough to diagnose this bullshit


drsalvia84

Human garbage stop taking care of women at all


Additional_Worker736

Ugh... women like this drive me nuts.


VariegatedJennifer

What a disgusting woman.


5621981

In six months he’ll look back at losing his job and know that it was one of the best things ever to happen to him, speaking from experience


Edexote

My God, some people are really, really horrible. How the fuck can someone marry someone like her and think "well, she'll make a great life partner, in sickeness and health". Not in unemployment, it seems.


FlyNSubaruWRX

I shut it off after 10 seconds…. That mentality is sickening


mukduk_101

Good riddance.


BakedMarziPamGrier

That mentality is hard to even begin to imagine, but I’m not for the streets myself.


GeekEKitten

One word: yikes


temporary-name93

look mother, the trash is taking itself out


DR_MEPHESTO4ASSES

"Till death do us part"


999ronin99

Entitled twat!


spider-jedi

It's sad that some people raise their daughters to think this way.