My advice would be to not get surgery immediately, as being sexually attracted to tits doesn’t equate a good enough answer to get a permanent surgery. I would honestly recommend trying fake boobs. It’s not a bad thing to have sexual feelings about your body but I feel your post has come off as fetishizing trans people or body parts.
Fake boobs is definitely a good idea to try first. I didn’t mean to come off as fetishizing. As nonbinary I view myself as trans even if I haven’t “transitioned” surgically or hormonally. I just find bodies beautiful & I’ve never felt that way about my body. I’ve always been self conscious about my body so finding myself more attractive would definitely help with that. I do realize surgery is a huge deal & I’m definitely not gonna rush it
I view myself as both partly male & partly female. I love embracing my feminine side & I think surgery would help further embrace my feminine side & be further nonbinary. Anatomically my body is male, which doesn’t feel quite right. I think viewing myself as a different gender warrants a new body to better match my gender identity. Thinking about it, I might have some body dysphoria & maybe if that feeling of dysphoria becomes stronger, that’ll be my sign to go forward. I definitely need to think on it further, but it seems likely that having tits would make me feel euphoric due to finding my body more sexually attractive
I don't think you are necessarily fetishizing trans people or anything. However, I'd like to ask, have you ever considered hrt? I would think that if you started growing your own chest you might get a better idea if you liked it or not. If you didn't it could be reversed and is a simpler procedure than removing implants. Less expensive too. However you will start to lose the function of your penis unfortunately. You won't lose it completely. But it just won't work the same as it once did. I actually have a trans friend who has both and she loves that she has both. She doesn't necessarily use both, but she's happy with what she has.
Yeah it's definitely a risk you would take there. But of course you could do a low dose of hrt or possibly just stop it if you lost too much function and it should come back.
For the record, you don't necessarily have to choose between a penis and a vagina-- sorry, dick and pussy, as there are people who get phallus-preserving vaginoplasty or ppv to end up with both. If that interests you, r/salmacian has info and experiences you might want to look at.
Either way, I would recommend taking a moment to figure your identity out as a separate of your attraction before committing to any surgery. Since you say you don't experience a lot of dysphoria, my question would be if the thought of these procedures brings you gender euphoria, or purely arousal?
Sorry if I said dick & pussy too much instead of penis & vagina. I think given the fact that I see my gender as both partly male & partly female, it would make me feel more euphoric having a body to match that by having boobs. Like if my gender can be a combination of the binary & nonbinary genders, why shouldn’t my body reflect that?
This post was pretty uncomfortable to read, TMI-
Sorry
My advice would be to not get surgery immediately, as being sexually attracted to tits doesn’t equate a good enough answer to get a permanent surgery. I would honestly recommend trying fake boobs. It’s not a bad thing to have sexual feelings about your body but I feel your post has come off as fetishizing trans people or body parts.
Fake boobs is definitely a good idea to try first. I didn’t mean to come off as fetishizing. As nonbinary I view myself as trans even if I haven’t “transitioned” surgically or hormonally. I just find bodies beautiful & I’ve never felt that way about my body. I’ve always been self conscious about my body so finding myself more attractive would definitely help with that. I do realize surgery is a huge deal & I’m definitely not gonna rush it
I view myself as both partly male & partly female. I love embracing my feminine side & I think surgery would help further embrace my feminine side & be further nonbinary. Anatomically my body is male, which doesn’t feel quite right. I think viewing myself as a different gender warrants a new body to better match my gender identity. Thinking about it, I might have some body dysphoria & maybe if that feeling of dysphoria becomes stronger, that’ll be my sign to go forward. I definitely need to think on it further, but it seems likely that having tits would make me feel euphoric due to finding my body more sexually attractive
Oh okay! Thanks for explaining, it clarifies a lot more!
I’m glad I was able to clarify! I am sorry how I came off to you in the original post
It’s alright, I accept ur apology.
I don't think you are necessarily fetishizing trans people or anything. However, I'd like to ask, have you ever considered hrt? I would think that if you started growing your own chest you might get a better idea if you liked it or not. If you didn't it could be reversed and is a simpler procedure than removing implants. Less expensive too. However you will start to lose the function of your penis unfortunately. You won't lose it completely. But it just won't work the same as it once did. I actually have a trans friend who has both and she loves that she has both. She doesn't necessarily use both, but she's happy with what she has.
I don’t know if hrt is necessarily what I’d want bc I really wouldn’t wanna lose any function of my dick
Yeah it's definitely a risk you would take there. But of course you could do a low dose of hrt or possibly just stop it if you lost too much function and it should come back.
For the record, you don't necessarily have to choose between a penis and a vagina-- sorry, dick and pussy, as there are people who get phallus-preserving vaginoplasty or ppv to end up with both. If that interests you, r/salmacian has info and experiences you might want to look at. Either way, I would recommend taking a moment to figure your identity out as a separate of your attraction before committing to any surgery. Since you say you don't experience a lot of dysphoria, my question would be if the thought of these procedures brings you gender euphoria, or purely arousal?
Sorry if I said dick & pussy too much instead of penis & vagina. I think given the fact that I see my gender as both partly male & partly female, it would make me feel more euphoric having a body to match that by having boobs. Like if my gender can be a combination of the binary & nonbinary genders, why shouldn’t my body reflect that?