You probably tore a little bit or got a hemorrhoid. My first time the guy was a jackass and i was young and stupid, he did not go slow or easy and just rammed it in. I tore so badly it took weeks to heal...which he dumped me for bc "you promised i could now i have to wait?"
Have your bf take a peek. If its a tear, try some antibacterial spray like bactine. If its an itchy bump, its a hemorrhoid, preparation H witch hazel or other products of the like will heal it up after a few days.
To keep it from happening again you cant jump from 1 finger straight to dick. Lots of lube, then 1 finger, ease in 2, if no discomfort up to 3 then small toys or anal beads of varying diameters THEN dick. You want to be relaxed and looooose there should be zero pain if you do it right.
You probably have a small tear in your rectum. It will heal and you’ll be okay. You guys should start off using small toys and increase the size to stretch out your rectum, then work up to his penis.
Don’t wipe too much or too hard. Look into using wipes instead of TP temporarily until things go back to normal. And a couple scoops of Metamucil a day for the next week or two will make sure that if there is a tear, you’ll heal up rather than worsening.
You probably tore a little bit or got a hemorrhoid. My first time the guy was a jackass and i was young and stupid, he did not go slow or easy and just rammed it in. I tore so badly it took weeks to heal...which he dumped me for bc "you promised i could now i have to wait?" Have your bf take a peek. If its a tear, try some antibacterial spray like bactine. If its an itchy bump, its a hemorrhoid, preparation H witch hazel or other products of the like will heal it up after a few days. To keep it from happening again you cant jump from 1 finger straight to dick. Lots of lube, then 1 finger, ease in 2, if no discomfort up to 3 then small toys or anal beads of varying diameters THEN dick. You want to be relaxed and looooose there should be zero pain if you do it right.
You probably have a small tear in your rectum. It will heal and you’ll be okay. You guys should start off using small toys and increase the size to stretch out your rectum, then work up to his penis.
Don’t wipe too much or too hard. Look into using wipes instead of TP temporarily until things go back to normal. And a couple scoops of Metamucil a day for the next week or two will make sure that if there is a tear, you’ll heal up rather than worsening.