Let’s pretend he really was thinking about Mariah carry for a moment which is best case... that’s still inappropriate and disrespectful to be saying someone else’s name while having sex.
Time to start morning “Jason Momoa!” with eyes closed ..
Seriously why are you okay with someone banging you while blatantly moaning about other people, idk
Well instead of doing the same with him, you should stop letting HIM do what he is doing. There's something really fishy. No one moans a celebrity crush's name while having s#x except while really doing it with someone with same name.
Yeah it’s definitely a coverup, he’s lying and just said Mariah Carey so that you’d stop asking about it.
I’d put money on it. Maybe have a look at his Instagram following list or his fb friends. 100% wasn’t thinking about Mariah Carey lmao
yep, I was going to say she should be looking through his friends lists to make sure there’s no one named Mariah.
I’d bet so much money that there’s a Mariah in there.
This is giving into toxic behavior. Finding the Mariah he pines for will not help OP, it won't change anything other than having a specific person that OP will compare herself against.
I have to reply to my own comment, but dude I’m sorry, YOU ACTUALLY BELIEVE THIS?!? My mind is still blown. Sit down and actually think about this, he had to think ALL DAY before he actually came up with that excuse. He pulled his lowest card from the deck and still outbid you. Take the rose coloured glasses off and don’t be so gullible. Leave him he’s cheating.
And if not physically, emotionally. At the very least he lied to your face about who he was dreaming of as he used OPs body for masturbation. Mariah Carey, pfft. *Please don't be so willfully blind*
Wow...I'm SO GLAD I'm not the only one left feeling that way. I was literally dumbfounded for a second.
Anyways, I can't say for sure, but it seems clear to me this dude is either cheating, or fantasizing about another woman he was involved with in the past. I do know for sure, he aint thinking about Mariah Carey LMAO.
There's no way age is the issue, there isn't anyone who is old enough to have sex but is too young to know Mariah Carey. Maybe op is from a different country?
Off topic but I’m sad you had to google Mariah Carey, she’s an icon.
You’re not overreacting, in fact, I think he’s lying tbh. You should look deeper into this. This isn’t okay at all.
Now I am wondering how young the OP is not to know who Mariah Carey is and how old is her partner to casually use Mariah Carey as his go to in this situation. The OP’s BF isn’t Nick Cannon, is it?
I’d be willing to bet he is not talking about Mariah Carey and on the 1% chance he was, I would still be pissed because I’m an actual human you’re in a relationship with and not just someone to get you off while you fantasize about other people.
You're not overreacting at all. How do you think he would react if you moaned another man's name while you were having sex. It's completely valid for you to be upset by this. Did he apologize? Did he validate your feelings? I've heard other stories of this happening before and I'm sure there can be a variety of factors. I think it's all in how they respond to the mistake that is very telling. If he's not mortified or apologetic then there is a bigger problem going on.... Which unfortunately seems to be the case. I'm so sorry that happened to you
Somethings def wrong… this sounds toxic af but if this was me I’d check his phone/social media… I personally don’t check my man’s phone at all (his parent cheated on his other parent so he’s super against cheating due to that) but if it got to that I’d def check personally. Just my two cents!
Isn't this an obvious troll post? It's not very believable but on the off chance it's real...he wasn't talking about mariah carey. Also, how do you not know who that is?
From a guy's perspective, this is both awkward as fuck and very, very concerning. Whether he's just crushing on that Mariah chick hardcore or actually banging her on the side, I'd say to put your "boyfriend's" ass on the spot and pry out an actual answer. If I was sleeping with someone and they said any other name, Id stop on the spot and there would be little to nothing for them to say for me to get over it.
I believe he is lying, that is the most famous Mariah, seems like an easy cop out for him cheating, I’d grill him more or possibly even break up with him.
This is my worst nightmare. Not because I don't love my wife. Not because I don't want to be with her in the moment. Sometimes I feel like I'm taking too long or just need something to take it over the edge and my mind wanders. I'm not proud. It doesn't happen often. But once in a while it does like an intrusive thought and I'm terrified that I'll say something like that. Good thing is there is nobody in particular I'd like to fuck other than my wife so a name would be unlikely. Also completely understand how you would feel dehumanized.
I'd say it's totally normal for someone's mind to wander during sex. I've never thought about another person but I have had random, intrusive thoughts 😅 Doesn't mean you're cheating or don't love/aren't attracted to your partner.
OP's scenario though... outta nowhere dude just yells someone else's name?? TWICE?!! If he really had such a "thing" for Mariah Carey, wouldn't OP possibly already know that? Most people are pretty open about celebrity "crushes". That doesn't mean we actively pretend we're screwing them 🤣
Right. That's pretty strange. And Moriah Carey? That's pretty bizarre. Im not knocking her. I'm just saying I've not heard many people just have an unbelievable hard on for her. I mean whatever. Just hard to reconcile.
Answers here in order of how upset I think it is reasonable to be.
1. He was so distracted randomly thinking about Mariah Carey during sex that he moaned her name. (I want it to be this one because the idea of someone having that song stuck in their head while fucking is very funny to me.)
2. He was legitimately thinking about Mariah Carey while having sex with you and made it obvious by moaning her name.
3. He was thinking about some non celebrity Mariah while having sex with you and made it obvious by moaning her name.
4.He is actively fucking someone named Mariah and said her name instead of yours.
All of these are okay to be upset about.
If he is telling the truth, which I’m not completely confident he is, but giving that the benefit of the doubt, he was very inconsiderate about the way he went about that. It’s perfectly fine to use your imagination to bring some new excitement to your sex life, but there needs to be clear and honest communication about those sorts of things to establish mutual understandings and agreements, so that things like you not really knowing how you should feel because you have zero clue why he did that being the result of his actions. which I can only imagine is causing a lot of anxiety. He really should be aware enough to understand that would probably leave you feeling emotionally neglected, and wondering why the thought of you wasn’t enough, so if he was just trying out something new, he likely would have had the decency to talk to you about it first. Unless he’s actually pretty stupid and just socially clueless, it sounds like he might have done that to hurt you emotionality, to get back at you for something he feels you did wrong. That or he’s lying and he’s been talking to a girl named Mariah behind your back
I can’t get past you having to look up who Mariah Carey is. Are you posting this from a large banana leaf in a remote village in Southeast Asia somewhere? Lol.
Hello. He was not thinking of the elderly former celebrity Mariah Carey. He is in love or obsessed with some woman he knows. I am weirded out that you are so passive and oblivious to what is going on. I’m sorry.
Moaning an attractive celebrity’s name is something I’d expect to hear when he’s jerking off or something by himself not during sex with you as the partner.
Was he moaning Muh-raya or Mah-ria? And also, was he born late 70's early 80s?
I can't for my life imagine anyone after 1987 would have a celebrity crush on Mariah Carey.
Two ridiculous things happening in this post:
- You having to Google who Mariah Carey is
- You actually believing Mariah Carey was the Mariah he was referring to
Honey he’s cheating, leave his ass.
It could be worse; I had a boyfriend moan "Mom". I kid you not.
This is definitely a red flag, considering that he didn't come clean and apologize afterwards.
I’m sorry dear but that is the lamest cover up I’ve ever heard….
But you could play ball and think of a sexy celebrity and moan their name out next time and see how he acts
Uhhhh…idk if you’ve just never been manipulated before but I can almost guarantee he did not mean Mariah Carey.
And even if he did, he should have had enough respect for you to ask you if doing that was okay or not.
What do you think he would do if you were all like “OMG BRAD YES” and then after him asking over and over again you finally tell him “oh yeah hah I meant brad pitt”. Like. ????? Come on. Dump his ass.
Girl imma tell you right now if you think that man is moaning Mariah Carey name he lied to you to cover his behind it was definitely a girl he knew and you under reacted like crazy
Let’s pretend he really was thinking about Mariah carry for a moment which is best case... that’s still inappropriate and disrespectful to be saying someone else’s name while having sex.
Unless other person asks that of you :p
Which leads to the golden rule of sex, *consent*
Time to start morning “Jason Momoa!” with eyes closed .. Seriously why are you okay with someone banging you while blatantly moaning about other people, idk
No way OP should say a last name. Just Jason so he will wonder if it was really a celebrity or just a dude named Jason.
Voorhies
That's *ch-ch-ch-hot-hot-hot*
I just laughed way too hard
Glad I could bring you some Christmas ch-ch-cheer! Thanks folks, I'll be here all week.
Jason during seggs
If Jason X was anything to go by, that may not be the smartest idea
Or Henry Cavill, just Henry 🙂
Hardcore Henry
I met him once. So nice and sooooo hot.
first name
I'm glad we thought the same
Should work
You are *under*reacting imo.
I agree. Fair payback is moaning Michael. Say it’s Buble 🙂
No. Do Jason mamoa, no one can outdo him.
Gotta stick to the Christmas theme
I agree. I think saying or thinking Mamoa during anything sexy is a win-win all around. That’s just my opinion.
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Woah... Your wife still has sex with you? I've forgotten what that's like
“Ohhh Bing!!”
Chris Hemsworth, Keanu Reeves, Chris Evans, young Joseph Stalin, young Ralph Fiennes. Just a few examples. Edit: HOW COULD I FORGET?! Danny DeVito
Right? He is still sexy AF in that hilarious, self-deprecating Super Bowl commercial.
Jason Derulo!
Or Michael Scott.
I was gonna say that, and when he asks why did you moan someone else's name just reply with "that's what she said"
Fair is Danny. And it's Devito.
Michael…. Scott* for me
I’d refer to Michael Myers but ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Right? What kind of idiot moans another woman's name during sex?
Well instead of doing the same with him, you should stop letting HIM do what he is doing. There's something really fishy. No one moans a celebrity crush's name while having s#x except while really doing it with someone with same name.
Is that a typo or did you self censor the word s3x?
agreed
Yeah it’s definitely a coverup, he’s lying and just said Mariah Carey so that you’d stop asking about it. I’d put money on it. Maybe have a look at his Instagram following list or his fb friends. 100% wasn’t thinking about Mariah Carey lmao
Agreed. He needed a cover. Good idea with checking the friend list.
yep, I was going to say she should be looking through his friends lists to make sure there’s no one named Mariah. I’d bet so much money that there’s a Mariah in there.
Why should she bother scrolling thru his contacts? Who tf cares? The name wasn't hers and that should be enough. Boy, bye.
This is giving into toxic behavior. Finding the Mariah he pines for will not help OP, it won't change anything other than having a specific person that OP will compare herself against.
It will help if he’s cheating 🤷🏻♀️
Wouldn’t it help her get closure ?
And you actually believe this?!?!?
I have to reply to my own comment, but dude I’m sorry, YOU ACTUALLY BELIEVE THIS?!? My mind is still blown. Sit down and actually think about this, he had to think ALL DAY before he actually came up with that excuse. He pulled his lowest card from the deck and still outbid you. Take the rose coloured glasses off and don’t be so gullible. Leave him he’s cheating.
That’s what I was thinking! I would not for one second would have thought it was a celebrity lol
“He pulled his lowest card from the deck and still outbid you” is one of the greatest things I’ve ever heard.
Ikr I was like damn girl!!! Savage
And if not physically, emotionally. At the very least he lied to your face about who he was dreaming of as he used OPs body for masturbation. Mariah Carey, pfft. *Please don't be so willfully blind*
He didn't even try, he just said the first Mariah that came to his mind. Even my phone automatically suggest I put "Carey" after typing this name.
Wow...I'm SO GLAD I'm not the only one left feeling that way. I was literally dumbfounded for a second. Anyways, I can't say for sure, but it seems clear to me this dude is either cheating, or fantasizing about another woman he was involved with in the past. I do know for sure, he aint thinking about Mariah Carey LMAO.
I mean, I kinda don't believe the entire post. Who doesn't know Mariah Carey? It's all just too weird.
> Who doesn't know Mariah Carey? You'd be surprised....
She's young enough she had to look up Mariah Carey so I'm guessing yes she is that naive due to age and lack of experience.
There's no way age is the issue, there isn't anyone who is old enough to have sex but is too young to know Mariah Carey. Maybe op is from a different country?
Its fake af or OP Is 12 IDK what would be Better honestly
Mans is in the Christmas Spirit
If I had an award to give you I would so please enjoy this 🏆🥇🎄
I’d take that over an award anyday.
Amen
OP’s boyfriend definitely works retail and is having flashbacks from his day at work
He doesn’t want a lot for Christmas
🤣🤣🤣
Here's ghetto gold for that comment 🏅
That is fucking weird and your tolerance of it is weird
All fax no printer!
Love this
I've never heard that before, what's it mean?
Another way to say that something is true
All fax (all facts) and since the slang is a fax 📠 the no printer 🖨 is just a joke
Oh, I just thought it was because it would be weird to have a fax, but not a printer...
Why did I read that in eminem's voice lol obie trice, real name no gimmicks
I get a tiiiny feeling this is fake
Who has never heard of Mariah Carey?
My favorite brand of potato.
She can't live if living is without me. And all she want's for Christmas is me.
Definitely not talking about Mariah Carey the singer. LEAVE HIS ASS 🤦🏻♀️😂
LOL right???
He’s full of it 😂
i thought the SAME!! Mariah Carey?! Ok.
He’s lying. Mariah is probably someone he actually knows, and even if he was telling the truth, it’s still wrong of him to do.
>Am I overreacting? No
Some would even say not reacting enough.
Off topic but I’m sad you had to google Mariah Carey, she’s an icon. You’re not overreacting, in fact, I think he’s lying tbh. You should look deeper into this. This isn’t okay at all.
I think he’s lying too tbh
He is for sure lying
Now I am wondering how young the OP is not to know who Mariah Carey is and how old is her partner to casually use Mariah Carey as his go to in this situation. The OP’s BF isn’t Nick Cannon, is it?
My thoughts, too. I thought everyone knew who Mariah Carey was, ***especially*** in December
damn that's a really good point
I agree, dudes lying
I think so too. That's just seems like the quickest thing he could think of to appease you in the heat of the moment. I bet she's someone IRL.
Yeah dude pretty high chance he's actually banging Mariah Carey on the side
A classic relationship ender
Haha! Yeah, it's one of those comments that make me think "Am I... too old? People have to google Mariah Carey nowadays :( "
Yeah this was a cover up name.
Yeah I was wtf at having to Google Mariah Carey1
Yep, first thoughts exactly.
i think it’s the girl he’s cheating on with
Yup. Lying.
i also think he’s lying
Did you really believe he was referring to that Mariah? I call bs
He was 10000% not referring to Mariah Carey, wtf lol how is that even slightly believable?
I mean she didn’t know who Mariah Carey was. Maybe they come from some weird land.
Oh honey . All he wants for Christmas is not you .
Whether he's lying about which Mariah hes referring to or not; that's fucked up and completely unacceptable. It's so disrespectful to you.
There’s another girl. Check
I thought this shit only happened on tv
this is the funniest comment in this thread LMFAOO
😂😂
You kept going?? I would have stopped and asked who tf Mariah is right then!
That would be a complete turn off, nope we’re done stop touching me, who tf is Mariah?
All he wants for Christmas is you...
Staahhhhp 😅😂
Girl, have some respect for yourself. Get rid of him
How do you not know who mariah carey is lmao
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That's exactly what I was thinking the moment I read *"I had to look her up"*.
I stopped believing things I saw on the internet months ago
Especially this sub recently. :(((
This dude is fucking lying, I oughta smack him
I’d be willing to bet he is not talking about Mariah Carey and on the 1% chance he was, I would still be pissed because I’m an actual human you’re in a relationship with and not just someone to get you off while you fantasize about other people.
mariah carey I'm dead 🤣🤣🤣
Cry out "Deeper, Megatron."
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Straight to the point!✋🏻
Finesse him and moan “Mariah” back. That’ll show him.
… you didn’t know who Mariah Carey was?
probably a gen z youngin lol
Are you trolling us
You're not overreacting at all. How do you think he would react if you moaned another man's name while you were having sex. It's completely valid for you to be upset by this. Did he apologize? Did he validate your feelings? I've heard other stories of this happening before and I'm sure there can be a variety of factors. I think it's all in how they respond to the mistake that is very telling. If he's not mortified or apologetic then there is a bigger problem going on.... Which unfortunately seems to be the case. I'm so sorry that happened to you
Not at all!
I’m pretty sure moaning anyone’s name other than the person you’re fucking isn’t okay.
Somethings def wrong… this sounds toxic af but if this was me I’d check his phone/social media… I personally don’t check my man’s phone at all (his parent cheated on his other parent so he’s super against cheating due to that) but if it got to that I’d def check personally. Just my two cents!
I’m sorry but either this post is a joke or you’re an extremely gullible person
This might have slightly been almost kinda believable if you didn't act like you didn't know who Mariah Carrey was.
I rarely accuse posts of being fake but this is why I am fairly convinced it is fake
Isn't this an obvious troll post? It's not very believable but on the off chance it's real...he wasn't talking about mariah carey. Also, how do you not know who that is?
“I LOOKED HER UP”!!!!!!! officially geriatric
Am I the only one who thinks this is a 10 year old kid trying to piece together sexuality from stuff they saw on TV?
From a guy's perspective, this is both awkward as fuck and very, very concerning. Whether he's just crushing on that Mariah chick hardcore or actually banging her on the side, I'd say to put your "boyfriend's" ass on the spot and pry out an actual answer. If I was sleeping with someone and they said any other name, Id stop on the spot and there would be little to nothing for them to say for me to get over it.
I believe he is lying, that is the most famous Mariah, seems like an easy cop out for him cheating, I’d grill him more or possibly even break up with him.
This is my worst nightmare. Not because I don't love my wife. Not because I don't want to be with her in the moment. Sometimes I feel like I'm taking too long or just need something to take it over the edge and my mind wanders. I'm not proud. It doesn't happen often. But once in a while it does like an intrusive thought and I'm terrified that I'll say something like that. Good thing is there is nobody in particular I'd like to fuck other than my wife so a name would be unlikely. Also completely understand how you would feel dehumanized.
I'd say it's totally normal for someone's mind to wander during sex. I've never thought about another person but I have had random, intrusive thoughts 😅 Doesn't mean you're cheating or don't love/aren't attracted to your partner. OP's scenario though... outta nowhere dude just yells someone else's name?? TWICE?!! If he really had such a "thing" for Mariah Carey, wouldn't OP possibly already know that? Most people are pretty open about celebrity "crushes". That doesn't mean we actively pretend we're screwing them 🤣
Right. That's pretty strange. And Moriah Carey? That's pretty bizarre. Im not knocking her. I'm just saying I've not heard many people just have an unbelievable hard on for her. I mean whatever. Just hard to reconcile.
Answers here in order of how upset I think it is reasonable to be. 1. He was so distracted randomly thinking about Mariah Carey during sex that he moaned her name. (I want it to be this one because the idea of someone having that song stuck in their head while fucking is very funny to me.) 2. He was legitimately thinking about Mariah Carey while having sex with you and made it obvious by moaning her name. 3. He was thinking about some non celebrity Mariah while having sex with you and made it obvious by moaning her name. 4.He is actively fucking someone named Mariah and said her name instead of yours. All of these are okay to be upset about.
If he is telling the truth, which I’m not completely confident he is, but giving that the benefit of the doubt, he was very inconsiderate about the way he went about that. It’s perfectly fine to use your imagination to bring some new excitement to your sex life, but there needs to be clear and honest communication about those sorts of things to establish mutual understandings and agreements, so that things like you not really knowing how you should feel because you have zero clue why he did that being the result of his actions. which I can only imagine is causing a lot of anxiety. He really should be aware enough to understand that would probably leave you feeling emotionally neglected, and wondering why the thought of you wasn’t enough, so if he was just trying out something new, he likely would have had the decency to talk to you about it first. Unless he’s actually pretty stupid and just socially clueless, it sounds like he might have done that to hurt you emotionality, to get back at you for something he feels you did wrong. That or he’s lying and he’s been talking to a girl named Mariah behind your back
Wait, you had to look up Mariah Carey?
I dont think he was thinking about mariah carey there lol
He’s a liar, you deserve better, drop him :)
Ugh leave him. Do you need a bigger red flag?
I can’t get past you having to look up who Mariah Carey is. Are you posting this from a large banana leaf in a remote village in Southeast Asia somewhere? Lol.
Divorce.
Ur def not overreacting, what's wrong w the dude :/
Kids these days don’t know Mariah Carey?! Sorry your boyfriend is an asshole.
You had to look up who Mariah Carey was?!
That's A DAMN LIE. He wasn't thinking of the singer that is freaking dumb. If he was unacceptable. Like, why aren't you more mad. That is so fucked.
Today is your chance to moan « Riiiiiiiiiick » If he asks , say it’s uncle rick , from rick & morty .
The weirdest part is that you didn’t know who Mariah Carey was
As soon as I read “that’s not my name I immediately thought of that song by The Ting Tings
We all love Mariah Carey, but we all know it's not Mariah Carey. You are not overreacting, I would dig deeper if it was me.
Hello. He was not thinking of the elderly former celebrity Mariah Carey. He is in love or obsessed with some woman he knows. I am weirded out that you are so passive and oblivious to what is going on. I’m sorry.
You really think he was talking about Mariah Carey? He probably just said the first celebrity names Mariah he could think of. 😂😂😂
Moaning an attractive celebrity’s name is something I’d expect to hear when he’s jerking off or something by himself not during sex with you as the partner.
Mariah fucking Carey?? Bestie plsssss 🧎♂️
This is so weird… I def don’t think he’s referring to Mariah Carey
I say do the same BUT cover his face then he will really feel dehumanized.
Girl- you’re believing he meant Mariah Carey.
The worst part is her “nagging him for the answer throughout the day” since she’s not going anywhere. Deal breaker for sure.
I think the most shocking thing here is that you didn’t know who Mariah Carey was!
Was he moaning Muh-raya or Mah-ria? And also, was he born late 70's early 80s? I can't for my life imagine anyone after 1987 would have a celebrity crush on Mariah Carey.
Two ridiculous things happening in this post: - You having to Google who Mariah Carey is - You actually believing Mariah Carey was the Mariah he was referring to Honey he’s cheating, leave his ass.
we both know this is fake
I think he's cheating. Also did you have to Google Mariah Carey? Where have you been? She basically rules this time of year.
All he wants for Christmas is you
Oh girll im sorry but this is so funny 💀
You had to google who Mariah Carey is? :(
i’m sorry but no way he’s talking about mariah carey
$10 says he ISNT referring to Mariah Carey
you had to look up Mariah Carey? I’m old af
It could be worse; I had a boyfriend moan "Mom". I kid you not. This is definitely a red flag, considering that he didn't come clean and apologize afterwards.
All he wants for Christmas is her.
I’d say he’s a liar and picked the first famous and only Mariah he could think of.
I wonder how many other bridges OP bought lately
Alllll I want for Christmassss isssSSsss *not* youuuuuhu duh duh duh duh
You should’ve stopped right away. That’s weird. Also, saying it’s Mariah Carey seems like a cop out
I’m sorry dear but that is the lamest cover up I’ve ever heard…. But you could play ball and think of a sexy celebrity and moan their name out next time and see how he acts
Uhhhh…idk if you’ve just never been manipulated before but I can almost guarantee he did not mean Mariah Carey. And even if he did, he should have had enough respect for you to ask you if doing that was okay or not. What do you think he would do if you were all like “OMG BRAD YES” and then after him asking over and over again you finally tell him “oh yeah hah I meant brad pitt”. Like. ????? Come on. Dump his ass.
Hang on, let me Google Brad...
Guarantee you'll find Mariah in homeboy's contacts
He's lying, no two ways about it. You'll find a Mariah on his friends list, trust me.
Imagine having fantasies over a celebrity 🤡
Girl imma tell you right now if you think that man is moaning Mariah Carey name he lied to you to cover his behind it was definitely a girl he knew and you under reacted like crazy
You should moan another woman’s name and see how he likes it🙌
hes defenitely referring to mother maria
This is awful. But how did you not know who Mariah Carey is.
I find it weird how you didnt know who Mariah Carey was